Ray Inspired

Ray Penner

Welcome to Ray...Inspired! I’m glad you’re here. I have a story to share – some may call it an awakening, some the journey from darkness to Light, and some may call it just living life. Much of what I share comes in the form of a daily journal entry, processing whatever is happening in the moment. I spent the first part of my life hiding, hesitant to open up and give expression to the inspirational world that lived on the inside of me, thinking I wasn’t good enough to share it, or that others were already doing it really well so why bother. Rock bottom moments, such as being held in ICE detention for 75 days, and having crises in almost every area of my life, really brought me through the fire, burning off all that needed to go. I have since received greater awareness and clarity on just exactly who I am, why I am here, and what I am moving towards. Through many walks and inspiring conversations, I explore topics including spirituality, self-care, boundaries, relationships, and mental health with radical vulnerability. We’ve made it so far, and that is worth celebrating. I now invite you to share in this adventure together with me, and to live inspired!

  1. 2025-06-15

    E17 | Be Intentional (With Who and What You Surround Yourself With)

    In this episode I ponder the nuances of identity, expectations, perfectionism, triggers, and being intentional about who and what we allow into our lives. Of all the wisdom I have gained along the way, this is perhaps one of the most important things to fully realize and understand. While I recorded this six months ago, I find it is still very relevant to my life and to what I see happening in the world today, and I do pray that it inspires you in some way. Listen in as I draw from my experiences and reflect on: acceptance, self-love and self-respect expectations...perhaps we expect more from ourselves than we realize The earlier episode with Marshall that I refer to can be found here. Bending to fit into the mold of others Projecting our discomfort on others Who is the “I”, really? The inner child Where are we getting our identity from? Who am I and who am I not? Pondering union and partnership with God Are we becoming or remembering? Looking out the windows of the ego room we’ve been trapped in, getting out of the comfort zone and going outside Being mindful of what we listen to, what we allow to enter Garden of the heart (will upload episode later). Intention toward the seeds that are thrown our way. How our experiences serve a purpose  Triggers show us where we need to heal When is it okay to allow ourselves to be exposed again to trauma triggers? Be intentional when it comes to your healing journey from trauma – certain people or situations may enter your life to hinder or stall your journey If this episode inspired you, I would be grateful to have you share it with someone who needs to hear this today. Questions? Interested in meeting over coffee? Please email info@rayinspired.com or reach out on Instagram. Thank you for listening!

    34 min
  2. 2025-06-06

    From Fake to Real with Ben – How the World Reflects Back to Us What We Really Are

    Are you tired of fakeness? Do we have an influence in the amount of real-ness or fake-ness we experience around ourselves? Is it possible to live authentically and suddenly begin to experience authenticity all around us? Listen in as I explore (listed here for search-ability): the struggle with application, self-righteousness, saying vs doing a bit about grace, to conviction not condemnation attraction to Christianity vs authenticity fakeness in the world judging others who are we seeing when we look in the mirror, saying I love you being real vs fake, it starts with us as we change things around us change, change is reflected back, we've been waiting for me things happening to vs for, taking accountability don't like the word "blame", radical ownership listening to things that aren't Christian how are you practicing being more real, we need to be real with ourselves, loving yourself (why be someone else). loving yourself (why be someone else), what I did to get to this place (people-pleasing). unhealthy teaching, being people pleasing is good, letting go of false self and people pleasing. get real with ourselves, then with others, being okay with our own company. judging others indicates something about ourselves. maintaining the stereotype of being good Christians. the necessity of hitting rock bottom, do we all need to hit it? do we all need to hit rock bottom? Questioning reality. being okay with where we're at (why want to be married so soon?). forcing a reality check (doing something out of ordinary). do I feel God brought me back (to MB)? Is God in this? how can you tell you're being guided by the spirit? Need to quiet minds (the noise). how can we help ourself be led by spirit? Disciplining flesh. intimacy with romantic partner vs God. when non-Christians meet God. full circle - being real. fake living = fake reflection, change and same people change. the world reflects back to us how we're doing. detaching, renewing the mind living heaven on earth now, abundant life, what can I do today? If this episode inspired you, I would be grateful to have you share it with someone who needs to hear this today. Questions? Interested in meeting over coffee? Please email info@rayinspired.com or reach out on Instagram. Thank you for listening!

    1h 7m

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Welcome to Ray...Inspired! I’m glad you’re here. I have a story to share – some may call it an awakening, some the journey from darkness to Light, and some may call it just living life. Much of what I share comes in the form of a daily journal entry, processing whatever is happening in the moment. I spent the first part of my life hiding, hesitant to open up and give expression to the inspirational world that lived on the inside of me, thinking I wasn’t good enough to share it, or that others were already doing it really well so why bother. Rock bottom moments, such as being held in ICE detention for 75 days, and having crises in almost every area of my life, really brought me through the fire, burning off all that needed to go. I have since received greater awareness and clarity on just exactly who I am, why I am here, and what I am moving towards. Through many walks and inspiring conversations, I explore topics including spirituality, self-care, boundaries, relationships, and mental health with radical vulnerability. We’ve made it so far, and that is worth celebrating. I now invite you to share in this adventure together with me, and to live inspired!