Relationship Status Podcast

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The Relationship Status Podcast hosted by CL, Fraronda, Vanetta & Yusuf, takes you on a random journey through the different issues that come up in relationships. Needless to say, the crew will give their honest take on things.

  1. MAY 18 ·  VIDEO

    269th Date: She Found CashApp Notifications From His EX… (Video)

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status, Yusuf is back in the building holding it down with special guest co-host Ashley Martin from the Becoming Her Podcast for a real, unfiltered conversation about love, identity, relationships, and the boundaries people ignore in the name of “helping” an ex. The episode kicks off with the Question of the Week: “What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done for love?” From losing yourself in relationships to staying too long after the red flags started waving, Yusuf and Ashley dive deep into how people sacrifice pieces of themselves trying to become what their partners want instead of remaining authentic. The conversation expands into dating dynamics, personal freedom in relationships, why Yusuf encourages his daughters to focus on self-discovery before serious relationships, and how people often resent the very changes they made to please someone else. Ashley and Yusuf also unpack insecurity, emotional maturity, and the importance of allowing people to be exactly who they were when you met them. Later, the hosts tackle a listener advice letter about a boyfriend secretly sending money to his ex-girlfriend. Was it harmless support or emotional disrespect? Yusuf and Ashley debate secrecy, trust, accountability, emotional transparency, and whether helping an ex behind your partner’s back crosses the line. As always, the comments section brought the heat, with listeners sharing their own stories, perspectives, and relationship lessons learned the hard way. Plus: • Ashley talks about the return of Becoming Her Podcast • Yusuf shares updates about joining the My7Figure Podcast community • Petty relationship confessions and hilarious reactions • Real talk about resentment, trust, and emotional boundaries • Shoutouts to the Relationship Status community and supporters Tap in for another honest, funny, and thought-provoking episode of Relationship Status — where the conversations are real, the opinions are unapologetic, and everybody leaves with something to think about. Follow Relationship Status on all social media platforms @RELSTATPodcast and join the conversation. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - "I sent that man $20 for gas"(00:00:53) - Relationship Status(00:01:27) - When You Realize How Much You've Changed(00:02:38) - When Is Kaia Coming Back?(00:03:06) - Podcast Summit 2018(00:04:13) - "The Worst Thing I Ever Did For Love"(00:09:01) - "No Relationships in High School!" Says Dad(00:11:56) - Married People Need To Be Encouraged To Be Who They(00:15:50) - "I'm Confused About Quality Time With My Love Interest"(00:17:48) - Giving Permission To Be Who You Are(00:19:53) - The Worst Thing I Did For Love(00:22:52) - Dear Elijah, There's A Hole in the Bucket(00:23:10) - Advice Letter(00:23:53) - Should Help An Ex Be Acceptable In A Relationship?(00:29:12) - He Sent His Ex-Girlfriend Money(00:33:13) - What If He Had Seen The Notifications(00:36:40) - "I Just Ignore Your Phone Calls"(00:36:51) - Clayta Holmes: Don't Complain To People About Your(00:41:15) - Becoming Ashley With Ashley Martin(00:44:53) - Shabbos Shalom

    45 min

  2. MAY 18

    269th Date: She Found CashApp Notifications From His EX…

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status, Yusuf is back in the building holding it down with special guest co-host Ashley Martin from the Becoming Her Podcast for a real, unfiltered conversation about love, identity, relationships, and the boundaries people ignore in the name of “helping” an ex. The episode kicks off with the Question of the Week: “What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done for love?” From losing yourself in relationships to staying too long after the red flags started waving, Yusuf and Ashley dive deep into how people sacrifice pieces of themselves trying to become what their partners want instead of remaining authentic. The conversation expands into dating dynamics, personal freedom in relationships, why Yusuf encourages his daughters to focus on self-discovery before serious relationships, and how people often resent the very changes they made to please someone else. Ashley and Yusuf also unpack insecurity, emotional maturity, and the importance of allowing people to be exactly who they were when you met them. Later, the hosts tackle a listener advice letter about a boyfriend secretly sending money to his ex-girlfriend. Was it harmless support or emotional disrespect? Yusuf and Ashley debate secrecy, trust, accountability, emotional transparency, and whether helping an ex behind your partner’s back crosses the line. As always, the comments section brought the heat, with listeners sharing their own stories, perspectives, and relationship lessons learned the hard way. Plus: • Ashley talks about the return of Becoming Her Podcast • Yusuf shares updates about joining the My7Figure Podcast community • Petty relationship confessions and hilarious reactions • Real talk about resentment, trust, and emotional boundaries • Shoutouts to the Relationship Status community and supporters Tap in for another honest, funny, and thought-provoking episode of Relationship Status — where the conversations are real, the opinions are unapologetic, and everybody leaves with something to think about. Follow Relationship Status on all social media platforms @RELSTATPodcast and join the conversation. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - "You sent that man some gas money"(00:00:53) - Relationship Status(00:01:27) - Becoming Back With Will(00:03:06) - Podcast Summit 2018(00:04:13) - worst thing I ever did for love(00:08:01) - Have You Encouraged Your Daughter to Get Out Of Relationships(00:11:02) - Married People: Self-Discovery(00:15:32) - "I Don't Give Permission" To My Love Interest ((00:18:43) - What If You Forget Where You Met Her?(00:19:53) - The Worst Thing She Did For Love Was...(00:22:15) - Pouring Into An Empty Cup For Love(00:23:10) - Monique Smith On Why She Stayed While Being Hurt(00:23:43) - Should I Tell My Ex-Girlfriend I'm Sending Money To(00:29:10) - He Sent His Ex-Girlfriend Money For Gas(00:33:03) - What Would I Do If I Had Seen Her Notifications On My(00:36:36) - Oh, My God, I'm a Petty Person(00:36:52) - How To Handle a Complaint From Your Partner(00:38:14) - Sharing My Love Letter To My Ex(00:41:15) - Her with Ashley Martin

    45 min

  3. MAY 14 ·  VIDEO

    Women Who Go Celibate Were the BIGGEST Hoes?!” (Video)

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf & Vanetta dive headfirst into one of the internet’s hottest debates: “If a woman chooses celibacy until marriage, should a man be financially celate too?” From hilarious takes to brutally honest opinions, the conversation gets REAL about celibacy, dating expectations, sexual compatibility, modern relationships, double standards, marriage counseling, and why people sometimes choose appearances over truth. The duo also reacts to wild listener comments, debates abstinence vs. celibacy, talks relationship boundaries, and plays a spicy round of “either/or” questions that reveals a whole lot more than expected Topics include: Sex before marriage Financial expectations in dating Compatibility vs. commitment Toxic dating habits Loyalty, cheating & trust Passion vs. consistency Dating culture & social media lies As always, expect unfiltered opinions, laughter, chaos, and conversations that everybody’s thinking, but few are saying out loud. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - How To Stop Having Sex(00:00:40) - Eat My Biscuits(00:01:53) - Should a Woman Be Sexually Celibate Until Marriage?(00:03:14) - Yusuf On Single Moms Who Are Celibate(00:08:04) - Should You Give Up On Your Wife?(00:11:13) - "Is Compatibility Necessary For Marriage?"(00:13:11) - "I Can't Take This..." The Guy Who Was Intox(00:16:02) - "Don't Put Me In A Situation"(00:17:31) - Ask The Podcast Questions(00:17:50) - Fast and Slow(00:18:28) - Questions for Your Love Interest(00:19:30) - Favorite Sex Questions(00:21:52) - "Be The Side Piece or The Main Guy?"(00:22:44) - Posting A Cheater Or Hide The Least Loyal?(00:25:15) - Celibacy Until Marriage

    27 min

  4. MAY 11

    268th Date: Women Who Go Celibate Were the BIGGEST Hoes?!”

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf & Vanetta dive headfirst into one of the internet’s hottest debates: “If a woman chooses celibacy until marriage, should a man be financially celate too?” From hilarious takes to brutally honest opinions, the conversation gets REAL about celibacy, dating expectations, sexual compatibility, modern relationships, double standards, marriage counseling, and why people sometimes choose appearances over truth. The duo also reacts to wild listener comments, debates abstinence vs. celibacy, talks relationship boundaries, and plays a spicy round of “either/or” questions that reveals a whole lot more than expected Topics include: Sex before marriage Financial expectations in dating Compatibility vs. commitment Toxic dating habits Loyalty, cheating & trust Passion vs. consistency Dating culture & social media lies As always, expect unfiltered opinions, laughter, chaos, and conversations that everybody’s thinking, but few are saying out loud. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - How To Stop Having Sex(00:00:40) - Eat My Biscuits(00:01:53) - Celibate(00:03:14) - Celibacy Advice(00:06:02) - Were You Married Before Sex?(00:08:20) - How Many Cows Should a Woman Have In Her Marriage?(00:11:28) - "You Should Be Absorbent Until You Find Your Partner"(00:15:31) - "Don't Put Me In That Situation"(00:17:31) - Ask The Podcast Question of the Week(00:18:28) - Questions for Your Love Interest(00:19:30) - Questions People Have For Their Relationships(00:21:06) - "One Partner for Life"(00:22:31) - Posting A Cheater Or Hide The Least Loyal?(00:25:15) - Celibacy till Marriage

    27 min

  5. MAY 4

    267th Date: You’re NOT Growing Because You Won’t Do This… (Real Talk on Self-Love & Choosing YOU)

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta In this powerful and transparent episode of Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf English and Vanetta shift the focus from romantic relationships to the most important one of all—the relationship you have with yourself. From hilarious food debates (Chicago vs. everywhere else ) to deeply personal reflections, the conversation evolves into an honest exploration of self-awareness, growth, and what it really means to “become” who you’re meant to be. Vanetta opens up about her journey from teenage motherhood to finally discovering herself later in life—after years of prioritizing everyone else. She shares how stepping into isolation, moving to a new city, and leaning into faith forced her to confront who she truly is outside of being a mother, wife, or provider. Yusuf reflects on his own path—breaking free from comfort zones, learning to say no, and stepping into leadership by choosing himself, even when it meant making tough decisions and losing relationships. Together, they unpack: Why growth requires discomfort The danger of being a people pleaser Learning that “no” is a complete sentence How environment impacts your evolution The challenge of choosing yourself without guilt What it looks like to redefine your identity outside of roles And the ultimate question: Do you love yourself in a way that others can see it? This episode is raw, reflective, and relatable—perfect for anyone navigating change, healing, or personal evolution. Join the conversation: What are you unlearning to grow? Who are you becoming? Do you truly love yourself? Tap in, reflect, and start becoming the version of you that you owe yourself. Follow, subscribe, and share with someone who needs this message. Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - Relationship Status(00:01:13) - Favorite Chicago-Style Food(00:04:47) - Black Men Selling Hoodies at the Mall(00:07:41) - No Society Hoodie(00:09:21) - No Society(00:09:34) - The Relationship With Yourself(00:14:38) - Growing Up Struggling(00:19:22) - Kiki On Being Uncomfortable In College(00:21:47) - What's Something About Yourself That You Had to Unlearn in Order(00:26:09) - Ashley Martin on Becoming Her Girl(00:30:30) - Why I Chopped My Hair(00:32:28) - Choosing Who to Love(00:35:11) - Joe Clark: I'm Becoming An Hnic(00:38:22) - You Do Everything The Way You Do It(00:38:58) - Vanetta on Becoming A Real Woman(00:42:37) - Kanye West: I Don't Need No Advice From People(00:46:31) - Kanye West: I Have No Competition(00:49:45) - Do You Love Yourself As A Person?

    54 min

  6. APR 27

    266th Date: When the Sex Fades… Is Your Relationship Over?

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta In this candid and unfiltered episode of Relationship Status, Yusuf and Vanetta dive deep into the real meaning of intimacy. They break it down far beyond just sex. What starts as playful banter quickly evolves into a powerful conversation about connection, vulnerability, communication, and the realities of relationships as we grow older. They explore how intimacy shows up in different forms...mental, emotional, physical, and even spiritual...and challenge the common misconception that it’s only tied to sex. They unpack the importance of truly knowing your partner, being open enough to have uncomfortable conversations, and understanding how words, honesty, and connection shape the health of a relationship. This episode also tackles topics many people avoid: aging, changes in sexual dynamics, body image, and the fears that come with them. From discussing erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness to asking the tough question—can a relationship survive when the sexual connection fades?—nothing is off-limits. With real-life examples, humor, and raw honesty, the conversation highlights: The difference between sex and true intimacy Why vulnerability is essential for a lasting connection How communication (or lack of it) impacts relationships The role of attraction and sexual chemistry over time Why avoiding hard conversations can lead to disconnection or infidelity Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this episode challenges you to rethink what intimacy really means—and whether you’re truly experiencing it in your own life. Join the conversation: What does intimacy mean to you? Tap in for laughs, honesty, accountability, and a whole lot of perspective. Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:08) - Relationship Status: You Can't Always Look Like Granny(00:02:09) - What Does Intimacy Mean To You? Drop It in the(00:06:06) - In the Elevator With Intimacy(00:06:55) - In the Elevator With Intimacy(00:12:03) - Is Intimacy More Important Than Sex?(00:14:44) - "I Can't Have Sex With Someone Without Intimacy"(00:16:36) - The Conversation About Sexual Hypertension(00:20:11) - African men talk of vaginal dryness after menopause(00:25:39) - Discussing Sex Early In A Relationship(00:27:58) - Can Relationships Survive When The Sexual Connection Fades?(00:30:25) - When Sexual Connection Has Diminished(00:33:56) - How To Start A Relationship With Someone You Don't Like(00:37:50) - Relationship Status Podcast

    40 min

  7. MAR 4

    265th Date: “Men Are the Problem in Relationships? Our FIRST Podcast Episode Gets Heated”

    Seven years. Yup… SEVEN. Somehow we’ve been doing this long enough to qualify as a long-term relationship. Welcome back to the Relationship Status Podcast. V is out today, but this episode is special. Like digging through the archives and finding something you forgot existed special. To celebrate our anniversary, we’re taking y’all all the way back to the beginning—before the podcast had a name, before we knew what we were doing (arguably we still don’t), and before the many debates that would come over the years. What you’re about to hear is the very first recording of the Relationship Status Podcast. And here’s the crazy part: This episode has never been heard before. Not by the listeners… not by Nique… not by CL… nobody. So yes, we’re basically exposing our podcast baby pictures to the world. Inside this throwback conversation, we somehow jump into topics like: Why men might actually be the problem in relationships (depending on who you ask ) Whether men are allowed to cry or if society still says “man up” Why women always want “just a little more” (their words, not ours… kinda) If men and women can really be just friends after seeing each other naked Why people date someone thinking “I can change them” And the real question… who’s actually responsible when relationships fail? It’s raw, unfiltered, hilarious, and honestly… it might still be one of the most honest conversations we’ve ever had. Thank you to everyone who has supported us through seven years of wild conversations, real talk, and relationship debates. We appreciate every listener who has rocked with us along the way. If you want bonus content, exclusive episodes, and behind-the-scenes conversations, join the Patreon family: patreon.com/relationshipstatus Happy Anniversary to the Relationship Status Podcast. Now sit back and enjoy where it all started. ️ Chapters (00:00:00) - relationship status podcast: 7 years(00:01:15) - She Said Men Are At Fault When Their Relationships Fails(00:05:39) - Married Women Want More Attention(00:09:04) - What Is The Problem With Men Being Greedy Over Money?(00:11:47) - How Money Divides Men(00:15:40) - In Touch With His Ex-Girlfriend(00:19:16) - "A lot of Women Try to Change Their Guy"(00:23:00) - "Your Standards Are Too High"(00:26:24) - I Wouldn't Assist My Friend In Cheating(00:29:18) - Cheating Man: Don't Question My Wife(00:32:16) - How To Be Exclusively With Your Lover(00:34:21) - Are You Being Exclusive With Your Guy?(00:38:08) - Do Men Attract A Woman Who Does Drugs?(00:39:15) - A Very Special Goodbye To "

    40 min

  8. FEB 20

    264th Date: Valentine’s Day Truths: Do Men Even Care?! (This Debate Got REAL)

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on the Relationship Status Podcast, Yousef recaps his appearance on the Very Necessary Podcast and dives deep into a spirited Valentine’s Day debate that turned into a bigger conversation about expectations, effort, comparison, and communication in relationships. Do men really care about Valentine’s Day — or do they just care that their partner cares? The crew unpacks whether the holiday is truly “for women,” if men secretly want gifts too, and why some people feel like they’re in the doghouse if they don’t show up the “right” way on February 14th. The conversation gets real when they tackle: Is it about money… or is it about thought? Can creativity beat a five-star dinner? Are cliche gifts lazy — or just misunderstood? When does a high standard become comparison? Is “comparison the thief of joy” in dating after a great past relationship? Should a father set the romantic standard for his daughter’s future partners? Do expectations build love — or break it? From orchestra-by-candlelight date ideas to homemade cards, from social media aesthetics to real-life effort, this episode challenges listeners to examine whether they’re appreciating what’s being given — or measuring it against what once was. And the big question: Are you truly being loved… or are you waiting for someone to recreate a love you already experienced? Tap in for laughs, honesty, accountability, and a whole lot of perspective. Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - Relationship Status Podcast(00:00:25) - Valentine's Day Conversation(00:04:19) - Valentine's Day Advice From Men(00:07:48) - Adam Levine: It's Both Responsible For Not Being In Tune(00:13:02) - Valentine's Day Is All Right(00:16:44) - "Don't Expect Too Much From Your Boyfriend"(00:22:39) - Yolanda on Expecting Valentine's Day From Your Partner(00:27:42) - Relationship Status Podcast

    30 min
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The Relationship Status Podcast hosted by CL, Fraronda, Vanetta & Yusuf, takes you on a random journey through the different issues that come up in relationships. Needless to say, the crew will give their honest take on things.

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