Rigidity & Routine
One of the things we see time and time again – both in ourselves and in the people we work with – is just how overwhelmingly rigid routines take over life when you’re struggling with an ED.
With this in mind, this week, we’re exploring the many ways rigidity can show up in an eating disorder: safe foods, strict timings, movement routines, rituals, certainty-seeking, and the feeling that everything has to be done in a particular way. We look at why this happens, including the impact of starvation on the brain, and how even the most concrete rigidities can soften with adequate nourishment.
Most importantly, we talk about the freedom that comes when life no longer has to revolve around rules, routines, and getting everything “right”.
Topics covered:
• What rigidity can look like in eating disorders • How starvation and energy deficit affect cognitive flexibility • Safe foods, food rules, brands, timings, and meal routines • Rigidity around movement and exercise • Certainty-seeking and needing things done a particular way • The role of personality, temperament, and neurodivergence • Why rigidity can feel safe even when it’s causing harm • Challenging rigidity in recovery • The concept of recovery momentum and neural pathways • The freedom that comes from expanding life beyond the eating disorder
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Meg Instagram: @megsy_recovery YouTube: Megsy Recovery TikTok: megsy recovery
Safia Instagram: @safia_edrecoverycoach Email: hello@safiaed.com Website: https://www.safiaed.com
Em (copywriter & editor) Instagram: @em_schone
Tallulah Self (podcast editor) Instagram: @tallulahself
[DISCLAIMER]
We’re not medical professionals, and the podcast content reflects our own experiences and opinions. If you’re struggling with an eating disorder or disordered eating, please reach out to a medical professional for personalised support.
Information
- Show
- PublishedJune 12, 2026 at 4:00 a.m. UTC
- Length50 min
- RatingClean
