98 episodes
Secret Habit Shawn Bonneteau; Helena Bonneteau
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- Religion & Spirituality
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5.0 • 34 Ratings
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Do you wish there were some fun, purpose-driven couples talking about sex in a way that was actually helpful? Back when we were struggling, we certainly did, and that is why the Secret Habit podcast exists. We are Shawn and Helena Bonneteau and we are committed to helping you experience just how satisfying God's design for sexuality can be. Because we know what it's like to deal with things like porn addiction, betrayal trauma, and sexual struggles we can relate to your story and bring refreshing, restorative truths that will lead you to love stronger, laugh harder, and sex better.
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S2E29: Your Motivations May Be Driving You Further From God... How To Uproot Core Motivational Lies & Live In Freedom From Porn
Looking for lasting freedom from porn? START with one of our 3 options here:
1. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
2. Enroll in a DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
3. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
In this episode, you'll learn why you you're coming up short even if you're "doing all the right things"
This may be in porn recovery, family, marriage, work... whatever it is, you MUST change your core motivation or else you'll stay stuck.
We all have a core identity and from that core identity we have motivations
If your motivations are focused on NOT being a failure and working hard to not be one, you'll miss the gospel
The gospel saves, PERIOD. Jesus is the solution here, but he meets us in such strategies to renew our belief system and change the very reason we do anything
May this be the driver to changing your life... its time to quit porn and masturbation, to redeem your marriage, to enjoy Godly sex and to be men of integrity!
Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing -
S2E9: Why I Moved To Czech and Joined DeepClean
Looking for lasting freedom from porn? START with one of our 3 options here:
1. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
2. Enroll in a DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
3. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
I am answering the BIG questions today - why did I move to Czech? why did I join DeepClean? Why did I stop coaching with Secret Habit? Do I miss Canada? Am I staying in Czech? And so many more!
Helena and I moved to Czech back on May 30th from Canada. I joined DeepClean on June 8th and since then, its been quite the God story. However, it goes much further back, and thats what I want to share about today
If you're ready to quit porn in the next 120 days, book your free strategy call with us, we would love to help you find out the best next steps with DeepClean!
* www.secrethabit.ca/call
If you want to know more about DeepClean before booking a call, grab a free copy of "The Last Relapse" -
S2E12: Stop Using Cute Words To Describe Your Porn Addiction
Looking for lasting freedom from porn? START with one of our 3 options here:
1. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
2. Enroll in a DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
3. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
Do you do what most people do: Calling their porn addiction a "sin issue" or a "lust problem"?
In this episode, Shawn Bonneteau is going to get real and challenge the weak sauce language we so often use as Christians. I want to help you add some weight to your words to enhance your conviction to change. This is a vital message to those who want to build bigger "muscles" in their journey to freedom from porn and sexual integrity
Get ready to learn about:
- The difference between weak and strong language
- How to say things for what they are
- Being brutally honest
- Growing your conviction while quitting porn
Ready to do something about your porn addiction FOR REAL?
* Book your call with our team today and get started on our 4 month porn recovery program
Extra resource: "The Last Relapse" book by Sathiya Sam. Grab your free copy today -
S2E13: Outsmart Your Sexual Temptations With This Porn Recovery Tool
Looking for lasting freedom from porn? START with one of our 3 options here:
1. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
2. Enroll in a DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
3. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
Sexual temptation is powerful... Most people are like a deer in headlights when sexually tempted. No matter the trigger, its almost as if you go on auto pilot and do things you never thought you would do... sound about right?
If so, then this recovery life hack is 100% for you
In this episode, Shawn Bonneteau is going to uncover the #1 reason mature adults make childish decisions in the face of temptation.
Get ready to learn about:
- What happens when you go into fight, flight freeze
- Why its so hard to make good decisions when sexually tempted
- What is really triggering you before you watch porn
- Why "prayer and read your bible more" doesn't work
- Whats going on in the brain when you get sexually tempted or emotionally triggered
- How to hold the power and overcome triggers and temptations no matter when they come
Grab our 90 day survival guide when quitting porn (bottom of the blog page)
DOWNLOAD IT FOR FREE
We're opening up some slots f you're ready to quit porn but need a coach, system and community to help you do it - book your free call now and join us at DeepClean - the all in one porn recovery system for Christian men -
S2E14: Stop Saying You're Bored, Its Killing Your Recovery
Looking for lasting freedom from porn? START with one of our 3 options here:
1. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
2. Enroll in a DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
3. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
So often I hear guys telling me "boredom" is the problem in their life. They tell me that they use pornography when they're bored.
Maybe you can relate? Maybe you have kids who say this? Maybe a friend? I want to open your eyes to what boredom really is.
In this episode, I (Shawn Bonneteau) will push back on this common suggestion as to why people watch porn and masturbate and offer some deeper insights
Get ready to learn about:
- What boredom is below the surface
- What is really driving your porn addiction
- How to reframe the way you label your feelings
- The holistic approach to being a healthy human being
I mention a great resource in this episode, Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction by Eddie Capparucci. Its a GREAT read that offers a ton of application steps to help you overcome sex addiction and other immature coping mechanisms
Looking for a deeper drive? Ready to commit to the process of quitting porn for good?
Book a private strategy call and join DeepClean, the all in one porn recovery system for christian men -
S2E28: The ONLY WAY Spiritual Disciplines Work
Looking for lasting freedom from porn? START with one of our 3 options here:
1. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/
2. Enroll in a DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/
3. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing
In this episode, Shawn is going to get really real about the ONLY thing that leads to a healthy routine of spiritual disciplines.
Stop trying to work harder, do more, comdemn yourself... its not working!
Start with the posture of heart THAN work from that.
Get ready to learn about the very dichotomy we all live in and how to choose truth, love and joy
Jesus wants you to be free from porn, masturbation and sexual sin... however, He doesnt want you to think the work he already did has to be done again!
Its time to change your heart and mind so you can change the very way you live each and every day
Do you need some direction on what to do next?
Check out secrethabit.ca to book a call with our team, buy a course or grab a free resource
Customer Reviews
Vulnerable and Courageous
I am so impressed with Shawn and Helena’s openness, their vulnerability, and their commitment to help others by sharing their story. This is courageous, this is love, this is obedience to God. Helena and Shawn are allowing the Lord to use their pasts to help other couples/individuals struggling with sexual struggles and porn addiction. It’s a beautiful thing, a powerful ministry. They are surely helping many people. I enjoy listening to these two converse, they are gracious, so loving, and a lot of fun.
the Bonneteaus now have a podcast!
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A Desire To Help and Heal
Shawn and Helena have a great passion to serve people seeking sexual healing and wholeness. They have worked so hard to create a ministry that is courageous and compassionate in helping people in the areas we all have different struggles with.
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