Sober Curator Podcast

Alysse Bryson and Tamar Routly

Hosted by Alysse Bryson & Tamar Routly, and produced by Podcast Impact Studio, The Sober Curator Podcast brings sober lifestyle, pop culture, & recovery to the mic. Alongside Alysse & Tamar, rotating global contributors join as co-hosts to explore zero-proof drinks, sober travel, quit lit, entertainment, & mental health. This is sober media with personality, perspective, & a glitter bomb of honesty. Sober-curious or living alcohol-free, we’ve got you! We're not here to help you get sober. We're here to help you live sober: and love it.

  1. 5d ago

    Backstage With The Sober Curator: The Club You Didn't Know You Needed

    Every club has a velvet rope. Ours just doesn't have a bar. Alysse Bryson and Tamar Routly pull back the curtain on Backstage — The Sober Curator's membership community for people who want their sober life to come with actual people, actual events, and actual fun. Media Nights. Studio Nights. Edutainment Nights. If you've been wondering where the stylish, creative, slightly chaotic sober people hang out, the answer is: right here. Key Takeaways Backstage is built on three pillars: Media Nights, Studio Nights, and Edutainment Nights Backstage events fund the free content — joining is how you keep the lights on for everyone Whether you're three weeks or three decades sober, Backstage has a seat for you Season 2 Merch - We've got MERCH for Season Two: ⁠https://shopthesobercurator.com/⁠ Mentioned in This Episode - This episode was also brought to you by Aura House,  Save 10% by using code: TSC10 and #ADDTOCART using link: ⁠https://go.shopmy.us/p-64140200  SC Resources & Links:  - Meet the Contributors⁠  -⁠Alcohol + Substance Use Disorder Guide⁠  -⁠Recovery Nonprofit Resource Guide⁠  -⁠LBGTQ+ Recovery Resource Guide⁠  Connect with Us: -Website: ⁠www.thesobercurator.com⁠   -Facebook: ⁠@The Sober Curator⁠  -Instagram: ⁠@thesobercurator⁠  -X: ⁠@thesobercurator⁠  -YouTube: ⁠@thesobercurator⁠  - Pinterest: ⁠@thesobercurato⁠r Rate & Review If this episode made you laugh, cringe in the best way, or text a clip to your best sober friend — leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It takes 60 seconds and it genuinely helps more people find this show. Send Feedback:  Have a story, a guest recommendation, or just want to say hi? Email us at thesobercurator@gmail.com. We actually read every single one. About the Show: Sobriety isn't the end of the party — it's just the start of a better one. Hosted by Alysse Bryson (media executive, 20 years sober, sobriety's ultimate hype woman) and co-host Tamar Routly, The Sober Curator Podcast delivers bold convos, pop culture deep dives, and zero-proof living that doesn't suck. Whether you're sober, sober-curious, or just looking for good vibes without the hangover — you're in the right place. Subscribe now. Getting sober matters. Staying sober matters more. The Sober Curator Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations about sobriety, recovery, and alcohol-free living. Some topics may be sensitive for certain listeners. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please take care while listening and seek support from trusted

    18 min
  2. 5d ago

    The Sober Curator Podcast Season 2: Pop Culture, Zero-Proof Living, and Zero Apologies

    Season 1 was the proof of concept. Season 2 is the proof of life. Alysse Bryson and Tamar Routly are back, and this season is everything the Sober Curator has always been — bold, irreverent, pop-culture-soaked, and built for the person who is done white-knuckling and ready to actually LIVE their sober life.In this first episode, Alysse and Tamar pull back the curtain on what's coming in Season 2: sober entrepreneurship, the Aura House debut, mindful binging (yes, that's a thing — and yes, it involves Euphoria), fresh merch, and the kind of guests who make you remember why you followed your gut and chose this life. They also get into the funemployment era. If you know, you know. KEY TAKEAWAYS - Season 2 goes deeper on the sober lifestyle — the living part, not just the getting-there part - Mindful binging is real: consuming pop culture with intention and a zero-proof drink in hand - Alysse's funemployment era is officially open for business — and it's giving main character energy - New merch, new guests, and new reasons to love your sober life are all on the way We've got MERCH for Season Two: https://shopthesobercurator.com/ This episode was also brought to you by Aura House,  Save 10% by using code: TSC10 and #ADDTOCART using link: https://go.shopmy.us/p-64140200  SC RESOURCES & LINKS - Meet the Contributors: thesobercurator.com/contributor-directory - Alcohol + Substance Use Disorder Guide: thesobercurator.com/resources - Recovery Nonprofit Resource Guide: thesobercurator.com/nonprofit-recovery-resources - LGBTQ+ Recovery Resource Guide: thesobercurator.com/lgbtq-recovery-resources CONNECT WITH US - Website: www.thesobercurator.com - Instagram: @thesobercurator - Facebook: @The Sober Curator - X: @thesobercurator - YouTube: @thesobercurator - Pinterest: @thesobercurator RATE & REVIEW If this episode made you laugh, cringe in the best way, or text a clip to your best sober friend — leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It takes 60 seconds and it genuinely helps more people find this show. SEND FEEDBACK Have a story, a guest recommendation, or just want to say hi? Email us at thesobercurator@gmail.com. We actually read every single one. ABOUT THE SHOW Sobriety isn't the end of the party — it's just the start of a better one. Hosted by Alysse Bryson (media executive, 20 years sober, sobriety's ultimate hype woman) and co-host Tamar Routly, The Sober Curator Podcast delivers bold convos, pop culture deep dives, and zero-proof living that doesn't suck. Whether you're sober, sober-curious, or just looking for good vibes without the hangover — you're in the right place. Subscribe now. Getting sober matters. Staying sober matters more. The Sober Curator Podcast is a space for open, honest conversations about sobriety, recovery, and alcohol-free living. Some topics may be sensitive for certain listeners. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please take care while listening and seek support from trusted professionals as needed.

    23 min
  3. Feb 25

    That's a Wrap — Season One of The Sober Curator Podcast

    That's a Wrap: The Season One Finale It started because people kept pitching to be on a podcast that didn't exist — so Alysse and Tamar built one. Now, 50+ episodes later, they're closing out Season One with a look back at the wildest moments, the biggest lessons, and a tease of what's coming in Season Two that's going to change the game. Alysse Bryson and Tamar Routly (aka T Booj) celebrate turning 50, recap their favorite Season One moments — from the Tchotchke Showdown to dressing up as aliens — and get real about the behind-the-scenes hustle of running a podcast with a global team of 38 contributors. Plus: the Sober Curator Rolodex, the Amplify Sober Voices event, a secret Spring launch, and why sobriety means you actually DO the things you dream about. Episode Highlights Alysse and Tamar both hit 50 and have officially run out of s***s to give The origin story: launching a podcast because people kept pitching to one that didn't exist Favorite Season One moments: Tchotchke Showdown, alien costumes, Adam Nemoy interview The Sober Curator Rolodex — a free directory for sober business owners Amplify Sober Voices recap and collaborating with sober content creators Season Two teasers: YouTube Lives, listener participation, and a mystery Spring launch Sober Shot  "That's what happens when you live a sober lifestyle. You don't just talk about doing shit. You actually end up going and doing the things you've dreamed about." — Alysse Bryson SC Resources & Links:  -Meet the Contributors  -Alcohol + Substance Use Disorder Guide  -Recovery Nonprofit Resource Guide  -LBGTQ+ Recovery Resource Guide  Connect with Us:  -Website: www.thesobercurator.com   -Facebook: @The Sober Curator  -Instagram: @thesobercurator  -X: @thesobercurator  -YouTube: @thesobercurator  Pinterest: @thesobercuratorFollow & Subscribe:  If you enjoyed this episode, please consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your feedback helps us improve and reach more listeners.   Send Feedback:  If you have a story, feedback, or just want to connect, email us at thesobercurator@gmail.com. We’d love to hear from you!  About:  Sobriety isn’t the end of the party—it’s just the start of a better one. Hosted by Alysse Bryson, media powerhouse and sobriety’s ultimate hype woman, and joined by Sober Curator contributors, The Sober Curator Podcast* delivers bold convos, pop culture deep dives, and zero-proof living that doesn’t suck. Whether you're sober, sober-curious, or just looking for good vibes without the hangover, we’ve got you covered. Subscribe now—because getting sober matters, staying sober matters more.  *The Sober Curator Podcast is a space for open and honest conversations about sobriety, recovery, and alcohol-free living. While we celebrate all paths to a sober lifestyle, some topics discussed may be sensitive or triggering for certain listeners. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. If you’re in recovery or exploring sobriety, please take care while listening and seek support from trusted professionals as needed.

    37 min
  4. Feb 18 ·  Bonus

    Replay: The Sober Curator's Take on the New "Matthew Perry: A Hollywood Tragedy" Documentary

    In this heartfelt episode of The Sober Curator, host Alysse Bryson is joined by a full lineup of Sober Curator contributors—Amy Liz Harrison, Alexandra Nyman, Megan Swan, Kim Parsley, and Dr. Sarah Michaud—to explore the life and legacy of Matthew Perry through a newly released documentary. The conversation delves into the documentary's focus on Perry's addiction battles, his recovery efforts, and his lasting impact. The episode also touches upon how Hollywood treats addiction and the role of documentaries in shaping these narratives.  Timestamps:  [00:00] - Introduction & Alysse Bryson's connection to Matthew Perry  [02:01] - Overview: Matthew Perry and the documentary  [03:16] - Key highlights of the documentary: addiction and recovery themes  [15:04] - The financial aspect of rehabilitation and its exploitation  [21:13] - Conversations about Big Pharma and harm reduction  [31:00] - Codependency within the circle of celebrities  [34:44] - The documentary's mixed narrative and impact on the community  [38:06] - Remembering Matthew Perry's legacy and the humor amidst tragedy  Resources & Links:  -Documentary: ⁠Matthew Perry: A Hollywood Tragedy⁠  -Organization: ⁠Matthew Perry Foundation⁠  -Review: ⁠"Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing" by Alysse Bryson⁠  -Review: ⁠"Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing" by Amy Liz Harrison⁠  -⁠Alcohol + Substance Use Disorder Guide⁠  -⁠Recovery Nonprofit Resource Guide⁠  -⁠LBGTQ+ Recovery Resource Guide⁠  Connect with Us:  -Website: ⁠www.thesobercurator.com⁠   -Facebook: ⁠@The Sober Curator⁠  -Instagram: ⁠@thesobercurator⁠  -X: ⁠@thesobercurator⁠  -YouTube: ⁠@thesobercurator⁠  -Pinterest: ⁠@thesobercurator⁠  Follow & Subscribe:  If you enjoyed this episode, please consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your feedback helps us improve and reach more listeners. Plus, the first 50 reviews on Apple Podcasts can win a sleek, limited edition Sober Curator fanny pack!  Send Feedback:  If you have a story, feedback, or just want to connect, email us at thesobercurator@gmail.com. We’d love to hear from you!  About:  Sobriety isn’t the end of the party—it’s just the start of a better one. Hosted by Alysse Bryson, media powerhouse and sobriety’s ultimate hype woman, and joined by Sober Curator contributors, ⁠The Sober Curator⁠ Podcast* delivers bold convos, pop culture deep dives, and zero-proof living that doesn’t suck. Whether you're sober, sober-curious, or just looking for good vibes without the hangover, we’ve got you covered. Subscribe now—because getting sober matters, staying sober matters more.    The intro and outro music for this episode is proudly featured with permission from Avatari. All rights reserved to the original creators. For more of their work, check out his website: ⁠https://www.avatariworld.com/music⁠.  *The Sober Curator Podcast is a space for open and honest conversations about sobriety, recovery, and alcohol-free living. While we celebrate all paths to a sober lifestyle, some topics discussed may be sensitive or triggering for certain listeners. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. If you’re in recovery or exploring sobriety, please take care while listening and seek support from trusted professionals as needed.

    49 min
  5. Feb 11

    Replay! Can You Really Let Them? The Sober Curator Breaks Down Mel Robbins’ Boundary Advice

    Ready to hear this one again? In this lively roundtable, The Sober Curator crew dives deep into Mel Robbins’ viral book "The Let Them Theory " — and the controversy swirling around it. Hosts Alysse Bryson and Tamar Routly welcome guests Dr. Sarah Michaud, Megan Swan, Tony Harte, Carolyn Bunn and Amy Liz Harrison for a spirited discussion on whether "Let Them" is really a theory, how it fits into codependency work, and what it misses for people in recovery. Expect strong opinions, a healthy dose of sass and more than a few laughs as the group rates the book and explores what boundary-setting means in sober life.  Timestamps:  [00:00] – Dr. Sarah Michaud opens with a critical question: Can people actually "let them"?  [01:13] – Show intros: Meet The Sober Curator Podcast hosts and this week's panel of sober experts.  [02:56] – What is Mel Robbins' "The Let Them Theory" all about? Pop culture, controversy and viral moments.  [05:06] – Meet the guests! Panelists weigh in on their first impressions.  [08:56] – Dr. Sarah and Tony Harte debate: is this really a theory, or just marketing?  [11:05] – Copyright, tattoos and the story behind "Let Them": Is it original?  [15:17] – Can everyday people really apply "The Let Them Theory" in real life — or in recovery?  [18:37] – Amy Liz Harrison shares a personal story about friendships, boundaries and people-pleasing.  [20:19] – Apologize, back off, celebrate progress? The panel critiques Mel's proposed solution.  [24:00] – Megan Swan: "This book isn't for people with deep trauma" — who is the real audience?  [33:24] – Alysse Bryson on how sober circles are NOT the norm for most people.  [34:53] – Indie publishing, bestsellers and grandiosity: Should we trademark "Let Me"?  [44:12] – Put a Sobee on it! The panel gives their Sobee Scores for Mel Robbins' "The Let Them Theory"  Resources & Links:  -⁠The Sober Curator: Rethinking Codependency and “The Let Them Theory” | Leaving CrazyTown⁠  -⁠Book: "The Let Them Theory"⁠  -⁠Meet the Contributors⁠  -⁠Alcohol + Substance Use Disorder Guide⁠  -⁠Recovery Nonprofit Resource Guide⁠  -⁠LBGTQ+ Recovery Resource Guide⁠  Connect with Us:  -Website: ⁠www.thesobercurator.com⁠   -Facebook: ⁠@The Sober Curator⁠  -Instagram: ⁠@thesobercurator⁠  -X: ⁠@thesobercurator⁠  -YouTube: ⁠@thesobercurator⁠  -Pinterest: ⁠@thesobercurator⁠  Follow & Subscribe:  If you enjoyed this episode, please consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your feedback helps us improve and reach more listeners. Plus, the first 50 reviews on Apple Podcasts can win a sleek, limited edition Sober Curator fanny pack!  Send Feedback:  If you have a story, feedback, or just want to connect, email us at thesobercurator@gmail.com. We’d love to hear from you!  About:  Sobriety isn’t the end of the party—it’s just the start of a better one. Hosted by Alysse Bryson, media powerhouse and sobriety’s ultimate hype woman, and joined by Sober Curator contributors, ⁠The Sober Curator⁠ Podcast* delivers bold convos, pop culture deep dives, and zero-proof living that doesn’t suck. Whether you're sober, sober-curious, or just looking for good vibes without the hangover, we’ve got you covered. Subscribe now—because getting sober matters, staying sober matters more.  The intro and outro music for this episode is proudly featured with permission from Avatari. All rights reserved to the original creators. For more of their work, check out his website: ⁠https://www.avatariworld.com/music⁠.  *The Sober Curator Podcast is a space for open and honest conversations about sobriety, recovery, and alcohol-free living. While we celebrate all paths to a sober lifestyle, some topics discussed may be sensitive or triggering for certain listeners. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. If you’re in recovery or exploring sobriety, please take care while listening and seek support from trusted professionals as needed.

    52 min
  6. Feb 4

    Meredith Moon on Creativity, Stage Fright, and Making Music Sober

    What happens when a musician trades liquid courage for clarity? In this episode of The Sober Curator Podcast, Alysse Bryson sits down with singer-songwriter Meredith Moon to talk about creativity without booze, overcoming stage fright, and why sobriety didn’t kill her art—it sharpened it. From hitchhiking across Canada to releasing her first fully sober album, Meredith shares an honest, grounded look at what it means to be fully present in your creative life.  Takeaways  Sobriety can enhance creativity—not erase it  Stage fright doesn’t disappear with alcohol, it just gets postponed  Inspiration requires answering the call when it shows up  Balance in sobriety means knowing when to step away  Reading, movement, and snacks are underrated recovery tools  Key Timestamps  [00:01:01] — Welcome to The Sober Curator Podcast + host intro  [00:01:22] — Meet Meredith Moon + her unconventional musical journey  [00:02:28] — Fear of losing creativity after quitting drinking  [00:03:47] — Sobriety as a creative “superpower”  [00:05:32] — Obsession, balance, and boundaries in sober creativity  [00:11:10] — Movement, anxiety relief, and baseline calm  [00:11:30] — Letting food be medicine in early sobriety  [00:12:00] — Reading again: sobriety and cognitive clarity  Notable Resources & Mentions  Meredith Moon — From Here to the Sea (Album)  Compass Records  Warner Music Canada  If this episode inspired you, share it with a sober friend who still thinks creativity requires cocktails.  Connect with Us:  -Website: www.thesobercurator.com -Facebook: @The Sober Curator -Instagram: @thesobercurator -X: @thesobercurator -YouTube: @thesobercurator -Pinterest: @thesobercurator  Follow & Subscribe:  If you enjoyed this episode, please consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your feedback helps us improve and reach more listeners. Plus, the first 50 reviews on Apple Podcasts can win a sleek, limited edition Sober Curator fanny pack!  Send Feedback:  If you have a story, feedback, or just want to connect, email us at thesobercurator@gmail.com. We’d love to hear from you!  About:  Sobriety isn’t the end of the party—it’s just the start of a better one. Hosted by Alysse Bryson, media powerhouse and sobriety’s ultimate hype woman, and joined by Sober Curator contributors, The Sober Curator Podcast delivers bold convos, pop culture deep dives, and zero-proof living that doesn’t suck. Whether you're sober, sober-curious, or just looking for good vibes without the hangover, we’ve got you covered. Subscribe now—because getting sober matters, staying sober matters more.

    40 min
  7. Jan 28

    Sober Curious, Creative, and Free: Niesha Davis on Rethinking Alcohol

    What happens when creativity meets curiosity—and alcohol no longer gets a free pass? In this vibrant and honest conversation, Alysse Bryson sits down with writer and editor Niesha Davis to talk sober curiosity, creative rituals, body wisdom, and her colorful new project, The Sober Curious Activity Book. From journaling and art as tools for reflection to navigating social life without booze, this episode proves sobriety doesn’t have to be rigid to be powerful—it can be playful, personal, and deeply freeing.  Takeaways  Sober curiosity is about asking better questions—not labels  Creativity (journaling, art, reflection) can replace alcohol as a coping tool  Listening to your body is often the first wake-up call  Non-alcoholic options are personal—there’s no one “right” way  You can evolve without losing your identity, joy, or social life  Key Timestamps  [00:03:41] Margaret shares how her relationship with alcohol inspired Soirée.  [00:07:00] The Palm Springs “Slim Aarons” photoshoot magic.  [00:10:13] Flipping the mocktail narrative—why “nothing is missing.”  [00:18:00] New flavor drop: Café Spritz for Dry January ☕  [00:23:00] Building confidence for young women and redefining college culture.  [00:35:00] Soirée joins Caesar’s in Vegas just in time for BravoCon.  [00:47:30] Margaret’s self-care confession: Heath Bar Blizzards + binge-watching.  Guest Links  The Sober Curious Activity Book — Niesha Davis  Health, Women’s Health, HuffPost, Bust Magazine  Brown and Abroad (Niesha’s travel platform)  Connect with Us:  -Website: www.thesobercurator.com   -Facebook: @The Sober Curator  -Instagram: @thesobercurator  -X: @thesobercurator  -YouTube: @thesobercurator  -Pinterest: @thesobercurator  Follow & Subscribe:  If you enjoyed this episode, please consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your feedback helps us improve and reach more listeners.    Send Feedback:  If you have a story, feedback, or just want to connect, email us at thesobercurator@gmail.com. We’d love to hear from you!  About:  Sobriety isn’t the end of the party—it’s just the start of a better one. Hosted by Alysse Bryson, media powerhouse and sobriety’s ultimate hype woman, and joined by Sober Curator contributors, The Sober Curator Podcast* delivers bold convos, pop culture deep dives, and zero-proof living that doesn’t suck. Whether you're sober, sober-curious, or just looking for good vibes without the hangover, we’ve got you covered. Subscribe now—because getting sober matters, staying sober matters more.  *The Sober Curator Podcast is a space for open and honest conversations about sobriety, recovery, and alcohol-free living. While we celebrate all paths to a sober lifestyle, some topics discussed may be sensitive or triggering for certain listeners. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. If you’re in recovery or exploring sobriety, please take care while listening and seek support from trusted professionals as needed.

    54 min
  8. Jan 21

    The Year of Love: Gay, Sober, and Finding Home in Recovery with Jonathan Gildart

    What happens when sobriety finally clicks — not just in the body, but in the soul? In this powerful episode, Alysse Bryson sits down with recovery advocate and community leader Jonathan Gildart to talk about incarceration, identity, and finding true belonging in LGBTQ+ recovery spaces. With over 11 years of continuous sobriety, Jonathan shares how service, accountability, and queer community didn’t just help him stay sober — they helped him build a life worth staying for.  Key Takeaways  Why sobriety without community often isn’t enough  How LGBTQ+ recovery spaces create safety, accountability, and joy  The myth of “I don’t have a drinking problem” — and how it unravels  Why service is one of the most powerful relapse-prevention tools  How recovery housing builds responsibility, dignity, and connection  Key Timestamps  [01:26] Meet Jonathan Gildart & his sober origin story  [03:00] Incarceration as the unexpected turning point  [05:10] “I thought I could just drink” — relapse myths  [08:00] Acceptance, identity, and the search for belonging  [12:00] Recovery housing & rebuilding adult life skills  [15:00] Service, leadership, and the Gay & Sober Conference  Notable Resources & Mentions  Oxford House recovery housing  Gay & Sober Conference – “The Year of Love” (2026)  Love this episode? Subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to know they’re not alone in sobriety.  Connect with Us:  Website: www.thesobercurator.com  Facebook: @The Sober Curator  Instagram: @thesobercurator  X: @thesobercurator  YouTube: @thesobercurator  Pinterest: @thesobercurator  Follow & Subscribe: If you enjoyed this episode, please consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your feedback helps us improve and reach more listeners. Plus, the first 50 reviews on Apple Podcasts can win a sleek, limited edition Sober Curator fanny pack!  Send Feedback: Email us at thesobercurator@gmail.com — we’d love to hear from you.  About: Sobriety isn’t the end of the party—it’s just the start of a better one. Hosted by Alysse Bryson, media powerhouse and sobriety’s ultimate hype woman, The Sober Curator Podcast delivers bold convos, pop culture deep dives, and zero-proof living that doesn’t suck. Subscribe now—because getting sober matters, staying sober matters more.

    55 min

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Hosted by Alysse Bryson & Tamar Routly, and produced by Podcast Impact Studio, The Sober Curator Podcast brings sober lifestyle, pop culture, & recovery to the mic. Alongside Alysse & Tamar, rotating global contributors join as co-hosts to explore zero-proof drinks, sober travel, quit lit, entertainment, & mental health. This is sober media with personality, perspective, & a glitter bomb of honesty. Sober-curious or living alcohol-free, we’ve got you! We're not here to help you get sober. We're here to help you live sober: and love it.