Tea. Toast. and Trivia.

Rebecca Budd

Blogger. Visual Storyteller. Traveller. Exploring the creative spirit through books, art, history, travel, and the remarkable people whose stories shape our lives. Every episode is an invitation to gather around the table, share a cup of tea, and celebrate curiosity, creativity, and the joy of lifelong learning. One conversation at a time. Tea, Toast & Trivia Podcast. All Rights Reserved © 2019–2026 Rebecca Budd.

  1. Sep 14

    Jam First, Then Cream: What a Cream Tea Taught Me About Memory

    S8 E11: Jam First, Then Cream: What a Cream Tea Taught Me About Memory I was sitting in Port Isaac with a warm scone in front of me when I discovered that I might be about to commit a Cornish offense. There was jam. There was thick cream. There was tea. And somewhere nearby, a newspaper headline was warning of a cream tea “blunder” serious enough to inspire calls for a boycott. Suddenly, the order of things mattered. In Season 8, Episode 11 of Tea, Toast & Trivia, I return to that afternoon in Cornwall and to the wonderfully spirited question of whether jam or cream should come first. What begins as a local disagreement over a scone soon opens into something much larger: a reflection on cultural memory, belonging, and the ordinary customs that quietly connect one generation with another. Perhaps some of our deepest inheritances are carried not in monuments or history books, but in kitchens, recipes, familiar rituals and the way we prepare a scone. So pour yourself a cup of tea, find a scone if you can, and come with me to Cornwall. And when it comes time to choose what goes on first, just remember — in Cornwall, it is jam first, then cream. Rebecca 🎙️Tea Toast Trivia Podcast Music by Epidemic Sound “Never a Goodbye” by Gavin Luke https://www.epidemicsound.com/music/tracks/23d78dc4-1dce-48cd-a10a-9bded0529d84/ “The Sweetest” by Gavin Luke https://www.epidemicsound.com/music/tracks/eb75ebc0-a558-44f8-a176-b109cc621a8a/

    Jam First, Then Cream: What a Cream Tea Taught Me About Memory
  2. Aug 10

    “The Grand Adventure” by D Wallace Peach

    S8 E10: “The Grand Adventure” by D Wallace Peach Welcome to Tea Toast & Trivia. Thank you for listening in. I am your host, Rebecca Budd, and I look forward to sharing this moment with you. There is a quiet magic in short stories. Within just a few pages, an entire world unfolds, fleeting, yet unforgettable. Short stories ask us to pause and listen closely. They remind us that even brief encounters can hold the full weight of a life. In their condensed form, they carry the pulse of human experience. Love, loss, wonder, and revelation are distilled into something both fragile and enduring. Today’s reading, “The Grand Adventure” by D. Wallace Peach, set in the late 1800's, embodies that rare gift. It is a journey of discovery and transformation, told with poetic precision and heartfelt insight. Diana captures how every threshold, real or imagined, invites us to step beyond comfort, into the grand adventure of becoming. This story is especially meaningful to me, as my mother, Frances, recently turned ninety-four. Her life, rich with courage, faith, and gentle humour, reflects the same spirit of resilience and renewal that echoes through Diana’s words. At ninety-four, each day truly is a grand adventure, a continuing act of discovery. So, settle in and pour yourself a cuppa tea! Let us walk together into this wonderful story, proof that even the shortest tales can open the widest doors. Until next time we meet, safe travels wherever your adventures lead you. Rebecca Music by Epidemic Sound My Little Friend by Franz Gordon https://www.epidemicsound.com/music/tracks/b0cabd7d-83df-45c0-b906-e0945952c3d9/ Remember by Emily Rubye https://www.epidemicsound.com/music/tracks/e45d3079-f4f6-3450-b379-944fe6ce63e3/ Watercolor Fountain by Trail Worx https://www.epidemicsound.com/music/tracks/e178eaee-b7b1-3436-beef-a2ddb6e602be/ Try Your Wings by Helmut Schenker https://www.epidemicsound.com/music/tracks/95c9c0a7-9e3a-4375-9f94-f859380b8254/

    “The Grand Adventure” by D Wallace Peach
  3. Apr 2

    Graciela Gonçalves Da Silva on Sharing Silences

    S8 E4: Graciela Gonçalves Da Silva on Sharing Silences “I learned to share silences, paying attention to things that I did not understand, and there was no chance to ask, but just being there was enough to enjoy it. This was deeper than any words I wished to use. Life was suddenly filled with humble adventures.” Graciela Gonçalves Da Silva When Graciela first shared this reflection with me during our 2023 conversation on Tea, Toast & Trivia, I sensed that she was speaking from a place beyond explanation. Not offering conclusions. Not trying to persuade. Simply describing what happens when we learn to stay present long enough for meaning to emerge on its own. She is an Argentine artist now based in Los Angeles, with murals and public works spanning cities across the world. Her characters, colours, and stories live not only on walls, but in the daily rhythms of the communities that encounter them. Whether in bustling urban centres or quieter neighbourhoods, her work invites pause, recognition, and gentle curiosity. Since that conversation, Graciela’s creative life has continued to unfold on a truly international scale. I’ve recently reconnected with Graciela, and once again I’m struck by how naturally she moves between inner reflection and outward action. Her practice still begins with characters and story, but it is grounded in a deep respect for the shared space of public art and the people who live alongside it. Graciela has just completed a major new mural as part of the Doha Walls Festival in Qatar. Alongside the finished work, she developed a thoughtful public workshop, a kind of “warm-up”, designed to help people cultivate what she calls Explorer’s Eyes. Her intention was both generous and quietly radical: to offer viewers tools for seeing more deeply, even if they encounter the mural later online, far from the wall itself. For Graciela, street art has always been collective. Once a mural enters the world, it no longer belongs solely to the artist. It belongs to the people who walk past it, live with it, and carry it forward in memory. This recent project reflects that philosophy beautifully, extending the conversation beyond the wall and into shared reflection. For those discovering her for the first time, this republished podcast episode offers a gentle introduction to her way of thinking, creating, and listening. And for those who have followed her work over the years, it feels like a return, not backward, but deeper. I’m delighted to share that Graciela has promised to come back for a new conversation, where we’ll talk about this latest project, her evolving practice, and how creativity can hold wonder, compassion, and fragility all at once. So I invite you to put the kettle on. Settle in. And listen with the part of you that knows how to share silence and recognize a humble adventure when it appears. Rebecca Music by Epidemic Sound Finding Rain by Emily Rubye https://www.epidemicsound.com/music/tracks/2bb07938-482d-34c5-9103-17827c3ae792/

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Blogger. Visual Storyteller. Traveller. Exploring the creative spirit through books, art, history, travel, and the remarkable people whose stories shape our lives. Every episode is an invitation to gather around the table, share a cup of tea, and celebrate curiosity, creativity, and the joy of lifelong learning. One conversation at a time. Tea, Toast & Trivia Podcast. All Rights Reserved © 2019–2026 Rebecca Budd.