The D Shift

Mardi Winder

These ain’t your Momma's divorce conversations. On The D Shift we explore a range of different topics of interest for women of all ages going through separation and divorce. Guest experts share insight and strategies to navigate the challenges of going from married to single with confidence, clarity, and conviction. Each episode provides inspiration, education, and motivation to help women take control and re-define their life through divorce and other transitions.

  1. 5d ago

    Entrepreneurship After Divorce: Is It Right for You?

    In this episode of The D Shift, Mardi Winder interviews entrepreneur and business strategist Amber Farrell to discuss what women should consider before starting a business after divorce. From protecting yourself legally during the divorce process to developing a clear business message and building confidence as a business owner, this conversation explores practical considerations for anyone thinking about entrepreneurship. Together, they discuss why planning matters, how to identify your unique strengths, the importance of networking, overcoming limiting beliefs, and why building a successful business is often a gradual process rather than an overnight success story. They also explore how experiences from divorce can become valuable lessons that shape both personal growth and professional success. Whether you're considering a side business, consulting, or full-time entrepreneurship, this episode offers practical insights to help you evaluate your next steps thoughtfully and confidently. This episode covers: • Important considerations before starting a business during or after divorce. • Why your legal and financial planning should come first. • How to identify the unique value you bring to the marketplace. • Why clear messaging is essential for a new business. • How networking creates opportunities for growth. • Common mindset challenges that prevent women from pursuing entrepreneurship. • Why confidence grows through experience rather than perfection. Starting a business is one possible path after divorce, but it is not the only path. This conversation encourages listeners to thoughtfully explore their options and determine what aligns best with their goals, strengths, and circumstances. About the Guest: Amber Farrell knows the ups and downs of life! A third generation entrepreneur, single mom, and international best selling author - Amber has learned to turn chaos into normalcy and thrive in the midst of pain. For Amber’s gift: https://agency.yg3.ai/close/far-beyond-marketing To connect: Website: www.FarBeyonndMarketing.com Website: www.FarBeyodMarketing.ai LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/amber-farrell-55880826 About the Host Mardi Winder is a Strategic Divorce Consultant and High-Conflict Divorce Coach who helps high-achieving individuals navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and control. Drawing on more than 30 years of experience in mediation, divorce coaching and conflict resolution, she supports clients in making smart decisions while reducing emotional and financial fallout, particularly in high-conflict, high-asset and complex divorces. Mardi is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and the Strategic Divorce Directory, LLC. For Mardi’s gift: The Resilience Building Blueprint: A 28-Day Journey To A Stronger You https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/rbb Connect with Mardi on Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app. Leave an Apple Podcast Review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    Entrepreneurship After Divorce: Is It Right for You?
  2. Jul 21

    Using Technology To Start A Business After Divorce

    A life transition like divorce can also be a time to make other changes and shifts. Whether you're considering a career change, launching a business, or turning a lifelong passion into an income stream, today's technology offers opportunities that simply didn't exist a few years ago. In this episode of The D Shift, Mardi Winder sits down with business strategist Dr. Steven Kirch to explore how artificial intelligence can become a valuable thinking partner for anyone rebuilding their professional life after divorce. Rather than replacing human creativity, AI can help organize ideas, explore possibilities, challenge assumptions, and support better decision making. Together they discuss practical ways AI can help evaluate business ideas, create business plans, brainstorm marketing strategies, identify blind spots, and even prepare for conversations with potential investors. They also explain why AI should always be viewed as a tool to support your thinking rather than replace your judgment, and why reviewing and verifying information remains essential. Whether you're dreaming about a side business, returning to the workforce, or exploring an entirely new direction after divorce, this conversation will give you practical ideas for using AI to support your next chapter. In this episode you'll learn: • How AI can become a brainstorming and strategic thinking partner. • Ways to explore new business ideas before investing significant time or money. • How AI can help organize business plans and identify potential gaps. • Why asking better questions produces better AI responses. • What AI hallucinations are and why you should always verify important information. • Privacy considerations when using AI for business planning. Artificial intelligence is changing how entrepreneurs work, but success still depends on thoughtful planning, critical thinking, and informed decision making. About the Guest: Dr. Steven Kirch's path to Profit Minds began with a Ph.D. in Physics from the University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign, followed by more than 25 years in high tech, first at IBM, where he pioneered Focused Ion Beam techniques for failure analysis, before moving to Intel. His roles at Intel were many and varied, among them, running an analytical lab, serving as Chief of Staff to the VP managing Intel's most productive factory, and leading a 40-person international team. And along the way, he became a co-inventor on 10 U.S. patents across 5 technical fields, most of them earned as a manager contributing outside his own domain of expertise. After Intel, he founded Business Culture Advantage and then Profit Minds in 2020, where he has now served 50+ clients ranging from solopreneurs to mid-market firms. Now partnering with his daughter, Suzy, at Profit Minds, they have shifted the focus to help businesses transform through the power of AI. Steve's mission is to take what he learned inside two of the most demanding companies on earth and put it to work for the leaders and teams of small and mid-sized businesses. For Steve’s gift: https://aiisnothard.com/ To connect: Website: https://profitminds.net/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stevekirch/ About the Host Mardi Winder is a Strategic Divorce Consultant and High-Conflict Divorce Coach who helps high-achieving individuals navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and control. Drawing on more than 30 years of experience in mediation, divorce coaching and conflict resolution, she supports clients in making smart decisions while reducing emotional and financial fallout, particularly in high-conflict, high-asset and complex divorces. Mardi is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and the Strategic Divorce Directory, LLC. For Mardi’s gift: The Resilience Building Blueprint: A 28-Day Journey To A Stronger You https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/rbb Connect with Mardi on Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app. Leave an Apple Podcast Review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    Using Technology To Start A Business After Divorce
  3. Jul 16

    Using AI During Divorce: What Helps, What Hurts, and What You Need to Know

    Artificial intelligence is changing nearly every profession, including family law. But while AI can save time, improve communication, and generate ideas, it can also create costly mistakes when people rely on it without understanding its limitations. In this episode of The D Shift, Mardi Winder is joined by family law attorney Diana Romanov to discuss how AI is transforming the divorce process. Together, they explore both the opportunities and the risks of using AI during one of life's most important legal, financial, and life transitions. The conversation explains why AI should never replace legal advice, how inaccurate information and fabricated legal citations can lead to serious consequences, and why protecting your personal and financial information should always be a priority when using AI tools. They also discuss practical ways AI can support better communication, assist with brainstorming parenting schedules, and help legal professionals work more efficiently while still relying on human judgment. Whether you are considering handling parts of your divorce yourself or simply want to better understand how AI is changing the legal landscape, this episode provides practical guidance for making informed decisions while avoiding expensive mistakes. This episode explores: • When AI can be a helpful tool during divorce. • Why AI-generated legal advice should always be independently verified. • The dangers of entering confidential financial and personal information into AI platforms. • How AI can improve communication and reduce conflict. • Questions to ask before hiring a divorce attorney who uses AI. • Why even a brief consultation with an experienced attorney can prevent costly long-term problems. About the Guest: DIANA ROMANOV is a San Francisco family law attorney, licensed in California and Germany, and a certified Family Law Specialist. Fluent in English, Russian, and German, she provides counsel, representation, and mediation services across cultural lines. Previously a prosecutor at the Regional Superior Court of Berlin, Diana practiced with Beiten Burghard & Wegner and Linklaters Oppenhoff & Raedler. She earned the Justice and Diversity Center’s Outstanding Pro Bono Award (2012–13) and was named a Super Lawyers Rising Star for her client care and legal expertise. Diana holds a J.D. in family law from Freie University School of Law (Berlin) and an LL.M. in US Legal Studies from Golden Gate University. Born in Kiev and raised in Germany, Diana’s multicultural background enriches her empathetic approach. Drawing on her own divorce experience, she founded a boutique firm to deliver personalized, efficient solutions in custody, support, mediation, alimony, and asset division. To connect: Website: https://www.romanovlaw.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/romanovska/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FamilyLawCalifornia YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/@Diana-Romanov About the Host Mardi Winder is a Strategic Divorce Consultant and High-Conflict Divorce Coach who helps high-achieving individuals navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and control. Drawing on more than 30 years of experience in mediation, divorce coaching and conflict resolution, she supports clients in making smart decisions while reducing emotional and financial fallout, particularly in high-conflict, high-asset and complex divorces. Mardi is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and the Strategic Divorce Directory, LLC. For Mardi’s gift: The Resilience Building Blueprint: A 28-Day Journey To A Stronger You https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/rbb Connect with Mardi on Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app. Leave an Apple Podcast Review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    Using AI During Divorce: What Helps, What Hurts, and What You Need to Know
  4. Jul 14

    Reproductive Coercion: Understanding a Hidden Form of Abuse

    Reproductive coercion is a form of abuse that often goes unnoticed, yet it can have lifelong emotional, physical, financial, and legal consequences. In this episode of The D Shift, Mardi Winder welcomes advocate Lynn Stroud for an important conversation about how reproductive coercion is used as a tool of power and control within unhealthy relationships. Together they explore what reproductive coercion is, why it is so difficult to recognize, and how it differs from ordinary disagreements about family planning. The discussion examines behaviors such as birth control sabotage, pregnancy pressure, contraceptive interference, and other controlling actions that remove a person's ability to make informed decisions about their own body. Mardi and Lynn also discuss why many survivors struggle to be believed, the challenges of addressing these issues within the legal system, and the importance of increasing public awareness. They emphasize that abuse can affect anyone regardless of age, education, financial status, or background, and that supportive, judgment-free conversations can make a tremendous difference for those seeking help. This episode covers: • What reproductive coercion is and why it is considered a form of abuse. • Common warning signs that are often overlooked. • How coercive control can affect reproductive choices and personal autonomy. • Why many survivors do not immediately recognize what has happened. • The importance of believing and supporting someone who discloses abuse. • Why education, awareness, and healthy relationship conversations need to begin early. If you or someone you know has experienced coercive or abusive behavior in a relationship, know that support is available and you do not have to face it alone. About the Guest: Drawing from her extensive lived experience with reproductive coercion, domestic abuse, and sexual assault, Lynn Stroud delves into cultivating a trauma-informed mindset and increased legal remedies for victims. She stresses the significance of listening without judgment, validating survivors' experiences, and recognizing the resilience that often emerges from adversity. Stroud addresses common misconceptions about trauma and emphasizes the need for ongoing education and awareness. She hopes to serve as a beacon of understanding and compassion, offering a roadmap for survivors, advocates, law enforcement, and beyond to increase their knowledge of reproductive coercion. By sharing her story, she hopes more listeners will recognize the warning signs and dangers of coercion, embrace knowledge, and actively seek out proactive change. Her hope is that one day we can collectively build a world where survivors are not only heard but supported in their paths to healing and empowerment. To connect: IG: https://www.instagram.com/knowledge_exch_abuse_survivors LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/lynn-s-16878b6 Speaker: https://app.eventraptor.com/speaker-profiles/lynn-stroud About the Host Mardi Winder is a Strategic Divorce Consultant and High-Conflict Divorce Coach who helps high-achieving individuals navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and control. Drawing on more than 30 years of experience in mediation, divorce coaching and conflict resolution, she supports clients in making smart decisions while reducing emotional and financial fallout, particularly in high-conflict, high-asset and complex divorces. Mardi is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and the Strategic Divorce Directory, LLC. For Mardi’s gift: The Resilience Building Blueprint: A 28-Day Journey To A Stronger You https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/rbb Connect with Mardi on Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app. Leave an Apple Podcast Review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    Reproductive Coercion: Understanding a Hidden Form of Abuse
  5. Jul 9

    Should You Do Your Own Divorce? What You Need to Know First

    For many people facing divorce, the idea of handling the process without an attorney can be appealing. It may seem like a way to save money, reduce stress, and maintain greater control. But is a do-it-yourself divorce really the right choice? In this episode of The D Shift, host Mardi Winder is joined by former family law attorney and family court strategist Tracey Bee to explore the realities of self-represented divorce. Drawing on years of experience inside the family court system, Tracey explains when representing yourself may be a practical option, when additional guidance is essential, and when hiring an attorney is simply the safest path forward. The conversation also examines common misconceptions about family court, the importance of understanding how judges approach cases, and why making informed decisions can have a lasting impact on both the divorce process and life afterward. Whether listeners are considering a DIY divorce, preparing for mediation, or simply trying to better understand their legal options, this episode provides valuable insights to help them make more confident decisions. In this episode, listeners will discover: • When a self-represented divorce may be an appropriate option • The warning signs that indicate professional legal support is needed • Common mistakes people make when navigating family court • Why understanding the likely legal outcome can improve negotiation and mediation • How informed decision-making can reduce unnecessary conflict, cost, and stress This practical conversation reminds listeners that every divorce is different, and choosing the right strategy begins with understanding both the opportunities and the risks before moving forward. About the Guest: Tracey Bee is the Founder of The Divorce Solutionist and a former family law attorney turned Pro Se Family Court Strategist. She focuses on helping people successfully navigate the complex Family Court system using strategy and not just the law. For Tracey’s Wednesday 10-4pm ET calls: 862-800-7850 To connect: Website: https://thedivorcesolutionist.com/ About the Host Mardi Winder is a Strategic Divorce Consultant and High-Conflict Divorce Coach who helps high-achieving individuals navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and control. Drawing on more than 30 years of experience in mediation, divorce coaching and conflict resolution, she supports clients in making smart decisions while reducing emotional and financial fallout, particularly in high-conflict, high-asset and complex divorces. Mardi is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and the Strategic Divorce Directory, LLC. For Mardi’s gift: The Resilience Building Blueprint: A 28-Day Journey To A Stronger You https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/rbb Connect with Mardi on Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app. Leave an Apple Podcast Review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    Should You Do Your Own Divorce? What You Need to Know First
  6. Jul 7

    Why Your Future Begins With the Way You Think

    Divorce can leave people feeling like their future has already been decided, but what if the next chapter begins with a different way of thinking? In this episode of The D Shift, host Mardi Winder welcomes transformational coach Therese Vita for a conversation about the powerful connection between mindset, limiting beliefs, and creating meaningful change. Together, they explore how subconscious thought patterns influence decisions, emotions, and outcomes, and why developing a clear vision for the future is an essential part of rebuilding after divorce. Listeners will discover why so many people become trapped by their circumstances, how to recognize the beliefs that may be holding them back, and why lasting transformation requires both intention and action. The conversation also highlights the importance of shifting from simply reacting to life toward intentionally designing a future built on possibility rather than fear. Whether navigating divorce, recovering from a significant life transition, or looking to create positive change, this episode offers practical insights to help listeners move forward with greater confidence and clarity. In this episode, listeners will discover: • How thoughts influence emotions, actions, and long-term results • Why limiting beliefs often keep people stuck after divorce • The difference between living by default and living by design • Why vision without action is simply wishful thinking • Practical ways to begin creating a more fulfilling future This inspiring conversation reminds listeners that while they cannot always control life's circumstances, they can choose the mindset and actions that shape what comes next. About the Guest: Therese Vita is a transformational Executive, Leadership, and Life Success Coach with over 30 years of experience empowering high achievers to elevate their lives, their businesses and their impact. A former attorney, sales professional and private wealth advisor, she guides her clients to thrive through change, streamline their lives, make better decisions and create more time and balance so they can live with more ease, joy and fulfillment. For Therese’s Mindset Self-Assessment Workbook: liveandleadboldly.com To connect: Website: https://www.theresevitacoaching.com/ About the Host Mardi Winder is a Strategic Divorce Consultant and High-Conflict Divorce Coach who helps high-achieving individuals navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and control. Drawing on more than 30 years of experience in mediation, divorce coaching and conflict resolution, she supports clients in making smart decisions while reducing emotional and financial fallout, particularly in high-conflict, high-asset and complex divorces. Mardi is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and the Strategic Divorce Directory, LLC. For Mardi’s gift: The Resilience Building Blueprint: A 28-Day Journey To A Stronger You https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/rbb Connect with Mardi on Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app. Leave an Apple Podcast Review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    Why Your Future Begins With the Way You Think
  7. Jul 2

    Is Emotional Burnout Draining Your Energy?

    Burnout is about far more than working long hours. Emotional stress, unresolved feelings, difficult relationships, and constantly putting everyone else's needs ahead of your own can slowly drain your energy until simply getting through the day feels exhausting. Today, Mardi Winder welcomes vitality and high-performance expert, Dr. Lan Lu, for an insightful conversation about emotional burnout, energy management, and practical ways to restore your well-being. Sharing her own experience of working in a demanding corporate career while struggling with chronic health issues, Dr. Lan shares how burnout became a turning point that inspired her to completely rethink health, vitality, and personal resilience. Together, she and Mardi discuss why divorce, career pressures, caregiving responsibilities, and unresolved emotions can all contribute to feeling emotionally depleted. The conversation explores the importance of processing emotions rather than suppressing them, setting healthy boundaries, recognizing unhealthy relationship dynamics, and making self-care a priority instead of an afterthought. They also discuss how reframing divorce as a new beginning, rather than a personal failure, can help people move forward with greater confidence and purpose. Whether you are navigating divorce, recovering from burnout, or simply feeling overwhelmed by life's demands, this episode offers practical insights to help you protect your energy, strengthen your resilience, and begin creating a healthier, more balanced life. In this episode: • What emotional burnout really looks like • Why unresolved emotions can drain your energy • How emotional healing supports physical well-being • Recognizing unhealthy relationships and "energy vampires" • Practical ways to restore energy through movement, self care, and intentional choices • Building healthier habits that promote long-term vitality • Creating a life with more balance, purpose, and resilience About the Guest: Dr. Lan Lu is a vitality and high-performance expert who helps business leaders, elite athletes, high-performing professionals, and health-conscious individuals overcome burnout and energy depletion so they can sustain peak performance and enjoy life. Through consulting, workshops, retreats, and assessments, she uncovers root causes, creates strategic action plans, and delivers embodied solutions that drive 10x faster results than traditional approaches. For Dr. Lan’s gift of a meditation recording: https://myenergycrisis.com To connect: Website: https://www.vitality-alchemy.com/ LinkedIn; https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-lan-lu-281356401/ About the Host Mardi Winder is a Strategic Divorce Consultant and High-Conflict Divorce Coach who helps high-achieving individuals navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and control. Drawing on more than 30 years of experience in mediation, divorce coaching and conflict resolution, she supports clients in making smart decisions while reducing emotional and financial fallout, particularly in high-conflict, high-asset and complex divorces. Mardi is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and the Strategic Divorce Directory, LLC. For Mardi’s gift: The Resilience Building Blueprint: A 28-Day Journey To A Stronger You https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/rbb Connect with Mardi on Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app. Leave an Apple Podcast Review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    Is Emotional Burnout Draining Your Energy?
  8. Jun 30

    From Survivor to Victor: Reclaiming Your Identity After Abuse

    Leaving an abusive relationship is rarely as simple as walking away. Fear, shame, financial concerns, family expectations, and emotional manipulation often make the decision incredibly difficult. In this episode of The D Shift, Mardi Winder is joined by women's empowerment coach and podcast host Angeline Constantinou to discuss the realities of domestic abuse, emotional healing, and rebuilding life after trauma. Angeline shares how she survived years of abuse, found the courage to leave, and ultimately transformed her pain into a mission to help other women reclaim their confidence and identity. Together, Mardi and Angeline explore the many forms abuse can take, including emotional, financial, psychological, and coercive control, while emphasizing that every person's journey is unique. The conversation also highlights practical steps that can support healing, including developing a safety plan, seeking trusted support, challenging limiting beliefs, practicing self-care, and recognizing that recovery is a process rather than a single decision. They discuss why leaving an abusive relationship is often the most dangerous time, why financial abuse is so common, and why survivors should avoid sharing details publicly while legal proceedings are still underway. Whether you are personally facing an abusive relationship, supporting someone who is, or simply want to better understand the challenges survivors experience, this episode offers encouragement, practical insights, and hope that life after abuse is possible. Mardi and Angeline highlight: • Understanding the many forms of abuse beyond physical violence • The emotional impact of shame, guilt, and manipulation • Financial abuse and unexpected financial challenges after divorce • The importance of creating a safety and exit plan • Rebuilding confidence and identity after trauma • Why sharing your story can become part of the healing process • Finding support through trusted professionals and community resources About the Guest: Angeline Constantinou knows the pain of feeling trapped and unheard. After breaking free from an abusive relationship, she made it her mission to help other women do the same. As a Women’s Empowerment Partner and founder of Let’s Break the Silence, she created a space for survivors to heal, rebuild confidence, and reclaim their future. She’s not just a coach or a speaker; she’s been there. And now, she’s here to remind women that they are stronger than their past, worthy of joy, and capable of creating a future on their own terms. To connect: Website: https://letsbreakthesilence.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/angeline.constantinou/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/angeline_constantinou/ About the Host Mardi Winder is a Strategic Divorce Consultant and High-Conflict Divorce Coach who helps high-achieving individuals navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and control. Drawing on more than 30 years of experience in mediation, divorce coaching and conflict resolution, she supports clients in making smart decisions while reducing emotional and financial fallout, particularly in high-conflict, high-asset and complex divorces. Mardi is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and the Strategic Divorce Directory, LLC. For Mardi’s gift: The Resilience Building Blueprint: A 28-Day Journey To A Stronger You https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/rbb Connect with Mardi on Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app. Leave an Apple Podcast Review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    From Survivor to Victor: Reclaiming Your Identity After Abuse
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These ain’t your Momma's divorce conversations. On The D Shift we explore a range of different topics of interest for women of all ages going through separation and divorce. Guest experts share insight and strategies to navigate the challenges of going from married to single with confidence, clarity, and conviction. Each episode provides inspiration, education, and motivation to help women take control and re-define their life through divorce and other transitions.

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