The NeuroSpicy MomPod

The NeuroSpicy MomPod

Welcome to your newest obsession, the NeuroSpicy Mompod! Here you’ll find a safe space to talk about the real side of parenting neurodivergents kids- without judgement. I talk about the struggles we face parenting neurodivergent kids, while being neurospicy ourselves. Let's find a way to giggle through the chaos so we don't drown in tears. So kick off your shoes - find yourself a cozy corner that’s sensory friendly and let’s get into it!

  1. 6D AGO

    Are We Educating… or Conditioning? The Truth About Modern Schooling with Olivia Couch

    Before we dive in, a quick note 💛 The audio and video are slightly out of sync in parts of this episode. Thank you for your patience and understanding as you listen through! Also, I want to acknowledge and apologize for something I caught after recording: I accidentally used the terms “authoritarian” and “authoritative” interchangeably at times.To clarify, I was always referring to authoritarianism when discussing the education system. In this episode of The NeuroSpicy MomPod, I sit down with returning guest Olivia Couch, creator of Punk Philosophers, to explore a question that might feel a little uncomfortable… but really important: 👉 Are we educating our kids… or conditioning them? We dive into: how authoritarian structures show up in modern education the impact this has on children’s nervous systems and emotional development why neurodivergent kids are often the first to feel the cracks how compliance is rewarded over curiosity and critical thinking and what becomes possible when we center love, autonomy, and human development instead This conversation challenges a lot of what we’ve been taught to accept as “normal” in school systems and invites us to imagine something different. 📄 Article referenced in this episode:https://escholarship.org/content/qt3079p1k6/qt3079p1k6.pdf 🌱 Connect with Olivia Couch (Punk Philosophers): Instagram: @lapazoliviaWebsite: https://punkphilosophers.com Olivia creates alternative learning environments rooted in play, creativity, and human development, and offers both children’s programs and adult classes. 💖 If this episode resonated, share it with someone who’s questioning the system too. 💖 Follow, rate, and review the podcast to support the mission and help grow this community.

    50 min

  2. MAR 17

    🎧 Learned Helplessness: How Systems Teach Us to Stop Trying (Audio Version)

    In this episode of The NeuroSpicy MomPod, we explore learned helplessness, a psychological pattern that develops when someone is repeatedly placed in situations where their actions don’t seem to matter. Over time, the brain adapts by assuming that effort is pointless and that belief can begin to shape everything from motivation to emotional response. This conversation breaks down the research behind learned helplessness and expands into how it shows up in trauma, neurodivergence, and everyday life. It also explores a larger question, what happens when this pattern isn’t just individual, but collective? More importantly, it offers a starting point for something different...the idea that agency can be rebuilt, slowly, through small moments that remind us our actions still hold weight. ✨ Journal Prompt:Where in my life do I still have even a small amount of choice? 💖 If this resonated, share it with someone who might need it, and follow along for more conversations on neurodivergence, healing, and understanding the nervous system.

    20 min

  3. MAR 10

    Building Something Steadier Than Survival✨

    Welcome to Season 4 of The NeuroSpicy MomPod. 💖 This podcast is a space where we explore neurodivergence, nervous system regulation, trauma, healing, and rebuilding life with more awareness and compassion. In this opening episode, I share the deeper story behind why this podcast exists... from my years as a teacher studying psychology and nervous system regulation, to navigating CPTSD, leaving an abusive relationship, and rebuilding life as a single mom. Season 4 is about going deeper into the conversations that help us understand ourselves, our nervous systems, and the systems that shape our lives. This first episode is being released as a full video episode for free across all platforms.After this, full video episodes will live behind the NeuroSpicy Patreon paywall, where we’re building a deeper community space for conversation, journal prompts, and support. If this mission resonates with you, I’d love for you to help grow this space. You can join for free, or support the podcast for as little as $1/month. 🌿 Join the NeuroSpicy community: https://patreon.com/TheNeuroSpicyMomPod?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink

    20 min

  4. FEB 6

    🎙️ Season 3 Finale — Healing For the World

    This episode closes out Season 3 of The NeuroSpicy MomPod! There’s no recap and no personal update here. Instead, this conversation centers on staying grounded, trusting the process, and tending to our nervous systems when everything feels loud and uncertain. This episode isn’t about forcing optimism or pretending things are okay. It’s about presence, regulation, and remembering what we can hold and shape, even in chaotic moments. If this podcast has been supportive for you, subscribing on Patreon is the best way to help sustain this work. And as always, sharing the episode helps it reach the people who need it most. Thank you for being here - Tata!

    19 min

  5. JAN 30

    Holding Both: Neurodivergent Joy, Grief, and Staying Human

    I don’t have a perfect script for this moment in history — but I do know what my body feels. In this episode of The NeuroSpicy MomPod, we talk about neurodivergent joy — not as denial, not as “look on the bright side,” but as nervous system regulation and psychological survival. We explore why justice-sensitive, neurodivergent people feel injustice so deeply, how chronic activation impacts the nervous system, and why moments of joy, beauty, and sensory grounding are not indulgent — they’re necessary. This is an episode for anyone who feels overwhelmed, activated, heartbroken, or stretched thin by awareness — and who needs permission to let joy count. If this episode resonated with you, the most meaningful way to support this work is by subscribing on Patreon, where I can continue creating without ads or censorship. And if Patreon isn’t accessible right now, following, rating, commenting, or sharing this episode truly helps more than you know. 💖

    18 min

  6. JAN 22

    A NeuroSpicy Interview with David Schmidt Jimenez; Supporting Neurodivergent Kids With Dignity

    In this episode of The NeuroSpicy MomPod, I sit down with David Schmidt Jimenez — a late-diagnosed autistic, Cuban American educator based in Baltimore — for a conversation that hits deep if you’ve ever felt like you were expected to comply instead of being understood. Together, we unpack what it actually looks like to support neurodivergent and multilingual learners inside systems that weren’t built for them - through autonomy, dignity, nervous-system awareness, and engagement that isn’t rooted in control. We talk about: the difference between depression and autistic burnout (and why burnout can feel confusing as hell) why “defiance” is often a drive for autonomy the “double empathy” problem (and how miscommunication becomes conflict in classrooms) why so many power struggles are preventable with clarity + respectful language how rigid school structures (time pressure, transitions, verbal directions) dysregulate kids self-determination theory in real classrooms: autonomy, belonging, and competence the social contract and why teachers have to use it on themselves first daily nervous system check-ins, co-regulation, and building community in a way that actually works  Bonus: This episode is also available as a free video episode — and if you like this format, subscribe so you don’t miss future video drops. Website: selfdeterminedbaltimore.orgSocial: @bmoreautisticed (TikTok / Instagram / YouTube)LinkedIn: David Schmidt (link available via his website)  If this episode helped you feel seen, please follow/subscribe, leave a review, and share it with an educator or parent who needs this conversation. And if you want to support this neurodivergent single mama + keep the podcast growing, come join us on Patreon for more. Tata!

    59 min

  7. JAN 16

    Why Does Being Aware Make Everything Harder?

    Why does healing feel harder after you finally have words for what you’ve been living through? In this episode of The NeuroSpicy MomPod, I explore why awareness can feel destabilizing at first — especially for neurodivergent adults, trauma survivors, parents, and late-diagnosed women who spent years surviving through masking, fawning, and dissociation. From a nervous system and neuroscience lens, awareness doesn’t make life harder — it removes numbness. And when dissociation was doing the heavy lifting, feeling again can feel overwhelming. In this episode, we talk about: Awareness vs. dissociation The fawn response as a survival strategy (not people-pleasing) Autistic burnout and delayed nervous system collapse Why neurodivergent women often “seem fine” until adulthood How shared language reduces shame and supports regulation If you’ve ever felt more sensitive, more tired, or more impacted since learning about your neurodivergence — you’re not broken. You’re listening. ✨ Stay until the end for a gentle journal prompt designed to support nervous system integration. 🎙️ Hosted by Austen Marie, a neurodivergent mama, former teacher, and psychology-loving nervous system nerd creating a cozy, sensory-safe corner of the internet.

    14 min

  8. JAN 8

    🎙️Neurodivergence Without the Safety Net: When Survival Becomes the Only Option

    What does neurodivergent support look like when you don’t have a safety net? In this episode of The NeuroSpicy MomPod, I talk openly about the gap between neurodivergent support in theory and neurodivergent survival in real life — especially for those without excess money, flexible systems, healthcare access, or generational support. I share my lived experience as a neurodivergent single mom living paycheck to paycheck, including why I left my teaching career despite student loan debt and health insurance, and how choosing nervous system safety often comes with real material costs. We explore burnout, class, access to diagnosis and services, and why so much neurodivergent advice can quietly assume resources many people simply don’t have. This episode also weaves in research around socioeconomic status, diagnosis, and access to support — and challenges the idea that healing should be something only available to those with money, time, or privilege. If you’ve ever felt unseen in neurodivergent spaces, overwhelmed by advice that doesn’t fit your reality, or exhausted from surviving in systems that weren’t built for your brain — this episode is for you. ✨ Topics include: • Neurodivergence and socioeconomic access • Burnout and nervous system survival • Leaving harmful careers to protect mental health • Diagnosis barriers for kids and adults • Why “advice without access becomes pressure”• Community as regulation If this episode resonated, sharing it, leaving a review, or supporting the podcast helps keep this space alive. And whether you’re listening while working, resting, or just trying to get through the day — I’m really glad you’re here. Be gentle with your nervous system today. 💖

    15 min
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Welcome to your newest obsession, the NeuroSpicy Mompod! Here you’ll find a safe space to talk about the real side of parenting neurodivergents kids- without judgement. I talk about the struggles we face parenting neurodivergent kids, while being neurospicy ourselves. Let's find a way to giggle through the chaos so we don't drown in tears. So kick off your shoes - find yourself a cozy corner that’s sensory friendly and let’s get into it!

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  • Creator
    The NeuroSpicy MomPod
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    67
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    Clean
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