The Powerful Man Show

Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.

  1. 19 HRS AGO

    The Path to True Happiness: Embracing Personal Growth [Revisit]

    Episode 1136 In this revisit episode, Tim sits down with Mark and Derek fresh off the Alpha Rising experience to talk about something a lot of men struggle with but rarely admit: trying to carry the responsibility for everyone else's happiness. As husbands, fathers, business owners, and leaders, many men fall into the trap of thinking it's their job to keep everyone happy all the time. But over time, that pressure becomes exhausting. It creates stress, people pleasing, resentment, and a slow disconnect from yourself. This conversation dives into what happens when men stop trying to fix everyone around them and start taking ownership of their own growth instead. Tim, Mark, and Derek unpack the deeper layers of personal development, emotional responsibility, leadership, and the difference between helping people versus rescuing them. They also talk about why growth isn't a one-time breakthrough, but an ongoing process of peeling back layers, building awareness, and learning how to show up differently in everyday life. If you've been carrying the weight of everyone else's emotions, constantly trying to keep the peace, or losing yourself in the process of taking care of everyone around you, this episode will hit home. Get the free training here: https://thepowerfulman.com/scales

    24 min

  2. 2D AGO

    The Power of Gratitude: Transforming Your Life and Relationships [Revisit]

    Episode 1135 In this revisit episode, Doug sits down with Andrew to talk about one of the simplest but most overlooked tools for changing your mindset, relationships, and overall quality of life: gratitude. Most men spend their days focused on pressure, problems, stress, and what's missing. Over time, that mindset creates frustration, resentment, disconnection, and emotional burnout. But shifting into gratitude changes the way you see your marriage, your family, your business, and yourself. Doug and Andrew share personal stories about how practicing gratitude helped them break old patterns, improve communication, reconnect emotionally, and show up differently in their relationships. They also talk about why appreciation matters so much to both men and women, and how small daily shifts can completely change the energy in your home. This conversation is practical, honest, and packed with simple ways to start changing your state immediately without overcomplicating it. If you've been feeling stressed, reactive, disconnected, or stuck in negative thinking, this episode will give you a simple place to start. Get the free training here: https://thepowerfulman.com/scales

    26 min

  3. 4D AGO

    Unbreakable: Finding Strength and Identity Through Transformation [Revisit]

    Episode 1134 What happens when your marriage falls apart and you realize somewhere along the way, you lost yourself too? In this revisit episode, Doug sits down with Andrew to talk about the journey from feeling broken, reactive, and disconnected to becoming grounded, emotionally aware, and confident in who he is as a man. Andrew shares what it looked like to hit a breaking point in his marriage, why trying to "fix" the relationship wasn't enough, and how doing the work on himself changed everything. From learning how to handle triggers differently to understanding emotional safety, appreciation, and ownership, this conversation gets real about the patterns so many men fall into without even realizing it. Doug and Andrew also talk about what happens when men stop living for everyone else and start reconnecting with themselves. The result isn't just better relationships. It's becoming a stronger father, leader, partner, and man overall. If you've ever felt stuck in resentment, disconnected from your partner, or unsure of who you've become, this episode will give you a different perspective on what real growth actually looks like. Get the free training here: https://thepowerfulman.com/scales

    43 min

  4. MAY 9

    Unlocking Limitless Potential: Personal Growth and Transformation [Revisit]

    Episode 1133 We're revisiting this one because a lot of guys are still asking the wrong question: "When does this get easier?" or "When do I finally arrive?" The truth is—you don't. Growth doesn't have a finish line. And if you're waiting to feel "done," you're going to end up stuck, or worse, settling for average without realizing it. In this episode, we get into what actually happens when you commit to the long game of personal growth. Not just fixing one problem, but continuing to level up across your life your relationships, your health, your business, and how you show up as a man. We talk about why most guys plateau, how to break out of that, and what opens up when you keep pushing past the edge of what you think is possible. Because the reality is, every time you grow, you unlock a new level you didn't even know existed. If you've been focused on "fixing" one area of your life and then coasting, this is a good one to revisit and reset how you think about growth altogether. If you're ready to stop settling and actually start building something better in your relationship, go get the free training here: https://thepowerfulman.com/scales It'll show you where things are off, and what to do to start turning it around.

    42 min

  5. MAY 7

    Mastering Your Inner Power: Handling Stress, Anxiety, and Overwhelm [Revisit]

    Episode 1132 We're bringing this one back because stress, anxiety, and overwhelm don't just go away you get better at handling them. Every guy deals with it. The pressure from work, family, expectations it stacks up. And if you're not careful, you carry that energy straight into your home, your relationship, and how you show up day to day. In this episode, we break down what's actually going on when you feel overwhelmed and more importantly, how to take back control. This isn't about eliminating stress. It's about learning how to respond to it. How to create space instead of reacting. How to shift your state so you're not bringing that chaos into the moments that matter most. We get into simple, practical ways to reset things you can use immediately to get grounded, think clearly, and lead better at home and at work. If you've been feeling stretched thin, constantly "on," or like your mind won't slow down, this is a solid one to revisit and actually apply. If you're ready to stop letting stress run the show and start showing up better in your relationship, go get the free training here: https://thepowerfulman.com/scales It'll walk you through what's really going on, and how to start fixing it.

    35 min

  6. MAY 5

    Navigating Life's Storms: Becoming the Lighthouse [Revisit]

    Episode #1131 We're revisiting this one because most men don't realize how much they've drifted. It doesn't happen overnight. It's a slow slide avoiding hard conversations, letting things go, trying to keep the peace. Before you know it, you're reacting to everything instead of leading anything. In this episode, we break down the difference between living like a tugboat and leading like a lighthouse. A tugboat is always chasing, pulling, convincing, and adjusting. It's exhausting. And if you're honest, it's probably showing up in your relationship, your business, and how you handle pressure. A lighthouse is different. It doesn't chase. It doesn't force. It stands firm, clear on what it is and what it stands for and people either move toward it or they don't. We talk about how men fall into the tugboat trap, why it kills respect over time, and what it actually looks like to shift into steady, grounded leadership especially when life gets hard. Because the truth is, you don't prove yourself when things are easy. You prove it in the storm. If you've been feeling pulled in every direction, second-guessing yourself, or stuck trying to manage everyone else's reactions, this will hit home. If you're ready to stop reacting and start leading again, go get the free training here: https://thepowerfulman.com/scales It'll show you exactly where things are off in your relationship, and how to start fixing them.

    27 min

  7. MAY 2

    Living on the Edge: A Guide to Personal Transformation [Revisit]

    Episode 1130  We're bringing this one back because the message is simple and most guys still aren't doing it. At some point, it's easy to drift into playing it safe. You're handling responsibilities, showing up where you need to… but something feels off. Less energy, less connection, less drive. Life starts to feel a bit flat. This episode is a reminder of what actually changes that: living on your edge. We break down what that really looks like across the key areas of your life physically, sexually, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually and why avoiding discomfort is usually the exact thing keeping you stuck. If you've heard this before, listen again with a different lens. Where have you slipped back into comfort? Where are you holding back? Because this isn't about doing more for the sake of it. It's about raising your standard and getting honest about where you've been playing small. When you start leaning into your edge again, things shift. Your energy comes back. You feel clearer. You show up differently in your relationship. And life starts to feel like it's moving forward instead of standing still. If you're ready to stop drifting and actually fix what's not working, go get the free training here: https://thepowerfulman.com/scales It'll walk you through where things are breaking down and what to do next.

    27 min

  8. APR 30

    Finding Fulfillment: Beyond the Pursuit of Happiness [Revisit]

    Episode #1129 If you've ever caught yourself thinking, "Once this happens… then I'll be good," this episode is going to hit close to home. In this revisit, we break down a pattern a lot of driven men fall into. You set a goal, you chase it, you hit it… and almost immediately, your mind moves the goalpost. Now it's onto the next thing. And the next. And the next. On the surface, it looks like ambition. But underneath, it's a trap. We get into why constantly focusing on what's missing keeps you stuck in that cycle, and why no achievement no matter how big—actually fixes it. Not because the goals are wrong, but because of where you're chasing them from. This conversation also clears up a big misconception. A lot of guys think if they slow down and actually let themselves feel happy or fulfilled, they'll lose their edge. That they'll get soft or complacent. That's not what happens. What actually shifts is where your drive comes from. Instead of being pushed by pressure, stress, and the need to prove something, you start operating from a different place. You're still driven, but it's cleaner, more focused, and a lot less exhausting. We also talk about something simple that most guys overlook taking stock of what's already working. Not in a fluffy way, but in a way that actually changes how you show up day to day. Because if you can't recognize what's going right, you'll always feel like you're behind. If you've been stuck chasing the next win, thinking that's what's going to make everything click, this will give you a different way to look at it. If you're tired of spinning your wheels and want a clearer way to start fixing what's not working in your relationship, go check out the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales It walks you through what's really going on and gives you a simple, practical way to start turning things around.

    29 min
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The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.

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  • Creator
    Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    999
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Show Website
    The Powerful Man Show

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