The Relationship Review with Delsie Martin

Delsie Martin

This podcast is for all types of relationships, 2SLGBTQI+, married or not, old or young, long term or short term and monogamous and non- monogamous. Each episode focuses on practical ways to strengthen your intimate relationship and how to address concerns which could arise. Welcome to my brave space! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 2023-06-14

    Sexy Saturday: Anatomy and Erogenous Zones

    Many of us don’t receive proper education about our bodies and we certainly don’t receive education in how to give and receive pleasure. We are left to fumble around in the dark figuring it out or modelling what we see in pornography and major media. Neither of these options are great and can leave people feeling uncomfortable, out of place and sometimes traumatized in the bedroom. This can lead to low self esteem and problematic romantic relationships that affect all areas of our mental well being. I want to give you the sex ed class that we all hoped for in a way that is safe, respectful, professional, and honest.  REFERENCES Maister, L., Fotopoulou, A., Turnbull, O., & Tsakiris, M. (2020). The erogenous mirror: Intersubjective and multisensory maps of sexual arousal in men and women. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 49(8), 2919–2933. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-020-01756-1 Nummenmaa, L., Suvilehto, J. T., Glerean, E., Santtila, P., & Hietanen, J. K. (2016). Topography of human erogenous zones. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 45(5), 1207–1216. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-016-0745-z Parenthood, P. (n.d.). Sexual and reproductive anatomy. Planned Parenthood. https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/sexual-and-reproductive-anatomy/ Winks, C., Semans, A., & Winks, C. (2002). The good vibrations guide to sex: The most complete sex manual ever written. Cleis Press. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    31 min
  2. 2023-04-04

    Endings

    Our season two finale is "Endings" an episode dedicated to breakup, separation and divorce. With beginnings come endings so it's important to understand the pre, during and post breakup processes to help you answer the question of, "Who am I without my partner?". Music by Anaski from Pixabay REFERENCES    Beaujouan. (2016). Second Unions Now More Stable than First? A Comparison of Separation Risks by Union Order in France. European Journal of Population, 32(2), 293–321. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10680-016-9376-2  Hatch, Le, Y., & Doss, B. D. (2021). Make up or Break up? Charting the Well-Being of Low-Income Help-Seeking Couples Through the Breakup Process. Journal of Family Psychology, 35(8), 1107–1116. https://doi.org/10.1037/fam0000859 Maertz, K. (n.d). Surviving a relationship breakup top 20 strategies. McGill University. Retrieved from https://www.mcgill.ca/counselling/files/counselling/surviving_a_break-up_-_20_strategies_0.pdf Mark Manson. (2023, February 8). How to break up gracefully. Mark Manson. Retrieved March 29, 2023, from https://markmanson.net/how-to-break-up-with-someone  Sbarra, & Borelli, J. L. (2019). Attachment reorganization following divorce: normative processes and individual differences. Current Opinion in Psychology, 25, 71–75. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.copsyc.2018.03.008  Sbarra, Hasselmo, K., & Bourassa, K. J. (2015). Divorce and Health: Beyond Individual Differences. Current Directions in Psychological Science : a Journal of the American Psychological Society, 24(2), 109–113. https://doi.org/10.1177/0963721414559125 Sussex Publishers. (n.d.). Fourteen ways to break up better. Psychology Today. Retrieved March 29, 2023, from https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/i-hear-you/201805/fourteen-ways-break-better  Symoens, Bastaits, K., Mortelmans, D., & Bracke, P. (2013). Breaking Up, Breaking Hearts? Characteristics of the Divorce Process and Well-Being After Divorce. Journal of Divorce & Remarriage, 54(3), 177–196. https://doi.org/10.1080/10502556.2013.773792 Tavares, & Aassve, A. (2013). Psychological distress of marital and cohabitation breakups. Social Science Research, 42(6), 1599–1611. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ssresearch.2013.07.008 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    37 min
  3. 2023-03-18

    Sexy Saturday Masturbation Celebration

    On this Sexy Saturday we look at all things masturbation! It's incredible mental and physical health benefits. Join me to learn more. Music by amaksi from Pixabay PINK CHERRY Online Adult Store www.pinkcherry.com   REFERENCES Broster, A. (2022, October 12). What are the health benefits of female masturbation? Forbes. Retrieved March 11, 2023, from https://www.forbes.com/sites/alicebroster/2020/06/22/what-are-the-health-benefits-of-female-masturbation/?sh=792bbb1d4e6b  Bowman. (2014). Women’s Masturbation: Experiences of Sexual Empowerment in a Primarily Sex-Positive Sample. Psychology of Women Quarterly, 38(3), 363–378. https://doi.org/10.1177/0361684313514855 Brody. (2010). The Relative Health Benefits of Different Sexual Activities. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 7(4pt1), 1336–1361. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2009.01677.x Ejaculation frequency and prostate cancer. Harvard Health. (2022, January 19). Retrieved March 11, 2023, from https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/ejaculation_frequency_and_prostate_cancer  Herbenick, Fu, T., Wasata, R., & Coleman, E. (2022). Masturbation Prevalence, Frequency, Reasons, and Associations with Partnered Sex in the Midst of the COVID-19 Pandemic: Findings from a US Nationally Representative Survey. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 1–15. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-022-02505-2 Parenthood, P. (n.d.). Masturbation: Facts about male & female masturbation. Planned Parenthood. Retrieved March 11, 2023, from https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/sex-pleasure-and-sexual-dysfunction/masturbation Reyes, M., & Matthews, M. (2021, November 2). 10 health benefits that'll make you love masturbation even more. Men's Health. Retrieved March 11, 2023, from https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a19534050/5-reasons-you-should-masturbate-tonight/  Regnerus, Price, J., & Gordon, D. (2017). Masturbation and Partnered Sex: Substitutes or Complements? Archives of Sexual Behavior, 46(7), 2111–2121. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-017-0975-8  Rodway, Thoma, V., & Schepman, A. (2022). The effects of sex and handedness on masturbation laterality and other lateralized motor behaviours. Laterality (Hove), 27(3), 324–352. https://doi.org/10.1080/1357650X.2021.2006211 Winks, C., Semans, A., & Winks, C. (2002). Masturbation. In The good vibrations guide to sex: The most complete sex manual ever written. essay, Cleis Press.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    31 min

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This podcast is for all types of relationships, 2SLGBTQI+, married or not, old or young, long term or short term and monogamous and non- monogamous. Each episode focuses on practical ways to strengthen your intimate relationship and how to address concerns which could arise. Welcome to my brave space! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.