The Secure Family Podcast

Andy Murphy
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Hosted by Andy Murphy, The Secure Family Podcast is your trusted source for practical tips to keep your family safe at home, online, and in public. With a focus on empowering parents, each episode delivers simple, actionable strategies to help you protect what matters most. From securing your house to navigating digital safety and staying aware in everyday situations, this podcast makes family safety second nature. The information shared on The Secure Family Podcast is for general information only. The Secure Family Podcast is a production of The Secure Dad LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark.

  1. 6d ago

    Exposed: What Happens After Your Data Gets Breached

    Protect Yourself from the Next Data Breach   In this episode of The Secure Family Podcast, Andy explains why data breaches are a serious, ongoing reality. These are not to be ignored as they can lead to all sorts of issues including identity theft for you, your children and your aging parents. Be ready for the next natural disaster. Download The Secure Dad Family Disaster Preparedness Guide for free. Get your copy here. Protect your business and your peace of mind. Go to JoinDeleteMe.com/dad-biz. When you use that link, you'll also get a free year of social media protection for every seat you purchase. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to Secure Family 03:09 Why Breaches Feel Personal 04:01 What a Data Breach Is 05:55 Why Stolen Data Matters 08:43 Breach Mindset Control 10:46 Healthcare Breach Dangers 14:58 First Steps After Breach 17:28 Passwords and MFA 18:42 Protect Your Phone Number 19:16 Freeze Your Credit 21:06 Monitor and Document Fraud 23:14 Talk With Your Family 24:34 Wrap Up and Final Thoughts   The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.   The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided.   The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.

    26 min

  2. May 27

    The Myth of the "Safe Place" with David Lashley

    Eyes Wide Open: Staying Safe in "Safe" Places with David Lashley   Andy Murphy hosts the Secure Family Podcast and interviews David Lashley, a courthouse law enforcement professional and Director of Courthouse Security with 25+ years protecting judges, juries, and victims.    David explains how "safe places" like courthouses, restaurants, churches, and schools can become dangerous when people grow comfortable and complacent, especially in familiar environments or when distracted by phones.   Read David Lashley's book: https://amzn.to/3R2V4h9  Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.  Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to Secure Family 02:13 Meet David Lashley 03:21 Courthouse Safety Reality 07:01 Handling a Hallway Incident 11:36 Complacency and Comfort 13:38 Spotting Red Flags 16:00 Building an Exit Plan 20:44 Aware Not Paranoid 23:56 Stay Sharp on Duty 27:04 Avoid Looking Like a Target 30:08 Mindset It Can Happen 32:52 Rapid Fire Takeaways 34:39 Flashlight Self Defense 35:59 Where to Find David 36:56 Final Wrap   The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.   The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided.   The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.

    38 min

  3. May 20

    The Scam That's Flooding America

    Andy marks the 375th episode of the Secure Family Podcast by breaking down the wave of fake DMV and toll road scam texts that surged. He explains how the scam uses urgent messages about unpaid tolls, traffic fines, or license suspension to trigger panic. He fully breaks down the scam and then shares how you can protect yourself. Plus he gives people direction on what to do if a loved one has fallen victim to one of these scams.  Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.  Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to the Show 02:25 Episode Milestone 03:26 Scam Wave Overview 05:26 How the Scam Hooks You 06:39 Mass Texting Machine 08:50 Fake Sites and Data Theft 09:40 Why You Got Targeted 10:51 Teach Your Family 13:13 If You Clicked the Link 14:25 Scale and Key Takeaways 16:17 Wrap Up and Resources   The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.   The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided.   The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.

    17 min

  4. May 13

    Vacation Safety with Boris Milinkovich of True North Tradecraft

    Travelcraft: Practical Family Travel Safety Tips with Boris Milinkovich   Host Andy Murphy welcomes returning guest Boris Milinkovich, founder of True North Tradecraft. Together they discuss how families can be safe and still have fun while traveling. They also discuss Boris' new bookTravelcraft: The Art of Safe and Secure Travel.   For more from Boris and True North Tradecraft: http://truenorthtradecraft.ca/   Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.   Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome 02:10 Meet Boris Milinkovich 04:24 Why Travelcraft 07:20 Kids Travel Safety 08:29 Lost Child Plan 15:50 Rally Points And Watches 17:32 Hotel Room Security 22:07 Travel Mistakes To Avoid 28:26 Research Before You Go 29:11 Trip Gone Wrong Story 29:33 Passport Disaster at Airport 30:45 Emergency Passport Prep Tips 34:34 Embassy Help and Attitude 36:27 International Emergency Planning 40:38 Tourist Scams to Avoid 44:30 Stay Aware and Pack Light 48:18 Rapid Fire Travel Advice 50:23 Must Have Tools and Gadgets 54:42 Where to Find Boris 55:40 Podcast Wrap   The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.   The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided.   The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.

    57 min

  5. May 6

    Ain't No Rest for the Wicked

    Safety Awareness: Behavior over stereotypes   On this episode of The Secure Family Podcast host Andy Murphy argues that family safety comes from calm awareness, not fear. Andy discusses criminogenic thinking (minimizing harm, entitlement, blaming others), how different crimes reflect different skills and motives, and the role of family influence in normalizing illegitimate problem-solving. He recommends watching behavior like pressure, manipulation, urgency, boundary violations, inconsistent stories, and ignoring "no" over stereotypes, and emphasizes protecting family by seeing intent and patterns clearly. Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.  Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome! 02:16 Ain't No Rest for the Wicked 04:40 Criminals Are Human 06:25 Fear Versus Reality 07:32 Criminogenic Thinking 08:48 Different Criminal Types 09:08 Family Influence 10:21 Calm Awareness Tips 11:32 Bottom Line Takeaway 12:14 Wrap Up And Links    The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.   The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided.   The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.   Ain't No Rest for the Wicked by Cage the Elephant. Written by Matt Shultz, Brad Shultz, Jared Champion, Lincoln Parish, and Daniel Tichenor. © respective rights holders.

    13 min

  6. Apr 22

    Spies and Cybercrime with Eric O'Neill

    On this episode of The Secure Family Podcast, host Andy Murphy sits down with former FBI undercover operative and cybersecurity expert Eric O'Neill for a fascinating conversation about how modern scams really work. Eric explains why today's cybercriminals don't think like hackers—they think like spies, using deception, pressure, impersonation, and psychology to target everyday people.   Andy and Eric break down the fake DMV and toll road text scams that hit millions of phones, how criminals gather personal data to make attacks feel believable, and why AI deepfakes are making scams more dangerous than ever. They also share practical ways families can protect themselves, spot red flags before it's too late, and respond quickly if an account or identity is compromised.   If you want to understand the new world of cybercrime in plain English—and learn how to stay one step ahead—this is an episode you don't want to miss.    For more for Eric O'Neill visit: https://ericoneill.net Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.  Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Show Welcome 02:05 Meet Eric ONeill 03:51 Only Spies Not Hackers 05:49 Everyone Is A Target 06:33 Scams And Recon 07:52 Opportunity Vs Targeted 10:10 Deepfakes And Kidnap 13:26 Spotting Red Flags 16:16 Verify Through Channels 18:13 Speaker Tax Form Scam 20:15 Cape Town Con Story 26:45 Scam Fallout and Revenge 28:04 Pressure and Confirmation Bias 29:17 DICED and PAID Frameworks 30:57 Prepare Basics and 2FA 33:40 Assess and Social Media Radar 35:15 Investigate and Verify Everything 36:42 Decide to Act and Next Steps 38:07 Victim Response Checklist 42:04 Rapid Fire Scam Q&A 44:30 Critical Infrastructure Fears 47:08 Where to Find Eric and Newsletter 50:08 Final Thoughts   The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.   The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.

    51 min

  7. Apr 15

    Why Most People Never See It Coming

    Why do so many people say, "He came out of nowhere" after a crime happens? The truth is, most threats don't appear out of thin air, they were there the whole time. We just didn't see them.  In this episode, Andy breaks down practical situational awareness skills that can help you stay safer in public, make better decisions faster, and avoid becoming an easy target. You'll learn why watching only the front door can limit your awareness, how time of day changes the safety of any environment, why multitasking and smartphones can make you vulnerable, and how social media can expose your movements before you even arrive.  If you want to feel more confident, more prepared, and more in control when you're out in the world, this episode is for you.  Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.  Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome: Why Awareness Matters 02:15 Why Threats Don't "Come Out of Nowhere" 03:12 What Situational Awareness Really Is 04:20 Why Watching the Door Isn't Enough 06:28 Look for What Doesn't Belong 06:55 How Time Changes Safe Places 09:18 The Myth of Multitasking 10:35 Smartphones, Headphones, and Easy Targets 12:05 Digital Recon and Oversharing Online 12:58 Most Likely vs Worst-Case Thinking 16:05 Awareness Buys Time, Action Saves Lives 18:32 Simple Ways to Start  20:02 Resources and Final Thoughts   The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.   The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided.   The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.

    22 min

  8. Apr 8

    The Future of Online Identity with Joe Scalone

    Andy sits down with Joe Scalone of Yubico to break down why passwords are no longer enough to keep your family safe online and what's replacing them. Joe explains how passkeys and physical security keys are changing the future of cybersecurity, why hackers are moving faster than ever (thanks to AI), and what that means for everyday families.  The conversation also dives into parenting in a digital world from managing kids' online identities to building trust, communication, and smart guardrails at home. They also tackle the controversial rise of age verification, digital IDs, and whether giving your face or ID to tech companies is a risk parents should be concerned about. For more on Yubico check out: https://www.yubico.com/  Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.  Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 – Intro & scam text story 02:20 – Meet Joe Scalone and Yubico 03:00 – Why passwords are broken 04:30 – What passkeys are (and why they matter) 06:00 – Are passwords going away? 07:00 – How security changes over time (credit cards → biometrics) 10:00 – Evolution of cybersecurity (from physical to AI threats) 12:30 – AI: helping defenders and attackers 14:00 – Why physical security keys still matter 15:30 – Is text-message 2FA enough? 16:30 – Prioritizing security for different accounts 17:30 – Family security: Netflix, school, Roblox 19:30 – Parenting approach: trust, verify, communicate 22:00 – Practical guardrails for kids online 25:00 – Age verification & digital identity explained 27:00 – Should you trust companies with your face/ID? 29:30 – The future of digital ID (10–15 years out) 31:30 – Teaching kids to protect their identity 33:30 – What's next for kids online (gaming, social, attention economy) 37:00 – Parenting through tech (building PCs, bonding) 39:00 – How fast weak passwords get hacked 40:30 – Most overrated online safety advice 41:30 – Where to find Joe & closing thoughts The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.    The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.

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Hosted by Andy Murphy, The Secure Family Podcast is your trusted source for practical tips to keep your family safe at home, online, and in public. With a focus on empowering parents, each episode delivers simple, actionable strategies to help you protect what matters most. From securing your house to navigating digital safety and staying aware in everyday situations, this podcast makes family safety second nature. The information shared on The Secure Family Podcast is for general information only. The Secure Family Podcast is a production of The Secure Dad LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark.

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  • Creator
    Andy Murphy
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    403
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2018 - 2026 The Secure Dad, LLC.
  • Show Website
    The Secure Family Podcast

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