Transforming 45

Lisa Boate
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Transforming 45 is where midlife gets real. Host Lisa Boate, menopause coach and educator, dives into the truth about perimenopause, menopause, identity shifts, and midlife reinvention. Through candid stories and menopause conversations with men and women, Lisa helps listeners understand their bodies, relationships, and purpose in this powerful chapter. Honest, funny, and empowering—this is your go-to podcast for thriving through midlife transformation.

  1. Your Life Looks Right… So Why Does It Feel Wrong? With Kim Costa

    1d ago

    Your Life Looks Right… So Why Does It Feel Wrong? With Kim Costa

    What happens when the life you built no longer fits the woman you’re becoming? In this episode of Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with Kim Costa—author of Live in Your Wheelhouse and creator of The Wheelhouse Method—to explore the powerful connection between identity, environment, and midlife reinvention. Because here’s the truth no one talks about: Sometimes the most “perfect” life… is the most misaligned one. From a life-altering accident to walking away from a home that looked beautiful on paper but felt completely off, Kim shares how midlife has a way of shaking loose everything that no longer fits—and how your physical space might be the first place you feel it. Together, we explore: ✨ Why your home can start to feel like a job instead of a sanctuary ✨ The hidden emotional weight of “having it all” ✨ How misalignment shows up in subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways ✨ The connection between your internal world and your physical space ✨ Simple ways to start realigning your life—without blowing everything up 00:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery 01:13 Recognizing Misalignment in Life 04:06 The Impact of Physical Space on Well-Being 08:45 The Weight of Expectations 11:30 Midlife Transitions and New Beginnings 15:05 Finding Bravery in Change 20:29 Taking Action in Physical Spaces 21:10 Creating Intentional Spaces 23:59 The Wheelhouse Framework for Life Reflection 26:58 Shifting Energy Through Home Environment 30:00 The Impact of Clutter on Emotional Well-being 33:01 Navigating Change in Family Dynamics 36:03 Aligning Home with Personal Growth 40:03 Finding Your True Self in Midlife If you’ve been feeling restless, disconnected, or like something just isn’t right… this conversation will hit. Because sometimes it’s not you that needs fixing— it’s the life you’ve outgrown. Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Website:  https://lifestylefoundations.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/kim.e.costa Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimecostarealtor LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimecosta Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    40 min
  2. Why Everything Stopped Working (And What To Do Instead) with Laura McLennan

    Jul 2

    Why Everything Stopped Working (And What To Do Instead) with Laura McLennan

    If you’ve been told your symptoms are “just aging,” this episode will challenge everything you’ve been taught. Lisa sits down with biologist and holistic nutritionist Laura McLennan to unpack what’s actually happening in the perimenopausal and menopausal body—and why working harder isn’t the answer. This is a conversation about metabolism, insulin resistance, and the truth about why what used to work…doesn’t anymore.  What You’ll Learn Why “eat less, move more” stops working in midlife What insulin resistance actually means (in real life terms) The biggest mistake women make with food Why skipping meals is backfiring on your body How to start feeling better without overhauling your life Key Takeaways Your body isn’t broken—it needs different support now Metabolism shifts are real—but they are not permanent damage Undereating is one of the biggest drivers of fatigue and weight gain Protein + consistent meals = foundational change Small shifts create massive results  Standout Quotes “It’s not about working harder—it’s about working smarter.” “Your body isn’t failing you—it’s asking you for something different.” “Would you drive to Montreal on an empty tank?” “We’ve been trained to look for what’s wrong instead of appreciating what’s working.”  Topics Covered Perimenopause metabolism changes Insulin resistance explained simply Nutrition vs. hormone therapy Intermittent fasting in midlife Body image + identity shifts Connect with Laura: Biologist, Holistic Nutritionist, Founder of HealthScope Specializing in personalized, lab-based nutrition for midlife women. Website: www.health-scope.ca Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100077078720014 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauramwellness_/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lauramclennan2865 Connect with Lisa: Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 📩 lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    43 min
  3. The Leadership Lie That’s Burning Women Out (And What Actually Works) with Theresa Bailey

    Jun 25

    The Leadership Lie That’s Burning Women Out (And What Actually Works) with Theresa Bailey

    What if burnout isn’t a personal failure—but a system design flaw? This week on Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with leadership disruptor Theresa Bailey, founder of Starfish Synergies and North America’s partner for Play-Doh Power Solutions (yes, really). What starts as a surprising conversation about Play-Doh quickly becomes a powerful exploration of leadership, burnout, workplace culture, and why we can’t think our way out of feeling problems. This episode connects the dots between how we lead, how we work, and why midlife women are quietly walking away from workplaces that were never designed for them. 🎧 New episodes drop every Thursday. Listen on all podcast platforms + YouTube. What You'll Learn: Why traditional leadership models are failing (especially for women in midlife) The real reason burnout is skyrocketing across sectors How disconnection from the body impacts communication and culture Why “fixing communication” doesn’t mean more meetings or emails The leadership move that can shift your team starting tomorrow How workplaces can retain experienced women instead of losing them Key Take Aways You can’t think your way out of feeling problems Burnout is often a system issue—not an individual weakness Psychological safety is the foundation of effective teams Small changes (when people feel heard) rebuild trust fast Leadership isn’t about control—it’s about connection Episode Chapters 00:00 Why Play-Doh is disrupting leadership 03:00 Burnout, the body, and why thinking harder isn’t working 07:00 Why workplaces wait for problems instead of preventing them 09:00 Leadership styles that are no longer effective 12:00 Women in leadership, armor, and internalized pressure 16:00 The power of leaders participating with their teams 20:00 Menopause, midlife, and the workforce exodus 24:00 Communication breakdowns (and what’s really happening) 28:00 Why one-off workshops don’t create change 32:00 The simplest leadership shift you can make tomorrow 37:00 Final reflection: building systems for humans About Theresa Bailey Theresa Bailey is the founder of Starfish Synergies and the exclusive North American partner for Play-Doh Power Solutions. She helps organizations rethink leadership, communication, and burnout by bringing people out of their heads and into real human connection. LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/theresabailey/ Website: www.starfishsynergies.com Book a call: https://calendly.com/theresa-bailey/time-with-theresa Let's Stay Connected Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 📧 lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    40 min
  4. The Virtuous Woman Trap (and Why You Feel So Damn Empty) with Dr. Julie Merriman

    Jun 18

    The Virtuous Woman Trap (and Why You Feel So Damn Empty) with Dr. Julie Merriman

    What if your burnout isn’t about doing too much…but about believing your value comes from being needed? This week on Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with Dr. Julie Merriman—PhD, Certified Sex Counselor, trauma specialist, and creator of Soul Joy™—for a conversation that goes way deeper than “self-care.” They unpack the virtuous woman trap: the lifelong conditioning that teaches women to over-function, over-give, and override their own needs… until they don’t even feel themselves anymore. This episode is about nervous system survival, emotional numbness, identity loss—and what it actually takes to come home to yourself again. 🎧 New episodes drop every Thursday Listen on all podcast platforms + YouTube In this episode we talk about: The “good girl” conditioning that wires women for burnout Why high-achieving women feel empty (even when they’re successful) What “functional freeze” actually looks like in real life The moment Lisa realized: “I don’t feel my feet” Why you can’t think your way out of a feeling problem How disconnection impacts intimacy, desire, and relationships The truth about masculinity, safety, and emotional regulation Empty nest grief and identity loss in midlife What it means to “have a homecoming” back to yourself Key Takeaways: You are not broken. Your nervous system adapted to keep you safe. But the life you want? It requires more than survival—it requires coming back into your body. Connet with Julie Merriman: Dr. Julie Merriman, Ph.D., LPC-S, CSC is a counselor educator, author, speaker, and clinician with over 25 years of experience helping high-achieving women break free from burnout and self-sacrifice. She is the creator of Soul Joy™, host of the Compassion Fatigue Cure podcast, and author of: In Pursuit of Soul Joy Are We Gonna Have Sex or What? (Spring 2026) Her work blends neuroscience, somatics, and real-life application to help women reconnect to desire, identity, and pleasure in midlife. 🔗 Learn more: https://juliemerrimanphd.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.juliemerriman/ 🎧 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drjuliemerriman 🔥 In This Episode, We Talk About:💥 Key Takeaway👤 About Julie Merriman🎙️ Let’s Stay Connected🌐 Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/👥 Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467📩 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    44 min
  5. What Wine Can Teach Us About Parenting, Pressure & Letting Go with Danielle Frank

    Jun 11

    What Wine Can Teach Us About Parenting, Pressure & Letting Go with Danielle Frank

    What do wine and parenting have in common? More than you think. In this insightful and surprisingly funny conversation, Lisa sits down with luxury wine expert and author Danielle Frank to explore how the language of wine can help us rethink how we raise humans. From control and expectations to identity, independence, and imperfection—this episode challenges modern parenting norms and reminds us that growth isn’t about perfection… it’s about becoming. What We Explore: Why kids (like wine) need space to breathe The hidden pressure of “perfect parenting” How expectations can quietly damage relationships Why community—not control—raises healthy humans The power of letting go and trusting the process What “faults” teach us about identity and resilience Standout Moments: “The majority of your relationship with your child will be with them as an adult.” “Sometimes the best thing you can do… is step back and let it breathe.” “We teach kids how to behave—but also what to expect from others.” “It’s not failure. It’s evolution.” “Imperfection doesn’t ruin the bottle—it makes it unique.” About Danielle: Danielle Frank is a luxury wine and spirits expert with over 20 years of experience, including leadership roles at Moët Hennessy and Bacardi. She is the author of A Wine Lover’s Guide to Parenting—a witty, insightful book that blends wine terminology with real-life parenting wisdom. 🔗 Connect with Danielle: instragram @createagreatstory    website: www.daniellefrankauthor.net Available on all podcast platforms + YouTube Connect with Lisa: Website: https://liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 📩 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    38 min
  6. Burnout, Body Wisdom & The Midlife Rebellion with Maria Angelova

    Jun 4

    Burnout, Body Wisdom & The Midlife Rebellion with Maria Angelova

    What if exhaustion isn't the price of success? This week on Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with Maria Angelova, creator of the Angelova Method, fitness professional, former corporate leader, and passionate advocate for helping people reconnect with their bodies. After years of pushing through stress, sleeplessness, anxiety, and burnout, Maria experienced a series of wake-up calls that forced her to question everything she thought she knew about achievement, productivity, and wellness. Together, Lisa and Maria explore: ✔ Why so many high-achieving women mistake burnout for success ✔ The hidden ways stress shows up in the body ✔ How perimenopause invites us to rethink our priorities ✔ The connection between movement, emotions, and nervous system regulation ✔ Why self-awareness is the foundation of healing ✔ Small daily practices that create profound change ✔ The role of rebellion in becoming your authentic self ✔ How to stop living on autopilot and start living intentionally Memorable Takeaways: Your body is not working against you. The symptoms, tension, exhaustion, and emotional overwhelm many women experience are often signals pointing toward what needs attention, healing, and change. Midlife isn't the end of your story. It may be the first time you're finally writing it for yourself. Connect with Maria: Website: www.rebelliousstudio.com/ LI: www.linkedin.com/in/mariamangelova/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/mind.body.expert YT: https://www.youtube.com/@themindbodyexpert FB: https://www.facebook.com/maria.angelova.39750 Freebie: https://www.rebelliousstudio.com/opt-in Connect with Lisa: Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca New episodes drop every Thursday on YouTube and all major podcast platforms. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    49 min
  7. Braless, Out of Gas, and Finally Free with Kara @mediocremom76

    May 28

    Braless, Out of Gas, and Finally Free with Kara @mediocremom76

    What happens when you stop trying to hold it all together… and start laughing instead? This week, Lisa sits down with Kara Murray—aka MediocreMom76—former teacher turned viral content creator and now stand-up comedian. Kara built a massive audience by telling the truth about motherhood, menopause, and the absolute chaos of midlife—and people felt it. In this episode, we explore what happens when you stop striving for perfection and start embracing “good enough.” What You’ll Hear: The accidental creation of the “Menopause Hotline” (and why it exploded) Why midlife unlocks confidence you didn’t have before Teacher ➡️ creator ➡️ comedian: how reinvention actually happens The mental load, brain fog, and identity shifts of menopause Body image, generational patterns, and what we pass to our kids Why comedy might be one of the most powerful forms of advocacy Letting go of perfection and embracing “mediocre”  Key Takeaways: You don’t have to suffer in your body Reinvention isn’t reckless—it’s necessary “Good enough” is more powerful than perfect Midlife isn’t shrinking you—it’s expanding you Laughter is connection—and we need more of it About Kara Murray: Kara Murray (MediocreMom76) is a former teacher turned social media personality and emerging stand-up comedian. She shares honest, hilarious takes on motherhood, menopause, and midlife identity, building a community through truth and humour. Connect with Kara: Instagram: @mediocremom76 Merch Shop: https://mediocremom76.com/ Let’s Stay Connected: Website: https://www.liberatedmenopause.ca/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lboate/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467 Email: lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca #Menopause #MidlifeTransformation #Perimenopause #WomenOver40 #Transforming45 #MidlifeReinvention #MenopauseSupport #Podcast #WomenInMidlife #Confidence Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    39 min
  8. The Menopause Industry Wants You to Buy More. Your Body Wants Less with Dr. Nayan Patel

    May 21

    The Menopause Industry Wants You to Buy More. Your Body Wants Less with Dr. Nayan Patel

    This week on Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with pharmacist, wellness expert, and author Dr. Nayan Patel for a powerful conversation about the missing pieces in the menopause and longevity conversation. Please note - this episode was recorded before the term PCOS was evolved to PMOS.  Together they unpack: Why hormones are only one piece of the puzzle The connection between stress, insulin, and hormone imbalance GLP-1 medications and the concerns women need to understand Oxidative stress and cellular health What glutathione actually does in the body Why prevention matters more than “fixing” The emotional overwhelm women are carrying in midlife This conversation moves beyond quick fixes and into a more nuanced understanding of energy, aging, and wraparound care. Chapters: 00:00 — Welcome + introducing Dr. Nayan Patel 01:40 — What’s missing from the hormone conversation 03:00 — Stress, insulin & the “real” drivers of symptoms 05:50 — Environmental toxins, xenoestrogens & PCOS *This was recorded prior to the change to PMOS. 09:30 — Why hormone therapy isn’t the full solution 12:00 — “The lion is chasing us 24/7” 15:00 — Coaching, behaviour change & emotional patterns 18:45 — The truth about GLP-1 medications 25:10 — Muscle loss, resistance training & midlife health 27:00 — What glutathione actually is 33:00 — Why oxidative stress matters 37:00 — The body needs less, not more 39:30 — Wraparound care & prevention 43:00 — Aging is not the enemy 45:00 — Closing thoughts Transforming 45 drops every Thursday. Connect with Lisa: Website: Liberated Menopause Instagram: @lboate Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/leaninfindyourwayhome  Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245092311417467  YouTube: Transforming 45  lisa@liberatedmenopause.ca Connect with Dr. Patel: Website: http://aurowellness.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Aurowellness Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aurowellness TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@auro.wellness?_t=8nrXA1jnFeM&_r=1 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@aurowellness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    47 min
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Transforming 45 is where midlife gets real. Host Lisa Boate, menopause coach and educator, dives into the truth about perimenopause, menopause, identity shifts, and midlife reinvention. Through candid stories and menopause conversations with men and women, Lisa helps listeners understand their bodies, relationships, and purpose in this powerful chapter. Honest, funny, and empowering—this is your go-to podcast for thriving through midlife transformation.

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  • Creator
    Lisa Boate
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    182
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Lisa Boate
  • Show Website
    Transforming 45

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