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Lubna Kayyali & Hawa Ali
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It all started with a simple thought from Lubna to Hawa: "Our conversations always lead to an invitation for something deeper." This is our response. Welcome to a space where two friends unpack life's biggest questions—about identity, spirituality, morality, and culture—with total honesty. Get ready for unscripted, unfiltered conversations that are both deep and a little bit rebellious. About Lubna Lubna Kayyali is a lawyer, entrepreneur, and storyteller whose work bridges business and culture. Born in Qatar to Syrian roots and now living between Puerto Rico and beyond, she is committed to bringing a fearless curiosity to every conversation. About Hawa Hawa Ali lives a life of intellectual curiosity. For the past 15 years, she has been a professional marketer, yet her personal passion is a constant quest for knowledge and truth. She challenges the status quo by questioning everything, always seeking a deeper understanding of the world around her. She's returned to her New Jersey roots after spending almost a decade in New York City, continuing her journey to find answers to life's biggest questions. Email @ unscriptedwithlubnaandhawa@gmail.com

  1. Debunking the 4 Biggest Myths About Healing

    1D AGO

    Debunking the 4 Biggest Myths About Healing

    Today, we are tackling the misconceptions and toxic narratives that often derail our personal growth. Healing is a profound journey, but it is rarely what society makes it out to be. In this episode, we break down the four most common myths surrounding the topic of healing and replace them with empowering, realistic truths. What We Cover in This Episode: Myth 1: "Time heals all wounds." We discuss why the passage of time is actually irrelevant if you aren't doing the work. Discover why taking an active, intentional role is required to prevent emotional wounds from festering into anxiety or trauma.Myth 2: "Healing is a straight, upward line." If you feel like you've taken two steps forward and one step back, you are doing it right. We explore the chaotic, non-linear spiral of recovery and why letting go of the "linear timeline" is crucial to banishing self-punishment and shame.Myth 3: "Healing means returning to exactly who you were before." Using the beautiful Japanese art of kintsugi (repairing broken pottery with gold), we explain why true healing isn't about going backward. Instead, it is about integrating your painful experiences to forge a new, more resilient, and empathetic version of yourself.Myth 4: "You cannot heal yourself." While therapists and external resources are incredibly valuable tools, the ultimate agency lies with you. We talk about why the healing process must start in the mind by rejecting negative rhetoric and taking ownership of your own belief systems.Tune in to reframe your perspective on recovery, drop the shame surrounding your setbacks, and take back the power in your own healing journey!

    17 min
  2. Raising Free Children

    APR 1

    Raising Free Children

    In this episode, we dive deep into the revolutionary concepts presented by Akilah Richards in her powerful TEDx Talk, "Raising Free People." We explore the uncomfortable truth behind why we often view children as inherently untrustworthy and how our traditional parenting and educational systems are frequently rooted in fear and "tools of oppression." Richards challenges us to move away from compliance-based parenting and toward a life rooted in consent, respect, and confident autonomy. We discuss her journey from traditional schooling to "unschooling" and how she uses "mad question asking" to turn feelings of chaos into clarity. Watch the Original Talk: Raising Free People | Akilah Richards TEDxAsburyPark: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UgbD1qrJ0c4&t=309s *** Don't forget to subscribe and leave us a review if you enjoyed this deep dive into liberating the next generation!

    47 min
  3. Girls in Crisis

    APR 1

    Girls in Crisis

    In this episode, we’re tearing down the stereotypes that follow girls from the classroom to the family. From the "beauty standard" trap to the truth behind the pay gap and education, we’re separating harmful fiction from the lived reality of being a girl today, from the East to the West.

    43 min
  4. The Business of War & The Lies We're Sold

    MAR 5

    The Business of War & The Lies We're Sold

    In this heavy-hitting episode of Unscripted, Lubna and Hawa pull back the curtain on the world’s most devastating industry: War. We often treat conflict as an inevitable part of the human experience—a "last resort" for safety—but what if almost everything we’ve been taught about why and how we fight is a carefully crafted myth? From the $2.3 trillion "victory" in Afghanistan that left the status quo unchanged, to the cold reality of "collateral damage," we’re breaking down the data that the military-industrial complex would rather keep quiet. We discuss why modern warfare targets civilians more than ever and how the pursuit of "security" often creates the very monsters we claim to be fighting. What We Cover: The Illusion of Winning: Why there are no true victors when you factor in generational trauma and the $886 billion price tags. The "Last Resort" Lie: A look at how diplomacy is often bypassed for resource interests and political gain. Deconstructing "Human Nature": Why war isn't inevitable, featuring the inspiring example of nations that have abolished their militaries entirely. The Blowback Effect: How interventions in Iraq and Afghanistan actually fueled global instability and radicalization. Featured Reading To truly understand how foreign intervention can reshape a nation’s destiny for decades, we highly recommend reading "All the Shah's Men: An American Coup and the Roots of Middle East Terror" by Stephen Kinzer. It is a vital deep dive into the 1953 CIA-led overthrow of Iran’s democracy—a masterclass in how "strategic" wars create long-term chaos. 👉 Get the book on Amazon here Highlights from the Episode: 90%: The staggering percentage of war casualties that are civilians in modern conflict. The Versailles Lesson: How "winning" one war can directly plant the seeds for the next. "War is largely a 20th–21st century industrial phenomenon. Normalizing it as 'human nature' is just a way to shut down the search for alternatives."

    33 min
  5. The Boy Crisis: Why Our Sons are Struggling and What We Can Do

    MAR 4

    The Boy Crisis: Why Our Sons are Struggling and What We Can Do

    In this episode, we tackle a conversation that is as controversial as it is essential: the "Boy Crisis." Inspired by a recent interview with Dr. Warren Farrell via the Institute for Family Studies, we explore the alarming decline in the well-being of boys and young men in modern society. From his roots in the women's liberation movement to becoming a leading voice for men’s advocacy, Dr. Farrell’s insights provide a provocative framework for understanding why so many boys feel a "purpose void." We break down the article's most striking points—from the "disposability" of men in the workforce to the profound impact of "dad-deprivation" on a boy's ability to succeed. In this discussion, we cover: The "National Afterthought": Why society often ignores the "squeaky wheel" of male struggle and the historical reasons we've trained boys to act tough at the expense of their mental health. The Dad Gap: Analyzing Farrell’s argument that "dad-enriched" versus "dad-deprived" homes are the single biggest predictor of a boy’s future economic and emotional success. The Purpose Void: How the "Era of Multi-Purpose Women" has given our daughters more options, while our sons are often left without a modern definition of what it means to be a successful man. The Social Cost: The sobering link between a lack of fatherly involvement and issues like video game addiction, ADHD, and even the rise of social violence. The Solution: Moving toward an "Era of Multi-Purpose Men" and how we can support the boys in our lives to find a sense of mission beyond just "working full-time." Resource Discussed: Boys in Crisis: An Interview with Warren Farrell (Institute for Family Studies): https://ifstudies.org/blog/boys-in-crisis-an-interview-with-warren-farrell "Anger is vulnerability's mask... boys who hurt will be the ones most likely to hurt us."

    40 min
  6. Beyond the Mirror — Redefining Beauty in a Filtered World

    FEB 27

    Beyond the Mirror — Redefining Beauty in a Filtered World

    Welcome back to another heartfelt episode of Unscripted with Lubna and Hawa! In a world obsessed with filters, anti-aging creams, and viral aesthetics, we are pausing the scroll to ask a fundamental question: What is beauty, really? This week, Lubna and Hawa strip away the makeup and the societal expectations for a raw, honest conversation about the true meaning of beauty. If you've ever felt the heavy pressure of external expectations, or worried about how the next generation will view their own self-worth, this episode is for you. The Impossible Definition: Lubna and Hawa break down how society currently defines beauty, exploring how these definitions are often narrow, fleeting, and manufactured. We ask the tough question: Who gets to decide what is beautiful? The Beauty of the Soul & Nature: We explore the tragedy of overlooking what truly matters. Why do we consistently prioritize a symmetrical face over a kind heart? We discuss the profound, quiet beauty found in human nature, resilience, compassion, and the natural world around us. Breaking the Spell for Our Children: Perhaps our most important topic yet. How do we protect our kids from the overwhelming, loud messaging that their worth is tied to their physical appearance? Lubna and Hawa share actionable, compassionate strategies for teaching children to value their character, their minds, and their unique inner light over their reflection in the mirror. Join us as we unlearn the toxic conditioning of the beauty industry and start celebrating the radiant, unscripted beauty of the human spirit. Grab your favorite cup of tea, get comfortable, and let's get into it.

    57 min
  7. The Beauty of the Unknown: Navigating Uncertainty

    FEB 18

    The Beauty of the Unknown: Navigating Uncertainty

    "If you knew exactly how the story ended, would you even keep reading?" In this episode of Unscripted, Lubna and Hawa dive deep into the one thing we all try to avoid but can never escape: Uncertainty. Whether it’s the shift from a structured corporate career to the "choose-your-own-adventure" world of entrepreneurship, or the collective anxiety of navigating an AI-driven future, they get real about what happens when the map disappears. They explore why we’re so conditioned to fear the fog instead of walking through it, and how we can find our footing when the ground feels like it's shifting.

    1h 1m
  8. The Geometry of Love: Circles, Lines, and Soulmates

    FEB 15

    The Geometry of Love: Circles, Lines, and Soulmates

    We use the word "love" to describe how we feel about our partners, our siblings, and even a perfect cup of coffee—but are we actually talking about the same thing? In this episode of Unscripted, Lubna and Hawa strip away the Hallmark cards and the tropes to explore the messy, beautiful spectrum of human connection. What does love actually feel like when the noise stops? Is it a spark, a safety net, or a mirror? Join us as we discuss how these different forms of affection act as the ultimate antidote to isolation and the foundation of everything we do.

    1h 17m
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It all started with a simple thought from Lubna to Hawa: "Our conversations always lead to an invitation for something deeper." This is our response. Welcome to a space where two friends unpack life's biggest questions—about identity, spirituality, morality, and culture—with total honesty. Get ready for unscripted, unfiltered conversations that are both deep and a little bit rebellious. About Lubna Lubna Kayyali is a lawyer, entrepreneur, and storyteller whose work bridges business and culture. Born in Qatar to Syrian roots and now living between Puerto Rico and beyond, she is committed to bringing a fearless curiosity to every conversation. About Hawa Hawa Ali lives a life of intellectual curiosity. For the past 15 years, she has been a professional marketer, yet her personal passion is a constant quest for knowledge and truth. She challenges the status quo by questioning everything, always seeking a deeper understanding of the world around her. She's returned to her New Jersey roots after spending almost a decade in New York City, continuing her journey to find answers to life's biggest questions. Email @ unscriptedwithlubnaandhawa@gmail.com

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  • Creator
    Lubna Kayyali & Hawa Ali
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    29
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Lubna Kayyali & Hawa Ali
  • Show Website
    Unscripted with Lubna & Hawa