Values Based Living

Values Based Living
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Three conflict experts who have turned their decades of conflict and communication experience inward to help people align with their values. Learn more about us at www.values-basedliving.com. Values Based Living support is not meant to replace therapy or advice from health care professionals.

  1. 2025-11-25

    What are values again?

    How do we get stuck when trying to live our values? Coreen talks about the biggest challenges people face when getting into alignment with their values and what to do about it. Join us on Patreon for exclusive episodes and tailored values and conflict guidance: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/valuesbasedliving⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get started with our free Values Quiz: ⁠https://values-basedliving.com/top_five_values_quiz/⁠ Start a course now: https://values-basedliving.com/all-courses/  We bring decades of conflict resolution expertise and love to share tips and tricks to interacting better with ourselves and others. Values Based Living support is not meant to replace therapy or advice from health care professionals.

    20 min
  2. Once Upon a Value - ACOTAR Part 2 (Feyre and Nesta)

    2025-08-01

    Once Upon a Value - ACOTAR Part 2 (Feyre and Nesta)

    Welcome to Once Upon a Value, the podcast mini series where Kristina and Ali review stories (mostly movies and books) to see if we can identify how values are driving the story. Bonus points if we learn something about ourselves along the way. Yay for satisfying our values of fun, learning, and connection! Referenced: ⁠A Court Of Thorns and Roses, by Sarah J. Maas⁠ Join us on Patreon for exclusive episodes and tailored values and conflict guidance: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/valuesbasedliving⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get started with our free Values Quiz: ⁠⁠https://values-basedliving.com/top_five_values_quiz/⁠⁠ We bring decades of conflict resolution expertise and love to share tips and tricks to interacting better with ourselves and others. Values Based Living support is not meant to replace therapy or advice from health care professionals.

    1h 3m
  3. Once Upon a Value - ACOTAR Part 1 (Rhysand and Tamlin)

    2025-07-01

    Once Upon a Value - ACOTAR Part 1 (Rhysand and Tamlin)

    Welcome to Once Upon a Value, the podcast mini series where Kristina and Ali review stories (mostly movies and books) to see if we can identify how values are driving the story. Bonus points if we learn something about ourselves along the way. Yay for satisfying our values of fun, learning, and connection! Referenced: The Story of Hades and Persephone A Court Of Thorns and Roses, by Sarah J. Maas Join us on Patreon for exclusive episodes and tailored values and conflict guidance: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/valuesbasedliving⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get started with our free Values Quiz: ⁠https://values-basedliving.com/top_five_values_quiz/⁠ We bring decades of conflict resolution expertise and love to share tips and tricks to interacting better with ourselves and others. Values Based Living support is not meant to replace therapy or advice from health care professionals.

    1h 2m

  4. 2025-06-01

    Do I Always Need to Act on My Values?

    And other questions. Coreen graciously answers rapid-ish fire questions about values. Join us on Patreon for exclusive episodes and tailored values and conflict guidance: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/valuesbasedliving⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get started with our free Values Quiz: ⁠https://values-basedliving.com/top_five_values_quiz/⁠ We bring decades of conflict resolution expertise and love to share tips and tricks to interacting better with ourselves and others. Values Based Living support is not meant to replace therapy or advice from health care professionals.

    1 hr

  5. 2025-05-01

    Is it Guilt? 3 Keys to Finding Ourselves

    We kick off this conversation with a powerful idea from Dr. Becky Kennedy, who says:“Sometimes what we think is guilt is actually just the discomfort of watching someone else in distress. It’s not guilt because you did something wrong—it’s your old wiring trying to metabolize someone else’s emotion.”Using this lens, we explore the role of guilt as a breadcrumb to discover our true selves.Join us on Patreon for exclusive episodes and tailored values and conflict guidance: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/valuesbasedliving⁠⁠⁠⁠Get started with our free Values Quiz: ⁠https://values-basedliving.com/top_five_values_quiz/⁠We bring decades of conflict resolution expertise and love to share tips and tricks to interacting better with ourselves and others.Values Based Living support is not meant to replace therapy or advice from health care professionals.

    37 min

  6. 2025-04-15

    Sneak peek! In-Laws & Inner Peace: Navigating Family While Staying True to You

    The following episode is a shortened sneak peek of the following Patreon episode: In this episode of Values Based Living, Ali and Kristina are diving into one of the trickiest terrains of family life—relationships with in-laws—and how to stay grounded in your personal values while doing it. Whether it’s subtle pressure to conform, clashing expectations, or big boundary battles, we explore what it looks like to show up authentically and keep the peace. We bring decades of conflict resolution expertise and love to share tips and tricks to interacting better with ourselves and others. Values Based Living support is not meant to replace therapy or advice from health care professionals.

    15 min

  7. 2025-04-01

    What are values and how do we find ours?

    We talk about the fundamental questions: - What are values? - How do we come up with our top 5 values? - How are my values different for me than for anyone else? ⁠PATREON⁠: Join us on Patreon or more podcast episodes that go deeper: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/valuesbasedliving⁠⁠⁠ ⁠VALUES QUIZ⁠: Get started with our free Values Quiz: ⁠https://values-basedliving.com/top_five_values_quiz/⁠

    56 min

  8. 2025-03-08

    Values Integrity: Using Standards, Boundaries, and the Drama Triangle

    Coreen and Kristina, together with our special guest and dedicated VBL student, Gavin, talk about values, of course! They delve into what it means to live in integrity with ones values, and how one can use the VBL framework of Expectations (i.e. Standards and Boundaries) to do it. They also reference a mediator favorite, the Drama Triangle! Learn more about the drama triangle in this conflict staple: The Joy of Conflict Resolution, by Gary Harper Every month, we host a Zoom Q&A and answer questions about conflict, values, and anything else that comes up. Click here to register for an upcoming Zoom Q&A: ⁠⁠https://calendly.com/valuesbasedliving/zoom-q-a?back=1&month=2024-04⁠⁠ Watch this episode on our YouTube Channel: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLukoEJFUzbHKCzMQQhOqDtGF_b1xa6K04⁠ Join us on Patreon for exclusive episodes and tailored values and conflict guidance: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/valuesbasedliving⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠VALUES QUIZ⁠: Get started with our free Values Quiz: ⁠https://values-basedliving.com/top_five_values_quiz/⁠

    56 min
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Three conflict experts who have turned their decades of conflict and communication experience inward to help people align with their values. Learn more about us at www.values-basedliving.com. Values Based Living support is not meant to replace therapy or advice from health care professionals.

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  • Creator
    Values Based Living
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2025
  • Episodes
    56
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Values Based Living
  • Show Website
    Values Based Living