We're Talkin' About with Kaley Gray

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A podcast for young adults navigating dating, dreams, and singleness. Each episode, I'll share a real and refreshing approach to real-life dating situations, the waiting season, and pursuing the God-given dreams on your heart. With encouragement, lots of laughter, and honest conversations, I share my journey while also hosting guests (and sometimes my boyfriend!) to dive deeper into what it means to live fully and faithfully in every season. New episodes drop every second Tuesday of the month, so grab your coffee, lean in and let’s talk about life, love, and faith. xoxo Kaley Gray

  1. FEB 10

    070 Your Do-Over Season: Breaking Free from the Past with Guest Pastor Brad

    Have you ever wished you could hit reset on a season of your life? When disappointment, unmet expectations, and hurt pile up, bitterness can quietly take root and begin shaping how we see ourselves, others, and even God. In this episode of We’re Talkin’ About with Kaley Gray, I’m joined by my dad, Pastor Brad, for an honest and hope-filled conversation about what it really looks like to get a do-over.Together, we explore how bitterness starts small and can lead to regretful choices. The difference between being sorry for the consequences versus truly repenting and changing. More importantly, you’ll be reminded that God is the God of second chances, and your story does not end with your worst chapter.If you’re carrying old wounds, struggling to let go of the past, or longing for a fresh start, this episode will encourage you with practical steps to uproot bitterness, choose gratitude, invite healing, and walk in the freedom God has already made available to you.Today can be your do-over. Let’s start fresh together.Connect Here:⁠https://www.instagram.com/misskaleygray/⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/MissKaleyGray/ ⁠Subscribe on YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQHkLMwvU32yvNbXhRCjgmQ⁠*I do not own rights to this music.#FaithOverBitterness #FreshStartWithGod #ChristianPodcast

    17 min

  2. JAN 27

    069 Pruned to Flourish: Trusting God in Wilderness Seasons with Melia Chapman (Part 2)

    In Part 2 of this powerful conversation on We’re Talkin’ About with Kaley Gray, Melia Chapman and I dive deeper into the biblical process of pruning and flourishing and how God uses uncomfortable, wilderness-like seasons to produce lasting fruit in our lives.We explore pruning as a journey to fruitfulness, where God lovingly cuts away what’s dead, overgrown, or misaligned. Not to harm us, but to help us grow. When we want a “new us,” we quickly realize we can’t transform ourselves without surrendering to the Master Gardener. Every cut holds purpose, every cut carries promise, and every cut leads to deeper flourishing when we trust God’s hand.This episode unpacks how pruning seasons can cause us to form our own “truths,” why obedience and trust go hand in hand, and how things can look fine on the outside while quietly collapsing on the inside growth that doesn’t happen overnight. Rooted in scripture like Jeremiah 29:13, this conversation encourages listeners to seek God wholeheartedly, trust Him through resistance, and believe that even wilderness seasons are designed for flourishing. Joy, contentment, and fruitfulness are possible in every circumstance when we remain rooted in Him.If you’re walking through pruning, longing for growth, or learning how to bear fruit with joy despite challenges, this episode will encourage you to trust the process and the Gardener who wastes nothing.Connect with Melia:https://www.facebook.com/melia.chapmanOrder a copy of Rooted and Restored: https://a.co/d/3nH4ZXOConnect Here:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kaleyagray/⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/MissKaleyGray/ ⁠Subscribe on YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQHkLMwvU32yvNbXhRCjgmQ⁠*I do not own rights to this music. #trustgod #waitingongod #christianencouragement

    34 min

  3. JAN 13

    068 How Healing Your Roots Changes Everything with Melia Chapman - Part 1

    In this powerful episode of We’re Talkin’ About with Kaley Gray, my guest Melia Chapman joins us for a deep, heartfelt conversation about what it truly means to be planted, grown, and ultimately restored by God. We explore the honest tension of being placed in seasons that feel dark, disappointing, or confusing. Even during times when it seems like we’ve been buried, but what if we’ve actually been planted instead? Melia unpacks the analogy of soil, growth, and spiritual formation in a way that is both relatable and refreshing. Together, we talk about those seasons when your roots feel stuck in cement: hard, unmovable, and far from the rich, black soil you wish you were planted in. Yet even when the ground beneath your feet feels undesirable, Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us that God is intentional with our placement. Everything you need to flourish has already been placed inside you, and even in unexpected soil, you can encounter God in ways you never imagined. We dive into: • Purpose in your placement. How God uses difficult soil, hard transitions, and stretching seasons to refine you, deepen your roots, and prepare you for greater. • Practical pictures of where we go to satisfy our deepest desires and how the “nutrients” we choose shape our growth. • The power of the voice you listen to and the reality of how that voice you believe will determine the future you experience. • Why undesirable soil can actually be the very ground God intends for you to flourish in even when you don’t understand it at the time. Melia reminds us to pay attention to who is holding the watering can in our lives, because the enemy loves planting weeds of busyness, comparison, and confusion. Yet God, the Master Gardener, desires to till the soil of our hearts, soften what’s become hardened, and bring a 100-fold return that only He can produce. If you’re longing for clarity, growth, or a fresh sense of purpose in your season, this episode will encourage you to trust God with where you’re planted and to believe that He wastes nothing in your becoming. Connect with Melia: https://www.facebook.com/melia.chapman Order a copy of Rooted and Restored: https://a.co/d/3nH4ZXO Connect with Kaley:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kaleyagray/⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/MissKaleyGray/ ⁠Subscribe on YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQHkLMwvU32yvNbXhRCjgmQ ⁠*I do not own rights to this music. #RootedandRestored #christiangrowth #christianencouragement

    27 min

  4. 2025-12-09

    067 Is it Worth the Wait with Lynette Lewis

    Join us this week on We're Talkin' About, as I sit down with Lynette Lewis for a heartfelt and honest conversation about patience, purpose, and the power of timing. In this episode, Lynette shares her journey of waiting through uncertainty, the doubts, the faith, the growth, and ultimately, the clarity that came when she decided to trust the process.Whether you’re wrestling with “should I wait or should I act now,” or simply curious about how waiting can lead to greater purpose, this episode offers real talk, encouragement, and practical insight for anyone navigating life’s unknowns. Tune in for a story that proves sometimes the wait really is worth it.Connect Here:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kaleyagray/⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/MissKaleyGray/ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lynettelewis/Subscribe on YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQHkLMwvU32yvNbXhRCjgmQ⁠*I do not own rights to this music. #worththewait #waitingseason #christianpodcast

    30 min

  5. 2025-11-25

    066 The Truth About Attraction

    Let’s be real, talking about attraction in Christiandating can be a little controversial. Some people avoid it, some overemphasize it, and others just don’t know how to balance faith with desire. In this episode of We’re Talkin’ About with Kaley Gray,my guest Emonne shares what she’s learned when it comes to attraction, what draws us to someone, how God shapes our desires, and why attraction isn’t something to fear or suppress, but to understand through a biblical lens. It’s an honest conversation that might challenge yourperspective, but also bring freedom and clarity in how you see attraction, love, and God’s timing. Tune in to discover how embracing attraction the right waycan prepare you for a relationship that’s not just exciting, but aligned and lasting. Connect with Emonne:https://www.instagram.com/emonnemarkland Get Emonne to speak at your next event: http://emonne.com Connect Here: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/kaleyagray/⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/MissKaleyGray/ ⁠ Subscribe on YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQHkLMwvU32yvNbXhRCjgmQ⁠ *I do not own rights to this music. #datingadvice #attraction #christiandating

    55 min

  6. 2025-11-11

    065 Preparing in the Waiting: Becoming Who God Called You to Be

    Instead of rushing through the waiting season, this episode explores how God uses this time to shape your character, strengthen your relationship with Him, and prepare your heart for what’s ahead.Kaley and guest Annie Dixon, dive into practical ways to grow during this season. Learning emotional maturity, building confidence in your identity, developing healthy habits, and aligning your life with purpose. They encourage listeners to view singleness not as a season of lack, but as an opportunity for growth and preparation.Whether you’re praying for your future spouse or simply wanting to make the most of this chapter, this episode reminds you that preparation is a form of faith and that when you become whole in Christ, you’ll attract relationships that reflect that same wholeness.Connect Here:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kaleyagray/⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/MissKaleyGray/ ⁠Connect with Annie:https://www.instagram.com/anniedixon__/Subscribe on YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQHkLMwvU32yvNbXhRCjgmQ⁠*I do not own rights to this music. #datingadvice #christiandating #datingtips

    29 min

  7. 2025-10-28

    064 Will it ever happen for me?

    In this emotional and hopeful conversation, I sit down with my friend Sarah, whose candid story will resonate with anyone wrestling with longings, unmet expectations, or the fear that their time may pass them by. Sarah opens up about her journey through singleness, the struggles with comparison, and how she’s learned to hold space for both hope and uncertainty. Join us as we explore: -The internal dialogue we all face when our dreams feel delayed -How to find identity and value beyond life’s timelines -Practical steps to keep moving forward when waiting feels endless -Encouragement for those feeling stuck or forgotten This episode offers compassion, realism, and a reminder: just because “it” hasn’t happened yet doesn’t mean it won’t ever. Connect Here:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kaleyagray/⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/MissKaleyGray/ ⁠Subscribe on YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQHkLMwvU32yvNbXhRCjgmQ⁠*I do not own rights to this music. #datingadvice #christianpodcaster #christiandating

    23 min

  8. 2025-10-14

    063 Relationships that Evolve, Resolve and Dissolve

    In this episode, I sit down with my friend Ray to explore the many shapes relationships can take over time. From the thrill of a new connection to the seasons of change that test bonds, we dig into:-What it looks like when relationships evolve: growing deeper, changing form, and maturing-Why some relationships revolve around cycles, repeating patterns or dynamics-How and why certain relationships dissolve, and how to do so gracefullyTogether, we share personal stories, lessons learned, and practical insights on navigating friendship, romance, and everything in between. Whether you’re committed, curious, or healing, this conversation offers compassion, wisdom, and hopeful perspective.Tune in if you’re interested in:-Understanding how relationships naturally shift over time-Recognizing when it’s time to let go or reimagine a connection-Tools for healthy communication, boundaries, and growthConnect Here:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kaleyagray/⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/MissKaleyGray/ ⁠Subscribe on YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQHkLMwvU32yvNbXhRCjgmQ⁠*I do not own rights to this music. #datingadvice #healthyconnections #relationshipadvice

    51 min
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A podcast for young adults navigating dating, dreams, and singleness. Each episode, I'll share a real and refreshing approach to real-life dating situations, the waiting season, and pursuing the God-given dreams on your heart. With encouragement, lots of laughter, and honest conversations, I share my journey while also hosting guests (and sometimes my boyfriend!) to dive deeper into what it means to live fully and faithfully in every season. New episodes drop every second Tuesday of the month, so grab your coffee, lean in and let’s talk about life, love, and faith. xoxo Kaley Gray

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