You’re Probably Right

Michael C Murray
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You’re Probably Right is a long-form podcast for people who feel out of step with surface-level advice and easy answers. Each episode looks at relationships, social dynamics, belief systems, and the quiet patterns that shape how people treat each other, especially the parts nobody prepares you for. There are no quick fixes here. Just clear thinking, lived experience, and conversations that trust the listener to keep up. Hosted by Michael C Murray. If this podcast brings you value, help keep it going. Support the show: buymeacoffee.com/yprpodcast ☕️

  1. 2d ago

    Episode 350: Should I Take Them Back? 10 Questions Before You Let Them Return

    What do you do when someone who hurt you tries to come back around? This episode is not about marriage. Marriage is a different covenant, a different commitment, and a different agreement before God. This conversation is about dating, talking, situationships, and relationships that never reached that level. In Episode 350, MCM breaks down the question many people search when an old person returns: Should I take them back? But before you answer that with emotion, nostalgia, attraction, chemistry, loneliness, or hope, there are 10 questions you need to ask yourself honestly. Did they take accountability? Did the original problem actually change? Are they coming back with remorse, or just appetite? Are they looking for the old agreement? Are you their final choice, or just their comfort zone? And if they leave again, will the second ending cost you more than the first one did? This episode also gets into a deeper question: Do you really love this person, or do you love what they represent? Sometimes what people call love is really access, attraction, status, nostalgia, fear, religion, culture, money, chemistry, or the feeling of finally being chosen by someone who once rejected them. Before you let someone return, you have to understand this: Yesterday’s access is not today’s access. A person who damaged trust does not get to complain about the security system. This is a direct, honest, and necessary conversation for anyone wondering whether an old relationship deserves a new chance.

    34 min

  2. Jun 5

    What Does the Average Man Really Want From a Woman? | Let Me Say It for Him: The Big Five

    In Episode 349 of You’re Probably Right, I answer a question a lot of people ask but rarely answer honestly: What does the average man really want from a woman? Not the rich man. Not the celebrity. Not the womanizer. Not the man with endless options. The average working man. The regular man with bills, pressure, responsibility, fatigue, and limited room for error. This episode breaks down The Big Five: He wants a woman he does not have to mentally guard from the world.He wants to feel wanted for himself, not just chosen for what he provides.He wants a woman whose public image does not make him feel like a fool for choosing her privately.He wants a woman who knows how to be warm without being available.He wants a woman who listens without making him fight to be heard.This is not textbook talk. This is not theory. This comes from lived experience: relationships, marriage, workplace temptation, emotional boundaries, male attention, public image, and the things average men often feel but do not know how to explain. A lot of men are not asking for perfection. They are asking for protection around what they are trying to build. Let me say it for him. These are The Big Five. relationships, what do men want, average man, men and women, dating, marriage, love, commitment, loyalty, desire, respect, workplace boundaries, social media relationships, male perspective, modern relationships, relationship advice, emotional boundaries, You’re Probably Right

    1h 35m

  3. Jun 3

    348. When the Small Letdown Finally Tells the Truth

    I once knew a guy who mistook a rare feeling for proof, and it almost cost him his self-respect. This episode is for the people who give deeply once they believe something matters. The people who remember details. The people who attach meaning to moments. The people who are not stupid, not weak, not desperate, but maybe too willing to believe that intensity must be pointing toward character. Because sometimes the chemistry was real. The warmth was real. The private moments were real. But real is not the same as safe. Real is not the same as loyal. Real is not the same as honorable. And real is not the same as reciprocal. In Episode 348 of You’re Probably Right, I talk about the kind of connection that keeps you defending the highest moment while the pattern keeps telling the truth. The kind of person who receives your care, your patience, your attention, your body, your loyalty, and your hope, but still does not become more careful with you. Sometimes it is not the huge betrayal that wakes you up. Sometimes it is the small failure. The thing they should have remembered. The thing they should have cared enough to do. The basic act of regard that would have cost them almost nothing. And when they still cannot meet you there, the story finally starts looking different. This one is about chemistry, character, giving too much, protecting the story, ignoring the pattern, and why painful clarity can still be mercy. If you have ever used one beautiful moment to excuse ten weak ones, this episode is for you.

    1h 16m
  4. Episode 347: Why Didn’t I Know I Was Enough?

    May 31

    Episode 347: Why Didn’t I Know I Was Enough?

    In this episode of You’re Probably Right Podcast, I reflect on what happens when you look back at an old version of yourself and realize you were not as worthless, hopeless, unattractive, or broken as you felt at the time. This is a personal rumination about weight loss, old Smule recordings, self image, deep sadness, being treated like your value depended on someone else’s approval, and the painful realization that sometimes we spend years trying to prove our worth to people who should never have been allowed to define it. I talk about letting the wrong people become the mirror, why being wanted after you change can mess with your head, and why sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is stop negotiating your value and let people leave, physically and mentally. Because maybe you were enough. Maybe you just did not know it. And maybe now, you are finally starting to see. If this episode connects with you, share it with someone who has been too hard on themselves.

    1 hr
  5. Episode 346 You’re Not Trying To Get Them Back. You’re Trying To Get Back To The Moment

    May 24

    Episode 346 You’re Not Trying To Get Them Back. You’re Trying To Get Back To The Moment

    In Episode 346 of You’re Probably Right, I talk about the difference between missing a person and missing a moment. Sometimes you are not really trying to get them back. You are trying to get back to the one stretch of time where life felt rare, electric, and almost impossible. The look. The chemistry. The feeling. The peak. And once you have touched something like that, it can take a long time to admit that what you are chasing is not the person anymore. It is the pinnacle. This episode is about what happens when you finally get the thing you always believed life could hold, lose it almost as quickly as you found it, and then spend far too long trying to recreate a miracle that was never built to last. If you have ever replayed a relationship, idealized a high point, or realized that you were not chasing love so much as trying to get back to the feeling, this one is for you. Real talk. Raw thoughts. No neat little answers. Just a hard look at memory, longing, peak experiences, and the painful truth that some moments are summits, not homes.

    45 min
  6. Have You Actually Ever Really Been in Love? Love, Marriage, Attachment & Loneliness

    May 18

    Have You Actually Ever Really Been in Love? Love, Marriage, Attachment & Loneliness

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    1h 15m

  7. May 14

    The Man Behind the Myth | Episode 344

    Episode 344 of You’re Probably Right Podcast is a spoken-word cultural reflection on what happens when Black men are desired, chosen, and pursued not as full human beings, but as myths. This episode goes into colour, culture, country of origin, body, voice, masculinity, sexuality, fantasy, performance, and the hidden cost of being wanted in ways that still do not see the man clearly. Because some people do not choose Black men because they know them. They choose Black men because they think they know what Black men are supposed to be. And when the real man shows up, the fantasy gets offended. This is about fetish, projection, desire, misunderstanding, performance, and the deep difference between being wanted and being respected. If you have ever felt like someone loved the image, the energy, the culture, the body, or the story more than they loved the actual person standing in front of them, this episode will hit.

    41 min

  8. May 13

    Respect Over Love = Love + Respect + Peace Episode 343 of You’re Probably Right Podcast

    Episode 343 of You’re Probably Right Podcast is not a soft conversation. It is not padded. It is not dressed up. I got right into it. This is a spoken-word style episode about why respect matters more than people think, why love without respect becomes dangerous, and why so many people stay in situations where they are wanted, used, desired, touched, remembered, and even cared about in fragments, but still not handled with dignity. I talk about disrespect in dating, love, attachment, mixed signals, emotional crumbs, self-abandonment, and the ugly truth that some people want the benefits of closeness without the burden of carrying another human being properly. This episode is for the people who have been replaying the tone, the moments, the chemistry, the contradictions, and trying to make sense of how something real could still be so wrong. This one is long. It goes in. If you need to pause and come back, come back. But if you have ever confused love with safety, warmth with honor, or closeness with respect, this episode is going to hit.

    1h 31m
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You’re Probably Right is a long-form podcast for people who feel out of step with surface-level advice and easy answers. Each episode looks at relationships, social dynamics, belief systems, and the quiet patterns that shape how people treat each other, especially the parts nobody prepares you for. There are no quick fixes here. Just clear thinking, lived experience, and conversations that trust the listener to keep up. Hosted by Michael C Murray. If this podcast brings you value, help keep it going. Support the show: buymeacoffee.com/yprpodcast ☕️

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  • Creator
    Michael C Murray
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    357
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Michael C Murray
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