You're Sober, Now What?

Lane Kennedy and Tamar Medford
You're Sober, Now What?

Welcome to "You're Sober, Now What?", a no BS guide to staying sober, by Lane Kennedy and Tamar Medford. This podcast celebrates a sober lifestyle, focusing on the realities of long-term recovery. Each season aligns with a part of our book Sobriety for Dummies, published by Wiley, making it the perfect companion. We dive into the challenges of staying sober, offering practical advice, personal stories, and insights. Follow along with the book, start a book club, or tune in for inspiration to stay committed to your sobriety journey.

  1. JAN 14

    Seeking Professional Mental Health Support and Medication

    In this episode of You’re Sober, Now What?, Lane and Tamar delve into the crucial topic of seeking professional mental health support and medication in sobriety. They emphasize the importance of understanding the brain's chemistry in addiction, exploring various therapies, and creating a balanced routine to support long-term recovery. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The role of dopamine and brain chemistry in addiction. How to incorporate mindfulness and manage stress. The importance of seeking professional help and finding alternative treatment options. Understanding the role of sleep and routine in recovery. Celebrating progress and maintaining a positive mindset in sobriety. Timestamps: [00:00] Welcome and introduction. [00:09] Discussing the heftiness of Chapter 8. [01:20] Overview of the podcast and book, Sobriety for Dummies . [01:58] Understanding the brain and dopamine deficiency in addiction. [04:25] Tamar’s journey to seeking professional help. [06:08] The impact of trauma and the need for professional guidance. [10:32] Exploring alternative treatments, including plant medicine and GLPs. [12:16] The critical role of sleep in recovery. [15:59] Developing a routine and the importance of mindfulness. [16:38] Celebrating recovery milestones. [18:12] Final thoughts and wrap-up. Resources & Links: • Grab your copy of Sobriety for Dummies published by Wiley and follow along with us • Website: http://youresobernowwhat.com • Download The Mindful Life App Support the Show: If you found this episode helpful, please consider: • Subscribing to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. • Leaving a review to help others discover the show. • Sharing this episode with a friend who might benefit from it.

    21 min
  2. JAN 7

    Setting Boundaries with Friends and Family

    In this episode of You’re Sober, Now What? we delve into the essential topic of setting boundaries with friends and family. Join hosts Tamar Medford and Lane Kennedy as they discuss the importance of boundaries in sobriety, share personal experiences, and provide practical advice on how to assertively establish and maintain healthy boundaries. What You'll Learn in This Episode: • The significance of boundaries in sobriety. • Transitioning from people-pleasing to setting boundaries. • Tips for handling family members who don’t understand your sobriety. Timestamps: • [00:00] Welcome and introduction. • [00:09] Tamar’s journey with setting boundaries. • [00:51] Impacts of people-pleasing. • [02:16] Re-evaluating friendships. • [04:20] Saying no and its challenges. • [06:46] The value of being honest. • [07:07] Setting boundaries with family. • [08:34] Using your voice effectively. • [09:10] Managing needy friendships. • [12:19] Accepting others' boundaries. • [13:33] Emotional responses to boundaries. • [13:54] Growth in sobriety. • [14:18] Closing thoughts and promotions. Resources & Links: • Grab your copy of Sobriety for Dummies published by Wiley and follow along with us • Website: http://youresobernowwhat.com • Download The Mindful Life App Support the Show: If you found this episode helpful, please consider: • Subscribing to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. • Leaving a review to help others discover the show. • Sharing this episode with a friend who might benefit from it.

    18 min
  3. JAN 7

    Creating a Sober Social Life

    In this episode of You’re Sober, Now What? we dive into the process of creating a fulfilling and authentic sober social life. Join Tamar Medford and Lane Kennedy as they navigate through the complexities of social situations, from dealing with social anxiety to finding genuine connections in a sober lifestyle. What You'll Learn in This Episode: • The impact of alcohol on social interactions and how sobriety changes the dynamic. • Techniques for managing social anxiety and awkwardness in sober settings. • Tips and activities for building a vibrant and enjoyable sober social life. Timestamps: • [00:00] Welcome and introduction. • [00:54] Importance of the chapter on navigating social situations. • [01:50] Personal experiences with social anxiety and alcohol. • [03:54] Lane’s experience with sober socializing and building real connections. • [07:00] Activity suggestion: The Mindful Sobriety Social Quest. • [09:00] Tamar’s tips on becoming mindful in social interactions. • [12:10] Finding new social activities and redefining fun. • [15:00] The importance of community and having a sober buddy. • [17:24] Setting boundaries and maintaining sobriety in social settings. • [20:12] Closing thoughts and upcoming topics. Resources & Links: • Grab your copy of Sobriety for Dummies published by Wiley and follow along with us • Website: http://youresobernowwhat.com • Download The Mindful Life App Support the Show: If you found this episode helpful, please consider: • Subscribing to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. • Leaving a review to help others discover the show. • Sharing this episode with a friend who might benefit from it.

    15 min

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Welcome to "You're Sober, Now What?", a no BS guide to staying sober, by Lane Kennedy and Tamar Medford. This podcast celebrates a sober lifestyle, focusing on the realities of long-term recovery. Each season aligns with a part of our book Sobriety for Dummies, published by Wiley, making it the perfect companion. We dive into the challenges of staying sober, offering practical advice, personal stories, and insights. Follow along with the book, start a book club, or tune in for inspiration to stay committed to your sobriety journey.

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