Quiet Superpowers

Guy Roberts

Have you ever felt like you're not being listened to? That you're quiet? Or that you have amazing ideas that you struggle to articulate to others? I'm Guy Roberts, and here we explore the quiet superpowers of communication. I grew up without ever saying much. It took me a long time to "find my voice". Communication is the single most important skill you can learn in your life. And yes, it can be learnt. In each episode, we break down a topic or aspect of communication skills, to help you on your own journey to creating more meaningful connections with others, building self-confidence, and being seen and recognised for what you can offer. Whether you're new to improving your communication or you're a seasoned speaker, let's find your quiet superpowers of communicating.

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  1. The quiet superpower of listening

    16.12.2025

    The quiet superpower of listening

    In this episode, we look at the superpower of listening. We spend an average of 40% of our total waking time listening. Yet we rarely consider how we can improve our listening. The battle for our attention is only becoming more difficult in the modern world, and listening offers us a way to regain this control. Emily Kasriel's 8-Step Process; 1 - CREATING SPACE This is about making time and the right environment for listening - especially in tough conversations or discussions.2 - LISTENING TO YOURSELF We all carry our own baggage. And sometimes, before we can really listen to other people, we need to sit with ourselves, until our own minds can be quiet enough. 3 - BEING PRESENT This is about not being distracted by the many other things happening in life. This is arguably the hardest one here. Because presence isn't something you can force. Life can be really busy and hectic. And sometimes it's really difficult to not be overwhelmed. And then we're not necessarily in the right place to deeply listen to others. 4 - BEING CURIOUS Curiosity means that you're eager to really understand someone. And being understood is such a valuable thing. 5 - HOLDING THE GAZE Eye contact also helps people feel seen - quite literally... And it also conveys emotional availability. 6 - HOLDING THE SILENCE Silence lets the speaker process things in the space it creates. You can reflect on feelings, and have more meaningful responses. 7 - REFLECTING BACK This builds on the part about being curious. Because reflecting back is about understanding. 8 - GOING DEEPER Final step: is to really understand what's beyond the surface level, and take the experience to a new level.https://www.emilykasriel.com/ For more info on Emily and her work - please visit her website, and I highly recommend checking out her book, Deep Listening. Listen to the full episode to learn more!

    20 Min.
  2. How to build quiet superpowers

    01.12.2025

    How to build quiet superpowers

    In the last episode we talked about what are your quiet superpowers. If you missed it, quiet superpowers refers to the superpower of communicating, especially if you feel or have always felt... quiet. In this episode, we explore how to get started with building this skill of communication. We look at a research-proven method to obtain the most relevant and unique information about your own communication so you can immediately create an improvement plan. ChatGPT Prompt to use for transcription review: Act as an expert Communication Coach for a Principal: I will upload a spoken transcript — read it in full and produce a precise, high-value improvement report that follows these steps: (1) Clarity & Structure — identify exactly where the message is clear vs. where it becomes confusing or unfocused, show 3–6 concrete structural edits (better openings, transitions, signposting, and a stronger close) and, where useful, annotate the transcript with line/timestamp markers for each fix; (2) Conciseness & Word Choice — highlight filler words, redundancies, and long-winded stretches, and provide cleaner alternative phrasings (short, conversational, confident) for those passages; (3) Emotional Resonance & Storytelling — point to moments that land flat and recommend specific ways to add contrast, story beats, curiosity hooks, or emotional detail to make them more engaging; (4) Tone & Presence — evaluate authenticity, confidence and connection, and recommend tangible adjustments to rhythm, pacing, breath, and energy (with examples of phrasing and suggested micro-pauses); (5) Audience Connection — identify where language addresses the audience vs. talks at them, and propose exact wording swaps to make the voice more relatable and human; (6) Top Actions — give 3–5 prioritized, concrete changes that will yield the largest immediate improvement; and (7) Worked Example — include at least one short rewritten excerpt (30–60 words) showing “before → after” so I can hear what “great” sounds like. Keep all feedback actionable, kind, and specific — annotate the transcript where relevant, and finish with a 2–3 line checklist I can practice next time I speak.

    27 Min.

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Have you ever felt like you're not being listened to? That you're quiet? Or that you have amazing ideas that you struggle to articulate to others? I'm Guy Roberts, and here we explore the quiet superpowers of communication. I grew up without ever saying much. It took me a long time to "find my voice". Communication is the single most important skill you can learn in your life. And yes, it can be learnt. In each episode, we break down a topic or aspect of communication skills, to help you on your own journey to creating more meaningful connections with others, building self-confidence, and being seen and recognised for what you can offer. Whether you're new to improving your communication or you're a seasoned speaker, let's find your quiet superpowers of communicating.