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Rifky and Devorah

✨ -Let’s OPOP some Rosé and Talk about it 💋🍧🍾 “The Frum Girls Podcast” 👑👑covering all things, beauty, boundaries, and take along on a car ride gal pal vibes. Follow us @spillthetwith_rd and feedback can be sent to rdspillthetea@gmail.com

  1. T(ea) With Honey: New Year; Same Hopes

    22.09.2022

    T(ea) With Honey: New Year; Same Hopes

    What makes the beginning of something so amazing is the infinite potential. Anything we hope for can come to fruition. Like a new job, relationship, or even a baby…everything we’ve always manifested can happen at the cusp of this “new reali"tea" In this new year, we hope you live louder We hope you laugh more Smile more Connect more With Hashem, those around you, and with the things that set your soul on fire. We hope you sing at the top of your lungs to your favorite song, driving with windows down. We hope you surround yourself with people who make you feel alive. With friends that went from being perfect strangers to the best imperfect family. Find your People who support you and believe in you when you can't do that for yourself. Those who bring out the best in you, and you in them- We hope you become the person that brings good energy wherever you go and the type of person people want to be around; We hope you speak what's on your mind. To be confident in yourself and in your dreams, Tell others that you love them, To find self-love- To discover your own worth and not base it on anything or anyone. We hope you live louder and shine brighter, This is your year. #sweetyear #shanatova #newyear #freshstart #cleanslate #thestartofsomethingnew #season2 🖤🤍🖤 #studio #hotopics #interesting #convos #deepthoughts we mean #business #glamlife #girlboss #hustle #ambition #growth #realtalk Introducing the real reason to 🍻 to #2022 #podcast #spotify #ontheroad #collaboration #season2

    26 Min.
  2. R&D Spill The T, 3.0: Doing Dating Differently; with Mrs. Lisa Elefant, and Fellow #mamabears Raquel, Ruchie & Hannah

    18.07.2022

    R&D Spill The T, 3.0: Doing Dating Differently; with Mrs. Lisa Elefant, and Fellow #mamabears Raquel, Ruchie & Hannah

    R&D + co-host and 3.0 guest Mrs. Lisa Elefant, founder of AAS; we are excited to be joined by fellow shadchanim and dating coaches, Raquel Betesh, Ruchie Cohn, and Hannah Kahana.  “Hishtadlus”/ “Doing Dating Differently” - we all love that word🫠 For singles (our take ) and what it also “looks like” on the shadchanim side - For a shadchan-thinking of ideas, redting them, to push or not to push? - Examples of hishtadlus- meeting shadchanim, events, making events, shabbos meals, programs, networking in a more natural setting, daven daven, and daven. If Amuka is where you feel it’s at then go, but if davening in your backyard gives you just as much menuchas hanefesh that’s your hishtadlus, burnout from “segulas” - Quantity vs. Quality - regarding networking/meeting shadchanim- better for “more people” to know you or just the “right ones”…?  Remember when Lisa told us a guy said “you're my only shadchan” - Keeping things fresh with AAS Shidduch initiatives- #zoom, #nixthepics, “BMG” “be my guest”, wedding redting, ubermeets etc, SHABBATONS…. - recipes & resumes 🤍👩🏻‍🍳 - Trusting yourself- knowing when you need “help” or a push, using a dating coach, etc is that part of singles hishtadlus? = LISA + FELLOW SHADCHAN COACHES -At what point do you like to meet your singles, before their dates (e.g. have  a relationship before, so you're familiar with their “what’s normal” (coaches) -In your opinion who benefits more from a coach, the girls or the guys- yes guys might be a little lax on cues but girls can sometimes be too much in their heads (coaches) - Taking breaks- necessary but to what degree? To avoid feeling burnt out, the “older” a single gets, can they “afford to”..? Tea lights: Efforts you feel a single can take to maximize their quality exposure  #spillthet Listen along- and as always your feedback is ALWAYS valued 🖤🤍🖤 #studio #hotopics #interesting #convos #deepthoughts we mean #business #glamlife #girlboss #hustle #ambition #dating #datingcoach #shidduchdating #realtalk Introducing the real reason to 🍻 to #2022 #podcast #spotify #ontheroad #collaboration

    50 Min.

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✨ -Let’s OPOP some Rosé and Talk about it 💋🍧🍾 “The Frum Girls Podcast” 👑👑covering all things, beauty, boundaries, and take along on a car ride gal pal vibes. Follow us @spillthetwith_rd and feedback can be sent to rdspillthetea@gmail.com