Creative Journey

Kaila Allen

Creative Journey is a podcast where we explore creativity and mindfulness. We believe everyone is creative, and we want to help you discover and nurture your creativity. We also believe mindfulness is essential for the creative process, and we want to help you cultivate a more mindful approach to your work and life. Let’s grow and expand together. E-mail us at creativejourney.kc@gmail.com. Join the list serve by sending a blank e-mail to creative–journey+subscribe@googlegroups.com. To join us each week on zoom, Send an e-mail to Community@acb.org

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    Navigating Boundary Guilt & Repair

    You finally did it. You said "No." You set the boundary. But instead of feeling peaceful, you feel a massive wave of anxiety and guilt. You want to text them immediately and take it all back. In Week 7, we normalize this exact moment. It is called the "Boundary Hangover," and feeling it doesn't mean you made a mistake—it just means you are breaking an old survival pattern. We learn how to ride the wave of this discomfort without collapsing our newly set limits, and we master the somatic art of a genuine apology for when we are the ones who cross a line. In this episode, we explore: The Boundary Hangover: Understanding the physiological spike of panic that happens after setting a boundary, and how to survive it using a somatic tool called "Titration." Guilt vs. Shame: Why "I did a bad thing" (Guilt) leads to beautiful repair, while "I am bad" (Shame) leads to fawning and self-sabotage. The Art of Repair: How to apologize without groveling or collapsing your spine (Acknowledgment + Impact + Changed Behavior). The False Rupture: A crucial nuance for the disability community. Why we must stop apologizing for taking up space and learn to replace a shame-filled "I'm sorry" with a dignified "Thank you for your patience." The Upper Limit of Joy: Why we subconsciously sabotage our own peace when a boundary actually works, and how to use the "15-Second Savoring Pause" to rewire the nervous system for joy. Resources: Creative Guidance LLC Buy Me a Coffee

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Creative Journey is a podcast where we explore creativity and mindfulness. We believe everyone is creative, and we want to help you discover and nurture your creativity. We also believe mindfulness is essential for the creative process, and we want to help you cultivate a more mindful approach to your work and life. Let’s grow and expand together. E-mail us at creativejourney.kc@gmail.com. Join the list serve by sending a blank e-mail to creative–journey+subscribe@googlegroups.com. To join us each week on zoom, Send an e-mail to Community@acb.org