Abdulfattah Adeyemi

Abdulfattah Adeyemi

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  1. WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN TELLING YOURSELF?

    -3 J

    WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN TELLING YOURSELF?

    What have you been telling yourself in the privacy of your own mind? What is that constant, often unnoticed stream ofinner speech that shapes your reality, your emotions, your relationships, and your relationship with Allah?   This comprehensive lecture explores the philosophical, psychological, and spiritual dimensions of self-talk throughthe lens of the Qur'an and Sunnah. You will learn to recognize the voice of the Inner Critic, distinguish it from the conscience, understand how your past, present, and future narratives shape your life, and discover practical, Qur'an-basedtools to reclaim your inner speech.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:  1. The Nature of Self-Talk — Why the voice never stops and what it really is 2. The Language of the Inner Critic — Where harsh self-judgment comes from 3. The Stories We Tell Ourselves — How narrative shapes identity 4. The Qur'an on Inner Speech — What Allah reveals about your hidden whispers 5. The Hadith on Thoughts and Intentions — The sacred space of the inner world 6. Affirmation vs. Toxic Positivity — When encouragement becomes denial 7. The Words We Speak About Our Past — Freeing yourself from regret 8. The Words We Speak About Our Present — Living in the now with presence 9. The Words We Speak About Our Future — Breaking the cycle of anxiety 10. The Path to Reclaiming Inner Speech — Practical daily practices   KEY TOPICS COVERED:  • What is self-talk and why does it never stop? • The Inner Critic vs. The Conscience (Nafs al-Lawwāmah) • How inherited stories shape your identity • Qur'anic verses on inner speech (50:16, 114:4, 7:205, etc.) • Hadith on forgiven thoughts and the power of intention • The difference between healthy affirmation and toxic positivity • How to speak to yourself about past failures, mistakes, and trauma • Breaking free from comparison, overwhelm, and stagnation • Transforming "what if" anxiety into trust in Allah • Practical daily practices: muraqabah, dhikr, and istighfar • The Five Gates of Inner Speech • Qur'anic replacement phrases for common harmful self-talk   SOURCES REFERENCED:  • Qur'an: Surah Al-Baqarah, An-Nisa, Yunus, Yusuf, Maryam, Al-Furqan, Qaf, etc. • Sahih Bukhari & Sahih Muslim • Sunan Abi Dawud, Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah • Tafsir Ibn Kathir • Classical Islamic scholarship on nafs, qalb, and rūḥ    SUBSCRIBE for more Islamic reflections on psychology, spirituality, and personal growth!   Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy   Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa   Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠   Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠   FOLLOW ME ON:   Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA   Instagram:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi   #SelfTalk #InnerSpeech#IslamicPsychology #QuranAndSelf #InnerCritic #ToxicPositivity #IslamicSpirituality #HealingInnerWorld #Nafs #Tazkiyah #Dhikr #Muraqabah #IslamicReminder #MentalHealthInIslam #QuranReflection #PersonalGrowth#IslamicWisdom #HealingFromWithin #TrustAllah #Repentance #Tawbah #HopeInAllah #QuranicHealing#MuslimMentalHealth #IslamicSelfHelp

    2 h 5 min
  2. THE SPOUSE AND THEIR IN-LAWS

    18 MAI

    THE SPOUSE AND THEIR IN-LAWS

    Marriage not only unites two people. It often connects two families, two cultures, and two emotional worlds. But one important question remains: How much involvement should in-laws really have in a marriage?   In this insightful and balanced lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores: the rights of a spouse upon their in-laws healthy family boundaries emotional protection in marriage respecting parents without damaging the marriage and how wise in-laws become a source of peace instead of pressure.   THIS LECTURE DISCUSSES: family interference in marriage emotional safety for spouses healthy communication with parents and in-laws Islamic balance between marriage and family protecting the dignity of one’s spouse and the role of wise, supportive in-laws. You will also hear a heartfelt tribute to “The in-laws from paradise” — those beautiful souls who support marriages with wisdom, mercy, and maturity.   KEY REMINDER: Parents deserve honour.Marriage deserves protection.The goal is not family separation, but healthy closeness with healthy boundaries. Subscribefor more deep reflections on love, marriage, emotional healing, and spiritual growth.Share this with someone who needs clarity and peace with their in-laws today.   Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy   Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa   Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠   Join AbdulfattahAdeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠   FOLLOW ME ON:   Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA   Instagram:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi   in-laws and marriage, marriage advice islam, family interference in marriage, islamic marriage advice, mother in law problems, healthy boundaries marriage, spouse rights in islam, muslim family lecture, relationship advice,marriage counseling, husband and wife issues, protecting marriage, emotional intelligence marriage, family and marriage balance, in-laws in islam

    30 min
  3. THE A-Z OF MARRIAGE: WHAT THE SCHOOLS NEVER TAUGHT US

    14 MAI

    THE A-Z OF MARRIAGE: WHAT THE SCHOOLS NEVER TAUGHT US

    When we were children, we learned A for Apple…B for Ball…C for Cat… But nobody taught us A for Affection, B for Boundaries, and C for Communication Yet, these are the very letters that build or break marriages. In this emotional, practical, and reflective lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores The A–Z of Marriage — an insightful look into love, communication, trust, mercy,forgiveness, emotional intelligence, and building a peaceful home.   From Affection to Zeal, Mercy to Patience, and Trust to Understanding, this lecture combines Islamic wisdom, relatable humour, emotional insight, practical marital advice, and timeless relationship principles.   Whether you are married, preparing for marriage, struggling in your relationship, or helping others build healthy homes… this lecture will transform how you see marriage.   TOPICS COVERED: Emotional intimacy Conflict resolution Preventing divorce Healthy communication Emotional maturity in marriage Trust and loyalty Kindness and mercy The spiritual side of marriage Building lasting love   Happy homes are not built by perfect people…they are built by people who learn the language of marriage well.   Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy   Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa   Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠   Join AbdulfattahAdeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠   FOLLOW ME ON:   Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA   Instagram:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi   marriage advice, islamic marriage lecture, muslim couples, marriage communication, relationship advice, marriagemotivation, emotional intelligence marriage, conflict resolution marriage, happy marriage tips, islamic relationship advice, husband and wife lecture, family life islam, preventing divorce, love and mercy in islam, marriage counseling

    1 h 14 min
  4. YOU WANT MARRIAGE, BUT ARE YOU READY FOR IT?

    10 MAI

    YOU WANT MARRIAGE, BUT ARE YOU READY FOR IT?

    Many people want marriage… but very few truly understand what it requires. And many people are preparing for the wedding day… but not preparing for married life.   In this powerful and eye-opening lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the reality of marriage beyondthe dreams, emotions, and societal expectations. Are you ready for marriage… or just interested in it?   THIS LECTURE WILL HELP YOU: Understand the difference between the idea and the reality of marriage Identify why people rush into marriage—and why others delay it Evaluate your true readiness (emotionally, spiritually, psychologically, and financially) Avoid common mistakes that lead to marital breakdown Prepare yourself properly before entering marriage Learn where and how to find a suitable spouse the right way   Whether you are single, searching, or preparing for marriage, this message will guide you toward making wiser, moreintentional decisions.   Like & Share this lecture to inspire others.   Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy   Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa   Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠   Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠   FOLLOW ME ON:   Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA   Instagram: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube: www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi   marriage readiness, islamic marriage advice, before getting married, relationship advice islam, marriage preparation,muslim singles advice, how to prepare for marriage, marriage reality, why marriages fail, choosing a spouse islam, premarital advice islam, marriage lecture islam, relationship readiness, emotional maturity marriage, marriage expectations   What stage are you in right now?   Not ready yet Preparing myself Actively searching Already married (learning)   Let’s learn from each other.

    1 h 43 min
  5. EI: WHAT EVERY HUSBAND MUST KNOW

    6 MAI

    EI: WHAT EVERY HUSBAND MUST KNOW

    Dear Husband: This Is Why YourMarriage Is Struggling  A man can provide everything… yet still struggle to build a peaceful home. In this powerful and practical lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores one of the most overlooked aspects of marriage—emotional intelligence in husbands. Why do many marriages experience tension, distance, and repeated conflict? Often, it is not about money or provision… It is about how emotions are handled.   This lecture will help you: Understand what emotional intelligence truly means in marriage Learn how to listen, respond, and lead with wisdom Avoid common mistakes that damage relationships Build emotional stability and connection in your home Create a peaceful, respectful, and loving environment   You will also discover: Practical ways to manage anger and reactions How to understand your wife’s emotional needs A message of encouragement for husbands who are trying but struggling A powerful du‘ā for peaceful and successful marriages   A man can provide everything… but still fail to create a peaceful home. This is not just advice… It is a guide to building a home filled with sakīnah (tranquility).   Subscribefor more deep reflections on love, marriage, emotional healing, and spiritual growth. Share this with someone who needs clarity and peace today.   Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy   Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa   Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠   Join AbdulfattahAdeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠   FOLLOW ME ON:   Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA   Instagram:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi     marriage advice for husbands,emotional intelligence in marriage, islamic marriage advice, husband and wiferelationship, conflict resolution marriage, muslim husband responsibilities,marriage tips for men, how to be a good husband, relationship advice islam,emotional maturity men, peaceful marriage islam, communication in marriage,marriage problems solution, love and respect marriage, family life islam

    53 min
  6. EI: WHAT EVERY WIFE MUST KNOW

    2 MAI

    EI: WHAT EVERY WIFE MUST KNOW

    Many marriages are not broken because of lack of love…but because of how emotions are handled. In this powerful and deeply reflective lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores how emotional intelligence can transform a marriage—especially through the role of the wife in preventing unnecessary conflict and preservingpeace in the home. LEARN HOW TO: Manage emotions during tense moments Communicate with wisdom and timing Avoid common mistakes that escalate conflict Understand your husband’s emotional patterns Create a calm and emotionally safe environment   THIS LECTURE ALSO ADDRESSES: The balance between patience and self-respect When to speak, when to pause, and how to respond The spiritual dimension of emotional intelligence in Islam   Whether you are married, preparing for marriage, or seeking to improve your relationship, this message will give you practical tools and deep insights to build a more peaceful and emotionally intelligent home. “Many marriages are not destroyed by big problems… but by small emotions handled with ‘wishdom’ instead of wisdom.” Follow me for more deep reflections on love, marriage, emotional healing, and spiritual growth. Share this with someone who needs clarity and peace today.   Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy   Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa   Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠   Join AbdulfattahAdeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠   FOLLOW ME ON:   Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA   Instagram:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi emotional intelligence in marriage, islamic marriage advice,relationship advice for wives, muslim wife advice, marriage conflict resolution, how to avoid arguments in marriage, marriage tips islam, peaceful marriage tips, emotional intelligence relationship, communication in marriage,marriage counseling islam, love and respect in marriage, relationship wisdom islam, marriage reminders, conflict management in marriage In moments of tension, what is hardest for you? Controlling my emotions Choosing the right words Timing my response Understanding my spouse Your answer might help someone else reflect.

    31 min
  7. MARRIAGE AND ITS SEASONS

    28 AVR.

    MARRIAGE AND ITS SEASONS

    Many couples panic when things change… but what if nothing is wrong? What if your marriage is simply in a different season?  Marriage is not a straight journey—it is a cycle of seasons.   In this deeply insightful lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the reality that every marriage passesthrough different phases: moments of love, times of pressure, periods of reflection, and seasons of testing.   This powerful reminder will help you: Understand why love changes over timeRecognize the season your marriage is in Avoid making permanent decisions in temporary moments Navigate difficult phases with wisdom and patienceRebuild the connection and rediscover love You will also hear a touching reflection on: The Marriage Keepers who endured And those who had to recalculate their path and begin again This is not just a lecture… it is a message of hope, healing, and perspective for every married person—or anyone preparing for marriage.  What season is your marriage in right now?Spring | Summer  | Reflection | Testing Share below—your response might help someone else.   Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy   Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa  Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠  Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠   FOLLOW ME ON:  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA  Instagram: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube: www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi marriage and its seasons, islamicmarriage lecture, relationship advice islam, marriage challenges, love inmarriage islam, why marriages fail, how to fix marriage, muslim couples advice,marriage reminder, emotional intelligence in marriage, marriage counseling islam,understanding relationships, marriage motivation, relationship wisdom, islamicreminder marriage, surviving marriage struggles, love and patience in islam

    1 h 27 min
  8. REBUILDING THE MARRIAGE FOUNDATION

    24 AVR.

    REBUILDING THE MARRIAGE FOUNDATION

    We love each other. Why is this so hard? In this lecture, organized by The Muslim Platform, UK, Dr Abdulfattah Adeyemi examines the main challenge that is the cause of most other challenges in marriage: STRESS.The lecture serves as a reminder that, despite the inevitable challenges and flaws that may arise in marriage due to stress and depression, the essence of humanity is rooted in dignity, purpose, and the ability to strive for excellence. Subscribe for more Islamic wisdom, lectures,and reflections   Like & Share this lecture to inspire others inunderstanding that marital challenges are natural, but they also present opportunities for deepening understanding and strengthening bonds.   Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy   Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa   Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠   Join AbdulfattahAdeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠   FOLLOW ME ON:   Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA   Instagram:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi

    41 min
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  • Création
    Abdulfattah Adeyemi
  • Années d’activité
    2021 - 2026
  • Épisodes
    208
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    Tous publics
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