Decisions, Decisions

Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.    Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.   From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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  1. hace 2 h

    Selective Ignorance: Ep. 74 | Right Message, Wrong Messenger

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jason Rodriguez, and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation exploring American politics, relationships, self-defense laws, free speech, travel, race, and celebrity culture. The episode opens with a preview of the week's biggest stories [ 00:38 ], before the full crew checks in and shares stories about travel mishaps, delayed flights, and the ever-changing airline experience [ 02:28 ][ 04:06 ]. The conversation then shifts to a thought-provoking debate over which underrepresented community has the greatest chance of producing a future President of the United States, examining the political trajectories of figures like Kamala Harris and Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez (AOC) while discussing the unique barriers facing Black women, Muslim Americans, and other marginalized groups [ 07:41 ]. In this week's "Double Down or Take It Back," Mandii revisits her viral statement that "marriage is for broke women," explaining the financial philosophy behind the comment while unpacking the realities of marriage, divorce, wealth-building, and treating long-term relationships as business partnerships [ 22:58 ]. The discussion continues in "This Is America," where the hosts examine a controversial Jacksonville, Florida, Stand Your Ground caseinvolving two Black teenagers charged with first-degree murder despite questions surrounding self-defense [ 35:28 ]. The crew explores the legal gray areas surrounding self-defense laws, prosecutorial discretion, and the burden of proof, debating how race and circumstance often shape public perception and courtroom outcomes [ 39:00 ][ 41:15 ]. The conversation then pivots to a lighter—but surprisingly divisive—topic after a viral debate about whether Uber passengers should be allowed to curse during rides [ 43:35 ]. The hosts unpack the balance between customer rights, driver expectations, personal boundaries, and respect in shared spaces [ 45:37 ][ 48:46 ]. From there, they discuss reports of an LGBTQ+ cruise being denied entry into Turkey and Egypt, using the story to explore international travel, cultural differences, government policies, and safety concerns for LGBTQ+ travelers abroad [ 56:29 ][ 59:30 ][ 01:07:38 ]. Closing out the episode, the crew dives into "Celebrities Say the Darnedest Things," examining the idea of the right message coming from the wrong messenger [ 01:09:13 ]. They briefly revisit ongoing conversations surrounding Ray J's controversial comments about sexually transmitted diseases [ 01:12:53 ], before questioning Safaree's credibility and the importance of who delivers advice in public discourse [ 01:14:03 ][ 01:14:57 ]. The discussion expands after reacting to a white content creator's comments about Black women, sparking a broader debate about dating preferences, racial bias, beauty standards, and the difference between personal preference and systemic prejudice [ 01:16:45 ][ 01:18:30 ][ 01:24:09 ]. The episode concludes with a conversation inspired by Stephen A. Smith's daughter joking about placing him in a nursing home, prompting reflections on elder care, family responsibility, community support, and how different cultures approach caring for aging parents [ 01:27:25 ][01:30:26 ][ 01:36:38 ]. Wrapping up with final thoughts and weekly plugs [ 01:40:01 ], the crew delivers another engaging blend of humor, cultural commentary, and nuanced discussion on the stories shaping today's conversations.  No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  2. 14 jul

    Selective Ignorance: Ep. 72 | 3 Nights, White Knights and Israelites

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee, for a timely conversation covering hip-hop culture, media legacy, politics, sports, race, and misinformation. The episode opens with Mandii's monologue and a preview of the week's biggest conversations [00:57 ], before A-King introduces Dreamville's new 144-page print magazine, The Falloff [ 02:28 ]. The crew celebrates the publication's commitment to long-form hip-hop journalism and reflects on its featured tribute to Combat Jack, using the moment to discuss the enduring impact of The Combat Jack Show on podcasting, rap journalism, and today's media landscape [ 04:02 ][ 08:33 ]. After Jason joins the conversation, the crew jokes about missing Jay-Z's historic Yankee Stadium performances and the cultural significance surrounding the concerts [13:07 ], before Mandii recaps her experience working Essence Festival and exploring New Orleans, sharing observations about the city's culture, music, and community [ 14:26 ]. That experience leads into an unexpected encounter with Hebrew Israelite street preachers on Canal Street, prompting an honest discussion about ideology, misogyny, and religious extremism [ 19:50 ][ 28:11 ]. The conversation then returns to Jay-Z, as the crew revisits his Yankee Stadium concerts [ 29:33 ], including a humorous detour before breaking down his viral freestyle and the political references woven throughout the performance [ 34:13 ][ 38:00 ]. The hosts unpack Jay-Z's comments surrounding Target boycotts, Colin Kaepernick, and corporate activism [ 40:20 ], while clarifying misconceptions about Kaepernick's NFL settlement and the persistent myths surrounding non-disclosure agreements [ 48:09 ][ 52:12 ]. They also examine the importance of offering thoughtful criticism without falling into fan culture or blind loyalty [ 55:18 ], before debating whether modern boycotts remain effective tools for creating lasting change [ 57:19 ]. The latter half of the episode turns toward justice and public accountability with updates in the Nolan Wells case, including discussions surrounding independent investigations and Colin Kaepernick's support for funding a private autopsy [ 58:43 ]. The hosts examine the ongoing concerns many Black families have about safety in predominantly white spaces, institutional accountability, and recurring patterns that continue to shape public trust [ 01:03:28 ][01:08:59 ], while reflecting on allyship, proximity, and the responsibilities of those who claim to stand in solidarity [01:15:26 ]. Closing out the episode, the crew reacts to the political controversy surrounding Caitlin Clark and the WNBA, discussing a letter from Republican lawmakers alleging racial bias against the league's biggest star [ 01:18:26 ]. The hosts unpack the intersections of race, misogyny, media narratives, and "white knighting" in women's sports [01:22:00 ][ 01:33:49 ], before addressing Kodak Black's comments suggesting a "KKK" alliance involving Kanye West and Kendrick Lamar [ 01:37:46 ]. The conversation concludes by firmly debunking the false online claim that the Ku Klux Klan was originally founded by Black people, emphasizing the importance of historical accuracy, responsible media consumption, and challenging misinformation before it spreads [ 01:41:21 ]. The episode wraps with final reflections and the crew's signature sign-off [ 01:53:31 ], delivering another thought-provoking blend of cultural commentary, historical context, and informed debate.  No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.    Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.   From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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