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'Other People's Parenting' is hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of early childhood education companies Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent). They read contemporary, classic, and controversial parenting books and give you the gist with a sense of humor, so you can implement the methods or just be able to discuss them at school functions.

  1. hace 4 días

    Our Top Ten Parenting Books of 2026

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) - we discuss notable parenting books, as we endeavor to provide our listeners with an overview and insightful analysis of the literature that shapes contemporary parenting practices. As we embark on this engaging exploration, we delve into a recap of our favorite books from the previous season, organized from ten to one allowing for a structured and coherent examination of each. We aim to highlight the good points and key messages conveyed, while also reflecting upon the personal anecdotes and insights that have emerged from our own experiences as mothers in the realm of parenting. We strive to foster a meaningful dialogue that encourages our listeners to engage with this literature and apply its teachings in their own parenting journeys. We hope that this episode not only serves as an informative resource but also inspires a deeper understanding of the complexities and nuances inherent in the art of parenting! The episode presents a thorough exploration of parenting literature, as conveyed by hosts Schuyler Hurwitz and her mother, Karen Quinn, in their podcast 'Other People's Parenting.' The hosts reflect on notable parenting books reviewed in the previous season, showcasing their insights and experiences with each text. A significant theme that emerges is the detrimental influence of diet culture on children's self-perception, as articulated in Virginia Soul Smith's 'Fat Talk: Parenting in the Age of Diet Culture.' This book prompts a critical examination of societal attitudes towards weight and their implications for child development, urging parents to foster healthier relationships with food and body image. They engage with the arguments presented in 'The Anxious Generation,' which posits that overexposure to screens contributes to heightened anxiety among youth. This discussion is enriched by empirical evidence that highlights the need for parents to navigate technology's pervasive presence in their children's lives thoughtfully. As the episode progresses, the hosts thoughtfully recap their favorite books from the prior season, structured in reverse order to captivate both new and returning listeners. Takeaways: This episode offers a comprehensive recap of our favorite parenting books from Season One, highlighting key insights and lessons learned.We discuss the significant impact of technology and societal pressures on modern parenting, emphasizing the importance of emotional well-being for children.The value of understanding diverse parenting approaches from around the world is explored, revealing different cultural attitudes towards child-rearing.We emphasize the necessity of fostering a growth mindset in children, encouraging perseverance and resilience in the face of challenges. Links referenced in this episode: testingmom.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Habit CoachTesting Mom

    Our Top Ten Parenting Books of 2026

  2. 1 jul

    Kids Who Go No Contact - Navigating Stories of Estrangement

    On this episode of the podcast, 'Other People's Parenting. hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best-selling author of The Ivy Chronicles, founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) - we discuss the top 10 favorite parenting books reviewed in Season 1 of the ‘Other People’s Parenting’ podcast, and what we learned from each book. We also cover our 2 least favorite books of the season. Here they are: 1. Hunt, Gather, Parent, by Michaeleen Doucleff An American mother who grew up in an angry home and is struggling with raising her willful 3-year-old (Rosy) brings her Rosy with her as she lives and learns about parenting in Indigenous populations – the Maya in Yucatan, the Intuit in the Arctic Circle, the Hadzabe in Tanzania. 2. Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, Amy Chua This was supposed to be a story of how Chinese parents are better at raising kids than Western ones. But instead, it’s about a bitter clash of cultures, a fleeting taste of glory, and how I was humbled by a 13-year-old. The author is a Yale law professor (Chinese) married to a Jewish Yale law professor.The book came out in 2011 and caused controversy. It’s written like a memoir, felt half serious, half tongue in cheek. She talks about raising her daughters under an authoritative (but also warm) parenting style she called Chinese Parenting or Tiger Parenting. 3. Testing for Kindergarten: Simple Strategies to Help Your Child Ace the Test For Public School Placement, Private School Admissions, Gifted Program Qualification, by Karen Quinn Book tells parents not to go crazy cramming for private school / Gifted admissions tests.Instead, understand the skills being tested are the same skills your child is supposed to master in the first 5 years. You can help them master these skills through everyday interactions and play. Book covers the 7 abilities kids need to score high on IQ and group ability (gifted) tests and how to instill them through daily life. Skills are – Language, Knowledge/comprehension, Memory, Math, Visual Spatial Reasoning, Thinking, Motor Skills + (bonus skills) attention, listening, processing speed. 4. Mindset, by Carol Dweck After decades of research, world-renowned Stanford University psychologist Carol S. Dweck, discovered a simple but groundbreaking idea: the power of mindset. In this book, she shows how success in school, work, sports, the arts, and almost every area of human endeavor can be dramatically influenced by how we think about our talents and abilities. People with a fixed mindset - those who believe that abilities are fixed - are less likely to flourish than those with a growth mindset - those who believe that abilities can be developed. 5. Good Inside, by Dr. Becky Kennedy This book says that current discipline models like time outs, stickers, rewards, punishment – are based on changing outside (observable) behavior rather than non-observable mental states that lead to the behavior. She believes in changing parenting mindset from consequences to connecting with the child, while still maintaining boundaries and parental authority. 6. Bringing Up Bebe, by Pamela Druckerman This was the first book we ever read. We learned how differently children are raised in France. The book offers helpful tips and insights in the French philosophy of child-rearing. It was fascinating. We thought many of their “ways” were worth adopting in America. 7. The Anxious Generation – How the Great Rewiring of Childhood is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness, by Jonathan Haidt This book traces the dramatic decline in youth mental health, linking smartphones and social media to rising rates of depression and anxiety while offering solutions to parents and society. 8. Smart But Scattered, Peg Dawson and Richard Guare For parents of kids age 4 – 13 who have difficulties with 1) getting started, 2) staying focused, 3) impulse-control, 4) emotional control, 5) managing time, 6) organization, 7) planning and prioritizing, 8) remembering things, 9) being flexible, 10) working towards a goal, 11) self-awareness (meta-cognition). 9. 5 Love Languages of Children – by Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell Every child has a primary language in which they understand their parent’s love best.This book teaches you how to recognize and speak your child’s main love language as well as the other 4 love languages you can use to help your child know he is loved so they can grow into a loving responsible adult. 10. a href="https://www.amazon.com/Fat-Talk-Parenting-Diet-Culture/dp/1250892503/ref=sr_1_1?crid=30KMPTOYN6ZUQ&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.svG6vekpGxQ8nUEJTliObcPJCiHyVV3cImpSoWmBBEbOgxJ6zFcaYYZA2bNl7skF0rvfeO9Ys9dJkn52xaezdAxYEdetLxa2NUG_BiVHpafyq6qtQOfcyB2VLXWbm0eQUrkFRh7jwkqjNO-qheHM7Wm_pEO91mBt9UXh7BNwArwlxhI15M_LAK6XoX927efxV6VBk8uqq9Aat6QfY15_VxxOonXRD7iC1o7p9px80bw.kY8i-yo9ikDSVSJv6KfEIya71EgHcO_lgHyVVo4pZA8&dib_tag=se&keywords=fat+talk&qid=1784135856&sprefix=fat+%2Caps%2C161&sr=8-1"...

    Kids Who Go No Contact - Navigating Stories of Estrangement

  3. 24 jun

    Mom Test - From Snacktime to Startup

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) - we discuss the nuances of entrepreneurship, particularly as it pertains to mothers seeking to establish businesses inspired by their experiences with their children. We explore the pivotal premise of the book "The Mom Test," which emphasizes the importance of soliciting genuine feedback from potential customers rather than relying on the often biased opinions of close associates, such as family members. The discussion reveals that successful business ventures stem from identifying real problems that consumers face and assessing their willingness to invest in solutions. Additionally, we share personal anecdotes that illustrate the transformative power of parental inspiration in the entrepreneurial journey. Ultimately, our conversation underscores the necessity of adaptability, patience, and authenticity in navigating the complex landscape of business ownership. We reflect on the tremendous support received from our audience and the joy derived from sharing our parenting insights and experiences. This unexpected pivot leads us to discuss the fundamental principles of starting a business, emphasizing the importance of identifying genuine problems that consumers face and ensuring that any product or service developed truly addresses these needs. Takeaways: The podcast emphasizes the importance of gathering genuine feedback from potential customers before launching a business.Listeners are encouraged to start small with their business ideas and evolve based on customer input and market demand.We share personal anecdotes, highlighting the necessity of adaptability and scrappiness in the face of unforeseen challenges in entrepreneurship.A significant point made is that entrepreneurs should remain true to themselves to build authentic connections with their audience.It is discussed that patience is key in the business journey, as success often takes longer than originally anticipated.The importance of understanding one's unique selling proposition in a competitive market is also underscored, guiding the direction of a new business. Links referenced in this episode: habitcoach.comtestingmom.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Habit CoachTesting MomRob FitzpatrickNosy Boo

    Mom Test - From Snacktime to Startup

  4. 17 jun

    Danish Parenting - The Secret Sauce of Danish Childhood

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) -our discussion revolves around the exploration of the Danish approach to parenting, which is characterized by a profound emphasis on fostering happiness and resilience in children. We delve into the principles outlined in the book "The Danish Way of Parenting," where the authors advocate for a parenting style that prioritizes play, authenticity, reframing, empathy, and a sense of togetherness encapsulated by the concept of 'Hygge'. Throughout our discussion, we highlight the significance of allowing children to engage in unstructured play and the profound impact it has on their socialization and emotional development. We reflect on the cultural nuances that differentiate Danish parenting from prevalent practices in other societies, particularly in terms of emotional honesty and the lack of punitive measures in child-rearing. Join us as we uncover the invaluable insights and methodologies that contribute to the contentment of Danish children and, by extension, their families. We delve into how the Danish approach to raising children is grounded in five essential principles: play, authenticity, reframing, empathy, and a rejection of ultimatums. This parenting style is characterized by a focus on the emotional well-being of children, which the authors argue is integral to fostering resilience and happiness in adulthood. The conversation emphasizes the significance of play, which is regarded as a fundamental aspect of child development in Denmark. Danish parents prioritize allowing their children unstructured playtime, which not only nurtures creativity but also cultivates social skills and emotional intelligence. This stands in stark contrast to parenting practices in other cultures, where children are often subjected to intense academic pressures and structured schedules from an early age. We discuss how this liberating approach enables children to explore their environment freely, developing autonomy and a sense of self. In addition to play, the discussion touches upon the concept of 'hygge,' which embodies a sense of coziness and togetherness central to Danish culture. We advocate for creating warm family interactions that enrich emotional connections. We also reflect on the importance of emotional authenticity—acknowledging both positive and negative feelings without shielding children from life's complexities. The episode ultimately serves as a compelling argument for re-evaluating conventional parenting techniques in favor of a more holistic, child-centered approach that aligns with the Danish ethos. Takeaways: The Danish method of parenting emphasizes the importance of play, allowing children to engage freely without adult interference, thus fostering autonomy and creativity in their development.In Denmark, there is a strong focus on emotional honesty, where parents model their own emotions for children, allowing them to understand and accept a full spectrum of feelings.The concept of 'Hygge' in Danish culture promotes a sense of coziness and togetherness, encouraging families to spend quality time together in a warm and inviting atmosphere.Danish parenting values promoting social skills and emotional intelligence over academic achievement, leading to a more well-rounded and resilient adult.Danish parents employ a method of reframing situations positively, teaching children to focus on the silver linings and to develop a resilient mindset towards challenges.Overall, the Danish parenting style encourages a communal sense of well-being, fostering a culture where children's happiness is prioritized alongside their individual growth. Links referenced in this episode: Testingmom.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Habit CoachTesting MomTestingmom.comDisneyHans Christian AndersenMontessoriLEGOScholasticMoby MaxBrain Pop

    Danish Parenting - The Secret Sauce of Danish Childhood

  5. 10 jun

    Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother - The Original Parenting Debate That Broke The Internet (Featuring Sandy Cho)

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) -is the exploration of the parenting philosophies articulated in Amy Chua's controversial book, "Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother." We delve into the differences between Eastern and Western parenting styles, examining the implications of Chua's "Tiger Mom" approach, which emphasizes rigorous discipline, high expectations, and a results-oriented mindset. We juxtapose these methodologies with personal anecdotes and reflections from our guest, Sandy Cho, who offers invaluable insights drawn from her own upbringing in a similar framework. The conversation reveals the complexities and nuances that accompany strict parenting, shedding light on both the potential benefits and psychological toll it may impose on children. Ultimately, we aim to foster a deeper understanding of how these parenting styles manifest in contemporary society, and whether they yield the desired outcomes for the next generation. Takeaways: The podcast explores the distinctions between Western and Chinese parenting styles, particularly highlighting the intense expectations placed upon children.We discuss the cultural implications of parenting styles, emphasizing that the approach taken by parents can significantly affect children's outcomes.A key insight shared was the importance of balancing strictness with support, illustrating that parenting styles must adapt to individual children's needs.The episode features Sandy Cho who provides a personal account of growing up under a strict parenting style, revealing both the benefits and challenges associated with it.The discussion touches upon the pressure to achieve excellence, as illustrated through anecdotes about the guests' upbringing and their experiences in competitive environments.Ultimately, the podcast advocates for understanding and flexibility in parenting, acknowledging that different children may require different approaches to thrive. Links referenced in this episode: habitcoach.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Habit CoachTesting MomHarvardYaleStanford

    Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother - The Original Parenting Debate That Broke The Internet (Featuring Sandy Cho)

  6. 3 jun

    How To Talk To Teens - Turning Eye Rolls into actual Conversations

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) -we dive into communication between parents and their teenage children, centering around the book "How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk" by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish. We explore the authors' theory that effective communication methods are crucial for fostering understanding and empathy in familial relationships, particularly during the tumultuous teenage years. The discussion highlights various techniques that parents can employ to enhance their interactions, emphasizing the importance of listening and responding to their children’s feelings without resorting to punishment. This episode serves as a valuable resource for parents navigating the complexities of adolescence while seeking to maintain open and constructive dialogues with their children. Takeaways: In this episode, we discussed the parenting book titled 'How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk', highlighting its unique first-person narrative style, which is uncommon in parenting literature.We emphasized the importance of effective communication techniques outlined in the book, which aim to foster better relationships between parents and their teenagers, reducing conflict.The episode highlighted that the problems teens face today differ from those mentioned in the book, yet the communication strategies proposed remain relevant and useful.We noted that the book is concise, filled with illustrations which aid in understanding, making it accessible and engaging for parents dealing with challenging adolescent situations.During the discussion, we explored the significance of expressing feelings without resorting to insults, advocating for empathy in conversations with teenagers.We concluded that while the authors have passed, their teachings continue through workshops that assist parents in learning how to effectively communicate with their children. Links referenced in this episode: testingmom.comstudyisland.commobymax.comscholastic.comhabitcoach.comotherpeoplesparenting.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Habit CoachTesting MomTeenTestingMom.comStudy IslandMoby Max BrainPop ScholasticDr. BeckyAdele FaberElaine Mazlish

    How To Talk To Teens - Turning Eye Rolls into actual Conversations

  7. 27 may

    Fat Talk - How to Parent in a World Obsessed with Weight

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) - we explore the book "Fat Talk: Parenting in the Age of Diet Culture," which delves into the relationship between parenting, body image, and societal expectations regarding weight. We examine how diet culture impacts both parents and children and the detrimental effects of fat bias and the often harmful messaging surrounding weight. We discuss fostering an environment where children can appreciate their bodies, regardless of societal standards. By addressing the challenges parents face in navigating these complex issues, we aim to provide insights that promote a healthier, more compassionate approach to body image within families. As we dissect the book we reflect on our own experiences and the broader implications for raising children in a culture fixated on thinness. We reflect on our own experiences, revealing how societal pressures have shaped our understanding of weight and parenting. We advocate for a paradigm shift in how we perceive fatness, emphasizing the importance of fostering a nurturing environment that encourages self-acceptance and body positivity in children. We also explore the practical aspects presented in Smith's book, particularly the language parents use when discussing body image with their children. They highlight the detrimental effects of negative rhetoric surrounding weight and the need to cultivate conversations that promote acceptance and love. By sharing anecdotes from the book, we illustrate the psychological consequences of weight bullying and the impact of diet culture on children's mental health. The episode serves as a vital reminder of the responsibility parents hold in shaping their children's perceptions of their bodies and the importance of fostering a culture of acceptance that transcends societal standards. We critique the broader societal implications of diet culture, especially within educational institutions. We express concern over practices such as BMI screenings in schools, which we argue can exacerbate anxiety and body image issues among children. We advocate for a more holistic approach to health that prioritizes mental well-being over numerical assessments of fitness. This episode is a clarion call for societal change, urging listeners to engage in conversations that support body diversity and challenge the harmful narratives that dominate contemporary culture. Takeaways: This episode delves into the profound impact of diet culture on parenting and child development.The book discussed, 'Fat Parenting in the Age of Diet Culture,' offers critical insights into body image issues.Parents are encouraged to foster a positive body image in their children, emphasizing acceptance over criticism.The podcast highlights the harmful consequences of weight stigmatization and the importance of understanding body diversity. Links referenced in this episode: habitcoach.comtestingmom.com Companies mentioned in this episode: New York TimesHabit CoachTesting MomVirginia Soul SmithAmerican Academy of PediatricsMetaInstagramTikTokLizzoMegan Thee StallionAshley GrahamPaloma El CesarKelly Clarkson

    Fat Talk - How to Parent in a World Obsessed with Weight

  8. 20 may

    Good Inside - The Parenting Rules Most of Us Weren’t Taught.

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) -The focus is the exploration of Dr. Becky Kennedy's parenting philosophy as articulated in her book "Good Inside." We consider that misbehavior in children serves as a window into their emotional states and unmet needs, rather than a reflection of their character. Throughout the discussion, we examine the significance of fostering emotional intelligence and resilience in children, emphasizing the necessity for parents to approach conflicts with empathy and understanding. We also appreciate the book's structured approach, which offers practical frameworks and specific strategies for addressing common parenting challenges, thereby equipping caregivers with the tools necessary for effective guidance. This episode covers the transformative power of nurturing a compassionate, connected relationship between parents and their children. Takeaways: In this episode, we explore Dr. Becky Kennedy's book, "Good Inside," which provides valuable insights into understanding children's behavior beyond mere discipline.The podcast emphasizes the importance of viewing misbehavior as a clue to a child's emotional needs rather than a reflection of their character.Listeners are encouraged to adopt the perspective of assuming the best in children, known as the 'most generous interpretation', to foster better communication.A critical takeaway from the discussion includes recognizing that children's emotional development is influenced by their early years and the attachment they form with caregivers. Links referenced in this episode: habitcoach.comotherpeoplesparenting.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Habit CoachTesting MomDr. Becky KennedyTesting Mom

    Good Inside - The Parenting Rules Most of Us Weren’t Taught.
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'Other People's Parenting' is hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of early childhood education companies Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent). They read contemporary, classic, and controversial parenting books and give you the gist with a sense of humor, so you can implement the methods or just be able to discuss them at school functions.

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    Schuyler Hurwitz and Karen Quinn
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