Leading Yourself

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The Leading Yourself Podcast is your go-to space for personal growth, career and leadership development, habits, relationships, and more. Each episode delivers practical insights, tools, and strategies to help you unlock your potential and become the best version of yourself. Join me for real conversations, tough love, and actionable advice designed to help you take meaningful steps toward the life you want. No fluff, just the mindset shifts, habits, and strategies that lead to real results. If you’re ready to stop waiting and start growing, you’ve come to the right place. Welcome to The Leading Yourself Podcast!

  1. 1 DAY AGO

    348: Build Unshakeable Confidence

    You don't need more information. You don't need another opinion. What you need is to trust the person who already has the answer: yourself. This week we're kicking off a brand new series: all of April, we're talking about confidence. Not the kind that comes from a highlight reel or a good hair day. The real kind. The sustainable kind. The kind that holds up when things get hard and the room is full of people who seem more certain than you feel. And we're starting at the root, self-trust. Because here's what I've noticed after years of leading teams and coaching women through some of the hardest decisions of their careers: the gap between people who move through life with real confidence and people who stay stuck isn't intelligence. It isn't experience. It isn't even ability. It's self-trust. And most of us have less of it than we think, not because we're broken, but because it gets eroded quietly, in ways that feel completely normal while they're happening. In this episode, I'm walking you through the difference between self-confidence and self-trust (they are not the same thing, and once you see it you can't unsee it), the three patterns that quietly chip away at your trust in yourself over time, what self-doubt is actually telling you, and the one practice that starts rebuilding everything, today, this week, no overhaul required. This is the foundation. Everything else we build this month: executive presence, competence, your confidence inventory, sits on what we lay down today. Come back every week this month. Each episode builds on the last.

    31 min
  2. Morning Brew: Do it for you

    3 DAYS AGO

    Morning Brew: Do it for you

    You grow the most when you stop trying to impress everyone… and start doing it for yourself.

    5 min

  3. 30 MAR

    347: Protect the Work - Integration Session

    Five weeks of building systems and boundaries , this is where it all comes together. Carolina leads a real coaching session that integrates the full month: what you built, what’s still in the way, and the one thing that will actually make it stick. Then four listener Q&As covering systems, personal boundaries, career boundaries, and starting over. Plus a direct bridge to April. IN THIS EPISODE →  A real coaching session integrating all four weeks: systems, boundaries, beliefs, and the one thing →  The question that ties it all together: do you trust yourself enough to keep what you built? →  Q&A: how to restart a system after falling off (Week 1) →  Q&A: how to hold a boundary with a parent who responds with tears or guilt (Week 3) →  Q&A: how to stop absorbing your team’s work without dropping the ball (Week 4) →  Q&A: is it too late to start building your career intentionally at 28? (Week 2) →  The bridge to April — why March was just the foundation

    29 min
  4. Morning Brew: Closer than you think

    28 MAR

    Morning Brew: Closer than you think

    You might not be where you want to be yet… But you’re not where you used to be. Every small step. Every hard decision. Every time you didn’t quit. That’s progress. Be proud of that.

    6 min

  5. 23 MAR

    346: Career Boundaries: Saying no at work isn't career suicide. Done right, it's career strategy.

    You've been saying yes to everything. The meetings. The scope creep. The requests that aren't yours but land on your plate anyway. In this episode, we get honest about the fear that drives that pattern , and why it's actually the bigger career risk. The key takeaway today: Saying no at work isn't career suicide. Done right, it's career strategy. IN THIS EPISODE WE WILL DISCUSS: →  Why career boundaries feel more dangerous than personal ones, and why that fear is costing you →  What over-giving at work actually costs: your Genius Zone, your yes, and eventually your resentment-free days →  The fear loop at work and why it runs harder than the guilt loop and how to interrupt it →  The four career situations where boundaries matter most: scope creep, meeting culture, managing up, visibility without overextension →  Five scripts: real language for real career situations, written to sound like strategy not self-protection Download the scripts here: ⁠https://boundary-wise-scripts.lovable.app⁠⁠ Submit your questions here: ⁠⁠https://forms.gle/qVwsNb3friSLUPjH9⁠⁠ Subscribe to the Morning Brew here: ⁠⁠https://leadingyourself.myflodesk.com/mondaybrew

    28 min
  6. Morning Brew: It's on you

    21 MAR

    Morning Brew: It's on you

    “Nothing gets better until you decide to be better, do better, eat better, and move better. It’s on you.”

    4 min

  7. 16 MAR

    345: Personal Boundaries: Feeling guilty doesn't mean you did something wrong.

    You said yes. And the second the word left your mouth, you knew you meant no. Maybe you felt it in your stomach. Maybe you smiled and said of course and spent the next three days quietly dreading it. And then, because this is the part nobody talks about, you felt guilty for even having a limit at all. In this episode, we will get honest about why so many of us don't set boundaries even when we know we should, and why the guilt we feel when we finally do isn't evidence that we did something wrong. It's evidence that we're changing a pattern. Those two things feel identical from the inside. But they are not the same. I will share a personal story about what it actually costs to keep saying yes to everything, and the moment that made it impossible to keep pretending the pattern wasn't a problem. Then we will break down the guilt loop: how it works, why it's so hard to interrupt, and what it takes to hold a line without burning a relationship to the ground. Feeling guilty doesn't mean you did something wrong. It means you're changing a pattern. And different, even when it's necessary, is always going to feel uncomfortable before it feels right. IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN: →  Why we don't set boundaries even when we know we should →  What a boundary actually is — and what it isn't →  The identity behind the always-available pattern — and how to update it →  The guilt loop explained: how to recognize it and interrupt it →  The resentment diagnostic — how to find exactly where you need to start →  Five scripts for: family asks, one-sided friendships, the mental load, pushback after a no, and protecting personal time Download the 5 scripts here: https://real-talk-scripts.lovable.app/ Subscribe to the Morning Brew: https://leadingyourself.myflodesk.com/mondaybrew

    29 min
  8. Morning Brew: Discipline

    14 MAR

    Morning Brew: Discipline

    “Discipline is choosing what you want most over what you want now.”

    4 min
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The Leading Yourself Podcast is your go-to space for personal growth, career and leadership development, habits, relationships, and more. Each episode delivers practical insights, tools, and strategies to help you unlock your potential and become the best version of yourself. Join me for real conversations, tough love, and actionable advice designed to help you take meaningful steps toward the life you want. No fluff, just the mindset shifts, habits, and strategies that lead to real results. If you’re ready to stop waiting and start growing, you’ve come to the right place. Welcome to The Leading Yourself Podcast!

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  • Creator
    Carolina de Arriba
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    560
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Carolina de Arriba
  • Show Website
    Leading Yourself

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