Becoming Wilkinson

WILKINSON

When I started this podcast, I thought it would be the story of my journey from married man with three sons, involved in ministry in the NW, to my current life as a gay man in Palm Springs, CA. I'd weave in interesting interviews with amazing people whom I've met along the way. But as the podcast has evolved, I realized that interacting and hearing other people's stories has changed me. The Universe always sends me just the right person at just the right time to guide me along my own journey of "Becoming". Join me as I have conversations with these fascinating people and share this journey with you.

  1. Bryce Bailey on coming out as gay, healing through art therapy and how "Heated Rivalry" has hit us.

    vor 2 Tagen

    Bryce Bailey on coming out as gay, healing through art therapy and how "Heated Rivalry" has hit us.

    Send us Fan Mail Bryce Bailey, MA, ATR.  Registered Art Therapist from Seattle, WA currently living in Palm Springs, CA. He launched his own creativity/ design consulting practice “EmpowerART Studio” and offers Per Diem Art Therapy at a local physical rehabilitation hospital.  He leads art therapy groups and facilitates creativity workshops in community. Bryce is passionate about utilizing the creative process to facilitate personal growth, transformation, healing and connection through artmaking. He has worked with most populations but specializes in LGBTQ, at-risk adolescents, addiction recovery, and identity empowerment.  Bryce has remained active in giving back to the recovery community for over 22 years, sober since 9/24/99. He enjoys his own artmaking through collage, mixed media, oil pastels, and visual journaling.  Graduating from Antioch University Seattle's Masters in Psychology/Art Therapy program (2006), he interned at Seattle Counseling Service (LGBTQ), worked as art therapist and mental health clinician at Community Psychiatric Clinic and Michael’s House Dual-Diagnosis Treatment Center, facilitated creative recovery & visual journaling workshops in Miami, San Jose, San Diego, Palm Springs, and Seattle, and volunteered with homeless and LGBT youth in Seattle.  His research project "Artmaking as a Component and Facilitator of Resiliency with Homeless Youth" was published in the Art Therapy Journal (2008). Bryce served on the Board of Evergreen Art Therapy Association chapter in Seattle from 2005-2015, presented at several national Art Therapy Association conferences, and became Local Chair for the 2013 American Art Therapy Association conference in Seattle.  Bryce can be reached at: empowerartstudio@gmail.com;  Instagram: @bryce_empowerartstudio Photo: Copyright Wilkinson/2026. To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com

    41 Min.
  2. Scott Hunter's courage in the show "Heated Rivalry" gave me the push I needed to speak my own truth regarding from own spiritual journey from Christian ministry, through divorce and coming out.

    21. Juni

    Scott Hunter's courage in the show "Heated Rivalry" gave me the push I needed to speak my own truth regarding from own spiritual journey from Christian ministry, through divorce and coming out.

    Send us Fan Mail I've recently been consuming episodes of the popular TV show "Heated Rivalry" which has taken the world by storm.  I've watched and re-watched all six episodes, listened to podcasts about the show and I've consumed many, many podcasts where people have reviewed the show, commented (and cried and cheered) in real time.  The tenderness, realness and flat-out courage of the characters portrayed in these gay love stories has opened the floodgates of my tears many times. Years ago, when I lived in Seattle, I told myself that someday I wanted to be "fully me" and to not be compartmentalized with different people regarding who I am and my current truth.   I came out as gay in late 1999.  Because of my former background in the Christian church, I found myself in the position of not being my true self in multiple scenarios in my life- notably in my relationships in my family and with folks who knew me in my "former church life".  Many of these people thought they knew me and what I believed in leaving the church- even though the majority of what they came up with was far, far from my truth.  They choose to live in their own worlds and belief systems, extrapolating their own beliefs and their own truth onto me and my experience. I've been thinking about doing a podcast like this for quite awhile now.  Watching "Heated Rivalry" and observing the various fictional characters grow and evolve has given me the extra push I needed to do this podcast. A podcast that in some ways, is my own "second coming out" in sharing my own truth at this point in my life. My hope is that by my sharing this, others will also now be able to speak their truth and to "Pay It Forward" to many others who are desperate to hear their truth. Thanks for listening.  Be sure to subscribe, "like" and leave a comment and share your own thoughts and experiences! Contact Wilkinson at: BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com

    53 Min.
  3. John "Murf" on Coming Out, Drag Culture, Life Lessons, Relationships,  AIDS, Acting in NYC and LA's Casting Couches. Oh My!

    10.08.2025

    John "Murf" on Coming Out, Drag Culture, Life Lessons, Relationships, AIDS, Acting in NYC and LA's Casting Couches. Oh My!

    Send us Fan Mail CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction to Murph and the Gay Men's Collective 02:43 Murph's Early Life and Self-Discovery 05:08 Coming Out and Understanding Identity 07:50 First Experiences and Relationships 10:07 Exploring Sexuality and Community 12:34 Uber Stories and Encounters 15:00 Bachelorette Parties and Observations 17:29 Reflections on Safe Spaces and Community Dynamics 22:33 Observations on Social Dynamics in Gay Bars 23:43 Navigating the New York City Gay Scene 27:09 The Transition from Acting to Retail Sales 32:35 Skills Transfer: From Performance to Sales Training 34:43 Future Aspirations and Retirement Plans 43:22 Life Lessons and Personal Insights SUMMARY In this engaging conversation, Murph shares his journey from his early life in Ireland to his experiences in the LGBTQ community, including coming out, navigating the AIDS epidemic, and his life in New York City. He discusses his time in the drag scene, memorable Uber stories, and the lessons he's learned throughout his life. The conversation highlights the importance of self-acceptance, the challenges faced by the LGBTQ community, and the joy of travel and personal connections. TAKEAWAYS Murph's early experiences shaped his understanding of his identity. Coming out can be a complex journey influenced by societal perceptions. The AIDS epidemic had a profound impact on the LGBTQ community during the 80s and 90s. Personal relationships can be both innocent and transformative during adolescence. Life in New York City offered Murph a vibrant LGBTQ culture and opportunities. Memorable encounters while driving Uber reveal the diversity of experiences in Palm Springs. Traveling can lead to self-discovery and deeper connections with others. Lessons learned include the importance of taking chances and being true to oneself. Respect is more important than being liked in personal relationships. Finding joy in the small moments can reset one's perspective. BIO John "Murf" is Irish-born, New York-based, and living proof that wanderlust, wit, and a well-curated playlist can take you far. He’s as happy glamping in the woods as he is lounging on a beach — ideally after museum-hopping and a three-course lunch. A Modigliani fan, Paris devotee, and certified foodie, he curates his life like his music: part 70s disco, part 90s nostalgia, all vibes. Gay, glam, and occasionally grounded, John believes in good shoes, great stories, and never saying no to dessert — or a flight to somewhere fabulous. To contact Wilkinson:  BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com

    46 Min.
  4. (Part 2)  Matt Pascua: The Art of Indie Filmmaking & co-starring in Stuart Wade's  'Say Yes' and 'Baby Steps' + Some Observations as an Artist in NYC

    06.08.2025

    (Part 2) Matt Pascua: The Art of Indie Filmmaking & co-starring in Stuart Wade's 'Say Yes' and 'Baby Steps' + Some Observations as an Artist in NYC

    Send us Fan Mail CHAPTERS 00:00 Navigating Technical Glitches and Film Discussions 02:39 Exploring Nuanced Acting in 'Say Yes' and 'Baby Steps' 05:24 The Collaborative Spirit of Indie Films 08:08 Intimacy and Comfort in Filming 10:51 Future Projects and Industry Insights 13:20 Reflections on Humanity and Personal Growth SUMMARY In this engaging conversation, Matt Pascua reflects on his experiences in the film industry, discussing his roles in 'Say Yes' and 'Baby Steps', the creative process behind 'Scrambled', and the importance of intimacy coordination in film. He shares insights on navigating current events, personal growth, and the significance of kindness in everyday life. The discussion highlights the collaborative nature of indie projects and the emotional impact of storytelling. TAKEAWAYS The importance of emotional connection in acting. Indie projects foster a family-like atmosphere. Intimacy coordinators enhance safety in film production. The journey of filmmaking is as important as the final product. Kindness can significantly impact someone's day. Navigating the film industry requires adaptability and openness. Creative collaboration leads to better storytelling. Recognizing personal growth is essential for happiness. Current events can challenge faith in humanity. Art can reflect societal issues and provoke thought. BIO MATT PASCUA is an actor based in New York City. After studying at the Neighborhood Playhouse, he began working in commercials and on stage, including an earlier, regional production of Matthew Spangler's "The Kite Runner," an adaptation of Khaled Hosseini's best-selling novel of the same name. His television work includes appearances on "Grey's Anatomy," "Castle," "Rosewood," "Insecure," "Dynasty," "Fantasy Island," "Mayor of Kingstown," and "FBI: Most Wanted." Through 2024, Matt recurred as Ben Perez on "Walker," The CW's family drama-reboot of "Walker, Texas Ranger." On film, he can be seen in Jean-Marc Vallée's "Wild" and in Stewart Wade's "Say Yes" and "Baby Steps," amongst several other independent releases. In 2019, two projects he headlined, Lise Johnson's "Other Loving" and Anthony Meindl's "Where We Go From Here," screened at the Cannes Film Festival. Matt is also an alum of the ABC Discovers Talent Showcase, which takes pride in Chadwick Boseman, Lupita Nyong’o, and Gina Rodriguez, among many others, as some of its previously selected artists. Matt's IG/:  https://www.instagram.com/pattmascua/ Photo credit:  Kristi Griffith Photography

    19 Min.

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When I started this podcast, I thought it would be the story of my journey from married man with three sons, involved in ministry in the NW, to my current life as a gay man in Palm Springs, CA. I'd weave in interesting interviews with amazing people whom I've met along the way. But as the podcast has evolved, I realized that interacting and hearing other people's stories has changed me. The Universe always sends me just the right person at just the right time to guide me along my own journey of "Becoming". Join me as I have conversations with these fascinating people and share this journey with you.

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