The Kink Consultant

Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant

Welcome to The Kink Consultant podcast, where we’re turning up the heat on all things kink in dating, relationships, and pop culture! Join Amanda each week as she dishes out the juiciest stories, expert advice, and shares a sneak peek behind the bedroom door—with some amazing guests along for the ride. Whether you're just a little kink-curious, ready to spice things up, or a seasoned pro, there's something here for you! Expect fun, laughter, and a whole lot of eye-opening conversations as we explore the wild world of intimacy, kink, and those oh-so-intriguing D/s dynamics.

  1. VOR 2 TAGEN

    Behind The Scenes of Rouge: The Sexiest Show In Vegas with Zion and Poppy

    The kinkiest show in Vegas is hosted by the most vanilla couple you'll ever meet.  In this episode, I get to sit down with Zion and Poppy, the hosts of Rouge at the Strat, for an inside look at Vegas's sexiest show. These Australian acrobats turned comedy hosts break down how they created the most authentically kinky show on the strip without actually being kinky themselves. We talk about audience interaction, improv comedy with drunk tourists, managing a topless show while pregnant, the wild backstage stories, and why being happily married actually makes them better at hosting a sex-positive show. Zion and Poppy also get real about working six nights a week with a toddler, handling inappropriate audience behavior, and why the best audiences are old married couples who have zero filter. This episode is hilarious, insightful, and a behind-the-scenes peek at what it takes to make Vegas magic. If you've ever wondered what happens backstage at a kinky Vegas show, this conversation delivers. Episode Highlights:  00:00 Why Rouge Stands Out 11:19 Vegas Sex Culture (And What's Actually Legal) 20:03 Favorite Acts in the Show 35:30 Wild Improv Moments and Callback Stories 40:57 Being Kinky Without Being Creepy 54:59 Warming Up the Crowd for Fantasy Answers Connect with Poppy and Zion   https://www.instagram.com/zionandpoppy/ https://www.instagram.com/rouge.vegas/ Connect with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/ https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ Book A Consult Call with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consult Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560 Join the Kinky Book Club: https://www.amandadames.com/offers/H3LbqfTw/checkout Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey:  https://www.amandadames.com/store Joins the Couples Retreat https://www.amandadames.com/BetaWaitlist

    58 Min.

  2. 5. MÄRZ

    How To Use Hypnotherapy for Better Sex with Jordan Wolan

    What if you could rewire how your brain stores pleasure in just one session? In this episode, I sit down with Jordan Wolan, a certified hypnotherapist who works with sexual freedom and performance anxiety, to talk about how hypnotherapy can actually help you have better sex. We get into what hypnosis really is (spoiler: you're already doing it when you scroll), how it can rewire your brain to enjoy new positions or experiences, and why your subconscious mind is way more powerful than willpower when it comes to lasting change. Jordan also breaks down hypnokink, how to explore it safely, and why this whole field requires way more ethics and care than most people think. If you've been curious about hypnotherapy, want to understand how your brain stores sexual habits, or you're wondering how to tap into deeper states during play, this conversation will open your mind to what's actually possible. Episode Highlights:  00:00 What hypnotherapy actually is 16:13 Rewiring your brain to enjoy better sex 21:44 Why hypnosis is becoming essential right now 31:30 Hypnokink, ethics, and how to stay safe 35:47 Consent, boundaries, and aftercare in hypnoplay Connect with Jordan Wolan  https://jordanwolan.com/ https://instagram.com/jordanwolan https://www.youtube.com/@JordanWolan Connect with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/ https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ Book A Consult Call with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consult Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560 Join the Kinky Book Club: https://www.amandadames.com/offers/H3LbqfTw/checkout Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey:  https://www.amandadames.com/store Joins the Couples Retreat https://www.amandadames.com/BetaWaitlist

    43 Min.

  3. 26. FEB.

    Sex Magic, Sigils, and Masturbating to Your Manifestations: A Conversation on Sex Alchemy with Lucy Baldwin

    Sex magic is real. And no, this isn't some Harry Potter stuff. This is actual ritual work that could change how you manifest, orgasm, and deal with your anger. In this episode, I sit down with Lucy Baldwin, shadow alchemist, magician, author, and podcaster, for a wild ride into sex magic, existential kink, and shadow alchemy. Lucy breaks down what sex magic actually is (spoiler: it involves masturbating to sigils), why your genitals are basically your second brain, and how to get off on things you hate through existential kink. We talk about the holy hexagram (yes, it's 69 in four directions), manifestation through orgasm, working with planetary magic instead of being a victim to Mercury retrograde, and why shame is the only thing blocking your pleasure. Lucy also gets real about the origins of existential kink in orgasmic meditation, radical approval, and how to turn your anger into arousal. This episode is mystical, practical, and permission-giving all at once. If you've ever been curious about magic, manifestation, or getting off on your problems, this conversation will blow your mind. Connect with Lucy Baldwin https://www.remolinacoaching.com/ https://www.instagram.com/lucy.baldwin.author Penetrate Radio Podcast https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLqoP78I-OC34i7hK4Vv41gKjr-Fk2QLJS The Seven: Living With The Planets Podcast https://tr.ee/w2lKwwbjLW Connect with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/ https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ Book A Consult Call with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consult Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560 Join the Kinky Book Club: https://www.amandadames.com/offers/H3LbqfTw/checkout Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey:  https://www.amandadames.com/store Joins the Couples Retreat https://www.amandadames.com/BetaWaitlist

    31 Min.

  4. 19. FEB.

    Can Doms Be Brats? The Debate That Broke KinkTok. A Discussion On Kink Theory, BDSM and Power Exchange

    Can doms be brats? Tripp Terrier says no, and the Internet lost its mind, and honestly he's not wrong. In this episode, I sit down with Tripp Terrier, power exchange content creator, kink theorist, and founder of Subspace, a free biweekly community support group for submissives and switches. We get into the brat-dom debate that's been haunting him for months, why submissives need to stop handing over all their power and actually show up 50%, and what consent really looks like before a scene even starts (hint: it's way more than a yes in the moment). Tripp also opens up about navigating social media as a straight white male dom, getting compared to Andrew Tate, his ADHD diagnosis, sobriety, and why the so-called old guard of kink needs to relax because the whole thing is newer than they think. This one is sharp, unfiltered, and the kind of conversation social media clips could never do justice. If power exchange theory is your thing, buckle up. Connect with Tripp Terrier https://trippterrier.com/ https://www.tiktok.com/@tripp.terrier https://www.instagram.com/trippunderme https://www.youtube.com/@trippterrier https://fetlife.com/TrippTerrier Connect with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/ https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560 Join the Kinky Book Club: https://www.amandadames.com/offers/H3LbqfTw/checkout Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey:  https://www.amandadames.com/store Joins the Couples Retreat https://www.amandadames.com/BetaWaitlist

    1 Std.

  5. 12. FEB.

    How to Prepare for Your First Kinky Cruise with Concations and Carnivale Risque

    Not sure what to expect on a kinky cruise? You're about to find out, and it's way more fun (and safe) than you think!  In this episode, I’m not just going to have one, not two, but four guests! I sit down with Lee from Concasions and the powerhouse team behind Carnivale Risqué (Tank, Goddess Ellez, and Obsidian) to talk about what it's really like on a kinky cruise. These industry veterans have been teaching kink at lifestyle parties for over a decade, and they break down how they turned empty dungeons into packed playspaces by making BDSM approachable, glamorous, and fun. We dig into the upcoming Kinky Cruise in April, what to expect as a first-timer, how consent culture creates the safest party spaces, and why "swingsters" (swingers + kinksters) are now a whole community. They also get real about living as a throuple, teaching workshops on unleashing your authentic self, and why vulnerability is the sexiest thing you can bring to any relationship. This episode is part prep guide, part inspiration, and 100% permission to explore. If you've been thinking about attending a lifestyle event or just want to understand what makes these spaces so magnetic, this conversation will get you ready to dive in. Don’t let the Kinky Cruise sail without you! Go to http://www.kinkycruise.com and use the code TKC50 to get $50 off Download the Bliss Cruise app and Celebrity Cruise app to plan your schedule Connect with Tank, Goddess Ellez, and Obsidian https://carnivalerisque.com/ https://www.instagram.com/carnivalerisque/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063613538670 Connect with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/ https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ https://www.amandadames.com/thereadinglist

    44 Min.

  6. 5. FEB.

    Performance Anxiety, Erectile Dysfunction, Getting Soft? How to have Better Sex: A Conversation with Promescent CEO, Jeff Abraham 

    Better sex isn't a luxury, it's accessible. And if you're not exploring what's out there to improve your intimacy, you're leaving pleasure on the table. In this episode, I get to sit down with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, for an honest conversation about sexual wellness, performance anxiety, and why 70% of people using delay spray don't even have premature ejaculation, they just want better sex. Jeff shares his unexpected journey from semiconductor engineering to running a sexual wellness company, and breaks down the real stats on the "arousal gap" (spoiler: the average man lasts 5 minutes and 42 seconds while the average woman needs 18 minutes). We dig into why delay products have gotten a bad rap, how Promescent's formula is different, and what Vita Flux can do for blood flow, libido, and natural lubrication. Jeff also gets real about communication, foreplay that starts hours before sex, and why vulnerability is the foundation of great intimacy. This episode is practical, sex-positive, and full of solutions. If you want better connection, longer-lasting sex, or just want to level up your intimacy game, this conversation will give you the tools to do it. Want longer-lasting sex without losing sensation? Get 15% off at Promescent.com/tkc15 Episode Highlights: 00:00 Changing the Conversation Around Intimacy 27:34 Exploring Sexual Frequency and Refractory Periods 29:19 The Impact of Good Intimacy on Attraction 31:38 Addressing Anxiety and Intimacy 33:30 Menopause and Women's Sexual Health 35:36 Innovations in Female Arousal Products 40:21 The Rise of Male Masturbatory Products 53:58 The Importance of Communication in Sexual Relationships Connect with Jeff Abraham  https://www.linkedin.com/in/technicalresources/ https://www.promescent.com/ Connect with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/ https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ Joins the Couples Retreat https://www.amandadames.com/BetaWaitlist Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560 Join the Kinky Book Club: https://www.amandadames.com/offers/H3LbqfTw/checkout Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey:  https://www.amandadames.com/store

    57 Min.

  7. 30. JAN.

    Behind The Scenes of A Non-Monogamouse Relationship (And Why It Actually Works)

    Non-monogamy isn't actually that complicated…our fear of talking about it is. And that fear keeps way too many people stuck pretending they want something they don't. In this episode, I sit down with Samia Mounts, creator and host of the ClosetEd podcast, for a raw conversation about non-monogamy, jealousy, and why emotional maturity matters more than the number of partners you have. Samia shares her journey from believing in "the one" to discovering she's wired for multiple loves. We talk about her marriage that became a friendship, navigating new relationship energy, and the difference between boundaries and control. She gets real about the mistakes she made, the red flags she ignored, and what it takes to build trust when relationships shift. If you have ever felt like you were meant to love more than one person and had no idea what to do with that truth, this conversation is for you. Episode Highlights:  00:00 Why Everyone Is In “The Closet” and Society's Norms 12:17 Polyamory and Personal Experiences 32:42 Defining Relationship Agreements and Boundaries 34:54 Navigating Non-Monogamous Relationships 42:19 Polyamory vs. Consensual Non-Monogamy Connect with Samia Mounts  https://www.samiamounts.com/ https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBkJT8ttJYCyIS8ig6gZ7pA https://www.tiktok.com/@samia.mounts https://www.samiamounts.com/podcast Book a Consult with Amanda Here: https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consult Connect with Me:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/⁠

    1 Std. 2 Min.

  8. 23. JAN.

    Intimacy Isn't A Feeling, It's A Skill: An Interview With The Somatica Founders

    What if intimacy didn’t have to feel so hard, awkward, or overthought? In this episode, I sit down with Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman, the founders of the Somatica Method and the two people who completely changed the way I understand intimacy, sex, and relationships. We talk about what Somatica actually is, why it feels so different from anything most of us have ever learned about intimacy, and why practicing connection in real time can be deeply transformative. This episode is personal for me. Somatica is the training that helped me become The Kink Consultant, and it reshaped how I show up in my body, my relationships, and my work. If you have ever felt stuck in your intimacy, overwhelmed by shame, or curious about a more embodied, human way to connect, this conversation gives you a real look at what is possible when everything is allowed to be talked about, explored, and met with care. Episode Highlights  00:00 What is Somatica? 11:03 Understanding Somatica Sessions 24:49 Understanding Core Wounds in Relationships 27:54 Application Process for Somatica Training 35:23 Virgin Island: A New TV Show 40:53 The Impact of Social Media on Intimacy Learn more about Somatica: https://www.somaticainstitute.com/ https://www.instagram.com/somatica_institute/ https://www.instagram.com/celesteanddanielleofficial/ Become a Certified Somatica Coach: https://www.somaticainstitute.com/ Use TKC250 to get $750 off! Join the Couples Retreat! https://www.amandadames.com/couples-retreat Order Playground Miracle Melts here! https://helloplayground.com/products/miracle-melts-hydrating-insert Connect with Me:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/⁠

    49 Min.
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Welcome to The Kink Consultant podcast, where we’re turning up the heat on all things kink in dating, relationships, and pop culture! Join Amanda each week as she dishes out the juiciest stories, expert advice, and shares a sneak peek behind the bedroom door—with some amazing guests along for the ride. Whether you're just a little kink-curious, ready to spice things up, or a seasoned pro, there's something here for you! Expect fun, laughter, and a whole lot of eye-opening conversations as we explore the wild world of intimacy, kink, and those oh-so-intriguing D/s dynamics.

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    2024 - 2026
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