Find Love With Emily

Emily Bucknell

Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

  1. vor 1 Tag

    Exhausted By Dating? [Do This For Love]

    Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does...  And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌  Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because: ❌ There's something wrong with you ❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless  ❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men  ❌ Or that love's just not meant for you.  It's simply that love ALWAYS follows the one rule: Love follows love.  And right now, if:  ✔️ You're scared you'll never find love ✔️ It feels like maybe love's not meant for you ✔️ You're exhausted by dating ✔️ You feel the pressure to find love fast (while you still have a chance) ✔️ And it's been months (or even years) since you've been on a decent date...  Then those are big old signs that you're not following the one rule love does.  Thankfully it's an easy fix.  Be sure to follow Find Love With Emily and tune in every Monday for Do This To Find Love, where I show you how.  Because it's these simple steps (not more of the usual BS dating advice) that make dating easier and are how love happens for you from here.  Love always,  Em xx 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

  2. vor 2 Tagen

    Finding Love Gets Easier When You Stop Doing This

    If the fact that you’re still single (after years of dating!) feels like the biggest problem in your life right now, this episode will tell you what needs to happen for you to actually solve this problem and find love. As you know, dating more, trying harder to be the kind of woman you think men want, overthinking, strategizing, following allllll the dating advice… While it makes logical sense, it doesn’t actually help you find love. So what if finding love was never a problem you were supposed to solve in the first place? In this episode, I share a perspective that completely changes the way you'll think about dating and finding love. It explains why trying so hard has left you exhausted rather than closer to the relationship you want. And why finding love gets so much easier when you take an entirely different approach. Inside this episode, you'll see: Why wanting love so badly can accidentally turn it into a problem you're constantly trying to fix.The reason all the strategizing and trying harder never changes your experience of dating.The surprisingly simple shift that makes finding love feel lighter, easier and far more enjoyable.What your actual role is when it comes to finding love (and where you have to release control).Why so many women inside Attract YOUR Man found love after they stopped approaching dating the way everyone tells them to. If you're tired of feeling like finding love is a problem you have to solve (and it’s ALL resting on your shoulders), this episode will leave you feeling relieved, hopeful and excited about finding love again 🙌 🎧 Hit play to listen now! 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

  3. 12. Juli

    Exhausted By Dating? [Do This For Love]

    Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does...  And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌  Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because: ❌ There's something wrong with you ❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless  ❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men  ❌ Or that love's just not meant for you.  It's simply that love ALWAYS follows the one rule: Love follows love.  And right now, if:  ✔️ You're scared you'll never find love ✔️ It feels like maybe love's not meant for you ✔️ You're exhausted by dating ✔️ You feel the pressure to find love fast (while you still have a chance) ✔️ And it's been months (or even years) since you've been on a decent date...  Then those are big old signs that you're not following the one rule love does.  Thankfully it's an easy fix.  Be sure to follow Find Love With Emily and tune in every Monday for Do This To Find Love, where I show you how.  Because it's these simple steps (not more of the usual BS dating advice) that make dating easier and are how love happens for you from here.  Love always,  Em xx 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

  4. 11. Juli

    How To Feel Confident Dating

    If dating makes you feel nervous, insecure or you feel the pressure to get things “right” this episode is for you. So often single women over 30 are told to build your confidence dating, simply by dating more. But you’ve been dating for 3+ years, you’ve probably also realized that isn’t actually true! In this episode, I share how you actually build dating confidence and why simply forcing yourself to date more isn’t the answer. Because if on every date… 🫣 The stakes feel HIGH 🫢 You’re terrified or doing or saying the wrong thing 💔 Being rejected 🤦‍♀️ Messing up this chance at love Then it’s almost impossible to relax, actually enjoy yourself and genuinely connect with the man you’re with. And love can’t happen. In this episode you’ll discover the 4 STEPS that build solid dating confidence. These are the steps I took that helped me go from cancelling on dates last minute because I was too scared to go, to genuinely loving dating!! And it was this confidence I gained that meant within ONLY 4 WEEKS I’d met my husband 💫❤️😲 In this episode you'll learn: Why dating feels so scary (even if you're confident everywhere else in life).The real reason dating more doesn't automatically make you more confident.The beliefs that quietly destroy your confidence before you even go on a date.How to stop making every date feel like such high stakes.Why the right man doesn't need a perfect version of you.The perspective shift that calms pre-date nerves so you can date with confidence. 🎧 Listen to next: How To Use Dating Apps To Find Love Why The Right Men Don’t Notice You [Do This For Love] 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

  5. 5. Juli

    Why The Right Men Don’t Notice You [Do This For Love]

    Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does...  And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌  Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because: ❌ There's something wrong with you ❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless  ❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men  ❌ Or that love's just not meant for you.  It's simply that love ALWAYS follows the one rule: Love follows love.  And right now, if:  ✔️ You're scared you'll never find love ✔️ It feels like maybe love's not meant for you ✔️ You're exhausted by dating ✔️ You feel the pressure to find love fast (while you still have a chance) ✔️ And it's been months (or even years) since you've been on a decent date...  Then those are big old signs that you're not following the one rule love does.  Thankfully it's an easy fix.  Be sure to follow Find Love With Emily and tune in every Monday for Do This To Find Love, where I show you how.  Because it's these simple steps (not more of the usual BS dating advice) that make dating easier and are how love happens for you from here.  Love always,  Em xx 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

  6. 4. Juli

    How To Use Dating Apps To Find Love

    Dating apps can really suck 😝 Especially if you’ve been swiping away for years… and all they’ve got you are men who disappoint you, average dates that go nowhere and conversations that feel like hard work. I get why you’d hate dating apps. I used to feel the same way.  But what if they’re not the actual problem?! ...it's how we're using them!?!? 💡 There was a point I got to when I was single where I genuinely LOVED dating (and using dating apps). Imagine that!??! I was meeting some really great men, going on 2-3 dates a week, getting out and about, having so much fun that when I met my husband and he asked me to be his girlfriend 🥹 there was a part of me that was actually a little sad to stop dating! Not because I didn't want to be with him. But because I'd finally figured out how to use dating apps in a completely different way that turned dating into an absolute playground where I was having the time of my life. In this episode, I share my unconventional way of using dating apps that changed my entire experience of dating for the better and was a BIG reason I meet my husband just a few weeks later. By the end of this episode you'll discover: Why dating apps probably aren't the problem you think they are.The biggest mistake women make before they even swipe.The surprisingly simple way to take all the pressure out of dating.My unconventional approach to dating apps that makes finding love so much easier.2 steps you can take now that get dating apps working for you to find love. If you’re over dating apps, you’ll want to listen to this episode before you give up on them entirely! Hit play now 🎧 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

  7. 28. Juni

    Finding Love Feels Hopeless? [Do This For Love]

    Every week in Do This To Find Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does...  And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌  Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because: ❌ There's something wrong with you ❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless  ❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men  ❌ Or that love's just not meant for you.  It's simply that love ALWAYS follows the one rule: Love follows love.  And right now, if:  ✔️ You're scared you'll never find love ✔️ It feels like maybe love's not meant for you ✔️ You're exhausted by dating ✔️ You feel the pressure to find love fast (while you still have a chance) ✔️ And it's been months (or even years) since you've been on a decent date...  Then those are big old signs that you're not following the one rule love does.  Thankfully it's an easy fix.  Be sure to follow Find Love With Emily and tune in every Monday for Do This To Find Love, where I show you how.  Because it's these simple steps (not more of the usual BS dating advice) that make dating easier and are how love happens for you from here.  Love always,  Em xx PS And if you don't want to wait a whole week between steps, come join us inside Loved With Emily, where we get you back on track to find love (following the one rule love does, of course!). 💕 Loved With Emily: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

  8. 27. Juni

    How To Actually Move On After Heartbreak

    Why is it that some women seem to move on from heartbreak in a matter of weeks... While you're still thinking about him months (sometimes even years) later? You're wondering what happened. What you did "wrong". Replaying conversations in your head and what you should've said. Still feeling that ache in your chest every time you think about what could've been 💔 Whether you're struggling to move on after a breakup, a situationship, being ghosted, rejected or you're simply heartbroken that you haven't found love yet... This episode is for you 😘 Because the reason it's so hard to move on, time doesn't seem to "heal your wounds" and you just can't stick to no contact... Actually has very little to do with the man you've lost or the relationship that's ended. And way more to do with what's happening under all the emotional pain you're feeling. In this episode you'll discover: ✔️ Why you're wasting your time if you're waiting for time to heal your wounds ✔️ Why most breakup advice is impossible to actually follow ✔️ Why the same heartbreak keeps happening time and time again ✔️ What's really keeping you stuck after rejection, disappointment and heartbreak ✔️ The deeper work that allows you to truly let go and find love If you've ever found yourself unable to fully move on after heartbreak or wondering why heartbreak seems to hit you harder than everyone else... Hit play now 🎧 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

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