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In today's ep we reflect on the awful tragedy of the death of Caroline Flack. Before we get into it we have a quick look back on last weeks ep. We also have a quick listeners conundrum about whether you should let your friend know your new love interest is still swiping away on the apps. We then chat about the horrible news about Caroline Flack and how it has made us all think about the fall out from the way the media behave and how online abuse makes people feel. Des shares some stories about the stress of being in the middle of a tabloid scandal and also about the emotional toll of online abuse. For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy

On this ep we chat to Irish club promoter Jess Brennan about her new club night Sanctuary which is on Valentines night this week. There are very few tickets left if you are looking to go. It is inspired by Jess Brennan's time in Berlin and she is trying to bring liberated club culture to Ireland. We chat about her time in Berlin and the fetich clubs there. We ask is she confident that the Irish will embrace this. We also chat about Only Fans and how women are making money on the subscription site. Katie also chats about her fears of going to an NY sex party. For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy

Such a fun episode this week. Des and Katie first chat about whether Valentine's day means anything to them. They then discuss various sexual positions that you may want to try to spice up your Valentine's day. It is a proper filthy Valentines fun and you still have a week to prepare your own plans for the big day next week. For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy

In this Ep Des and Katie chat about people who have issues with being affectionate and deeper intimacy issues Des admits he is not the most affectionate guy and talks about how he dealt with that in past relationships. Des and Aidan's have a chat about Aidan being in a relationship for one year and how all that is going. They also chat about affection in a relationship. Aidan also tells some hilarious relationship stories. For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy

What a great ep we have today. Not only do we have a great guest in Joanne McNally who Des chatted with in Tenerife Airport. We also have Des and Kaite chatting passionately about a listener dilemma about falling quickly in love with someone and not getting back the effort you are so willing to give yourself. Both Des and Katie identify so much with the tortuous head melt that is infatuation. Des and Joanne chat about dry January and what is a healthy relationship with booze and then they continue the F%%%boi chat from last week which leads to the conclusion that men are dogs. For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy

Katie and Des have a great discussion in this episode about what they think the term f#*k boi means and if it's slut shaming. They also have a fun chat about botox and lip fillers and if they would ever get plastic or cosmetic surgery. For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy