Wholehearted Loving

Georgianna Lee + Stephanie Hunter
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A conscious relationship podcast for growth-oriented people who've "done the work" but are frustrated their lives haven't really changed. Georgianna brings the pompoms, Steph brings the blowtorch, and together they take on the funny, messy, uncomfortable work of being human — with real stories, body-based tools, and the radically honest takes that most personal growth content avoids. This isn't just more insight, it's the embodied how-to that all your inner work has been pointing towards. 🎙️ Twice a month on YouTube and everywhere you get your podcasts

  1. 8. Juli

    Slow Dating Ep01: Knowing Yourself & Your Body's Signals | #163

    The Slow Dating season premiere! Where you learn how to get off the apps and go deep in real life — with yourself and one good match. It all starts with you, and your body’s signals. Before a first swipe, a first date, or a text back — and definitely before you wake up ten years in, wondering how you got there — your body is already sending you signals. The problem is that most of us were taught to override them. Today, you’ll learn how to get them back and put them into practice.  This episode is about building self-fluency: feeling a yes, a no, and an I-don’t-know in your body, along with the more nuanced “yes — and I’m scared.” In a world where we grew up being taught to sit still when we want to move and to pretend we're fine when we're not, it’s no wonder we carry that skill of overriding our bodies’ signals into every date and relationship. But if you want to be able to read a date and know who’s a good fit for you, you’re going to have to discover how to read yourself first. We’ll teach you what to look for and how to practice in low-stakes environments (like your sock drawer?) so you have the skills and self-know-how to reach for when the stakes are high on dates and in relationships. What we cover: ✓ Why reading your own signals comes before reading anyone else's ✓ The difference between a true no and a habitual run for the exit ✓ How a cluster of small yeses can add up to a whole-body no ✓ What "I don't know" feels like — and how to tell it from danger ✓ The fourth signal most people can't process: yes, and I'm also scared ✓ Why you'll forget all this on the date — and why noticing later is still a win ✓ Low-stakes ways to practice and grow these skills in real life This season includes topics that run through everything you need to know to date and pace well, all the way to long-term partnership that feels aligned and on-purpose, and every episode hands you a practice to help you get there in real life. Follow along and get notified as episodes drop at wholeheartedloving.com/slowdating Resources Mentioned: Somatic Integration Sessions — twice-monthly live body-based practiceConscious Relationship Training — live online twice a year Wholehearted Loving is a conscious relationship podcast with live practice groups hosted by Georgianna and Steph. Learn more at wholeheartedloving.com.

  2. 19. Juni

    Conscious Relationship Check: Are You in a Bad Relationship? | Ep162

    This conscious relationship episode asks a confronting question: are you in a bad relationship? To see a relationship clearly, you need to do the shadow work that most of us skip entirely. In this episode, Georgianna and Steph get into two questions that help you tell whether your relationship is actually toxic or misaligned, or if you’re in a healthy relationship that you’re just not fully inhabiting yet. Most of us spend our energy tracking the other person — their actions, their words, their patterns — while largely missing our own part of the dance. The episode covers what it looks like to own what you genuinely want and need in a partner (not just what “sounds reasonable”), how your patterns of protection can make you dismiss something good or cling to something wrong, and the real test for a partner: not that they're already skilled at emotional depth and self-expression, but that they demonstrate a consistent willingness to try. Georgianna and Steph share their own stories about relationships where they couldn't see clearly, and they walk you through a body-based practice for tuning into both sides of your relationship: the things you love, the things that are hard — and what you personally contribute to each.  What you'll learn: Why you can't assess a relationship clearly when your attachment patterns are running the show The two streams of self-inquiry: what you want, and what's your part in the dance How eagerness for a relationship to "be the thing" can make you ignore what you already know The difference between wanting a partner who can do conflict and wanting them to be a perfect fit What willingness looks like — and why it matters more than capacity A body-based practice for owning both the light and shadow sides of your relationship Why performing happiness is the thing that keeps you from a relationship that's actually aligned Resources Mentioned: Somatic Integration Sessions — twice-monthly live body-based practice Conscious Relationship Training — 10-week live cohort, twice yearly; fall cohort doors open soon The Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit — self-paced practice library

  3. 4. Juni

    Self-Regulation is Not Readiness: Preparing for Hard Conversations | Ep161

    Self-regulation is the skill underneath every hard conversation — but most of us confuse calming down with being ready to really communicate. They're not the same, and the gap is why the same argument keeps circling back, round after round, with both people feeling unheard. Georgianna and Steph separate self-regulation from real readiness: the conscious relationship skill of staying steady when the other person sighs, pushes back, or goes quiet. The most-skipped part of readiness is holding some curiosity and care for the other person while you're still hurt. Georgianna walks through a hindsight practice — done on your own, or with someone you trust — for moving trapped fight-or-flight energy, naming what you actually feel and need, and getting curious about what the other person might be carrying. This is emotional integration work that's important to practice before the stakes are high. What you'll learn: Why feeling calmer after a fight isn't the same as being ready to talkThe eye-roll test for whether you're actually readyWhat self-regulation really involves in the moment, beyond "I'm fine"The piece most people skip: curiosity for the other person, not just yourselfA practice for moving stuck fight-or-flight energy before you talkThe "detective" move that builds curiosity when you're still shut downWhy readiness is something you track all the way through, not a one-time arrivalReadiness isn't something you summon in the heat of the moment, you build it beforehand. This means slowing-down — which is exactly what the show turns to next: Our first season, Slow Dating, launches July 8, with conversations that reach far beyond dating and apply in every area of choice-making in your life. Resources Mentioned: Somatic Integration Sessions — twice-monthly live body-based practiceConscious Relationship Training — 10-week live cohort, twice yearly; fall cohort doors open soonThe Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit — self-paced practice library

  4. 28. Mai

    Conflicts in Relationship, and the Assumptions Underneath | Ep160

    Conflicts in relationship — where your assumptions are the invisible thing running every hard conversation you have. In this episode, Georgianna and Steph walk through the conscious and unconscious assumptions we bring into hard conversations — the ones that decide the outcome before the conversation starts. Georgianna shares the prompt she uses with couples to surface what's actually underneath, and walks through her four-category framework: assumptions about yourself, about your partner, about the situation, and about relationships. Steph names the patterns that show up when desperate attachment runs the room — including her own history of trying to get a therapist to fix her partner instead of getting curious about herself. They also work a live somatic practice on air: noticing an unhelpful assumption, feeling it in the body, then choosing a more helpful one and noticing what shifts. The whole practice takes under two minutes. The point is to grow the muscle before you need it — because the nervous system only reaches for what it's already practiced. What You'll Learn: Why "not actively yelling" and "regulated enough to talk" are not the same — and how to tell the differenceThe four categories of assumptions every conflict conversation carries (and prompts to surface them)How your body knows your assumptions before your mind does, and how to tap inThe difference between claiming you're curious and actually being curious — and the physical anchor that closes the gapHow to assume good intentions with discernmentA two-minute somatic practice you can use before any hard conversation Resources Mentioned: Somatic Integration Sessions — twice-monthly live body-based practices, where this work happens in communityConscious Relationship Training (CRT) — our 10-week live cohort training, twice yearly. Where you practice this with real activation and real people.The Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit — for self-paced, self-led practice If you're tired of having the same conversation over and over again, this episode is a way through the invisible layer that's causing the problem — plus what to do instead. Keywords: conscious relationship podcast, relational patterns, inner work podcast, somatic shadow work, nervous system regulation, conflict in relationships

  5. 7. Mai

    Weaponized Therapy-Speak & How It Harms Us All | Ep159

    Weaponizing therapy-speak co-opts healing language as a way to avoid the actual work of healing. "I'm triggered." "I don't feel safe." "He's a narcissist." "You're gaslighting me." These are rarely accurate, and more often than not they're just a fancy way to say "shut up", and stifle the big uncomfortable feelings of disagreement and misunderstanding. Therapy-speak is helpful when it's a doorway, and relationally dangerous when it's the destination. In this episode, Georgianna and Steph dig into what's actually happening when we reach for diagnostic language in real time, what it costs us in relationships, and the somatic shadow work tools we can use to access what's underneath — the stuff this language is helping us avoid. Steph goes hard on the ways this unresolved shadow material scales — from your body, to your relationships, to the wider world — and Georgianna brings the somatic mechanism — what's actually happening in the body when a trigger fires, and the small, doable practices that build the capacity to be with discomfort instead of trying to legislate it out of existence. They confess their own patterns from years gone by: Georgianna's temporary relief when she discovered therapy-speak, which gave her the vocabulary to describe what she was experiencing with an avoidant ex, and Steph's past weaponizing of these terms as diagnoses to shut people up and avoid her own big feelings. Same mechanism, different use case. Both very common in society today, and all of it ultimately unhelpful for our lives and relationships. The throughline: words like "triggered" and "unsafe" should be starting points for curiosity and connection. When they're not, our relationships contract, the world shrinks, and the unresolved fight energy underneath comes out sideways in every aspect of our experience. What you'll learn: The physiology of a trigger and how to recognize one before it runs your conversationWhy naming an attachment style or a diagnosis feels like relief but still leaves you stuckWhy saying "I don't feel safe" about your (non-abusive) partner is self-defeating, confusing, and breaks trust — and what to say insteadThe "magic pill" practice for staying with discomfort one breath at a timeHow suppressed fight energy fuels weaponization — and how to transform itThe difference between real compassion and suppressed anger dressed as compassionHow your suppressed anger is present and palpable whether you admit it out loud or not Resources Mentioned: Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit — personal self-connection studio for self-led practice being with big feelings and growing your nervous system capacitySomatic Integration Sessions — twice-monthly live practice containerConscious Relationship Training — twice yearly live cohort for relational shadow work If you're tired of the therapy-speak and want to know what's next, this episode opens the door. With love,Georgianna & Steph

  6. 23. Apr.

    Shadow Work for Hurt Feelings: Why the Sting Isn't Just About the Thing | Ep158

    Doing shadow work for hurt feelings starts with one uncomfortable question: if no harm was intended, why did that comment hit me so hard? This self-discovery and healing podcast episode goes straight into the messy territory of hurt feelings in relationships — the kind that has you spinning for days over something the other person may have meant as no big deal. The episode starts with a listener question, about a friend who told her she should lose weight. She communicated her hurt feelings to him, but he didn't think his comment was a big deal and now he's sort of trying to apologise without really understanding what the problem is. So where does the repair need to happen — with him, inside herself, or both? Steph and Georgianna unpack the difference between relational repair with the other person, and relational repair with yourself, aka shadow work. Which asks a harder, more freeing question: what is my reaction showing me about me? What You'll Learn: Why reactions carry history — and how to tell which part of your hurt is about right now and which part is about something olderThe difference between relational repair and ownership work, and why conflating them keeps you stuckHow "you made me feel" framing quietly hands over all of your power to the other personHow triggers are gold mines for personal growth — and what becomes possible when you stop running from activationWhy your partner shouldn't be the person you process your triggers with, and what a real container for that work looks likeThe difference between venting to a friend who co-signs your story, and someone who can hold your activation without making it mean anything about anyoneA simple practice for owning your hurt in your own body, before you take it to the other personResources Mentioned: Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit — our self-led studio for body-based self-connection practiceSomatic Integration Sessions — twice-monthly live body-based practice sessionsConscious Relationship Training — where we do relational shadow work in real time with real people If you're tired of your hurt feelings running the show — or of handing your wellbeing over to whoever activated you last — this spiritual growth podcast episode offers an honest, embodied way through. Hit follow so you don't miss the next one. Keywords: shadow work, hurt feelings in relationships, self-discovery and healing podcast, soul healing podcasts, self compassion podcast, somatic healing, triggers, conscious relationship, emotional reactivity, relational repair

  7. 9. Apr.

    The Hidden Cost of Emotional Suppression | Ep157

    The Hidden Cost of Emotional Suppression: Research showschronic emotional suppression increases your risk of death by 35% and cancer death by 70%, because your body keeps the receipts. Maybe you can relate to this: claiming "I'm fine. Idon't care. Nothing's wrong." Then slamming cupboards too loudly, hoping someone will notice how not-fine you are. And when they finally ask "Are you okay?", you default back to "I'm fine" anyway. Then you get to be double-mad — and double unexpressed, with compounding interest on your emotional suppression: you're resentful about the original thing AND resentful that they didn't know "fine" meant "not fine". This episode breaks down a 12-year study of 729 people:those who suppressed emotions had 35% increased mortality and 70% increased cancer death. Suppression was measured through six questions we reveal in the second half of the episode. We explore where this starts — childhood conditioning thattaught us expressing emotions wasn't safe — and how it manifests when your body doesn't delete emotions;it stores them as jaw tension, chest tightness, chronic pain, auto-immune disorders and cardiovascular disease. The way out isn't to "just express everything." It's aboutbuilding capacity to FEEL without flooding. Which is entirely what we do over here at Wholehearted Loving. What You'll Learn: • Why "I'm fine" creates compound interest onsuppression—and the cost to your body • The research: 35% mortality, 70% cancer death from emotional suppression (Chapman et al., 2013) • How childhood taught you suppression was safest—and why it made sense then • The difference between suppression and healthy regulation • A 3-breath practice for building capacity to feel without flooding Resources Mentioned: Self-Compassionate Body-Based ToolkitSomatic Integration SessionsConscious Relationship Training (CRT) wholeheartedloving.com If you're tired of saying "I'm fine" when you're not, this episode offers grounded tools for building capacity to feel what's actually there.

  8. 18. März

    Deep Dating: Vulnerability or Trauma Dumping? | Ep156

    Deep dating is trending — but what it actually means might surprise you. In this episode, Steph and Georgianna break down the real reason so many of us show up to dates (and important conversations) performing instead of present — and what it takes to actually change that. Georgianna opens with a painfully relatable story: smiling and feigning approval on a date with someone she'd already decided she wanted to like. Not fake, exactly — she genuinely felt excited. But there was a difference between the real version of that excitement and the performed version. Learning to feel that difference? That's the whole thing. Steph adds her own gem: the man who said he liked to clean. And technically, he did. Just not in any way that translated to what Steph's brain had decided it meant. This is the core problem with "deep dating" as it's being practiced right now — people front-loading all of their self-awareness, their therapy insights, their dealbreaker lists, as if talking equals knowing. It doesn't. Knowing someone takes time, shared experience, and watching how they actually show up when things get hard. The episode also gets into the vulnerability vs. trauma dumping distinction — not as a rigid rule, but as a felt sense. When you've genuinely worked through something and share it, it lands differently than when you're still ashamed of it and testing whether someone will accept you anyway. Your body knows the difference. The question is whether you're slowing down enough to listen. Georgianna closes with a full somatic practice: what to do with your body before, during, and after a date — including sentence stems that will show you exactly what you're actually hoping for (which, it turns out, is often not what you thought). What You'll Learn: Why feigning excitement has a specific somatic signature — and how to tell it apart from the real thingThe stat that explains why men don't go deeper first (and why women are waiting for them to)How trauma bonding gets mistaken for deep connection — and the energy difference between the twoWhy talking about yourself isn't the same as someone knowing you, and why that distinction matters for pacingA grounded somatic practice for before, during, and after a date so you can stay connected to yourself through all of itThe sentence stems that reveal what success actually means to you on a date (spoiler: it probably isn't what you used to think)How self-acceptance changes the way you share — and why the same story lands differently depending on where you're coming from Resources Mentioned: Somatic Sessions — twice-monthly live online sessions for building nervous system capacity: wholeheartedloving.com/primingforpeaceConscious Relationship Training (CRT) — live cohort program for embodied relational change: wholeheartedloving.com/crtSelf-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit — between-session somatic support: wholeheartedloving.com/primingforpeace If you're tired of performing on dates or in conversations and want to actually feel present with people — and with yourself — this one's for you.

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A conscious relationship podcast for growth-oriented people who've "done the work" but are frustrated their lives haven't really changed. Georgianna brings the pompoms, Steph brings the blowtorch, and together they take on the funny, messy, uncomfortable work of being human — with real stories, body-based tools, and the radically honest takes that most personal growth content avoids. This isn't just more insight, it's the embodied how-to that all your inner work has been pointing towards. 🎙️ Twice a month on YouTube and everywhere you get your podcasts

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  • Erstellt von
    Georgianna Lee + Stephanie Hunter
  • Jahre aktiv
    2022 - 2026
  • Folgen
    165
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    © Georgianna Lee + Stephanie Hunter
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    Wholehearted Loving

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