Before Dieting...

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Before Dieting… | Uncovering Eating Patterns and Weight Cycles - is the podcast that explores the eight types of eating and the hidden food stories behind persistent weight cycles and diet frustration. Hosted by Bronwyn Fletcher, a systems thinker, this show reveals the eating patterns that keep you stuck and uncovers the real causes behind your weight struggles. If you’re tired of dieting without success, discover a new perspective that goes beyond calories and willpower to help you break free from the endless cycle of weight loss and regain.

  1. 3 dage siden

    Eating systems explain a woman's weight regain - Moira's story

    Ready to investigate your own blueprint? The Weight Ecosystem is the first diagnostic in the Weighting for Happiness Project. It steps back from food and helps you examine the wider conditions your weight and health sit within before moving on to the deeper patterns that shape eating. Click here or copy and paste the link below. https://www.weightingforhappiness.com.au/weight-ecosystem-diagnostic See the end of the show notes for other downloads. Show NotesOne of the limitations of most weight loss advice is, it is all focused, on eating. What you’re eating, how much and how often. So, when it comes to relief eating, by the time the eating occurs, a great deal has already happened. In this episode, Bronwyn expands on food rules and food stories and introduces another part of the Eating Blueprint: the Eating System. Through Moira's experience, we explore what happened when she stopped concentrating on the chocolate and ice cream she was eating and became curious about the sequence leading into it. What she discovered was that relief eating didn't begin when she opened the freezer. It began days beforehand with emotional agitation and a narrowing attention. This episode challenges the idea that overeating is triggered by a single event and it introduces a different way of understanding relief eating. In this episode The difference between Hunger and HungeringMoira's discovery that her relief eating began days before the eating itselfThe early signs that an Eating System has become activatedHow widening the boundary changes what becomes visible The read the Blog associated with this episode, click here or copy and paste the link below. https://www.weightingforhappiness.com.au/post/eating-systems-explain-a-woman-s-weight-regain-moira-s-story AND For a copy of the 4 layers of eating, click here or copy and paste the link below. https://www.weightingforhappiness.com.au/4-layers-behind-eating

    12 min.

  2. 16. jun.

    When Junk Food Isn’t the Problem: Sylvie’s weight regain food story

    Resources for you in with this Podcast Download the Four Layers Model that explains Sylvie's story: Four Layers Infographic: or copy and paste https://www.weightingforhappiness.com.au/4-layers-behind-eating Begin identifying your own Blueprint; start with my first Diagnostic: ‘Understanding your weight ecosystem’ or copy and paste https://www.weightingforhappiness.com.au/weight-ecosystem-diagnostic Show NotesIn this episode of Before Dieting, I take listeners inside the first two layers of the Four Layers Model. The Food Rules and Food Stories and show how these layers shape eating in ways most women never realise. Through Sylvie’s story, we see how a lifelong pattern of junk‑food eating wasn’t about food at all, but about a feeling that began decades earlier at the family dinner table. This episode helps women understand why certain eating patterns feel immovable and how uncovering the emotional logic beneath eating can change everything. What You’ll Learn Food Rules describe what someone does with food.Food Stories explain why the behaviour formed in the first place.Childhood experiences often shape adult eating in ways women don’t recognise until they look back.Removing a food doesn’t remove the problem it is solving.Relief‑eating is the response to internal tension, not a lack of discipline.Work stress, conflict, pressure and emotional load can recreate the same internal conditions that shaped early eating patterns.Understanding the story behind eating opens the door to permanent change. Sylvie’s Story Sylvie, a woman in her late forties, has spent years trying to understand why she keeps returning to junk food, especially when she’s alone. Her car has become a mobile dining room, filled with wrappers by the end of each day. She promises herself she’ll stop, but the pattern repeats. When she traces her eating back to childhood, she remembers tense family dinners where arguments erupted nightly. She learned to eat quickly, stay quiet and avoid attention, a Food Rule formed for safety, not nutrition. Later, when the house was quiet, she found relief in sweets. The knot in her stomach came first; the chocolate came second. That knot, not the food, was the beginning of the sequence. As an adult, her job now recreates the same emotional conditions: complaints, conflict, difficult conversations. Different setting. Different people. Same knot. Once she sees the connection, her eating finally makes sense. Key Insight When women focus only on the food, they miss the deeper story. Food Rules describe the behaviour. Food Stories explain the emotional logic behind it. And once the story becomes visible, the eating stops looking irrational and starts looking understandable. Next Week I'll take you into the third layer of the model, the Eating Blueprints and explain how repeated experiences, Food Rules and Food Stories organise themselves into larger patterns that guide eating, long after childhood has ended. See my Blog for more information about understanding your Food Story by reading about Sylvie's or copy and paste the link: https://www.weightingforhappiness.com.au/post/sylvies-weight-regain-story

    12 min.

  3. 9. jun.

    The Four Layers Behind Weight Regain

    Diets tell you what to eat. Understanding the Four Layers Behind Eating explains why. 🔦 Download your free comprehensive Infographic, "The 4 Layers of Weight Regain" here https://www.weightingforhappiness.com.au/4-layers-of-eating 🔦You can read my Blog for this Podcast here https://www.weightingforhappiness.com.au/post/the-four-layers-of-eating-why-weight-regain-isn’t-about-willpower And please leave a review of this Podcast so other women can find this information. Show Notes In this episode of Before Dieting, Bronwyn introduces the Four Layers Behind Eating Behaviour; a way of understanding why some eating seems easy to change while others feel out of our control. Drawing on conversations with more than a thousand women who have experienced weight regain, Bronwyn explores four distinct layers that sit beneath eating behaviour: Food RulesFood StoriesEating BlueprintsEating Systems Using practical examples, this episode introduces a new way of seeing eating behaviour. One that moves beyond calories, discipline and self-control to uncover the deeper structures shaping your everyday eating. In this episode ✔️ Why new concepts and language are essential when solving complex problems ✔️ The difference between Food Rules and Food Stories ✔️How Eating Blueprints set the pattern for all eating ✔️ Why some eating behaviours feel flexible while others seem impossible to change ✔️ Why restriction is often one of the strongest triggers for relief eating Three Key Takeaways 🖌️ Not all eating operates on the same layer. Different eating behaviours have different drivers. Understanding the layer you're looking at changes the explanation and the solution. 🖌️Rules describe behaviour. Stories explain behaviour. Food Rules tell us what someone does. Food Stories help explain why those behaviours became important in the first place. 🖌️Relief eating is not a willpower problem. Relief eating is the behavioural expression of an Eating System attempting to reduce emotional pressure and restore equilibrium.

    12 min.

  4. 2. jun.

    Definitions and Boundaries to solve recurring weight gain

    The weight regain boundary problem The Weight Ecosystem link I reference in the episode that can start your weight regain solution. Today we look at: Why do weight regain explanations begin and end with calories? In this episode Bronwyn introduces one of the foundational ideas behind the Weighting for Happiness Project: boundaries. In systems thinking, a boundary determines what gets included when you're trying to understand a problem. And what sits inside that boundary strongly influences the explanation you end up with. Most weight-loss approaches draw a very narrow boundary around food and calorie intake. But what happens when the boundary expands? What happens when weight history, family food culture and long-standing eating patterns are included in the investigation? Bronwyn explores why expanding the boundary changed the way she understood weight regain and why we need to broaden our investigation more than calories. Key Takeaways Boundaries determine solutions.Calories aren’t the entire problem.Weight regain occurs within a larger life context.Expanding the boundary changes what becomes visible. If you want to read my Blog that accompanies this episode, you can do so here. Also, you can contact me or connect with me by: hello@weightingforhappiness.com.au LinkedIn Instagram Facebook #weightregain, #emotioneating, #foodrules, #eatingsystem, #womenshealth, #midlifewomen #midlifewomen, #dieting, #weightlossafter40, #dietcycle, #menopauseweightgain #psychologyofeating, #beforedieting, #reliefeating, #comforteating, #emotionaleating, #8eatingtypes

    9 min.

  5. 26. maj

    The Hidden Logic of Relief Eating

    Why does relief eating feel so overpowering, secretive and difficult to interrupt? In this episode of Before Dieting, Bronwyn Fletcher explores relief eating through the lens of systems thinking. Instead of framing eating as a simple problem of willpower or self-control, this episode examines how relief eating forms as a repeatable system designed to solve tension, overload and emotional discomfort. Using Meri’s story, Bronwyn walks through the hidden logic beneath late-night eating, food secrecy, rigid food rules and the constant internal tug-of-war many women live with around food. This episode also introduces the three stages of relief eating: Hungering, Eating and Resolution, showing how patterns that feel chaotic often follow a very structured process once they are slowed down and examined closely. Rather than asking ‘How do I stop eating like this?’, this episode invites a different question: ‘What relief is this eating giving me?’ Key Takeaways Relief eating is not random; it operates as a repeatable system.Food can function as relief, escape, rebellion or nervous system regulation.Childhood food experiences often shape adult eating systems.Shame reduces understanding; observation increases insight. Start Here If you want to understand what’s shaping your eating, start with the Weight Ecosystem diagnostic, or copy and paste the following link: https://www.weightingforhappiness.com.au/weight-ecosystem-diagnostic Read the Blog here or copy and paste the following link: https://www.weightingforhappiness.com.au/post/relief-eating-and-weight-regain-the-hidden-logic-inside-the-eating-system Please subscribe to this Podcast and leave a rating, so other women can find it. If you know any other woman who is struggling with weight regain, please pass this on. If you have any questions, please email me at hello@weightingforhappiness.com.au #weightregain, #emotioneating, #overeating, #foodrules, #eatingsystem, #womenshealth, #midlifewomen, #dieting, #weightlossafter40, #dietcycle, #menopauseweightgain, #psychologyofeating, #beforedieting, #reliefeating, #comforteating, #emotionaleating, #8eatingtypes

    12 min.

  6. 19. maj

    When Weight Regain Is Really About the Life You’re Living

    Soraya spent years believing her weight problem was about food. Like many women with recurring weight regain, she became highly skilled at dieting, cycling between strict calorie restriction during the week and overeating on weekends. On the surface, the explanation seemed obvious: she lacked control around food. But when we looked more closely, something very different emerged. Behind the dieting and overeating was a woman living a life built around duty, loyalty and keeping her parents proud. A woman whose career looked successful from the outside but no longer felt like her own from the inside. This episode explores one of the most important distinctions in the Weighting for Happiness framework: the difference between a food problem and a life problem that is expressing itself through food. Because recurring weight regain is rarely as simple as eating too much. It is often the visible symptom of a much larger system underneath. Key Takeaways Why recurring weight regain is a complex systems problemHow calorie restriction creates catch-up eatingThe difference between food-level explanations and root causesWhy understanding your eating system changes the questions you ask If this episode has echoes in your own life, start with the Weight Ecosystem diagnostic. It helps you move beyond food alone and begin identifying the wider emotional, behavioural and life patterns shaping your weight. You can read the accompanying Blog for more information: https://www.weightingforhappiness.com.au/post/when-weight-regain-is-really-about-the-life-you-re-living If this resonates, start with the Weight Ecosystem diagnostic. https://www.weightingforhappiness.com.au/diagnostics/weight-ecosystem-diagnostic Please subscribe to this Podcast and leave a rating, so other women can find it. If you know any other woman who is struggling with weight regain, please pass this on. If you have any questions please email me at hello@weightingforhappiness.com.au #weightregain, #emotioneating, #overeating, #foodrules, #eatingsystem, #womenshealth #midlifewomen, #dieting, #weightlossafter40, #dietcycle, #menopauseweightgain #psychologyofeating, #beforedieting, #reliefeating, #comforteating, #emotionaleating, #8eatingtypes

    11 min.

  7. 12. maj

    Midlife weight gain: The Role of Trust in Weight Regain

    Maggie’s story doesn’t start with food. It starts with trust. In this episode, you’ll hear how a lifetime of dieting and weight regain can sit on top of something far less visible; a loss of trust that began long before any diet was introduced. Maggie has built a highly controlled way of eating. On paper, it works. In reality, it leaves her unsatisfied and caught in a predictable pattern of relief eating. This episode moves beyond food choices and looks at the structure underneath them. How family conditions shape eating, how emotional needs become tied to food, and why control cannot replace trust. There is a clear shift here: from trying to fix eating, to understanding the system that produces it. Key Takeaways Weight regain linked to trust, not willpowerRelief eating follows a predictable internal sequenceControl structures can stabilise eating but cannot resolve itEarly family conditions shape long-term eating patterns Read the full blog here: https://www.weightingforhappiness.com.au/post/why-diets-fail-the-role-of-trust-in-weight-regain-maggie-s-story If this resonates, start with the Weight Ecosystem diagnostic. https://www.weightingforhappiness.com.au/diagnostics/weight-ecosystem-diagnostic Please subscribe to this Podcast and leave a rating, so other women can find it. If you know any other woman who is struggling with weight regain, please pass this on. If you know a woman who needs this, please share it with her. Any Questions: hello@weightingforhappiness.com.au OR Connect with me on: LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/bronwynfletcheratweightingforhappiness/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beforedieting.podcast/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61587755296729 #weightregain, #emotioneating, #overeating, #foodrules, #eatingsystem, #womenshealth, #weightlossafter40, #dieting, #psychologyofeating, #midlifewomen

    11 min.

  8. 5. maj

    Weight regain isn’t solved with better eating habits

    If you’ve been trying to fix your weight with better habits, this episode explains why that approach keeps failing. Last week, we introduced the idea that systems are not habits. This week, we go deeper. Because once you understand that your eating is a system, not a set of individual behaviours, a more important question emerges: Why does your weight keep returning, even when your goal is to change it? The answer is confronting. Your eating system has its own goal. And it’s not weight loss. In this episode, we break down: why habits only ever touch the surface of a much deeper structurewhy fast weight loss creates system backlash and weight regainwhy “low and slow” is the only approach that works with your system, not against itand why the scale is the least useful measure of progress when you’re trying to change a system You’ll also hear Denise’s story, a woman who spent decades losing and regaining weight and what changed when she stopped trying to get weight loss “over with quickly” and started working with her eating system instead. This episode will change how you think about: better eating habitsweight cyclingyo-yo dietingand why diets fail Key Takeaways 1️⃣ Your eating system has its own goal It is designed to maintain balance, not to lose weight. 2️⃣ Fast dieting creates backlash Big, sudden changes trigger hunger, slow metabolism, and lead to weight regain and overshoot. 3️⃣ Habits don’t change systems They can support change, but they don’t alter the structure driving your eating. 4️⃣ Low and slow is the only sustainable pathway Small, consistent changes allow the system to adapt without fighting back. 🔗 Blog Post: Systems not habits are driving your weight regain https://www.weightingforhappiness.com.au/post/systems-not-habits-are-driving-your-weight-regain Please leave a review so other women can find the podcast. And if you know a woman who needs to hear this information, please pass on the link. If you have any questions, you can email me at: hello@weightingforhappiness.com.au OR connect with me via: LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/bronwynfletcheratweightingforhappiness/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beforedieting.podcast/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61587755296729 #weightregain, #emotioneating, #overeating, #foodrules, #eatingsystem, #womenshealth, #weightlossafter40, #dieting, #psychologyofeating, #midlifewomen

    9 min.
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Before Dieting… | Uncovering Eating Patterns and Weight Cycles - is the podcast that explores the eight types of eating and the hidden food stories behind persistent weight cycles and diet frustration. Hosted by Bronwyn Fletcher, a systems thinker, this show reveals the eating patterns that keep you stuck and uncovers the real causes behind your weight struggles. If you’re tired of dieting without success, discover a new perspective that goes beyond calories and willpower to help you break free from the endless cycle of weight loss and regain.

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    Bronwyn Fletcher
  • Aktive år
    2025 - 2026
  • Episoder
    49
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