The Kink Consultant

Amanda, The Kink Consultant
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Welcome to The Kink Consultant podcast, where we’re turning up the heat on all things kink in dating, relationships, and pop culture! Join Amanda each week as she dishes out the juiciest stories, expert advice, and shares a sneak peek behind the bedroom door—with some amazing guests along for the ride. Whether you're just a little kink-curious, ready to spice things up, or a seasoned pro, there's something here for you! Expect fun, laughter, and a whole lot of eye-opening conversations as we explore the wild world of intimacy, kink, and those oh-so-intriguing D/s dynamics.

  1. 1 DAG SIDEN

    Ep 50 - From Sexless September to Locktober: Why All Men Should Be Caged with Larah Sky 

    Get your kinky breakthrough in just 20 minutes. Book your call with The Kink Consultant here: https://www.amandadames.com/ Back on The Kink Consultant, Larah Sky shares what really goes down when you’re running chastity challenges like Sexless September and Locktober. From easy-mode orgasm schedules to full denial, she breaks down why men keep signing up for chastity plans and what keeps them coming back for more. We also get into the chaos of OnlyFans rules, the viral TikToks that blew up her business, and why chastity has become one of the most talked-about kinks online. If you’ve been thinking about trying chastity, or just want to know what makes it so addictive, this episode gives you the inside scoop (and a good laugh along the way). Episode Highlights:  (00:00) Sexless September and Chastity Challenges (09:29) Chastity and Sissy Play (15:49) Challenges with Content Platforms (19:56) Challenges and Strategies on OnlyFans (22:27) Content Restrictions (32:01) Chastity World and Future Plans Connect with Larah Sky Type “Larah Sky is legendary on Google” or check out:  https://www.larahsky.com https://www.larahsky.co.uk https://www.chastity.world Connect with Me:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/⁠ Speak Your Desires with Confidence - Download this FREE step-by-step guide to having open, honest, and judgment-free conversations about kink, boundaries, and pleasure. https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1

    36 min.

  2. 10. SEP.

    Ep 49 - Complicated Pleasures: Can Fetish, Kink, and Romance Coexist? with Miz Darling

    Get your kinky breakthrough in just 20 minutes. Book your call with The Kink Consultant here: https://www.amandadames.com/ What makes something a kink, and what makes it a fetish? And can you find your life partner when you either?  In this episode, I sit down in person with content creator and professional dom, Miz Darling to explore the deep, messy, and meaningful world of fetish. From spanking and feet, to nylons and cuckolding, we unpack what makes a fetish different from a kink, how these desires form, and how they show up in long-term love and relationships. We also talk about the book we’re co-writing, Complicated Pleasures, and why it was important to tell real stories of fetishists navigating relationships, intimacy, and identity. This episode isn’t just about what turns people on, it’s about how to stay connected when your desires don’t fit the script. Tune in to learn why fetish is really about power, communication, and finding romance in the most unexpected places. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Exploring Common Fetishes (12:29) Introducing the Book Project: Complicated Pleasures (14:19) The Stigma Around Fetishes (15:08) Exploring Relationship Dynamics (19:51) Personal Experiences with Fetishes (22:53) Embracing Your Sexuality (27:00) How to Get Involved Submit Your Stories: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdD19PrOEehu7UqLmOo4iISRJe2M7L6VyD0FcTSn0s6A88p0A/viewform More details about the book: https://complicatedpleasures.ca/ Connect with Me:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/⁠ Speak Your Desires with Confidence - Download this FREE step-by-step guide to having open, honest, and judgment-free conversations about kink, boundaries, and pleasure. https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1

    30 min.

  3. 3. SEP.

    Ep 48 - Dating Makeover: The Mistakes You Didn’t Know You Were Making with Lana Ricco

    Get your kinky breakthrough in just 20 minutes. Book your call with The Kink Consultant here: https://www.amandadames.com/ If you’ve been on more first dates than you can count and you’re still single, chances are you’re making dating mistakes you didn’t even know about. In this episode, I sit down with Lana Ricco, host of the Dating Makeover show and podcast, to dig into the biggest dating mistakes that are quietly keeping people single. From chasing the wrong type of partner, to ignoring red and green flags around money, marriage, and family, Lana breaks down how to approach dating with clarity, strategy, and confidence. We talk about why men and women often marry for very different reasons, how to spot the difference between dominance and toxic “alpha” energy, and why your mindset going into a date matters just as much as your outfit. Lana also shares her own story of getting engaged within days of meeting her husband, and the key questions she asked up front that made the difference. If you’re ready to stop repeating patterns, avoid the traps that keep you stuck, and finally give your dating life a makeover, this conversation will show you where to begin. Episode Highlights:  (00:00) The Concept of Dating Makeover (02:50) Insights on Men and Marriage (12:45) Understanding Dominance in Relationships (17:16) Understanding Submissiveness and Dominance (19:55) Cultural Differences in Relationships (23:19) Finding the Right Partner (30:52) Core Questions for Relationship Success (31:40) Knowing When You’re Ready to Date Connect with Lana Ricco https://www.instagram.com/lana.ricco/ https://www.youtube.com/@LanaRicco https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dating-makeover-with-lana-ricco/id1819348183 Connect with Me:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/⁠ Speak Your Desires with Confidence - Download this FREE step-by-step guide to having open, honest, and judgment-free conversations about kink, boundaries, and pleasure. https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1

    34 min.

  4. 28. AUG.

    Ep 47 - What It Takes to Be a Global Content Creator: From Australia to England with Koby Falks

    This episode was recorded weeks before Koby passed. We’re sharing it with love and gratitude, in memory of him. It’s a chance to hear his voice, his story, and his spirit one more time. In this episode, I get to talk to Koby Falks, adult performer, OnlyFans star, and live sex show headliner, to talk about what it’s like building a career that spans continents, from Australia to the UK and beyond. We get into the realities of performing live on stage, navigating the gay vs. straight OnlyFans markets, and why building a recognizable brand is the key to standing out. Koby also shares his experience on balancing relationships with a public sex work career, how kinks evolve over time, and why sexuality is always more fluid than labels suggest. If you’ve ever wanted the inside story of global content creation and what it really takes to build a career that lasts in this scene, this episode is for you. Episode Highlights:  00:51 Live Sex Shows in Australia 05:00 Marketing and Networking in the Gay Community 11:30 Maintaining a Business Relationship Post-Breakup 22:01 Global Adventures in Filming 24:49 Personal Kinks and Preferences 30:21 The Dynamics of Sexuality 34:18 Balancing Work and Personal Life

    39 min.

  5. 20. AUG.

    Ep 46 - Design Your Dreamgirl: From Phone Sex to Camming with Pepper Kat

    What does your dream girl look like? In this episode, I get to talk with Pepper Kat about how she went from the newsroom to sex work, and why her background in TV and film now fuels her career in storytelling-driven erotica. We dive into the rise of breeding kink (and how Elon Musk weirdly influenced it), the reality of phone sex and camming, and the wildest requests Pepper’s ever gotten. She shares what it’s like to balance business and pleasure, the double lives that people lead to keep their fantasies hidden, why sex work is more mainstream than most people want to admit. If you’ve ever been curious about the business of fantasy or wondered just how far people will go to make their desires real, this one’s for you. Episode Highlights:  00:50 Design Your Dream Girl: A Customized Fantasy Experience 02:12 Exploring Popular Kinks and Trends 12:39 Phone Sex: Behind the Scenes 20:49 The Universality of Sexual Fantasies 27:26 Odd Requests and Custom Videos 30:46 Double Lives and Relationship Dynamics 32:54 Selling Bath Water and Other Merch Connect with Pepper Kat:  Website: https://www.pepperkat.com/designyourdreamgirl Podcast: https://www.pepperkat.com/heartfelt-perspectives Connect with Me:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/⁠ Speak Your Desires with Confidence - Download this FREE step-by-step guide to having open, honest, and judgment-free conversations about kink, boundaries, and pleasure. https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1 Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you! ⁠Book your consultation here⁠

    37 min.
  6. Ep 45 - Impact Play Survival Guide: Skincare Tips from Flora

    13. AUG.

    Ep 45 - Impact Play Survival Guide: Skincare Tips from Flora

    Your butt cheeks also need some TLC…  In this episode, I’m joined by Flora, a fellow spanko and skincare enthusiast, to talk about keeping your most spanked asset healthy. From preventing scars and managing hyperpigmentation to speeding up bruise recovery and avoiding leather butt, Flora shares the routines, products, and doctor-approved tips that every impact bottom should know. We break down the best ways to protect your skin before a weekend of play, what to do immediately after a scene, and how to keep your cheeks soft, smooth, and ready for the next round. Plus, we get into the realities of party drop, why volunteering matters, and why curiosity is the most underrated thing you can bring to any kink event. If you want your marks to fade faster, your skin to recover quicker, and your other cheeks to get the same love as your face, this one’s for you. Episode Highlights:  04:18 Managing Bruising and Skin Discoloration 07:30 Skincare Routines and Tips 13:46 The Texas Allstate Spanking Party Experience 18:31 Bottoms Up and Community Events 20:55 Daily and Post-Play Skincare Recommendations 24:13 Understanding and Treating Itchy Skin 31:47 Dealing with Leather Butt 33:23 The Role of Hydration and Nutrition 39:09 The Value of Attending Workshops and Classes Connect with Flora:  FetLife: _f1ora https://x.com/_f1ora https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/163305/miss-kelley-may Connect with Me:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/⁠ Speak Your Desires with Confidence - Download this FREE step-by-step guide to having open, honest, and judgment-free conversations about kink, boundaries, and pleasure. https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1 Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you! ⁠Book your consultation here⁠.

    47 min.

  7. 6. AUG.

    Ep 44 - What It’s Really Like Working as a Professional Dom: Behind the Scenes with Mistress Verna Part 2

    Think you could handle working in a professional dungeon? In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I’m back with Mistress Verna for Part 2 of our behind-the-scenes look at life as retired dominatrixes. We’re digging into how this work helped us explore and define our sexuality, the boundaries we had to build to stay safe, and the trust it took to thrive in a job built on power exchange. We swap stories about some of our most unforgettable clients, what we learned about ourselves through this work, and whether we’d actually recommend dungeon life to someone curious about going pro. Spoiler alert: it’s not for the faint of heart, but it definitely gave us tools we still use to this day. Tune in to hear what it really takes to be a pro dom, beyond the latex and fantasy,  and why this career path changed how we see sex, power, and ourselves. Episode Highlights:  02:34 Learning and Growth in the Dungeon 10:30 Unique Client Stories and Advice 21:55 Unusual Requests and Experiences 24:59 Building Friendships and Skills 30:59 Reflections on Being a Dominatrix 37:17 Advice for Aspiring Dominatrixes Connect with Me:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/⁠ Join The Kinky Book Club:  https://www.patreon.com/amandadames/membership Speak Your Desires with Confidence - Download this FREE step-by-step guide to having open, honest, and judgment-free conversations about kink, boundaries, and pleasure. https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1 Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you! ⁠Book your consultation here⁠.

    43 min.

  8. 30. JUL.

    Ep 43 - What It’s Really Like Working as a Professional Dom: Behind the Scenes with Mistress Verna Part 1

    What really goes on behind the velvet curtain of a New York City dungeon? In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I catch up with my longtime friend and former dungeon-mate Mistress Verna to spill the tea on our years working as professional dominatrixes in one of the city's most infamous kink spaces. We get into everything they don't show you in the movies — the hazing rituals, the gossip, the client mind games, the surprise police visits, and the unspoken rules that ran the place. We also talk about the real stuff: the power dynamics, the politics, and how we built safety, sisterhood, and strategy in a space that was chaotic at best and dangerous at worst. Tune in to find out what really goes down in a professional dungeon and why being a pro dom isn't just about fantasy. It's about finesse, boundaries, and knowing exactly who’s in charge. Episode Highlights:  00:51 The Reality of Working at the Dungeon 14:49 Client Interactions and Techniques 22:18 Reflecting on Client Dynamics 25:34 Client Lies and Secrets 27:08 Sex Rules and Gossip 31:01 Raids and Safety Protocols 36:37 Journalist Incident Connect with Me:  ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/⁠ Join The Kinky Book Club:  https://www.patreon.com/amandadames/membership Speak Your Desires with Confidence - Download this FREE step-by-step guide to having open, honest, and judgment-free conversations about kink, boundaries, and pleasure. https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1 Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you! ⁠Book your consultation here⁠.

    42 min.
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Welcome to The Kink Consultant podcast, where we’re turning up the heat on all things kink in dating, relationships, and pop culture! Join Amanda each week as she dishes out the juiciest stories, expert advice, and shares a sneak peek behind the bedroom door—with some amazing guests along for the ride. Whether you're just a little kink-curious, ready to spice things up, or a seasoned pro, there's something here for you! Expect fun, laughter, and a whole lot of eye-opening conversations as we explore the wild world of intimacy, kink, and those oh-so-intriguing D/s dynamics.

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    Amanda, The Kink Consultant
  • Aktive år
    2024 - 2025
  • Episoder
    50
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    Anstødeligt
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    © Amanda, The Kink Consultant
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    The Kink Consultant

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