It's A Single Mom Thing

Shepherd's Village

Welcome to “It's A Single Mom Thing,” the show for single moms by single moms, hosted by Sherry Chandler. Being a solo momma and present parent is hard work, and losing focus is easy when you forget your faith. The good news is you are not alone. You were singled out this season, and together, we can work on what’s not working for you—finding Christ in the crisis! Whether you’re tuning in early in the morning or late at night, I’m here for you, momma. This podcast is your go-to space for navigating life as a single mom with faith, fun, and a fresh perspective. We'll cover everything from mastering a single-mom success mindset and budgeting like a boss to prioritizing self-care and raising resilient kids. We’ll share time management hacks, parenting perspectives, co-parenting challenges, and how to find joy and laugh again. Together, we’ll move from surviving to thriving in every season of single motherhood. Be encouraged. Get inspired. You can do this, momma. Each Monday, join me for practical advice, relatable stories, and uplifting conversations as we walk this journey from solo momma to solo momma. I promise not to take too much of your time, and I’m so grateful you’re spending it with me. It may be a single mom thing, but it doesn’t have to be the "single thing" that stops you!

  1. 26 JAN

    Fear of Failure Is Not Your Boss

    Send Sherry a Text Message Fear of failure has been acting like your boss—and today, we’re firing it. In this episode of It’s a Single Mom Thing, we’re flipping the pressure of “What do you want to achieve?” into a more powerful question: What do you want to experience this year? Even if life feels messy, heavy, or uncertain, you can still choose a direction. We’ll talk about the question that exposes what your heart really wants—“If you knew you could never fail, what would you do?”—and why fear of failure keeps so many single moms stuck in overthinking, delaying, and talking themselves out of growth. You’ll walk away with practical, real-life shifts to get moving again: shrinking the step, redefining failure, creating a 14-day experiment, building a Plan B, and choosing courage over confidence. Plus, I’ll guide you through the Experience Map—a simple 3-step exercise to help you choose one word for your year, picture what it looks like, and take one brave step that fits your real life. 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or at shepherdsvillage.com/podcast. If you need prayer, call our 24-hour prayer line: 855-822-PRAY. If you’re in the Tampa Bay area, learn about our upcoming classes at shepherdsvillage.com/classes. Share this episode with a friend who needs a push with love—because fear can talk, but it doesn’t drive. Support the show It's a Single Mom Thing, Not the Single Thing That Stops You!

    18 min
  2. 12 JAN

    Prepared, Not Compared

    Send Sherry a Text Message What if you’re not behind…  What if you’re not late…  What if you’re more prepared than you think? Season 6 of It’s A Single Mom Thing begins with one powerful word: Prepare. In this episode, Sherry speaks directly to the single mom who feels tired, overwhelmed, and unsure how to prepare for a future she can’t clearly see. If you’re living in survival mode, comparing your life to others, or wondering how to trust God when there’s no clear plan, this conversation is for you. Drawing from 1 Corinthians 2:9, Sherry unpacks what it really means to be prepared—not compared, and why God often prepares the person long before revealing the promise. Through the stories of Joseph and Daniel, she explores how God works in the waiting, in exile, and in seasons that don’t feel productive—but are deeply formative. You’ll also hear practical encouragement for: Single moms living without a clear planPreparing your heart when life feels reactiveLetting go of comparison, pressure, and controlUnderstanding preparation as partnership with God, not performanceTrusting God when clarity hasn’t come yetFinding hope when you feel behind or unpreparedWith real talk, faith, and a little sass, this episode reminds you that preparation isn’t about having everything figured out—it’s about making room for God to work. And it ends with a question you won’t be able to shake: What if the clarity you’re asking God for only comes after obedience? 🎧 Listen in, sit with it, and come back ready for what’s next. If you need prayer or support, Shepherd’s Village is here for you.  📞 Prayer Line: 855-822-PRAY Support the show It's a Single Mom Thing, Not the Single Thing That Stops You!

    20 min
  3. 09/12/2025

    The Ghosts of Christmas Past: Kicking Holiday Haunts to the Curb

    Send Sherry a Text Message The Ghosts of Christmas Past: Kicking Holiday Haunts to the Curb It’s A Single Mom Thing with Sherry Chandler This week on It’s a Single Mom Thing, we’re busting the emotional “Ghosts of Christmas Past” — those holiday haunts that show up uninvited and try to steal your joy. From the ghost of Christmas expectations, to the ghost of relationships past, family drama, loneliness, and the big one… the ghost of “not enough,” this episode is your permission slip to walk into the holiday season FREE. Single moms, this one will speak to your soul.  We’ll laugh, we’ll get real, and we’ll straighten our crooked crowns together.  If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, under pressure, guilty, lonely, or stretched thin around the holidays — this episode will bring peace, power, and practical encouragement. You’ll discover:  ✨ How to silence the emotional ghosts that haunt your holidays  ✨ How to find peace when expectations feel heavy  ✨ How to let go of past relationships and old wounds  ✨ How to protect your joy from family drama  ✨ How to overcome the lie of “not enough”  ✨ How to step into Christmas with confidence, clarity, and God’s peace And remember, Mama — our prayer line (855-822-PRAY) is open every single day, even Christmas Day and New Year’s Day. You never walk alone. This episode is funny, freeing, healing, and hope-filled — everything a single mom needs to face her future with confidence this Christmas season. Support the show It's a Single Mom Thing, Not the Single Thing That Stops You!

    30 min
  4. 24/11/2025

    Devo Thought - Peace In The Pieces

    Send Sherry a Text Message Peace in the Pieces: A Holiday Devotional for Single Moms Facing Trauma, Drama, and Overthinking In this powerful holiday devotional, Sherry speaks directly to the single mom who’s navigating holiday trauma, unexpected emotions, family tension, loneliness, or memories that hit harder this time of year. Whether you grew up without traditions, are raising kids with different dads, or are juggling multiple homes and overwhelming expectations, this episode offers hope, grounding, and real strategies that work when you're sitting alone in a room with your thoughts. Get ready for practical and out-of-the-box tools that help you break free from panic, silence the enemy’s trigger tactics, and reconnect with God’s peace — even in the hardest moments. Grab a pen and paper — you’ll want to write these down. Some of the strategies include: The “Name 5” Method to stop spiraling thoughtsThe “Sit With Jesus Chair” for when loneliness hits hardThe “Hand Over Heart” Reset to calm breath and bodyThe “Give to Get” Strategy for getting out of your head fastThe "Write-and-Rip" Release to break emotional pressureSherry also shares a powerful promise from God, a heartfelt prayer over your heart and home, and an invitation to reach out to the 24/7 prayer line at 855-822-PRAY whenever the season feels too heavy to carry alone. This episode is for the mama who needs peace, presence, and a reminder that God is with her in every piece of her story. Share this devotional with another mom who’s struggle-busing through the holidays — peace multiplies when we pass it on. Support the show It's a Single Mom Thing, Not the Single Thing That Stops You!

    24 min

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Welcome to “It's A Single Mom Thing,” the show for single moms by single moms, hosted by Sherry Chandler. Being a solo momma and present parent is hard work, and losing focus is easy when you forget your faith. The good news is you are not alone. You were singled out this season, and together, we can work on what’s not working for you—finding Christ in the crisis! Whether you’re tuning in early in the morning or late at night, I’m here for you, momma. This podcast is your go-to space for navigating life as a single mom with faith, fun, and a fresh perspective. We'll cover everything from mastering a single-mom success mindset and budgeting like a boss to prioritizing self-care and raising resilient kids. We’ll share time management hacks, parenting perspectives, co-parenting challenges, and how to find joy and laugh again. Together, we’ll move from surviving to thriving in every season of single motherhood. Be encouraged. Get inspired. You can do this, momma. Each Monday, join me for practical advice, relatable stories, and uplifting conversations as we walk this journey from solo momma to solo momma. I promise not to take too much of your time, and I’m so grateful you’re spending it with me. It may be a single mom thing, but it doesn’t have to be the "single thing" that stops you!