Sacred Arc

Sacred Arc

Sacred Arc is a grief-centered podcast exploring loss, love, identity and the spaces in between. Through reflection, storytelling, and embodied awareness, the show honors grief as a lifelong, non-linear experience and not something to fix or move past. Hosted by Kimberley Patterson, an intuitive grief guide, death doula, and licensed esthetician, Sacred Arc offers grief education, meaning-making, and nervous system informed reflection for those learning how to live alongside loss. Kimberley's work is informed by lived experience, death literacy, trauma-informed principles & somatic awareness.

Episodes

  1. 6 DAYS AGO

    EP 7 - When Words Fail: How Grief Wants To Be Met

    Most people don’t say the wrong thing because they’re cruel. They say the wrong thing because they were never taught how to meet grief. When someone we love is grieving, words often rush in where presence should be. Comfort turns into fixing. Silence turns into forced meaning. Fear turns into phrases that unintentionally isolate the person who is already hurting. This episode exists because grief doesn’t need to be explained away. It needs to be witnessed. In this conversation, we talk about: Why people say things like “everything happens for a reason” or “they’re in a better place”How comments meant to comfort can land as dismissive or painfulWhat a griever is often feeling internally when these things are said...the anger, disbelief, exhaustion, or urge to pull awayWhy grief creates distance in relationships, even when there’s loveAnd what grief actually wants insteadWe also explore what can be helpful to say when words fail and why sometimes the most supportive thing is simply staying present without trying to fix the pain. You don’t need perfect language to meet grief well. You just need honesty, humility, and the willingness to stay. Disclaimer This podcast is for education, reflection, and support — not medical or mental health advice. If you are struggling or in crisis, please reach out to a trusted person or professional. Comments Comments are open for reflection and presence — not advice, fixing, or debate. Anything harmful or dismissive will be removed to protect this space. Contact Me If something in this episode resonated and you’d like to share your story, say hello, or simply be witnessed, you’re welcome to reach out. You don’t need the right words. I’ll include the link below.https://beacons.ai/sacredarc

    21 min
  2. 14 JAN

    EP 4 - Grief Thresholds: The Moments That Change Us

    There are moments in grief that quietly divide life into before and after. In this episode, we explore grief thresholds...the internal crossings that change how grief lives in us. These aren't milestones you plan for or stages you move through in order. They're the moments when something shifts, when grief deepens, when the body responds, when your sense of self begins to change. We talk about the thresholds that often go unnamed. Moments of realization, overwhelm, anger, tenderness, and the quiet understanding that you are not the same person you were before. This episode in an invitation to notice where you might be standing now, not to fix or move past anything, but to recognize the crossings you've already made. You're not behind. You're not doing grief wrong. You're crossing something sacred. Comments are open for reflection and presence, not advice, fixing or debate. You're welcome to share what resonated or where you find yourself standing. Anything that feels harmful, dismissive, or unsafe will be removed to protect this space. *Content Note: This episode includes discussion of grief, loss, and emotional response. Please listen gently. Sacred Arc offers grief education, reflection, and embodied awareness. All content is educational and supportive in nature and is not a substitute for psychotherapy, mental health treatment, medical care or diagnosis. If you are experiencing distress or need support, please seek care from a qualified healthcare or mental health professional. You don't need to carry this alone.

    24 min

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Sacred Arc is a grief-centered podcast exploring loss, love, identity and the spaces in between. Through reflection, storytelling, and embodied awareness, the show honors grief as a lifelong, non-linear experience and not something to fix or move past. Hosted by Kimberley Patterson, an intuitive grief guide, death doula, and licensed esthetician, Sacred Arc offers grief education, meaning-making, and nervous system informed reflection for those learning how to live alongside loss. Kimberley's work is informed by lived experience, death literacy, trauma-informed principles & somatic awareness.