Shrink Rap

Kristin Cook and Elena Roth
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Join Elena (LCSW) and Kristin ( LAPC) as we get real about the messy, hilarious, and deeply human sides of therapy and life —with a blend of clinical insight, raw honesty, and the kind of humor that keeps you sane when life gets heavy. From attachment wounds to awkward first sessions, burnout to boundaries, Shrink Rap dives deep into the messy, meaningful, and often hilarious world of mental health. Come for the insight, stay for the laughs—because healing’s hard, but it doesn’t have to be humorless.

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  1. 4. MAR.

    Holy Plot Twist – Deconstructing Religion Without Self-Destructing (Part One)

    At some point, for many of us, the story we were handed about God, morality, and how the universe works starts to feel… less airtight. The verses don’t land the same. The certainty wobbles. The questions get louder. And suddenly you’re side-eyeing the theology that once structured your entire childhood. Welcome to deconstruction. In Part One of this series, we break down what religious deconstruction actually is (hint: it’s not a rebellion phase or a "backsliding" ...ew), and how spiritual development evolves across the lifespan. We talk through common stages of faith, why black-and-white belief systems tend to crack under adult complexity, and how revisiting what we were taught as kids can stir up everything from grief and anger to relief and dark, slightly inappropriate humor. Because here’s the thing: when your original framework for meaning shifts, it can feel destabilizing. Identity questions surface. Family dynamics get… spicy. Guilt pops up uninvited. And you may find yourself wondering whether you’re “losing it” when you’re actually just growing. As two therapists who’ve done our own deconstructing, we approach this with a lot of compassion—and yes, a fair amount of personal honesty. Sometimes you have to laugh at the existential plot twist to keep from imploding. This episode isn’t about telling you what to believe. It’s about normalizing the process of questioning, reframing, and reconstructing in a way that doesn’t require you to torch your nervous system in the process. Because questioning your faith doesn’t mean you’re self-destructing. Sometimes it just means the story got bigger.

    45 min.

  2. 18. FEB.

    Steady, Not Silent: The Ethics of Not Looking Away

    When the headlines feel relentless and the national temperature keeps rising, it’s not just political discourse—it’s nervous system overload. For many, it’s fear about safety, rights, belonging, and the future. And for therapists, it’s personal too. We live in the same world our clients do. In this episode of Shrink Rap, we talk about how to care for ourselves and one another during politically charged and destabilizing times—and why that care must extend beyond private coping. We explore what it means to stay grounded without becoming disengaged, compassionate without becoming depleted, and boundaried without becoming silent. Through a clinical lens, we unpack collective anxiety, moral distress, and the strain of holding space for clients navigating oppression, marginalization, and systemic harm. We offer practical strategies for regulation, community care, and sustainable presence—because burnout helps no one, and reactivity rarely heals. And we also address the ethical imperative: therapy does not exist in a vacuum. When policies and rhetoric directly impact the safety and dignity of marginalized communities, neutrality can quietly reinforce harm. We discuss why speaking up—within our professional scope and ethical frameworks—is not about partisanship, but about alignment with the foundational principles of our field: beneficence, nonmaleficence, justice, and respect for human dignity. This is a conversation about steadiness with a spine. About tending to your own nervous system so you can show up with clarity and courage. And about remembering that caring for each other, especially those most impacted, isn’t political theater—it’s ethical practice. Because in heated times, silence is rarely neutral. And care, when done with intention, is both relational and radical.

    1 t. 12 min.

  3. 14. JAN.

    The Beauty Trap: Try Harder, Care Less

    Be beautiful—but not too beautiful. Put in effort, but make it look effortless. Care, but not that much. And somehow, do all of this while pretending none of it matters. In this episode of Shrink Rap, we take an honest look at the psychological trap women are placed in by beauty standards that are contradictory by design—and the fatigue, resentment, and anger that come from trying to navigate them. We explore how these expectations shape identity, self-worth, and behavior, not because women are “doing it wrong,” but because the rules themselves were never meant to be fair. We also widen the lens to examine how womxn, often without intent or malice, can end up judging one another through the same inherited standards—mistaking difference for threat, choice for failure, or visibility for vanity. Not as a call-out, but as a call in: an invitation to notice how scarcity, comparison, and survival conditioning distort our capacity for generosity toward one another. This conversation is about reclaiming self-agency—about recognizing that there is no single right way to be a woman, no universal aesthetic, no moral hierarchy of effort, beauty, or indifference. There is a lane for every kind of WOMXN, and none of them require permission or approval. There is humor here, because absurd systems deserve to be named as such. There is anger, because it belongs. And there is relief in remembering that opting out of judgment—of ourselves and each other—isn’t complacency. It’s power.

    1 t.

  4. 24.12.2025

    Episode 4 - New Year, Same Humans

    New Year’s Eve has a way of bringing up all the feelings: pressure to change, pressure to reflect, pressure to somehow become a better version of yourself by midnight. In this episode of Shrink Rap, we’re talking honestly about New Year’s resolutions—the good, the bad, and the “why do we do this to ourselves?” As two therapists very much living in the real world, we unpack when resolutions can be motivating, when they quietly fuel shame, and how to approach “doing New Year’s” in a way that actually works for you. No forced optimism. No rigid rules. Just thoughtful reflection and permission to opt out of what doesn’t fit. We also dip our toes into an upcoming conversation about beauty standards, comparison, and what it really looks like for women to support each other—especially in a culture that thrives on us feeling not-enough. Consider this your reminder: you get to start the year on your own terms.

    47 min.

  5. 10.12.2025

    Episode 3 - Let Them? How Over-simplified Pop-Psych Advice Just Doesn't Work

    In this episode of Shrink Rap, we’re unpacking Mel Robbins’ “Let Them” theory—the idea that you can just let people be who they are and stop trying to fix or control them. Sounds simple, right? But as therapists who work with folks from traumatic family backgrounds, we have some real thoughts (and concerns). We get honest about why this “just let them” approach can feel overly simplified—or even risky—for people whose boundaries have been tested, ignored, or violated. We dive into what nuance really looks like in family dynamics, why context and history matter, and how “letting people be” sometimes needs to be balanced with safety, self-protection, and self-compassion. This episode is a mix of critique, lived experience, and a bit of therapist confessional: we’re navigating the tension between wanting to give sage advice and recognizing that life—and families—are messy. If you’ve ever rolled your eyes at overly simplified pop-psych tips or wondered how “letting go” actually works when trauma is involved, this episode is for you. We promise: no judgment, lots of honesty, and a little guidance on how to think about these ideas in a way that actually helps you. We're glad you're here.

    1 t. 28 min.

  6. 25.11.2025

    Episode 2 - Big Beautiful Boundaries for your Holiday Season

    Buckle up, Buttercups, we're talking boundaries for your holiday gatherings. We’re getting real about boundaries—not the Instagram-quote version, but the lived, messy, human kind. You know… the ones that sound great in theory and then get completely tested the moment you’re in the same room as your family, your in-laws, or that one friend who still doesn’t quite “get it.” Join us as two therapists who are very much in the trenches with you. We talk through what boundaries actually are, why they matter more than we often admit, and how to set or maintain them without feeling like you’re ruining the vibe or becoming the “difficult one.” We also share what gets in the way for us personally—because therapists struggle with this stuff too—and how we practice boundary-setting in our own lives. With the 2025 holiday season on the horizon, we’ll look at the tricky situations many of us are already anticipating, and offer grounded, compassionate strategies you can take into conversations, gatherings, and group chats. This isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being honest with yourself, kind to your nervous system, and a little more intentional than last year. We're glad you're here.

    1 t. 18 min.

  7. 24.11.2025

    Episode 1 - Demystifying Therapy

    Welcome to the very first episode of Shrink Rap, the show where we peel back the curtain on what therapy actually looks and feels like—without the jargon, the mystique, or the pressure to have it all figured out. In this kickoff episode, we’re breaking down one of the biggest barriers people face: not knowing where to start. We’ll talk honestly about how to find a therapist who feels like the right fit, what those first few sessions usually look like, and how to tune into your own sense of safety, comfort, and empowerment during the process. Whether you’re therapy-curious, searching for your first clinician, or returning after a break, this episode gives you the language, clarity, and confidence you deserve. Think of it as a roadmap to help you navigate the early stages of therapy with more ease—and maybe even a little excitement. Ready to take the first step, or understand it more deeply? Let’s dive in. We're glad you're here.

    1 t. 12 min.

  8. TRAILER FOR SÆSON 1, EPISODE 1

    Shrink Rap Trailer - Who TF Even Are We??

    Welcome to Shrink Rap, the podcast where therapy gets real. Hosted by Elena, an LCSW and Kristin, an LAPC, this isn’t your typical “self-help” show. It’s an honest, unfiltered look at the inner world of two therapists who are just as human as the people they sit with. Each week, we dive into the beautifully messy, sometimes hilarious, and often painful realities of being human — through the lens of the therapy room and beyond. We talk about attachment wounds, anxiety spirals, imposter syndrome, boundaries (and the times we’ve failed to hold them), grief, burnout, relationships, and everything in between. Nothing’s too heavy, too weird, or too real to unpack here. What makes Shrink Rap different? We bring both clinical insight and dark humor to the table — because sometimes laughter really is the best coping skill. We believe that healing doesn’t have to sound polished or perfect. In fact, the most profound truths often come with a side of sarcasm, a few f-bombs, and a deep sigh of relief. Our conversations blend psychology, self-reflection, and storytelling — mixing theory with real talk. We’ll break down the concepts that shape the way we think and feel: attachment styles, inner child work, nervous system regulation, trauma responses, and more — but in language that actually makes sense. We also share the behind-the-scenes reality of being a therapist: the compassion fatigue, the self-doubt, the moments of connection that change us, and the absurdities that make us laugh in the middle of a tough day. At its core, Shrink Rap is about being real. You won’t get surface-level advice or five-step fixes here. Instead, we explore what it means to live authentically, to feel deeply, and to navigate life with both curiosity and compassion — even when it’s uncomfortable. Especially when it’s uncomfortable. So, whether you’re a therapist, a therapy-goer, or just a fellow human doing your best to keep it together, you’re welcome here. This is a space for open conversations, big feelings, and zero judgment. Come for the insight, stay for the laughs, and leave feeling a little more seen, a little less alone, and maybe even inspired to keep doing the work — whatever that looks like for you.

    5 min.

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Join Elena (LCSW) and Kristin ( LAPC) as we get real about the messy, hilarious, and deeply human sides of therapy and life —with a blend of clinical insight, raw honesty, and the kind of humor that keeps you sane when life gets heavy. From attachment wounds to awkward first sessions, burnout to boundaries, Shrink Rap dives deep into the messy, meaningful, and often hilarious world of mental health. Come for the insight, stay for the laughs—because healing’s hard, but it doesn’t have to be humorless.

Oplysninger

  • Skaber
    Kristin Cook and Elena Roth
  • Aktive år
    2025 - 2026
  • Episoder
    8
  • Vurdering
    Anstødeligt
  • Copyright
    © Kristin Cook and Elena Roth
  • Websted for serie
    Shrink Rap