Stay Mentally Dope

Charmaine Beasley, LPC-S & Jasmine Bishop, LPC-S

Mental health just ain’t the same for Black folks. Join Charmaine & Jasmine, two licensed therapists obsessed with Black culture, as they: -Unpack your favorite throwback movies. (And ruin some along the way). -Decode why Black parents refuse to apologize. (Spoiler: it's not what you think.) -Help you ditch the struggle love cycle. (Because honey, you deserve more!) Want to level up your own mental health journey or just want to laugh while trying to make sense of this life, hit that subscribe button, boo. This journey about Black mental health is gonna be DOPE!

  1. 16 APR

    Love Jones: Anxious & Avoidant Attachment Styles

    Three questions: do you know your attachment style, have you seen the movie Love Jones, AND have you ever been in a Love Jones type relationship? Nina and Darius had their ups and downs but the love story was epic. In this episode, join your two favorite black therapists as we talk about anxious and avoidant attachment styles and how it affects communication and relationships, pattern cycles, and how to recognize it and heal. 00:00 Intro 01:40 Overview of the attachment styles 05:44 Love Jones overview 08:00 Did Darius have anxious attachment? 13:55 Communication issues between attachment styles - -assumptions -keeping a back up roster -not showing all your cards -fantasizing about ex -not resolving issues -not having accountability -being reactive -having different emotional regulation and conflict styles 25:30 Why recognizing your attachment is so important & being attracted to a partner with different attachment 29:05 therapists thoughts on avoidant and anxious couple conflict resolution Follow us: Stay Mentally Dope (@staymentallydope) • Instagram photos and videosTikTok - Make Your Day FB:staymentallydope | FacebookMental health x Black culture Podcasts for womenmental health podcast podcast for black womenMental health#attachmentstyles #couplestherapy #mentalhealth #selflove #mentalhealthpodcast #blackwomenshealth #lovejones #lovejonesmovieWhy did they break up in Love Jones? Can an avoidant and anxious relationship work? how to make anxious-avoidant relationship work How to handle an avoidant partner? fearful avoidant vs dismissive avoidant anxious attachment style healing

    33 min
  2. 25 FEB

    The Psychology of Attention Seekers (& How to Deal)

    Ever wonder what are examples of attention-seeking behavior? In this episode, your two favorite black therapists as we explore how what’s often labeled as “attention-seeking” may actually be a human need for connection, safety, and validation. Through an attachment lens, we unpack where these behaviors come from, how shame gets attached to them, and how we can respond, to ourselves and others, with curiosity instead of judgment. This conversation invites listeners to soften their inner critic, deepen emotional awareness, and build healthier ways to ask for what they need. Time stamps:  00:00 intro 01:25 Why does attention seeking even matter? 09:50 Ways people attention seek: drama, talking too much, overcommunication, being too much, needing reassurance 15:01 What is attachment? 19:25 Learning about your attachment style (learning in childhood and mind reading and why you need a safe space) 31:47 Tips Podcasts versions are at: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentally-dope/id1673538196 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DiRPvXY1ua6ftLg5FR98Q?si=aa3601b4b9ca490f Amazon Music: ​​https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/2a85c229-4bd8-4526-a65d-66b453998bce/mentally-dope Mental health x Black culture  #attachment #healingjourney #Blackculture #mentalhealth #therapy #blacktherapist #blackyoutube #blackpodcast #blackmovies #blackwoman #blackwomenoftiktok #blackwomenshealth #blackwomenpodcasts #therapistpodcast #fortheculture #mentalhealthpodcast #mentalhealthjourney #highfunctioningdepression #highfunctioninganxiety #trauma #traumahealing  Podcasts for women mental health podcast  podcast for black women What are examples of attention-seeking behavior What mental illness is attention-seeking behavior What trauma causes attention-seeking Is attention-seeking a red flag What is maladaptive attention-seeking What attachment style craves attention How to stop being a validation seeker Why is seeking validation toxic What are good communication skills in relationships

    38 min

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Mental health just ain’t the same for Black folks. Join Charmaine & Jasmine, two licensed therapists obsessed with Black culture, as they: -Unpack your favorite throwback movies. (And ruin some along the way). -Decode why Black parents refuse to apologize. (Spoiler: it's not what you think.) -Help you ditch the struggle love cycle. (Because honey, you deserve more!) Want to level up your own mental health journey or just want to laugh while trying to make sense of this life, hit that subscribe button, boo. This journey about Black mental health is gonna be DOPE!