Let's Get It With Coach Los

Los Acie (Certified Life & Relationship Coach)

Welcome to the show with Coach Los, a certified life and relationship coach. This podcast is for anyone tired of dating games or struggling with relationship challenges. Each episode offers actionable advice, real-life insights, and coaching strategies to help you communicate better, rebuild trust, or decide if it’s time to move on. Tune in for empowering messages, practical tips, and expert strategies to help you create the healthy, loving relationship you deserve. It’s time to stop overthinking and start living with clarity.

  1. HACE 7 H

    4 Signs They Love You But They're NOT Right for You

    One of the hardest truths to accept in relationships is this: Someone can genuinely love you… and still not be the right person for you. In this episode, Coach Los breaks down the painful but necessary difference between being loved and being truly fulfilled in a relationship. Because sometimes the confusion isn’t about whether they care… It’s about why you still feel empty, disconnected, emotionally alone, or stuck despite that love being there. Inside this conversation, Coach Los unpacks: Why love alone is not enough to sustain a healthy relationshipThe difference between loving someone and knowing how to love them properlyHow incompatible love languages can slowly create emotional emptinessWhy relationships fail when one person refuses to grow or evolveThe danger of a partner showing up for you but not protecting the relationship itselfWhat emotional loneliness inside a relationship actually feels likeHow emotional unavailability quietly destroys connection over timeWhy effort matters, but effort in the right areas matters moreThis episode is especially important for people who: Feel guilty questioning a relationship because their partner is “trying”Love their partner deeply but still feel unfulfilledFeel emotionally disconnected despite being committedKeep wondering, “Am I asking for too much?”Are struggling to decide whether love is enough to stayCoach Los also explains why staying in a relationship that no longer nourishes you is not selfish or ungrateful… It’s recognizing that healthy love should not only exist, it should also help both people grow, connect, heal, and feel emotionally safe. Because real love is not just about attachment… It’s about alignment.

    11 min
  2. HACE 2 DÍAS

    This Is How You Lose the Person Who Loved You the Most

    Most relationships don’t end because of one massive betrayal. They end slowly. Quietly. Repeatedly. In this powerful episode, Coach Los breaks down one of the most overlooked relationship killers there is: Disrespect. Not just cheating.Not just walking away.But the subtle emotional damage that slowly destroys safety, trust, and connection over time. Because many people lose the person who loved them most without even realizing it’s happening… until that person emotionally checks out for good. Inside this episode, Coach Los unpacks: Why emotional safety matters more than most couples realizeThe warning signs your partner is already detaching emotionallyHow repeated disrespect slowly destroys trust and intimacyThe difference between “venting” and emotionally damaging your relationshipWhy shutting down, interrupting, yelling, dismissing feelings, or walking away during conflict creates emotional wallsHow resentment quietly grows inside relationships over timeWhy many breakups emotionally happen long before someone physically leavesThe connection between disrespect, emotional withdrawal, cheating, silent exits, and disconnectionWhy love without respect will never sustain a healthy relationshipCoach Los also explains: Why people often mistake distance and coldness for “just a rough patch”How unresolved wounds shape the way people communicate in relationshipsWhy emotionally unsafe relationships turn partners into opponents instead of teammatesThe importance of protecting the way you speak to your partner and about your partnerThis episode is for anyone who: Feels their relationship slowly drifting apartNotices their partner becoming emotionally distantWants to improve communication before it’s too lateHas struggled with anger, defensiveness, or disrespect during conflictWants to rebuild emotional safety and connection in loveBecause real love is not just about staying together… It’s about creating an environment where both people feel emotionally safe enough to stay connected.

    13 min
  3. HACE 4 DÍAS

    Why Your Partner DOESN'T Hear You (And What Actually Fixes It)

    One of the biggest reasons couples keep having the same arguments over and over again isn’t because they don’t love each other… It’s because both people are fighting to be understood, while neither person truly feels understood first. In this episode, Coach Los breaks down the real reason communication keeps failing in relationships, and why simply “talking more” isn’t the solution. You’ll learn: Why most couples aren’t actually communicating, they’re competing for validationThe hidden difference between wanting to be heard vs. wanting to feel understoodWhy people become defensive, shut down, or stop listening during conflictHow emotional safety changes the entire tone of communicationThe importance of learning your partner’s communication style instead of forcing your ownWhy understanding your partner deeply makes them more open to hearing you in returnThe role masculine and feminine energy can play in relationship communication and leadershipHow to approach difficult conversations without turning them into emotional warfareCoach Los also explains why great communication is not about winning arguments, proving points, or being the loudest person in the room… It’s about creating an environment where both people feel seen, safe, respected, and emotionally understood. This episode is especially important for couples who: Feel like they keep having the same fight repeatedlyStruggle with feeling unheard or emotionally disconnectedConstantly feel misunderstood by their partnerWant healthier communication without all the emotional exhaustion and conflictIf you’ve been trying harder to “get your point across” but still feel disconnected, this conversation will help you understand the shift that actually changes relationships. Because real connection starts when people stop fighting to be heard… and start learning how to truly hear each other.

    15 min
  4. 16 MAY

    You DON'T Actually Have Commitment Issues—You Have Trust Issues and Here's Why

    A lot of people say they’re “afraid of commitment.” But what if commitment isn’t actually the problem? What if the real fear is opening your heart again… trusting someone again… and risking the pain of being betrayed, abandoned, disappointed, or blindsided all over again? In this episode, Coach Los breaks down the difference between true commitment issues and unresolved trust wounds that quietly sabotage healthy relationships before they even begin. Inside this conversation, you’ll learn: Why past heartbreak rewires the way you approach love and vulnerabilityHow betrayal trauma creates fear around emotional investmentThe real reason people ghost, self-sabotage, or pull away when things start getting seriousWhy emotionally unavailable partners can feel “safer” than healthy connectionThe difference between being cautious vs. emotionally guardedHow your nervous system tries to protect you from repeating painful relationship patternsWhy healing isn’t about blindly trusting everyone, but learning to trust yourself againThis episode is a wake-up call for anyone who keeps saying: “I’m just not ready for a relationship”“I lose feelings when things get serious”“I don’t know why I keep pushing good people away”Because deep down, it may not be love you fear… It may be history repeating itself. Coach Los also explains how to slowly rebuild healthy trust without abandoning yourself, why self-awareness matters more than perfection, and how real emotional safety is built through consistency, honesty, and earned trust over time. If you’ve been struggling to open up, let people in, or fully trust love again after heartbreak, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface, and how to finally start healing it.

    13 min
  5. 14 MAY

    You Wouldn't NEED Closure If You Were Honest About This..

    Most people say they want closure… But what they’re really hoping for is a different ending.A different answer.A different version of the person who hurt them. In this episode, Coach Los breaks down the deeper truth behind why so many people struggle to move on after heartbreak, and why closure is usually less about confusion… and more about avoiding what you already know deep down. Inside this conversation, you’ll learn: Why your intuition usually knew the truth long before the relationship endedHow ignoring red flags creates emotional attachment to “getting closure” laterThe painful reality of grieving the version of yourself that tolerated unhealthy loveWhy closure does NOT come from their explanation, apology, or validationHow to stop replaying the relationship in your mind looking for answersThe difference between learning from the past vs. staying emotionally trapped in itThis episode is about reclaiming your power. Because real healing starts when you stop waiting for someone else to give you permission to move on. The truth is:Their inconsistency was already your answer.Their distance was already your clarity.And the peace you’re searching for begins the moment you finally trust yourself enough to accept what the relationship already showed you. If you’ve been stuck replaying the past, hoping for closure, this episode will help you stop chasing answers and start rebuilding yourself instead.

    10 min
  6. 12 MAY

    Why you keep letting people mistreat you (Even when you swear you have standards)

    You say you know your worth.You say you have standards.So why do you keep accepting relationships that leave you emotionally drained, unheard, disrespected, and stuck in the same painful cycles? In this episode, Coach Los breaks down the uncomfortable truth most people avoid: Your standards are only as strong as the identity you’ve built around them. Because standards are not just words.They’re behavior.They’re what you consistently allow, tolerate, and emotionally identify with. Inside this episode, you’ll learn: Why people continue accepting treatment they consciously know they don’t deserveHow subconscious identity shapes relationship choices more than logic doesThe difference between standards you say you have vs. standards you actually embodyWhy old emotional wounds keep you attached to unhealthy love dynamicsHow scarcity mindset traps people in toxic relationshipsThe real work required to rebuild self-worth from the inside outThis episode goes deep into emotional conditioning, subconscious beliefs, self-identity, and the hidden reasons people struggle to walk away, even when they know better. If you’ve ever felt frustrated with yourself for settling, overexplaining red flags, or abandoning your own standards just to keep someone around, this conversation will challenge you in the best way possible. Because healthy love doesn’t start with demanding more from other people.It starts with becoming someone who no longer feels safe betraying themselves. This one is your wake-up call.

    16 min

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Welcome to the show with Coach Los, a certified life and relationship coach. This podcast is for anyone tired of dating games or struggling with relationship challenges. Each episode offers actionable advice, real-life insights, and coaching strategies to help you communicate better, rebuild trust, or decide if it’s time to move on. Tune in for empowering messages, practical tips, and expert strategies to help you create the healthy, loving relationship you deserve. It’s time to stop overthinking and start living with clarity.