Maître d’ Diaries

Erica Cantley

Maître d’ Diaries is a front of the house industry podcast hosted by two OG New York maître d’s, Dante Camara and Erica Cantley. We take you behind the podium, between the tables, and inside the minds of the people who welcome and serve you in your favorite restaurants. You’ll meet industry pros, hear stories of dining room nightmares, service successes, and luxury excesses, get tips on how to be a good guest, find out how the people who take care of you take care of themselves, and learn what restaurant behavior we think needs to be 86ed.

  1. 23/04/2025

    S3 - Episode 13 - Melba Wilson

    We are so happy to welcome New York Restaurant World Legend, Melba Wilson, to Maître d’ Diaries. Restaurants are all about creating community. The community that is fostered in dining rooms, across tables, in bars and lounges, AND the community we build INSIDE the restaurants where we work.  One of the best things about the hospitality business is how it gives us the chance to work with and get to know people of diverse ages and backgrounds we might not meet otherwise. And when f&b folk are lucky enough to be out and about sometimes we get to meet friends of friends, or people we’ve admired from afar, and as a result our personal restaurant community continues to expand. This is what happened when Erica had the pleasure of meeting Melba Wilson at an event last year.  Melba is the founder of the beloved Melba’s in Harlem, and she just recently opened the 4th Melba’s in Grand Central Terminal Dining Concourse. She is also a fixture on the New York food scene, a food insecurity activist, and a vibrant beacon of glamour and kindness. Being “born, bred and buttered in Harlem”, Melba knew she wanted to stay close to home so she could nurture and provide an exquisite yet comfortable dining experience to the community that raised her. Listen in to our chat to hear about:  ~ How Melba learned all aspects of the restaurant business from her aunt Sylvia Woods of the iconic American Classic Sylvia’s Restaurant in Harlem ~ The impact of growing up with grandparents who were gardeners ~ What Josefina Howard said to Melba when she said she wanted to open her own restaurant, and how that changed everything ~ How Melba took Windows on the World’s slow Sunday Brunches and turned them into the wildly successful Gospel Sunday Brunch that ran until Sunday, September 9th, 2001.  ~ The inspiration she’s taken from 114th Street, Harlem’s historic Minton’s Playhouse, and gazing at the monuments of Frederick Douglass and Harriet Tubman

    57 min
  2. 06/04/2025

    S3 - Episode 11 - Roger Raines

    Ever wonder what it was like booking out a restaurant ON PAPER, before the dawn of online reservation platforms?  At Maître d’ Diaries one of our raisons d’être is building a bridge between restaurant industry old guard and the vibrant, essential Next Generation populating the new post-pandemic workforce. One way we do this is by gathering and sharing stories from the trenches (or the floor, if you will). This episode’s guest, Roger Raines, has a LOT of stories. Roger started his illustrious hospitality career with one of the most respected restaurant groups in the country—Union Square Hospitality—back when tables were reserved over the phone by humans using a pencil and sheets of paper. And like many of the very best maîtres d’hotel, Roger is also a renaissance person with multiple cultural pursuits and passions that make him culturally aware and good to chat with at the front door of whatever restaurant he’s running. Roger’s first restaurant job was reservationist at Gramercy Tavern. He worked his way up through Eleven Madison Park, Tabla, Maialino, and the opened new location of Union Square Cafe.  Listen in to hear about: ~ How much fun it used to be to run a wait list by phone and on paper ~ What he hates about cell phones in restaurants  ~ The difference of how people treat men and women at the door  ~ What it was like to be James Brown’s road manager ~ The upstate B&B run by USHG alum that we should all visit  ~ What Tabla was like ~ How awesome the Criterion Collection is

    48 min

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Maître d’ Diaries is a front of the house industry podcast hosted by two OG New York maître d’s, Dante Camara and Erica Cantley. We take you behind the podium, between the tables, and inside the minds of the people who welcome and serve you in your favorite restaurants. You’ll meet industry pros, hear stories of dining room nightmares, service successes, and luxury excesses, get tips on how to be a good guest, find out how the people who take care of you take care of themselves, and learn what restaurant behavior we think needs to be 86ed.