His Loss Hotline

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His Loss Hotline is the podcast for anyone who’s been ghosted, gaslit, blindsided, or just finally stopped shrinking to stay in something small. Whether you left a marriage, an almost-marriage, or a situationship that had no business lasting that long, this is where the real talk lives.Come for the unhinged voicemails, stay for the stories, the advice, the “wtf” moments, and the group chat-level honesty about what it really means to walk away and start over.Call in. Sound off. Hang up. It's his loss.

Episodes

  1. 04/11/2025

    Why Single Is No Longer a Dirty Word

    It started as a headline, but it hit like a mirror: “Is having a boyfriend embarrassing now?” When British Vogue writer Chanté Joseph asked that question, it sounded like a joke until it didn’t. Because maybe it’s not love that’s embarrassing. Maybe it’s the way we were taught to treat being loved like proof of worth.  This episode looks past the memes and soft-launch jokes to the quiet revolution underneath. The one where women stop performing “chosen” and start living free.  The old script said partnership was the prize. I believed it once too. I built a marriage that looked perfect online but felt like constant performance offline. And when it fell apart, I thought I had failed. Turns out, it was a promotion into peace, clarity, and finally hearing my own voice again.  We talk about what Vogue captured so sharply: how women are reclaiming privacy, rejecting performative couple culture, and realizing that single is not a dirty word. It is a declaration. Because the goal is no longer to be chosen. It is to be aligned. It is to be at peace.  The most radical thing you can do in a world that profits off your insecurity is to be okay on your own.  Being single is not a pause. It is the plot.  And peace is the new flex.  If this one hits home, share it with the friend who is tired of explaining why she is single.  She does not owe the world a reason. She just owes herself peace. Send us a text

    17 min

  2. 14/10/2025

    Closure Is A Scam

    Every heartbreak has two endings. The one where he finally explains, apologizes, or says the thing you’ve been waiting to hear. And the one that actually frees you, the one where you realize you don’t need any of that to move on. This episode is about that second ending, the one you write yourself. There were the long-text apologies that felt like relief for a minute, the “I’ve changed” reruns that rebooted my hope, the fake accountability that sounded deep but led nowhere. I chased closure like it was proof I mattered, waiting for a version of the story that would make it all make sense. But closure doesn’t live in his explanations. It lives in your decision to stop reading between the lines of messages that already told you enough. What ties these stories together isn’t resentment, it’s release. Real closure isn’t cinematic. It’s quiet. It’s deleting the thread, blocking the number, and telling your friends the new standard. It’s choosing peace over clarity and letting boredom, not drama, be the bridge to detachment. Letting go doesn’t mean you stopped caring. It means you finally stopped negotiating your own peace. And that’s not petty. That’s power. Send us a text

    16 min

  3. 30/09/2025

    This Week in Ex Behavior

    Every breakup leaves a trail. For some, it is playlists that read like open letters. For others, it is sudden Instagram rebirths, cryptic Venmo notes, or “coincidental” appearances wherever you tag a location. The submissions in this episode are sharp, funny, and sometimes unsettling: the “She’ll Regret It” soundtrack, the Reddit thread where strangers cast votes on a relationship, the glow-up arc that was really just a costume, the dollar payments labeled as closure, and the man who treated a coffee shop check-in like an invitation. What ties these stories together is not only the clownery but the pattern. Breakup behavior is performance. Curated visibility becomes a quick ego fix, playlists turn into bait, and anonymous forums provide an escape from direct conversation. It is the illusion of moving on without the reality of growth. The truth underneath is quieter. Healing does not live in captions or playlists. It is in the therapy that sticks, the apologies without angles, and the routines that remain even when nobody is watching. And when safety blurs with surveillance, boundaries matter more than explanations. Privacy settings tighten. Intuition becomes proof. Lurking gets named for what it is. This episode is proof that you are not alone in witnessing the absurd, the petty, or the disorienting parts of what comes after. The real flex is not matching their performance. It is choosing peace, laughing with your friends, and telling the story on your terms. Send us a text

    15 min

  4. 23/09/2025

    Red Flags or Just 25?

    Every relationship has two versions. The one you tell later, polished into a story about “red flags I should have seen.” And the one you actually lived, where the lines between immaturity, bad timing, and real warning signs blur together. This episode is about that second version. The one that makes you wonder if it was him, or if it was just that you were twenty-five. There were the “entrepreneurs” who treated their Notes app like an office. The guitar guys who never made it past Wonderwall. The decent ones too, the men who were kind but never quite right. And then there was the marriage, where problems piled up and I called them quirks, because at twenty-three I thought that was what commitment looked like. Febreze as cleaning, silence as punishment, gaslighting as love. What ties these stories together is not regret but recognition. Growing older doesn’t rewrite what happened. It sharpens it. Divorce became the education I didn’t know I needed, a crash course in what I will never excuse again. Looking back is not about deciding if it was all red flags or if I was just too young to see clearly. It is admitting that both can be true. That youth let me excuse things I should have named, and that love can still fail even when you try your hardest. It is not failure to learn too late. It is only proof that now, I see. Send us a text

    20 min

  5. 16/09/2025

    After “I Do”: Divorce Confessions

    Every divorce has two versions. The one you tell people at dinner parties, cut short to a sentence or two. And the one you live through alone, where the details are too messy, too humiliating, or too strange to say out loud. This episode is about the second version. The one that lingers in the corners of your mind long after the papers are signed. There is the woman who posted couple photos for months after her marriage had already ended, still holding on to the illusion of stability. The man who crafted fake therapy confirmation emails while secretly vacationing in Cabo with his gym fling, caught by nothing more than a patterned hotel towel on Instagram. The couple who sat across from each other at Thanksgiving dinner, separated but smiling, serving mashed potatoes like strangers in their own home. And the quietest confession of all, slipping on a wedding ring before running errands, not out of love but as a shield against questions and pitying looks. What ties these stories together is not scandal but survival. Divorce strips away the performance and leaves you face to face with what is unbearable and what is still possible. Shame fades into grief. Grief shifts into something lighter, even funny in the right light. And then slowly, almost invisibly, freedom begins to take up more space. Confessions like these are not proof of failure. They are proof of humanity. They remind us that choosing to leave does not mean you gave up too easily. It means you refused to disappear inside someone else’s version of love. Divorce is not a scandal. It is simply another way life demands that you become more of yourself. Send us a text

    19 min

  6. 09/09/2025

    Your Soft Launch Era Starts Here

    The soft launch is not a glow up. It is not a grand reveal or a curated comeback. It is the quiet, barely noticeable shift when you start existing again after heartbreak. Not healed. Not thriving. Just visible enough to remind yourself you are still here. It looks like archiving the wedding photos. Changing your phone background to something that does not make you cry. Posting a meme that reads like a subtweet only you understand. It is wearing the jacket he hated. It is ordering coffee without sunglasses on. Proof of life in small, almost imperceptible doses. The soft launch is not about convincing the world you are fine. It is not about performing strength or selling resilience as an aesthetic. It is about slipping back into yourself piece by piece, even when you still feel like a ghost. Sometimes it is messy, sometimes it is petty, sometimes it is completely unplanned. But each time you let yourself be seen, by friends, by strangers, by yourself, you loosen his grip on your story. Healing remains uneven and unglamorous, but the soft launch whispers the truth: you are still here, and that is enough. Send us a text

    24 min

  7. 02/09/2025

    The Hard Truth: If He Wanted To, He Would

    “If he wanted to, he would.” It sounds simple, but it is the kind of truth that can knock the air out of you. Because most of us have spent nights convincing ourselves otherwise. Rereading texts like they are love letters, clinging to a half-hearted “good morning,” celebrating the bare minimum as if it were proof of effort. The reality is not hidden between the lines. If you have to decode his actions, you already know. When someone truly wants you in their life, you do not have to wonder. You do not have to explain away the inconsistency or excuse the silence. Effort does not need translation. We chase crumbs not because we are foolish, but because we were taught to fall for potential. The version of him who might show up one day. The fantasy of the relationship you could have if he just tried harder. Potential keeps us hooked, but it is a mirage. You cannot build a future on “maybe someday.” The hardest part is separating his inability to love you from your own worth. His limitations are not your reflection. Protecting your peace is not cold. Wanting more is not dramatic. Refusing to shrink is not selfish. It is choosing to stay whole in a world that tells you to settle. The bare minimum is not love. It is a distraction from the fact that you already have your answer. Send us a text

    19 min

  8. 26/08/2025

    Breakup Court: The People vs. Your Exes

    Court is in session, babes. This week’s Breakup Court docket might be the wildest yet. We’ve got stolen cats held hostage for months.  Situationship landlords who ghost when you won’t co-sign their lease.  Exes mailing invoices for “dating expenses.”  Wedding invites sent to the very person they dumped over text.  And even utility bills you didn’t know you were still paying. The iced coffee is strong.  The gavel is louder.  And the audacity is truly Olympic-level. Buckle up for an episode that will make you laugh, rage, and maybe send a strongly worded text you’ll definitely regret as we hand down emotional justice, one outrageous case at a time. Send us a text

    23 min

  9. 19/08/2025

    You Don't Need Bangs to Prove You're Healing

    What happens after you hang up on a relationship? Not the curated, Pinterest-board version. The real, messy aftermath. The crying in your car, forgetting to eat, avoiding his side of town kind of aftermath. Breakups, especially divorces, can turn you into an accidental public figure overnight. People start refreshing your Instagram like it’s breaking news: photos gone, thirst traps up, maybe even bangs. There is pressure to make your healing look good, to perform it like you have it all figured out when inside you are just trying to survive the day. The truth is the quiet, unglamorous days are where it actually happens. The ones that feel like nothing is changing. Where you are not crying, not thriving, not having some big epiphany. You are just existing. That is where you start to unlearn the lies. That missing them means you made the wrong choice. That strong people do not fall apart. That you are “behind” if you are not already thriving. This episode is your permission to let it be ugly, uneven, and yours. Because the middle, the messy unposted part, is where the real healing lives. Send us a text

    19 min

  10. 12/08/2025

    The Hang Up That Changed Everything

    Before the podcast. Before the brand. Before the healing ever started. I was just a 27-year-old trying to make it through the day. In this first episode of His Loss Hotline, I’m sharing what really happened. How the marriage ended. What it felt like to leave someone who kept breaking me. And how Girl, Hang Up became the thing I built when I had nothing else. This didn’t come from clarity. It came from chaos.  And this podcast is for anyone who’s still in the middle of it. If you’ve ever begged for bare minimum, second-guessed your sanity, or lost yourself just trying to keep someone else happy, you’re not alone. I am just being real and I’m talking about it. Send us a text

    32 min
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His Loss Hotline is the podcast for anyone who’s been ghosted, gaslit, blindsided, or just finally stopped shrinking to stay in something small. Whether you left a marriage, an almost-marriage, or a situationship that had no business lasting that long, this is where the real talk lives.Come for the unhinged voicemails, stay for the stories, the advice, the “wtf” moments, and the group chat-level honesty about what it really means to walk away and start over.Call in. Sound off. Hang up. It's his loss.

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    Kelly
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  • Episodes
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