The Manager's Mind

catherine insler
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The Manager’s Mind is a 10-minute reset for leading with clarity and confidence. Built for new managers and rising leaders, each episode explores feedback, decision-making, and leadership identity. These are grounded reflections for navigating real challenges and leading with purpose (not perfection). 🎧 Want new episodes sent to you? Get notified when new episodes drop → https://www.yourleadershipmap.com/managers-mind 🧭 Curious about your leadership style? Take the Leadership Style Quiz™ → https://www.yourleadershipmap.com/explorer

  1. 3 DAYS AGO

    Manager Hours vs. Maker Hours: Why You Can’t Think Clearly Anymore

    When your calendar is full but your thinking never gets traction, the problem is usually not focus or discipline. It is the rhythm the system is built on. What happens when work that requires deep continuity is forced into a schedule designed only for coordination? What We Explore: 🎙️Why modern work rhythms still reflect factory coordination rather than knowledge creation🎙️How strategic and systems-building work becomes provisional and interruptible🎙️What it signals when you spend more time re-explaining work than advancing it One Insight · One Tool · One Shift 1️⃣: Managers often misread scattered thinking as a personal productivity failure, when it is actually a signal that strategic work is being asked to survive inside coordination time. 2️⃣: The distinction between manager hours and maker hours, used as a diagnostic lens rather than a time-blocking tactic. 3️⃣: Instead of questioning your capability, you begin noticing whether the system protects continuity long enough for real thinking to occur. 📖 Read and listen to this episode, and sign up to receive notifications when new episodes drop, all in one place:https://www.yourleadershipmap.com/managers-mind/manager-hours-vs-maker-hours 🎶 Credits: Host: Catherine InslerMusic: “Background Inspiring” by Dmytro Kuvalin via Pixabay (Main intro and outro music)

    10 min

  2. 2 FEB

    When the Peer Transition Still Isn’t Working (90-Day Checkpoint)

    Ninety days into a role change, you have done the right things, but your former peers are still treating you like one of them.What do you do when authority does not settle after the first ninety days and trying harder only makes things worse? What We Explore →Why peer-to-manager transitions fail at the system level, not the personality level →The hidden reinforcements that keep old dynamics alive →How to recalibrate authority without over-correcting or apologizing One Insight · One Tool · One Shift: When the peer dynamic persists, it is usually because the system is still rewarding the old contract, even if unintentionally. Tool: Peer-to-Leader Transition Plan (a structured reset for boundaries, expectations, and authority signals after the first 90 days): https://www.yourleadershipmap.com/store/p/peer-to-leader-transition-plan Shift: Stop resetting yourself and start removing the payoff that keeps the old dynamic in place. Listen / Episode PageRead, listen, and explore this episode in one place: https://www.yourleadershipmap.com/managers-mind CreditsHost: Catherine InslerMusic: “Background Inspiring” by Dmytro Kuvalin via Pixabay

    11 min

  3. 26 JAN

    Assert Leadership Without Losing Your Team's Trust

    You were promoted from within, and now the same relationships that helped you succeed are quietly undermining your authority. How do you assert leadership when your team still sees you as “one of us” without damaging trust or overcorrecting? What We Explore Why managing former peers activates tension that feels personal but is structural How over-explaining decisions weakens authority instead of preserving trust What actually helps teams adjust to a new leadership role SubscribeSign up for The Manager's Mind to receive word when new episodes drop. One Insight · One Tool · One ShiftInsight: Teams aren’t resisting you. They are recalibrating the relationship after a role change the system never taught them how to process.Tool: A peer-to-leader transition framework built around standards, decision closure, and boundaries.Shift: Stop apologizing for authority and start leading from the role you actually hold. ListenRead further, Listen and get the Tool mentioned in this episode at:https://www.yourleadershipmap.com/managers-mind/assert-leadership-former-peers CreditsHost: Catherine InslerMusic: “Background Inspiring” by Dmytro Kuvalin via Pixabay

    11 min

  4. 19 JAN

    Managing Former Friends: Navigating the Authority Paradox

    The history of work moment: The word "secretary" comes from the Latin secretarius, or "keeper of secrets". Originally, these were high-status men who held the confidence of kings. As work industrialized, the role was stripped of its status and became clerical. This mirrors the internal promotion experience: the title changes, but the old social contract is still running in the background, creating a "Transition Gap". The friction you feel: When you move from peer to manager, it can feel like being a fish out of water. You didn’t lose authority; the shift just never landed. This episode is for the manager facing: - Decisions treated like suggestions - The "just this once" exception requests from friends - Side-channel venting or undermining jokes - The heavy "you’ve changed" test from former teammates The shift-landing framework: Relief comes from three visible moves: 1. CONCRETE STANDARDS: Making the bar for "good enough" visible so people stop guessing. 2. CLEAN DECISIONS: Closing the loop with an input window, a decision, and a next step. 3. STEADY BOUNDARIES: Reinforcing small edges early so the team can finally relax. Resources and Navigation - Find your Style: Take the Leadership Style Quiz at YourLeadershipMap.com - Get the tool: Grab the "Difficult Conversations Guide for Managers" at the link below. -The full map: Read the deep dive and get the tactical framework at: https://themanagersmind.com MUSIC CREDIT: Background Inspiring by Dmytro Kuvalin via Pixabay. Find your steady next move at YourLeadershipMap.com.

    12 min

  5. 12 JAN

    When High Standards Start Holding You Back

    There is a moment many managers recognize. You finish the briefing, ask for questions, and the room goes quiet. No one moves. If your standards are high, that silence can feel like resistance. In reality, it is often uncertainty. In this episode, we unpack what happens when your quality standard lives only in your head. Your team cannot “hit the bar” if they cannot see it. What we cover: • The Invisible Map problem, and why “just make it better” stops momentum • The cost of control: your team waits, workarounds grow, and you become the bottleneck • A simple way to keep excellence high while making execution easier Try this (a 3-step reset): 1) Define the landmarks. Name the specific elements that make work ready to move. 2) Name the coordinates. Write down what “done” means in clear, checkable terms. 3) Own the terrain. Stop softening the standard. Make it visible and usable. Read, Listen and get the Resources here: https://www.yourleadershipmap.com/managers-mind//high-standards-become-the-hurdle Subscribe / Follow so you do not miss Monday drops: https://www.yourleadershipmap.com/managers-mind Credits: Host: Catherine Insler Music: “Background Inspiring” by Dmytro Kuvalin via Pixabay (Weekly intro and outro)

    11 min

  6. 5 JAN

    When Feedback Misfires: Your Recovery Framework

    Why does feedback so often leave capable managers confused, destabilized, or second-guessing themselves? Most feedback doesn't fail because managers can't handle it; it fails because it's misfiring inside a multitude of unstable systems. In this episode, we stop analyzing the problem and talk about what comes after you can no longer unsee it. WHAT WE COVER: THE CULTURAL IMMUNE SYSTEM: Understanding how an organization's "immune system" is designed to maintain sameness and may see leadership differences as a threat.CONTAINMENT VS. LEADERSHIP: Recognizing the cost of "containing"—absorbing instability so the system doesn't have to face its own fear.METABOLIZING VS. ABSORBING: Moving from absorbing (taking everything personally) to metabolizing (extracting what is useful and releasing what isn't yours).THE RECOVERY MOVE: A practice to regain your center by asking three essential questions before integrating feedback: Does this clarify behavior or raise urgency? Is this asking for change or containment? What part belongs to me?. RESOURCES: THE FEEDBACK MISFIRE DECISION TREE: A four-step recovery framework designed to help you decide what to act on, what to show in context, and what to release structurally.YOUR LEADERSHIP MAP: Head over to the blog at YourLeadershipMap.com to get the full backstory and systems-thinking behind these episodes. CREDITS: Intro/Outro Music: "Background Inspiring" by Dmytro Kuvalin.Featured Music: TASFIQ UR RAHMAN NABIL (378934) and Mykola Sosin (357760).Music sourced via Pixabay.

    13 min

  7. 29/12/2025

    The Feedback Collaborative Leaders Hear Most — and Why It’s Wrong

    This episode closes the When Feedback Gets You Wrong series with the line collaborative leaders hear more than any other: “You can’t make everyone happy.” You’ll learn why this feedback misreads your actual leadership pattern, what’s happening under the surface when your style gets labeled as slow or hesitant, and how to stay grounded. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN• The real translation behind “You can’t make everyone happy.”• Why collaborative leaders get mistaken for indecisive leaders.• How speed becomes the wrong metric for your leadership style.• The hidden cost of skipping buy-in to “move faster.”• One question that helps you choose pace without abandoning your map. RESOURCES• Read the full story on the Manager’s Compass:https://www.yourleadershipmap.com/managers-compass/you-cant-make-everyone-happy• Get the Trail Map for this episode:https://subscribepage.io/trailmaps New for the 2026 season: The Manager’s Mind is now accepting submissions for on-air Leadership Map readings. Email hello@yourleadershipmap.com Include the following: when you took the quiz,the email you usedyour biggest leadership challengeyour industryhow long you’ve been in your roleOnly first names are used to keep identifiers confidential. CREDITS“Background Inspiring” by Dmytro Kuvalin via Pixabay (Main intro and outro music) Additional Music Moonstone · Music by Dzianis Honcharou from Pixabay

    9 min

  8. 22/12/2025

    The Real Reason They Call You “Too Sensitive”

    Being labeled “too sensitive” is one of the fastest ways a manager’s intelligence gets dismissed. In this episode, we break down the real translation error behind that feedback, why your attunement is actually strategic data, and how to respond when your leadership instincts are misread. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN• Why “too sensitive” is almost never about you• The hidden data you’re tracking that others don’t see• How culture shapes misinterpretation and dismissal• The cost of silencing what you notice• Three grounded ways to navigate being misread RESOURCES• Read the Full Story Here:https://www.yourleadershipmap.com/managers-compass/youre-to-sensitive • Grab the Trail Map for This Episode:https://subscribepage.io/trailmaps Share this episode with a manager who’s been told they “care too much.” NEW FOR 2026 SEASONThe Manager’s Mind is now accepting submissions for on-air leadership map readings. If you’d like me to read your exact, detailed leadership style on the show—and help you navigate your specific terrain—email me at hello@yourleadershipmap.com. Please include:• When you took the Leadership Pathway Quiz• The email address you used• Your biggest leadership challenge• The industry you work in• How long you’ve been in your role We only use your first name on air to keep identifiers confidential. CREDITS Host: Catherine Music: “Background Inspiring” by Dmytro Kuvalin via Pixabay. Additional Music: Moonstone, Music by 𝐃𝐳𝐢𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐬 𝐇𝐨𝐧𝐜𝐳𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐰 from Pixabay

    10 min
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The Manager’s Mind is a 10-minute reset for leading with clarity and confidence. Built for new managers and rising leaders, each episode explores feedback, decision-making, and leadership identity. These are grounded reflections for navigating real challenges and leading with purpose (not perfection). 🎧 Want new episodes sent to you? Get notified when new episodes drop → https://www.yourleadershipmap.com/managers-mind 🧭 Curious about your leadership style? Take the Leadership Style Quiz™ → https://www.yourleadershipmap.com/explorer

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  • Creator
    catherine insler
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    34
  • Rating
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    © catherine insler
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    The Manager's Mind