SOLVED with Mark Manson

Mark Manson
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Mark Manson is a three-time #1 New York Times bestselling author and 20-year personal development industry veteran. Solved is the most comprehensive, evidence-based, overly-researched podcast on the planet to help you get an issue in your life, err... solved.

  1. Dating, Solved: Why Finding the “Right Person” Feels So Hard Now

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    Dating, Solved: Why Finding the “Right Person” Feels So Hard Now

    Most people aren’t bad at dating, they’re just trying to solve the wrong problem. We treat dating like a personality test (“Am I attractive enough? Confident enough?”) when it’s actually a multi-stage process, and each stage punishes completely different mistakes. That one misunderstanding explains why dating feels so confusing, why men and women keep blaming each other, why dating apps feel brutal, and why so much dating advice makes things worse instead of better. In this episode of Solved, Drew and I break down why modern dating feels so broken, and why it actually isn’t. We dig into the evolutionary psychology behind attraction, why men and women are optimizing for different things, how modern culture and dating apps amplify the worst parts of the system, and the three stages of dating that almost nobody understands. We also talk about confidence, rejection, status, attraction, and why avoiding rejection is often the very thing sabotaging your dating life. If you’ve felt stuck, burned out, or quietly wondering “what the hell is wrong with dating?” — this episode is for you. Get your first month of Shopify for only $1 at https://shopify.com/solved Let Rocket Money help you reach your financial goals faster. Sign up for free: ⁠https://www.rocketmoney.com/solved Ready to stop listening to podcasts and actually start taking action? Join the Solved Community, a group of like-minded people who are taking small steps every day to make big changes in their lives: We also put together a free companion guide for this episode with all the takeaways, references, and tools to help you get your sh*t together once and for all. Download it here: https://solvedpodcast.com/dating Sign up for my newsletter, Your Next Breakthrough. It will help make you a less awful person: https://markmanson.net/breakthrough Chapters: 0:00 Introduction 5:12 Chapter 1: Why Is Dating So Complicated? 11:03 The different challenges men and women face 17:18 Facts 29:51 What Women Find Attractive 38:16 What Men Find Attractive 51:27 Chapter 2: A Brief History of Courtship & Dating 1:06:10 Modern Dating 1:11:41 A Glimmer of Hope: The emerging offline renaissance 1:21:37 Chapter 3: Men's and Women's Dating Advice Ecosystems 1:31:13 Inside the Male Advice Ecosystem 1:44:52 Inside the Female Advice Ecosystem 2:02:07 The Collision: Feedback Loops That Break the Market 2:21:27 Chapter 4: The Pre-Dating Phase 2:36:22 Building Confidence 2:37:59 Halo Effect 2:53:20 Conclusion Pre Dating 2:57:48 Chapter 5: Meeting People and Getting Dates 3:11:17 Flirting 3:23:15 Reading People 3:29:51 Chapter 6: Going on Dates 3:38:39 Trustworthiness 3:47:09 Conversational Skills 3:56:12 Emotional Regulation 4:03:03 Boundaries 4:09:07 F**k yes or no 4:14:44 The 80/20 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    4 h 38 min
  2. How to Quiet Your Ego (Without Losing Yourself)

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    How to Quiet Your Ego (Without Losing Yourself)

    Most people think ego is either something you need to kill off entirely or inflate to take over the world. Both are wrong. In this episode, we dig deep into what ego actually is—how it evolved, why it matters, and how it secretly runs your life without you realizing it. We hit Freud, Buddhism, David Hume, Jung’s shadow self, and even the Navy SEALs to unpack why your ego isn’t always the enemy—it’s mostly just misunderstood. Then we get into how to quiet your ego without losing your identity, and yes, we talk psychedelics, too. This is everything you were never taught about ego—but should’ve been. Head to https://www.80000hours.org/solved to start planning a career that is meaningful, fulfilling, and helps solve one of the world’s most pressing problems. We also put together a free companion guide for this episode with all the takeaways, references, and tools to help you get your sh*t together once and for all. Download it here: https://solvedpodcast.com/ego Ready to stop listening to podcasts and actually start taking action? Join the Solved Community, a group of like-minded people who are taking small steps every day to make big changes in their lives: https://membership.solvedpodcast.com Chapters: 0:00 Introduction 3:31 Chapter 1: Defining the Indefinable — What Is the Ego? 3:33 Napoleon + Gary Snyder 10:15 The Architecture and Function of the Ego 27:15 What is a Healthy Ego? 36:14 The Philosophical Divide: Two Cultures, Two Selves 49:29 Chapter 2: The Ego’s Evolutionary Architecture — How Evolution Built the Self 49:33 Why Evolution Invented “I” 51:46 The Architecture of the Ego: From Refl ex to Reflection 1:00:33 The First Fall: When Knowing Became Our Burden 1:09:07 Why Evolution Built the Ego 1:13:08 Chapter 3: When the Ego Becomes a Tyrant 1:13:20 The Anatomy of Ego Tyranny 1:19:05 Recognizing and Disarming the Inner Dictator 1:47:29 Chapter 4: The Quiet Ego — Beyond a Strong Ego 1:47:34 When Quieter Means Stronger 1:50:58 The Science and Structure of the Quiet Ego 1:57:16 Cultivating a Quiet Ego 2:01:08 Benefits of a Quiet Ego 2:04:27 Chapter 5: The Chemical Dissolution: Ego Death and Psychedelics 2:23:16 Chapter 6: 80/20 shkECPrjbjEMTBrJsUFw Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    2 h 39 min
  3. Boundaries, Solved: How to Set (And Keep) Your Boundaries This Year

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    Boundaries, Solved: How to Set (And Keep) Your Boundaries This Year

    This is probably the most comprehensive, no-BS breakdown of boundaries you're going to find anywhere. We cover what boundaries actually are (spoiler: it’s not just telling people to f*ck off), why they matter more than you think, and how your entire life—your relationships, mental health, identity, even career—is quietly shaped by whether or not you have them. By the end of this, you’ll know exactly how to set boundaries, how to enforce them without being a jerk, and how to stop confusing your preferences, rules, and passive-aggressive texts for actual emotional maturity. Plus, we talk about how the internet has totally mangled this concept and what to do instead. If you’ve ever felt burned out, resentful, overwhelmed, or just vaguely annoyed by everyone around you, this is for you. We also put together a free companion guide for this episode with all the takeaways, references, and tools to help you get your sh*t together once and for all. Download it here: https://solvedpodcast.com/boundaries Ready to stop listening to podcasts and actually start taking action? Join the Solved Community, a group of like-minded people who are taking small steps every day to make big changes in their lives: https://findmomentum.com/boundaries Sign up for my newsletter, Your Next Breakthrough. It will help make you a less awful person: https://markmanson.net/breakthrough Chapters: (0:00) Introduction (1:29) CHAPTER 1: Foundations of Boundaries (2:05) The Breakdown: What boundaries actually are (and aren’t) (4:42) The Spectrum: Porous, Rigid, Healthy (9:06) Boundaries vs. Values, Rules, Preferences, and Requests (13:32) What happens when boundaries erode? (18:46) The Solution: Boundaries as structure and freedom (22:57) CHAPTER 2: Boundaries: Freedom Through Limitation (25:09) Creativity with Limitations (29:15) Mental Health and Limitations (38:53) Example (42:54) Boundaries and Maturity (45:20) CHAPTER 3: Why Boundaries Matter (50:00) The Basis of Boundary Formation: Values (58:30) Translating Values into Boundaries (1:04:06) The Application: Living Your Valued Boundaries (1:10:14) CHAPTER 4: Why We Fail to Set and Maintain Boundaries (1:11:11) Developmental Origins (1:22:53) Personality and Individual Differences (1:29:48) Emotional Regulation and Mental Health (1:46:06) CHAPTER 5: Types of Boundaries (1:46:53) Physical Boundaries (1:49:28) Emotional Boundaries (1:51:44) Intellectual Boundaries (1:56:02) Time Boundaries (2:00:03) Digital Boundaries (2:09:01) Financial Boundaries (2:12:42) Family boundaries (2:18:52) Friendship Boundaries (2:23:06) Work Relationship Boundaries (2:28:22) Boundaries around authority (2:30:02) Self Boundaries (2:34:39) Chapter 6: How to Set and Maintain Boundaries (3:13:37) Chapter 7: Boundaries in Romantic Relationships (3:30:52) Parenting (3:37:04) Research & Frameworks (3:40:44) Western Romance (3:44:48) CHAPTER 8: The 80/20 of Boundaries Reset Your Brain with BrainFM: brain.fm/IDGAF Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    4 h 13 min
  4. Solved, Answers: Finding Purpose, Failing Better, and the AI Future

    15/12/2025

    Solved, Answers: Finding Purpose, Failing Better, and the AI Future

    This one’s different. In this special year-end episode, I answer your questions—from the deep stuff about purpose and motivation, to the uncomfortable realities of change, burnout, failure, and dealing with unsupportive family. I also share the behind-the-scenes chaos of building SOLVED this year, what I learned about making massive, meaningful content, and what’s coming in 2026 (spoiler: boundaries, ego, and maybe some live shows). This is part personal, part philosophical, and part therapy session disguised as a podcast. If you’ve been wondering what’s next—or why you feel stuck—this one’s for you. See you in 2026. Ready to stop listening to podcasts and actually start taking action? Join the Solved Community, a group of like-minded people who are taking small steps every day to make big changes in their lives: https://solvedpodcast.com/qa Sign up for my newsletter, Your Next Breakthrough. It will help make you a less awful person: https://markmanson.net/breakthrough Chapters: (00:00) Introduction (01:13) Recap of 2025 (03:42) What if I don't have a single purpose? (06:07) Why don't I feel a strong need for purpose? (08:32) How do I find purpose when doing things I don't find important? (12:34) I'm having issues on getting motivated on one thing (19:35) What if my family doesn't support my purpose? (23:15) I'm struggling with the idea that purpose must be bigger than yourself (26:04) How Mark got Purpose AI to work (32:55) Questions from YouTube (33:13) How do you change yourself? (36:43) Finding meaning after AI takeover (44:01) What would a Models rewrite look like today? (48:19) Mark's first heartbreak (54:31) What would Mark put on Voyager 1? (57:35) Self-doubt on something you make (1:02:12) Mark's next book? (1:03:38) Tours around the world (1:05:55) Goals for 2026 (1:08:14) Podcast changes for 2026 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1 h 31 min
  5. Finding Your Purpose, Solved

    04/12/2025

    Finding Your Purpose, Solved

    This is the episode I’ve been waiting to make for a long time. Purpose has been at the core of everything I’ve written and done for over a decade—and in this episode, we go all the way down the rabbit hole. From Viktor Frankl surviving Auschwitz to the myth of “finding your one true purpose,” we break down what purpose really is, why you feel lost without it, and how you can build it into your life. We also get uncomfortable (in the best way) and talk about the dark side of purpose—how it can burn you out, trap you in toxic ambition, or become an excuse to ruin your life. And I have a very special announcement to make: Today, I’m launching a new app called Purpose. It’s an AI-powered mentor for personal growth. You talk to it about whatever you’re facing—stress, decisions, conflicts, goals—and it helps you make sense of things. Purpose listens, reflects back what matters most, and turns big challenges into small, actionable steps. The more you use it, the more personalized and helpful it becomes. Get started in the app with a free course on finding your purpose at https://purpose.app/solved We also put together a free companion guide for this episode with takeaways and tools to help you get your sh*t together once and for all. Download it here: https://solvedpodcast.com/purpose Chapters: (00:00) Introduction (01:39) Victor Frankl and Finding Purpose in the Darkness (17:20) Chapter 1: Foundations: What Is Purpose? (25:44) Myths (32:50) Definition (34:55) Health (39:22) Resilience and Purpose (45:34) Chapter 2: Philosophical & Historical Perspectives on Purpose (52:47) Religion and Purpose (58:31) Descartes (1:00:11) Hume (1:04:51) Nietzsche (1:17:43) Kierkegaard (1:22:50) Ernest Becker (1:30:16) Picasso (1:31:26) Chapter 3: The Psychology of Purpose (1:36:38) Relationships (1:45:40) Ego Identity (1:49:19) Social Aspect of Purpose (1:52:32) Religiosity (2:05:14) Going back to Religion (2:08:13) Chapter 4: The Four Stages of Life (2:19:41) Trade off to Purpose (2:23:48) Transitioning in Purpose (2:31:33) Chapter 5: The Dark Side of Purpose (2:40:38) Purpose App (2:51:36) Burnout (2:54:29) Toxic Purpose (3:07:25) Chapter 6: Finding and Cultivating Purpose (3:27:04) Breakdown on finding Purpose (3:36:56) Chapter 7: Finding Purpose in Work (or Not) (3:52:55) Parenting (4:01:00) Contributing to your community (4:04:05) Hobbies (4:09:14) Chapter 8: Practical Tools and Frameworks (4:20:18) Purpose Setting (4:22:17) Finding the right tool (4:24:48) Chapter 9: The 80/20 of Living with Purpose (4:34:24) Takeaways Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    4 h 52 min
  6. Comparing Yourself to Others, Solved

    15/11/2025

    Comparing Yourself to Others, Solved

    We all compare ourselves to other people—our friends, coworkers, strangers on the internet—and most of the time, it makes us feel like shit. But why do we keep doing it? In this episode of Solved, we dig into the uncomfortable truth behind social comparison, how it quietly ruins our self-worth, and why most of what we envy in others is a projection of our own insecurity. We also get into the brutal paradox of success, the toxic loop of chasing status, and how the constant measurement of our lives against others is one of the dumbest things we do as a species. If you’ve ever felt not good enough, or like you’re falling behind, this one’s for you. We also put together a free companion guide for this episode with all the takeaways, references, and tools to help you get your sh*t together once and for all. Download it here: https://solvedpodcast.com/socialcomparison Ready to stop listening to podcasts and actually start taking action? Join Momentum, a community of like-minded people who are taking small steps every day to make big changes in their lives: https://findmomentum.com/socialcomparison Sign up for my newsletter, Your Next Breakthrough. It will help make you a less awful person: https://markmanson.net/breakthrough Chapters: 0:00 Introduction 5:29 Chapter 1: Evolutionary Roots 16:20 The Emotional Toolkit 20:18 Chapter 2: Philosophy and Social Comparison 23:31 The Buddhist Path 24:58 Aristotle 34:34 Stoicism 36:24 Existentialism 40:06 Myths 48:37 Chapter 3: The Psychology of Social Comparison 58:54 Downward Comparison 1:22:19 Chapter 4: Digital Technology and Social Comparison 1:44:20 Chapter 5: The 80/20 of Managing Comparison 1:57:40 Hidden Costs 1:58:48 Takeaways Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    2 h 10 min
  7. How to Make Friends as an Adult

    01/11/2025

    How to Make Friends as an Adult

    Friendship is the most important thing nobody talks about. In this episode of The SOLVED Podcast, Drew and I dig into what makes friendships work, why they fall apart, and why so many of us are struggling to build or keep them as we get older. We’re talking loneliness stats, Darwin’s confusion about cooperation, and the deep emotional mechanics behind being a good friend—and finding one. From ancient philosophy to game theory, we break down why friendship isn’t just some social nicety—it’s a biological survival strategy. Plus: the modern forces slowly strangling our ability to connect, and exactly what to do about it. You’ll walk away with a clearer sense of what real friendship looks like, how to build it, and how to stop shooting yourself in the foot every time you try. We also put together a free companion guide for this episode with all the takeaways, references, and tools to help you get your sh*t together once and for all. Download it here: https://solvedpodcast.com/friendship Ready to stop listening to podcasts and actually start taking action? Join Momentum, a community of like-minded people who are taking small steps every day to make big changes in their lives: https://findmomentum.com/friendship Sign up for my newsletter, Your Next Breakthrough. It will help make you a less awful person: https://markmanson.net/breakthrough Chapters: 0:00 Introduction 7:52 Chapter 1: Friendship: an Evolutionary Puzzle 25:45 Chapter 2: What Is Friendship? 27:11 Friendship in the Great Religious Traditions 37:21 Modern Psychology's Definition of Friendship 49:02 Chapter 3: Your Brain On Friendship 1:03:34 The Neurobiology of Connection 1:22:48 Health Benefits of Friendship 1:33:11 Chapter 4: How to Make and Maintain Friendships 1:35:19 Proximity and Repeated Contact and Reciprocal Disclosure 1:53:51 Time investment (quantity and cadence) 1:58:15 Evidence-Based Strategies for Making Friends 2:07:46 Examples Of Making Friends 2:26:50 Chapter 5: How Friendship Changes Across the Lifespan 2:54:18 Chapter 6: Gender Dynamics in Friendships 3:09:39 Can Men And Women Be Friends? 3:16:39 Chapter 7: Toxic Friendships 3:17:41 Competitive Friendship 3:21:18 Codependency 3:34:45 Chapter 8: Why It's So Hard to Make Friends These Days 3:35:48 External Headwinds: Why Getting Together Is Hard 3:53:18 Internal Frictions: Why Staying Equal Feels Impossible 4:02:45 Chapter 9: Technology's Double-Edged Impact on Human Connection 4:11:19 Mark's LA Story 4:20:21 Chapter 10: The 80/20 of Friendship 4:30:33 Chapter 11: The Trade-Offs of Friendship Produced by Drew Birnie Research by Zenya Giatzoglou, Katherine Wei, & Gage Greer Edited by SJ van Breda Director of Photography Jess Choi Thumbnail by Jonathan Sippel Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    4 h 46 min
  8. A Comprehensive Guide to Stoicism (ft. Ryan Holiday)

    15/10/2025

    A Comprehensive Guide to Stoicism (ft. Ryan Holiday)

    What does it actually mean to live like a Stoic? In this wide-ranging conversation with bestselling author and modern Stoicism evangelist Ryan Holiday, we unpack the origins of Stoic philosophy, why it exploded during turbulent times in ancient Greece and Rome, and how its principles—like courage, temperance, justice, and wisdom—still apply in a world filled with chaos, anxiety, and uncertainty. From shipwrecked merchants to emperors journaling their fears, this episode explores why some of the most powerful figures in history turned to Stoicism not just for answers—but for survival. We also dig into how Stoicism overlaps with modern psychology, why it’s gaining traction among young men, and whether its rising popularity is being misunderstood or misused. If you’ve ever wondered whether Stoicism means being emotionless, if it’s compatible with ambition, or if it actually makes you a better person, this episode is your one-stop masterclass. Order Ryan Holiday’s new book, Wisdom Takes Work: https://www.amazon.com/Wisdom-Takes-Work-Repeat-Virtues/dp/0593191730 We also put together a free companion guide for this episode with all the takeaways, references, and tools to help you get your sh*t together once and for all. Download it here: https://solvedpodcast.com/stoicism Ready to stop listening to podcasts and actually start taking action? Join the Solved Community, a platform for like-minded people who are taking small steps every day to make big changes in their lives: https://membership.solvedpodcast.com Sign up for my newsletter, Your Next Breakthrough. It will help make you a less awful person: https://markmanson.net/breakthrough Produced by Drew Birnie Research by Zenya Giatzoglou, Katherine Wei, & Gage Greer Edited by SJ van Breda Director of Photography Jess Choi Thumbnail by Jonathan Sippel Chapters: 00:00 Introduction 02:49 Setting the Scene: Ancient Greece After Alexander 06:44 The Story of Zeno: Founder of Stoicism 13:58 The Four Stoic Virtues 44:20 Virtue 1: Courage 53:17 Virtue 2: Temperance (Discipline) 1:05:01 Virtue 3: Justice 1:08:51 Virtue 4: Wisdom 1:25:51 Roman Conquest and the Spread of Stoicism 1:33:10 Cato the Younger: The Stoic Martyr 1:39:06 Seneca: The Conflicted Philosopher 1:55:50 Epictetus: The Slave Philosopher 2:07:28 Marcus Aurelius: The Philosopher Emperor 2:20:18 Stoicism Through History 2:32:45 Stoicism and Modern Psychology 2:41:09 The Modern Stoicism Revival 2:50:06 Final Thoughts and Recommendations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    2 h 60 min
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Mark Manson is a three-time #1 New York Times bestselling author and 20-year personal development industry veteran. Solved is the most comprehensive, evidence-based, overly-researched podcast on the planet to help you get an issue in your life, err... solved.

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  • Creado por
    Mark Manson
  • Años en activo
    2017 - 2026
  • Episodios
    89
  • Clasificación
    Explícito
  • Derechos de autor
    © Copyright 2025 Infinity Squared Media
  • Sitio web del podcast
    SOLVED with Mark Manson

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