The Coaching Leader - by IntelliCoach

IntelliCoach
  • 5,0 (1)
  • Administración
  • Bimestral

Our Vision is simple: Every People Leader should know some professional Coaching Skills. Why? Most Leaders simply do not know how to help others WITHOUT giving advice. Yet that is exactly the kind of empowering Leadership style that people seek: one that is genuine, caring, curious, yet direct and fair. In our podcast we share ways how Leaders can become more coach-like in their daily interactions. Enjoy!

  1. 6 feb

    TCL 121 - Change is Friction - Change is Good

    It's normal for humans to feel inertia. We instinctively resist change and crave stability. But what if the stability we fight for is actually the thing holding us back? We often assume we should only change things when they are broken. But there is a hidden value in change itself—even when everything seems fine. In this episode, I explore the counter-intuitive idea that change has inherent worth, even if there is no outright 'business case'. I will break down why "shaking things up" isn't just about fixing problems, but about forcing the system to adapt, connect, and grow in ways that stability never allows. Main Ideas: - The "Forest Fire Principle": How disruption clears old habits to let new growth emerge - Why change creates serendipity and surfaces hidden opportunities  - Research on why organizations that introduce friction build stronger networks  - The opportunity cost of comfort: What you miss when you refuse to shake things up  - Practical ways to introduce purposeful experimentation in your work and life I share a lot more in the episode about this helpful mindset shift!   Resources: - March, J. G. (1991). *Exploration and Exploitation in Organizational Learning* (Organization Science).     Explains why sticking to proven routines ("exploitation") crowds out experimentation ("exploration"), and why deliberately injecting change/experiments can be valuable even when things seem to work—because exploration is required for long-run learning and adaptation. [iot.ntnu](http://www.iot.ntnu.no/innovation/norsi-pims-courses/Levinthal/March%20(1991).pdf)   - Teece, D. J., Pisano, G., & Shuen, A. (1997). *Dynamic Capabilities and Strategic Management* (Strategic Management Journal).     Provides the strategy lens for your claim that "change has inherent value": organizations that can repeatedly reconfigure capabilities (not just optimize current operations) are better positioned to adapt, making purposeful change a core competence. [sjbae.pbworks](http://sjbae.pbworks.com/f/teece_pisano_shuen_1997.pdf)   - Burt, R. S. (2004). *Structural Holes and Good Ideas* (American Journal of Sociology).     Backs your "new connections" point: when people bridge disconnected groups (often enabled by reorganizations, transitions, and cross-functional work), they access more novel information and are more likely to generate valuable ideas. [citeseerx.ist.psu](https://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/document?repid=rep1&type=pdf&doi=14d23964de88419273079764da61cf541a8298c6)   - Ahuja, G. (2000). *Collaboration Networks, Structural Holes, and Innovation: A Longitudinal Study* (Administrative Science Quarterly).     Adds longitudinal evidence that the structure of collaboration networks predicts innovation outcomes, reinforcing your argument that shifting who works with whom during change isn't just disruptive—it can materially change innovation capacity. [repositories.lib.utexas](https://repositories.lib.utexas.edu/items/4a0dec98-47b1-491b-b8a2-40117346ab71)   - Tedeschi, R. G., & Calhoun, L. G. (2004). *Posttraumatic Growth: Conceptual Foundations and Empirical Evidence* (and later PTG reviews).     Supports your "forced change can unlock growth" narrative at the individual level: major disruption can catalyze positive psychological change (new possibilities, stronger relationships, personal strength), aligning with your lockdown/car/public-transport examples. [semanticscholar](https://www.semanticscholar.org/paper/TARGET-ARTICLE:-%22Posttraumatic-Growth:-Conceptual-Tedeschi-Calhoun/3651a81c1365b83343694627d8f4464d181931b5)

    14 min

  2. 19/12/2025

    TCL 120 - Mentoring Falls Flat Without Coaching Skills

    Advice is helpful. But without a short "compass check," mentees often don't use it. In this episode, I reveal why traditional mentoring often falls short—and how combining mentoring with coaching skills transforms your impact as a leader. Main Ideas: Why handing over a "map" of your experience isn't enough—and what's missing. The compass check: How to start mentoring conversations that activate thinking, not passive note-taking. Practical questions that help mentees discover whether your advice actually applies to their unique situation. Mentor for independence, not dependence. What's one question you'll add to your next mentoring chat?

    14 min

  3. 06/12/2025

    TCL119 - Don't Coach the Ghost

    It's a familiar scenario. You go into a discussion and you spend 20 minutes talking about someone who isn't even in the room; you end up walking away with zero actionable solutions.  I call this 'investigating a ghost'. When team members come to you frustrated about a colleague, it's tempting to play detective together, analyzing that absent person's motives and behaviors. But here's the trap: you can't coach/change someone who isn't there. In this episode, I'll show you how to pivot these circular conversations into productive problem-solving by focusing on what actually matters: the person right in front of you + what's within their control. Main Ideas: Why do leaders waste time investigating absent people instead of coaching the person present. The Three-Step Pivot How to shift from passive complaining to active agency, and why not taking sides is actually more helpful. Ready to stop wasting time on people who aren't in the room? Let's focus your coaching energy where it can actually create change.

    12 min

  4. 14/11/2025

    TCL 118 - The Dead Man's Rule of Goal Setting

    Reframe 'don't' goals into concrete actions only living people perform. When you set goals like "I won't complain" or "I'll stop interrupting," you're unknowingly sabotaging yourself. In this episode, I explore the Dead Man's Rule—a powerful principle from behavioral psychology that reveals why negatively-framed goals fail and how to transform them into actionable directives that actually drive change. Main Ideas: The Dead Man's Rule explained Three reasons our brains can't process "don't do X" instructions effectively. How to identify and normalize goals, turning vague avoidance statements into concrete, actionable plans Want to stop spinning your wheels on goals that go nowhere? Let's discover how shifting from avoidance to action can transform the way you approach personal and professional growth.

    13 min

  5. 31/10/2025

    TCL 117 - Your calendar tells you the truth

    We say we value family, health, and learning. But our calendars tell a different story. There's often a gap between what we claim matters and where our time actually goes. Main Ideas: ●      How your calendar and spending reveal your true values, not your stated ones ●      Why we often aspire to values we don't actually live by ●      The difference between aspirational values and actual values ●      How to use your credit card statements to understand your priorities ●      Steps to structure your life around the values you aspire to have  Take an honest look at how you spend your time. The mirror doesn't judge—it just shows you what's there.

    11 min

  6. 17/10/2025

    TCL 116 - The Emotional Remote Control

    When someone upsets you, do you tell yourself "they made me angry"—or do you recognize that you're choosing your response? In this episode, I share a story from my early leadership days and a five-step framework I've developed for reclaiming emotional remote control. Main Ideas: Why saying "someone made me feel" means giving away your emotional control My story of creating a manual my team didn't use and the anger I felt The five-step framework for reclaiming your emotional remote control How to challenge the stories we tell ourselves about external triggers Setting boundaries without letting others dictate your emotional state Listen to this episode to learn how to stop giving others the remote control to your emotional state and start responding rather than reacting.

    12 min

  7. 18/07/2025

    TCL 115 - Add Water not Fuel

    When conflict flares up, are you adding fuel—or water? In this episode, I explore a simple yet powerful metaphor to help leaders de-escalate tension and build stronger conversations. Learn how to lead with clarity, maturity, and curiosity in the heat of the moment. Main Ideas: The "Fuel vs. Water" metaphor for understanding conflict behavior. Seven practical ways to de-escalate heated situations and respond with intention. How to stay grounded, communicate non-judgmentally, and lead through emotionally charged conversations. Want to navigate tough conversations without losing your cool? Let's learn how shifting your mindset and language can dramatically improve your leadership impact.

    14 min

  8. 04/07/2025

    TCL114 - An Introvert with a Mission becomes social

    Do you prefer introversion and find big networking events draining?  In this podcast episode, I share how redefining my role gave me energy, purpose, and deeper connections during the wild, busy International Coaching Week events in May earlier this year. It was a simple mindset shift, but one that changed everything for me 😊 Main Ideas: ●      Why introverted leaders are underrepresented in senior positions ●      The difference between preferring introversion and lacking social skills ●      How energy management, not personality, determines networking success ●      The power of having a mission beyond self-serving networking ●      Practical strategies for giving yourself legitimate reasons to connect ●      Why "networking" feels draining and how to reframe it as value creation What mission could you bring to your next event?   Please take 1 min to rate this podcast! It will mean a HUGE deal to me.https://www.ratethispodcast.com/intellicoach

    12 min
Ver todo (121)

Información

Our Vision is simple: Every People Leader should know some professional Coaching Skills. Why? Most Leaders simply do not know how to help others WITHOUT giving advice. Yet that is exactly the kind of empowering Leadership style that people seek: one that is genuine, caring, curious, yet direct and fair. In our podcast we share ways how Leaders can become more coach-like in their daily interactions. Enjoy!

Ficha técnica

  • Creado por
    IntelliCoach
  • Años en activo
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodios
    121
  • Clasificación
    Apto
  • Derechos de autor
    © Copyright 2026 All rights reserved.
  • Sitio web del podcast
    The Coaching Leader - by IntelliCoach