Better Call Daddy Reena Friedman Watts

In the latest episode of Better Call Daddy, we venture into the multifaceted world of Cam Sully, a man who guards by night and podcasts by day. Cam takes us through the winding paths of his life, from his unexpected insights as a security guard to his passionate endeavors in podcasting. He shares the importance of assertive communication, the relief of therapy, and the freedom found in speaking one's truth without seeking permission.
With a candid reflection on family dynamics and societal expectations, Cam discusses the pressures of being the eldest child and the liberation that comes from forging one's own timeline. He delves into the intricacies of white lies versus honesty, as taught by his parents, and the balance between the two.
Cam's storytelling extends beyond his personal experiences, offering listeners a pragmatic guide to navigating the world of movies and entertainment. His advice on choosing films based on plot descriptions rather than trailers, and his thoughts on the value of time, provide a refreshing take on consumption in the digital age.
But it's not just about film critique; Cam's vision for his podcast, the Jacked Up Review Show, is a testament to his belief in the power of conversation and connection. His call to action for anyone with a dream is simple yet profound: stop waiting for permission and start creating your legacy.
 
Join us as we dive into a conversation that's as jacked up as it is insightful, with a guest who embodies the spirit of self-expression and the pursuit of authenticity.
 
Better Call Daddy: The Safe Space for Controversy.
 
Cam Sully is a podcaster who's worn all other sorts of hats from being a mobilie security guard supervisor to indie filmmaker to working on professional TV sets. He's down to talk social, mental, political and entertainment related matters on any platform.
 
(00:00) The better call daddy podcast features stories from influential fathers and controversial people
(02:43) You did study film at college; what did you learn from it
(03:21) What is it like being the oldest child and having expectations on you
(08:38) I think everyone should use a sort of communication when dealing with others
(12:24) You say your mom taught you about white lies but your dad taught you honesty
(16:50) The show is filmed in Dallas and it was a fun paid reality gig
(20:46) What motivates you to podcast storytelling? Uh, I think whether it's movies
(26:55) Is there anything that your parents have taught you that you want to carry on
(29:16) We talked about coming up with a checklist for determining what movies are worth going to
(31:47) Talk to me about what's next for your podcast and what you're building
(34:05) Cam says podcasting allows him to be free without any expectations
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At just 8 years old, Kelly Wallace faced the unimaginable—testifying in court against her own grandfather, a man who committed the heinous act of sexual abuse. Her story is a stark reminder of the silent battles that many face, hidden behind the closed doors of seemingly ordinary homes.
Kelly's journey is not just one of survival, but of unwavering courage and the pursuit of healing. As an alcoholic in recovery since 2001, she confronts the overlooked correlation between addiction and the trauma of sexual abuse. With raw honesty, Kelly discusses the ongoing challenges of trust and the complexities of family dynamics, especially when those who should protect you become the perpetrators.
In a poignant conversation that spans the personal to the systemic, Kelly reveals the inadequacies of a legal system that often fails the innocent, the generational cycles of abuse, and the power of speaking one's truth. Her voice is a clarion call for awareness, change, and the empowerment of survivors everywhere.
Join us as we dive into a narrative that, while difficult, is necessary for shedding light on the shadows of abuse and the strength it takes to stand against it. Kelly's story is a testament to the human spirit's capacity to fight back and forge a path towards a brighter, more just future.
Better Call Daddy: The Safe Space for Controversy. 
 
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(00:00) This is the better call daddy show. Each week, I interview a guest, share stories with my dad(01:38) Kelly Wallace is a sexual assault survivor and an alcoholic in recovery(03:58) You testified when you were eight against your grandfather for sexually abusing you(13:07) Kelly says most sexual assault survivors can't speak up about what happened(20:10) Working out helps me with my mental health, and also creativity(22:53) Have you had any spiritual awakenings or do you believe in God(24:16) What do you think your purpose in life is and what is your legacy(26:03) What's your relationship like with your mom now? My relationship with my mom is challenging(34:09) You recently joined the advisory board of Incest Aware(36:46) What's your interest in the Scientology piece? It's so funny(39:28) You haven't reached out to your dad or grandfather since 1996(44:51) Is time really heal for people with PTSD(46:05) Do you think that everyone who's been sexually assaulted should have therapy(48:05) You've had some of your videos go completely viral(49:40) One question I did see in the comments of your story was, where was children protective services(55:21) The court system is so hard. It's just being involved in any legal case is stressful(56:52) Documents from Oregon child sexual abuse lawsuit were lost in a flood(01:03:46) The whole consent thing is so new, and it's so foreign(01:05:24) This is going to be quite an interesting conversation between my dad and me(01:06:25) Kelly, this is really a tough episode. I had trouble sleeping after this interview(01:09:27) This episode brings out a lot of issues about sex and court systems
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Have you ever wondered what it's like to walk a mile in someone else's shoes? To drum to the beat of a different life?
In this heart-to-heart episode of Better Call Daddy, John, affectionately known as Jive, and one of my favorite podcasters shares his unconventional life journey.  From the young age of 14, he found himself navigating the harsh realities of homelessness, which later fueled his passion for helping those on the streets. Despite the trials, John's spirit remains unbreakable as he shares his candid thoughts on marriage, parenting, and the pursuit of purpose over fleeting happiness.
As a father estranged from two of his sons, John reveals the complexities of family dynamics and the lingering impact of his own parents' divorce. His philosophy? Power over force, and attraction over pursuit. He believes in the transformative power of facing hostility head-on, embracing the chaos, and finding the rhythm in life's fickle beat.
John's reflections are a raw and real testament to the resilience of the human spirit. Join us as we explore the lessons learned from the school of hard knocks and the quest for authentic connection in a world that often turns a blind eye to its most vulnerable.
Better Call Daddy: The Safe Space for Controversy. 
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https://johnpodcasting.com/
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(00:00) This is the better call daddy show. Each week I interview a guest, share stories with my dad(01:37) Oklahoma is very much like California on a weird scale(06:03) I moved to LA in my twenties and felt like it was the land of dreams(08:27) When did you start loving music(10:45) Did your parents encourage your musical interests or do you do that as a parent(12:30) Being on stage with the drum kit is different than being a normal person(14:10) Your podcast is in the philosophy category, but it's also a hobby(16:59) Not having a mental health podcast is a good way to start(20:27) Last year I was getting into voice acting, right? So I was. Went down into a rabbit hole(24:46) It takes a lot of effort to keep projects moving forward(29:28) A lot of podcasters feel ignored by social media platforms(33:43) Jay worked in TV production where nobody does anything by themselves(34:40) John was married for about ten years before getting divorced(38:57) If you're a grown man, stay out of the way. Don't assert yourself. No one needs your opinion. Just do your thing and(39:08) Power versus force, the hidden determinants of human behavior is a great book(42:57) Everyone has a different level of what's acceptable in relationships(45:30) What do you want for your own children(46:21) Is it you don't have communication with some of your kids(47:58) You have a close relationship with your mom because you guys have struggled together(50:19) John says he misses spending time with his kids during the holidays(53:52) I feel like you have a passion for the homelessness. I feel like I've experienced that myself(57:59) You say you like smart people. What else is on your list of the type of lady(58:48) I want to know what your dad thinks about homeless people owning animals(01:02:39) I learned a lot about dealing with hostility in the juvenile justice system(01:06:27) What do you do if customers are harassing your employees(01:09:10) John says unless you're

Can you make a musical about anything?  Absolutely!  From everyday life experiences to fantastical adventures.  Today’s guest talks about creating a hospice musical.  Imagine being in your bed at the end of life and reflecting in a meaningful way!  Where have you been in your journey?  Have you thought about what you want people to say about you when you die?  Have you conducted an interview with a loved one, how about adding some music to that?
Benjamin Kintisch, a creator who has experienced pain and loss amidst moments of comedy, has crafted something of immense power.  Mentored by experts, he has penned a musical that showcases his unique talents and perspectives as a chaplain.  He’s done a lot of thinking about what it means to age and grieve.  Everybody dies in the end!  If you don’t have an end of life directive get one today.  Have you made your peace, made the calls, written your eulogy?  Better Call Daddy: The Safe Space for Controversy.
Benjamin Kintisch is a trained chaplain, a music teacher, and a Cantor.  He is the creator, lyricist and playwright of “Life Review: The Hospice Musical. ” This musical comedy is the first play he has created. 
Kintisch has loved singing and performing on stage since his youth.  He graduated from Brown University with concentration in Judaic Studies. Graduate studies at Jewish Theological Seminary included a Masters in Sacred Music along with a Cantorial degree. Kintisch has  completed four years of chaplaincy training, having served in both hospice and eldercare facilities. Most recently he became a music teacher for elementary students in College Park, MD. He currently lives in Columbia, MD with his wife, daughter, and dog.
Connect with Benjamin
https://www.lifereviewmusical.com
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bettercalldaddy.com
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How do you switch things up in your podcast and collaborate with other creators?  Is parental support always beneficial or can it have negative effects?
 
Today Mama D and I talk about evaluating one's values, setting boundaries, parenting, mental health, podcasting, trauma, and language learning. Reena emphasized the importance of trust and building it over time in relationships, and how love is a choice that evolves with age and experience.
Mama D is the host of Petals of Support podcast
https://linktr.ee/petalsofsupport?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=d22a52b1-f818-47d6-b5cd-864c16fef45c
 
 
The Stupid History Minute Binkies Mama D
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupid-history-minute/id1572706163?i=1000612288418
 
The Stupid History Minute Jerry Springer
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupid-history-minute/id1572706163?i=1000640407743
 
Connect with Reena bettercalldaddy.com linkedin.com/in/reenafriedmanwatts twitter.com/reenareena instagram.com/reenafriedmanwatts instagram.com/bettercalldaddypodcast
 
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Today's guest, Helene Beck recently celebrated her 100th episode on her very own podcast, Coming from the Heart. I love her enthusiasm for hosting the show, her motivation to inspire exercise, and her profound passion for music.
Her love for music began at a young age, as she would sing along to commercials and mimic songs she heard. This passion for music led her to take lessons when she was around 10 or 11 years old.
She continued to nurture her musical talent by listening to albums and singing along to artists like Stevie Wonder and Billy Joel, forming a deep connection to singing and music early on.
She remained involved in music, participating in choir and pursuing music voice lessons at a studio in Hoboken. She took her musical endeavors seriously, recording at a studio in Brooklyn, a professional environment where even Lady Gaga had recorded.
Despite her busy schedule and teaching career, Helene always found solace in music and expressed a desire to return to singing and recording, recognizing the therapeutic and fulfilling nature of music in her life.
Helene's experiences with music highlight its significant role in her life, from childhood singing to professional recording sessions. Music has been a constant source of joy, expression, and creativity for her, shaping her identity and providing a means of emotional release and connection.
Helene's mother had a profound impact on shaping her values and passions. As a reading recovery teacher dedicated to education, the mother instilled a strong sense of community service in the speaker. Going above and beyond in her role, she bought supplies for students and gave back to the community, inspiring the her own actions and choices.
Her mother's commitment to education was evident in her journey, where she aspired to pursue a career in science but settled for being a lab technician due to financial constraints.
Despite this, she later went back to school in her forties to pursue her educational goals, showcasing resilience and determination. This perseverance likely influenced the Helene's own pursuit of passions and continuous learning.
Helene's admiration for her mother's dedication to education and community service is evident in her own actions, such as collaborating with the Hoboken Shelter and advocating for mental health awareness.
The values instilled by her mother have translated into a passion for giving back to the community and making a positive impact, reflecting a deep-rooted influence that continues to shape the Helene's choices and endeavors.
Helene's father, a school principal, had a strong sense of humor and used it as a coping mechanism, especially during challenging times. Despite facing illness and tough situations, he maintained a humorous outlook.
For example, even when in the hospital, he would use humor and sarcasm to lighten the mood. This ability to find humor in challenging times not only helped Helene's father cope but also influenced her own perspective on dealing with adversity.
She mentions that her father's humor was a way to release tension and bring levity to difficult moments, showing that laughter can be a powerful tool for resilience and emotional well-being. This aspect of her father's personality highlights the importance of finding joy and humor even in the face of adversity, emphasizing the value of maintaining a positive outlook and using humor as a coping mechanism in tough times.
Describing my dad as an embellisher and creator, she had her question for my dad prepared: Does he perceive a change in awareness surrounding mental health?
Her father adhered to the mentality of enduring hardships without expressing emotions, reflecting the stark generational differences. Despite this, she recalls a rare moment of seeing him cry upon losing his own father.
Have you ever felt alone, searching for answers?
Coming From The Heart Podcast is a safe space to share your experiences, expertise, and powerful messages of introspectivene