Dildo Whisperer

Romaine Patterson
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The Dildo Whisperer is where people go to get the sex education that their schools refused to give them and their parents were too embarrassed to discuss. This is sex education that is inclusive, inspiring and transformative! Listeners have the opportunity to ask questions, hear sex toy reviews and get insight from some of the top sexperts in the country. Hosted by Romaine Patterson and produced by DNR Studios.

  1. -6 j

    Bro Code: Loyalty, Love, and the Lines We Won't Cross

    Bro Code. Everyone's heard of it, but what does it actually mean? Is it a sacred set of unwritten rules, or just an excuse to avoid difficult conversations? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we're unpacking the infamous Bro Code—the unspoken guidelines that shape friendships, dating, loyalty, and relationships between men. From the rules about dating a friend's ex to keeping secrets, having each other's backs, and navigating romantic conflicts, we explore where these expectations come from and why they continue to influence the way men interact. We'll also examine the consequences of breaking Bro Code, the situations where loyalty may conflict with honesty or ethics, and whether there are times when breaking the code is actually the right thing to do. Plus, we'll compare Bro Code and Girl Code, looking at how each reflects different ideas about friendship, communication, and support, while asking whether these "codes" still make sense in today's world. Whether you've sworn by Bro Code, broken it, or never really understood it, this episode offers a thoughtful, entertaining, and sex-positive conversation about friendship, trust, relationships, and the complicated rules we create for ourselves.

  2. 26 août

    Fisting Without Fear: Education, Communication and Safety

    Fisting is one of the most misunderstood topics in sexual health. It's often surrounded by myths, misinformation, and sensationalized portrayals—but rarely discussed in an honest, educational way. In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we take a judgment-free look at what fisting actually is, why some people choose to explore it, and how communication, consent, and preparation play a critical role in practicing it as safely as possible. We'll discuss the differences between vaginal and anal fisting, the importance of anatomy, lubrication, and patience, as well as the do's and don'ts that can help reduce the risk of injury. We'll also talk openly about the potential risks involved, when it's important to seek medical attention, and why aftercare is an essential part of any intimate experience. Whether you're simply curious, considering trying it, or just want accurate information instead of internet myths, this episode provides a thoughtful, sex-positive introduction to one of sexuality's most misunderstood practices. As always, The Dildo Whisperer is here to replace shame with knowledge, encourage open conversations, and empower you to make informed decisions about your sexual health and pleasure. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

  3. 19 août

    Reading is Fundamental: Learning Your Desire Through Great Sex Books

    How do you figure out what you actually like in bed if no one ever taught you how? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we're talking about sexual self-discovery through the work of smart, sex-positive authors like Ducky Doolittle, Carol Queen, and Betty Dodson. From masturbation and body literacy to fantasy, toys, communication, and learning the difference between what you should want and what genuinely turns you on, this episode is all about using books as tools for curiosity, confidence, and pleasure. If you've ever felt unsure of your turn-ons, embarrassed by your inexperience, or disconnected from your own desire, this conversation offers a judgment-free place to start. Because figuring out what you like sexually doesn't have to begin with pressure, performance, or trial and error in the bedroom. Sometimes it starts with a great book, a little honesty, and the willingness to get curious about your own body and your own pleasure. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

  4. 12 août

    The Truth About Sex Therapy with Vanessa Cushing

    Have you ever wondered what actually happens in a sex therapist's office? Is sex therapy only for couples in crisis—or can it help anyone build healthier, more satisfying intimate relationships? This week on The Dildo Whisperer, I'm joined by AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Vanessa Cushing for an honest, insightful conversation about the challenges so many people face—but few feel comfortable talking about. From mismatched libidos and communication struggles to performance anxiety, body image, shame, and rebuilding intimacy, Vanessa shares practical advice for creating stronger connections both inside and outside the bedroom. We also explore why so many people wait years before asking for help, how our upbringing shapes our relationship with sex, and what it really takes to build confidence, improve communication, and embrace pleasure without guilt or judgment. Whether you're single, dating, married, or simply curious about how sex therapy works, this episode offers expert guidance, compassionate insights, and plenty of reassurance that you're not alone in the questions you have about intimacy. Join us for a thoughtful, sex-positive conversation that reminds us that great sex isn't about perfection—it's about communication, connection, curiosity, and giving yourself permission to keep learning.

  5. 5 août

    Sex and Sobriety: Learning to Hook Up, Date, and Feel Everything Sober

    What happens when alcohol or substances have been part of the way you flirt, hook up, date, or feel sexy—and then suddenly they're not? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we're talking about sex and sobriety: the awkwardness, the vulnerability, the fear, and the freedom that can come with learning how to navigate intimacy without a chemical buffer. From liquid courage and lowered inhibitions to consent, confidence, hookup culture, and discovering what you actually want when you're fully present, this episode explores the complicated relationship between substances and sex. Whether you're in recovery, rethinking your habits, or just curious about how drinking or getting high may be shaping your sex life, this conversation is honest, practical, and completely judgment-free. Because sober sex might feel different—but it can also be clearer, safer, and more authentically connected than ever before. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

  6. 29 juil.

    Beauty, Confidence, and Owning Your Power: A Conversation with Blake Lovely Part 2

    This week on The Dildo Whisperer, we're joined by musician, author, award-nominated adult performer, and trans icon Blake Lovely for a candid conversation about confidence, sexuality, self-expression, and living authentically. This is part 2 of our conversation. From growing up in rural Virginia knowing she was destined to become the woman she is today, to building a successful music career, transitioning, and becoming one of the most recognized trans performers in adult entertainment, Blake shares her remarkable journey of self-discovery and empowerment. We discuss body image, attraction, dating, intimacy, the realities of working in the adult industry, and the lessons she's learned about confidence, communication, and embracing your desires without shame. Blake also opens up about her passion for music, her upcoming projects, and why authenticity is the sexiest quality anyone can possess. Whether you're curious about trans experiences, interested in the intersection of sexuality and self-expression, or simply looking for inspiration to live more boldly, this is an episode you won't want to miss. Join us for an honest, sex-positive conversation about identity, pleasure, confidence, and finding your power. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

  7. 22 juil.

    Beauty, Confidence, and Owning Your Power: A Conversation with Blake Lovely Part 1

    This week on The Dildo Whisperer, we're joined by musician, author, award-nominated adult performer, and trans icon Blake Lovely for a candid conversation about confidence, sexuality, self-expression, and living authentically. This is part 1 of our conversation. From growing up in rural Virginia knowing she was destined to become the woman she is today, to building a successful music career, transitioning, and becoming one of the most recognized trans performers in adult entertainment, Blake shares her remarkable journey of self-discovery and empowerment. We discuss body image, attraction, dating, intimacy, the realities of working in the adult industry, and the lessons she's learned about confidence, communication, and embracing your desires without shame. Blake also opens up about her passion for music, her upcoming projects, and why authenticity is the sexiest quality anyone can possess. Whether you're curious about trans experiences, interested in the intersection of sexuality and self-expression, or simply looking for inspiration to live more boldly, this is an episode you won't want to miss. Join us for an honest, sex-positive conversation about identity, pleasure, confidence, and finding your power. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

  8. 15 juil.

    Use Your Words: How to Ask for What You Want in Bed

    Have you ever wished your partner could read your mind in the bedroom? You're not alone. One of the biggest obstacles to a satisfying sex life isn't technique—it's communication. In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we're talking about how to ask for what you want in bed without feeling awkward, selfish, or embarrassed. From overcoming shame and fear of rejection to learning how to give constructive feedback and discuss fantasies, desires, and boundaries, we'll explore practical ways to improve communication and strengthen intimacy. Whether you're in a long-term relationship, dating someone new, or simply trying to better understand your own needs, this episode will help you find the words to advocate for your pleasure and create more satisfying sexual experiences. Because great sex doesn't come from mind reading—it comes from honest conversations. Tune in and discover why using your words may be the sexiest thing you can do. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

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The Dildo Whisperer is where people go to get the sex education that their schools refused to give them and their parents were too embarrassed to discuss. This is sex education that is inclusive, inspiring and transformative! Listeners have the opportunity to ask questions, hear sex toy reviews and get insight from some of the top sexperts in the country. Hosted by Romaine Patterson and produced by DNR Studios.

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  • Création
    Romaine Patterson
  • Années d’activité
    2023 - 2026
  • Épisodes
    167
  • Classification
    Contenu explicite
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    © 2023
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    Dildo Whisperer

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