Self Reflection Podcast

Lira Ndifon

Self-Reflection Podcast is based on real emotions and feelings. If you are like me, you know sometimes it's hard to put yourself first, stay positive, and be motivated. Self-Reflection Podcast creates room for self-growth and improvement. Our mental health and overall well-being are directly impacted and connected to how we see and value ourselves. Self-Reflection Podcast seeks to motivate, inspire, and encourage individuals to prioritize their mental health.  SELF-REFLECTION PODCAST TACKLE TOPICS ON MENTAL HEALTH AND SOME OF THE MOST POIGNANT ISSUES FACING OUR COMMUNITIES AND THE WORLD.  Join us on our journey to reconnecting with our higher self as we explore the Matrix@Lira_Ndifon

  1. Can Eastern Medicine Go Where Western Medicine Can’t?

    22/12/2025

    Can Eastern Medicine Go Where Western Medicine Can’t?

    Send us a text In this special episode of the Self Reflection Podcast, host Lira Ndifon steps into new territory by inviting two transformative guests: Eric Yuan from the Alameda  County Behavioral Health Department and Dr. Harry Ding, a fifth-generation Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) practitioner. Together, they discuss their innovative community program that bridges the gap between Western medical administration and Eastern holistic practices. Eric shares his personal testimony of overcoming a severe thyroid condition through Dr. Harry's care, which inspired them to serve over 1,200 patients by treating not just the body, but the mind and soul with "love as the best medicine." The conversation dives deep into the metaphysics of health, explaining the concept of "Chi" (life force energy) and how stagnation in specific meridians can manifest as emotional struggles like depression, anger, or worry. Dr. Harry breaks down the art of pulse diagnosis, explaining how a practitioner can detect mental health issues simply by feeling the rhythm of the blood flow in the wrist. He details how different positions on the left and right wrist correspond to internal organs like the heart, liver, and spleen, offering a window into a patient's emotional state without them saying a word. In a vulnerable and educational segment, Lira undergoes a live consultation and pulse reading. Dr. Harry analyzes her sleep patterns, digestion, and stress levels to reveal a "weak spleen" and "blood deficiency" caused by overthinking and irregular eating habits. The episode concludes with actionable TCM advice for listeners, including the importance of sleeping before 11:00 PM (liver time), incorporating red meats for blood regeneration, and drinking rose tea to release stress stagnation. East-West Free Clinic every: 1st Monday 9-12 at AgeWell Center South Fremont. 510-742-7540 2nd Monday 9-12 at Ruggieri Center Union City  510-675-5495 3rd Monday 9-12 at AgeWell Center Lake Elizabeth Fremont 510-790-6600 Support the show Call to Action: Engage with the Self-Reflection Podcast community! Like, follow, and subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube (Self-Reflection Podcast by Lira Ndifon), and all major podcast platforms. Share your insights and feedback—we value your contributions! Suggest topics you'd like us to explore. Your support amplifies our reach, sharing these vital messages of self-love and empowerment. Until our next conversation, prioritize self-care and embrace your journey. Grab your copy of "Awaken Your True Self" on Amazon. Until next time, be kind to yourself and keep reflecting.

    1 h 24 min
  2. Will AI Fix Modern Dating or Break It?

    15/12/2025

    Will AI Fix Modern Dating or Break It?

    Send us a text Are you suffering from "swipe fatigue"? In a world where digital dating feels more like a chore than a connection, we’re often left wondering if the "spark" has been replaced by an algorithm. But what if the right technology could actually lead you back to a real soul connection? Today, host Lira Ndifon sits down with Martin Hossen, the visionary CEO and Founder of OLOO, to discuss how he is using Artificial Intelligence to disrupt the dating industry and restore hope to the lonely-hearted. In this deeply insightful conversation, we peel back the curtain on the "AI magic" powering the next generation of human connection. From personal pain points to global innovation, Martin shares the story of how a frustrated coder decided to build an app that actually knows you. We dive into the game-changing features of OLOO: The AI Photo Search: Tired of looking for "your type"? Learn how you can upload a photo of your ideal aesthetic—even a celebrity crush—to find matches that fit your visual vibe in seconds.Love is Blind Mode: A 3-minute, voice-only experience that prioritizes soul connection over physical appearance. Can you fall for a vibe before you see a face?The AI Communication Coach: Discover how OLOO helps users—especially men—navigate modern dating with respect, clarity, and "Grammarly-style" support for better conversations.Beyond the Tech: The Founder’s Journey Building a startup isn't all "yeses" and success. Martin opens up about the resilience required to survive over ten rejections from the App Store and the mental health practices—from playing piano to distance running—that keep him grounded during the grind. As we enter the holiday season, Lira and Martin reflect on why prioritizing self-reflection and mental well-being is the ultimate prerequisite for finding love. Your worth is not defined by a match or a message. Whether you are navigating the dating world or building your own dream from scratch, keep going. There is light at the end of the tunnel, and sometimes, all it takes is one fresh perspective to change your entire journey. Be kind to yourself, stay gentle with your heart, and keep reflecting. Join the Self-Reflection Family! If this conversation sparked a new thought or gave you a glimmer of hope, please help us grow! Follow & Subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube so you never miss a breakthrough.Leave a 5-Star Review—it helps more people find these poignant conversations.Share the Love: Send this episode to one friend who is ready to delete the old apps and try something fresh.Connect with us: Download OLOO: Available now on the Apple App Store (Free!)Follow Martin: @martinhossen on InstagramFollow Lira: @SelfReflectionPodcast on all platformsSupport the show Call to Action: Engage with the Self-Reflection Podcast community! Like, follow, and subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube (Self-Reflection Podcast by Lira Ndifon), and all major podcast platforms. Share your insights and feedback—we value your contributions! Suggest topics you'd like us to explore. Your support amplifies our reach, sharing these vital messages of self-love and empowerment. Until our next conversation, prioritize self-care and embrace your journey. Grab your copy of "Awaken Your True Self" on Amazon. Until next time, be kind to yourself and keep reflecting.

    25 min
  3. Do You Have the Courage to Close?

    08/12/2025

    Do You Have the Courage to Close?

    Send us a text In this power-packed episode of the Self-Reflection Podcast, Lira welcomes back Jackie Wu, the founder and CEO of Treasure Life's Journey and a renowned sales expert. Building on their previous discussion, Jackie dives deeper into her signature FAQ Formula, a transformative framework designed to help entrepreneurs and professionals secure a "yes" in just one conversation. Jackie shares her incredible journey from closing a $228,000 sale in 30 minutes at Tiffany & Co. to gaining the endorsement of California State Treasurer Fiona Ma in under seven minutes. Jackie breaks down the three essential steps of the FAQ Formula: (F) Find your ideal avatar, (A) Assess their qualification, and (Q) Quick sale close. She explains how this method eliminates the burnout of endless follow-ups and ensures that business owners focus their energy on clients who are ready, willing, and able to invest. Beyond sales tactics, Jackie emphasizes the crucial mindset shift required for success: deeply believing that "I am worth it, and I am worth every penny of it." This episode also explores the unique challenges women face in negotiation and confidence, particularly within cultural contexts that encourage timidity. Jackie offers practical tools, like her color-coded time-blocking strategy for productivity, and shares how finding the right mentors can help navigate the "corporate jungle." Whether you're an entrepreneur, a corporate professional, or simply looking to improve your persuasive communication in relationships, this conversation provides a blueprint for achieving your goals with peace and purpose. Support the show Call to Action: Engage with the Self-Reflection Podcast community! Like, follow, and subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube (Self-Reflection Podcast by Lira Ndifon), and all major podcast platforms. Share your insights and feedback—we value your contributions! Suggest topics you'd like us to explore. Your support amplifies our reach, sharing these vital messages of self-love and empowerment. Until our next conversation, prioritize self-care and embrace your journey. Grab your copy of "Awaken Your True Self" on Amazon. Until next time, be kind to yourself and keep reflecting.

    1 h 25 min
  4. 5 Hidden Blocks to Unshakable Confidence

    02/12/2025

    5 Hidden Blocks to Unshakable Confidence

    Send us a text What if the only thing standing between you and the life you want isn't your ability, but your belief system? We’ve all been there: The moment you want to speak up, but your voice catches. The opportunity you let slip away because you felt "not ready." The constant, nagging feeling that you need to shrink yourself to fit in. In this raw and transformative solo episode, host Lira Ndifon peels back the layers of self-doubt to reveal the five psychological barriers that keep us from showing up in our full power. This isn't your typical "fake it 'til you make it" advice. Lira digs deep into the root causes of insecurity, exploring how our survival instincts, past criticisms, and unhealed inner child wounds create a ceiling on our potential. She shares her own vulnerable journey through depression and identity loss, proving that confidence isn't a personality trait—it's a skill built through healing. In this episode, you will discover: The Survival Trap: Why your brain is wired to fear judgment and how to override the instinct to hide.The Comparison Curse: The crucial difference between admiration and envy, and how to stop measuring your "Chapter 1" against someone else’s "Chapter 20."The Money Myth: Lira exposes the 6th hidden barrier—financial shame. She dismantles the lie that your net worth equals your self-worth and teaches you how to separate your confidence from your bank account.The Alignment Cure: Why true confidence doesn't come from external validation, but from aligning your career and life with your soul’s true purpose.🚀 BIG ANNOUNCEMENT: Are you ready to stop surviving and start thriving? Lira is officially opening the doors to her 1:1 Self-Reflection & Confidence Coaching. If you are ready to do the deep inner work, heal your trauma, and build a life of authentic confidence, listen in to find out how you can work directly with Lira to reprogram your mind and claim your future. This episode is your permission slip to stop shrinking, start trusting yourself, and take up the space you deserve. 🎧 Support the Self-Reflection Podcast: If this episode sparked a breakthrough for you, please help us reach more people who need to hear this message! Subscribe/Follow on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube so you never miss an episode.Leave a 5-Star Review to help us grow our community.Share this episode with a friend who is ready to level up their life.Support the show Call to Action: Engage with the Self-Reflection Podcast community! Like, follow, and subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube (Self-Reflection Podcast by Lira Ndifon), and all major podcast platforms. Share your insights and feedback—we value your contributions! Suggest topics you'd like us to explore. Your support amplifies our reach, sharing these vital messages of self-love and empowerment. Until our next conversation, prioritize self-care and embrace your journey. Grab your copy of "Awaken Your True Self" on Amazon. Until next time, be kind to yourself and keep reflecting.

    30 min
  5. Restoring What Was Lost

    24/11/2025

    Restoring What Was Lost

    Send us a text What happens when you look in the mirror and no longer recognize the survivor staring back at you? For many women recovering from breast cancer, burn injuries, or traumatic accidents, the physical battle may be over, but the emotional war with their own reflection has just begun. In this deeply moving and transformative episode, host Lira Ndifon sits down with Yesenia Nissan, a Bay Area-based Permanent Makeup and Paramedical Tattoo Artist who is redefining the intersection of beauty and mental health. Yesenia takes us into the delicate world of Paramedical Tattooing—a specialized art form used to create realistic 3D areolas and camouflage scars. She shares her pivot from a corporate medical career at Stanford to finding her soul’s calling: using ink to help women reclaim the narrative of their bodies. Yesenia recounts the tearful, pivotal moment she handed a mirror to a cancer survivor who had lost her brows to chemotherapy, witnessing not just a physical change, but a profound "relaxation of the nervous system" as the woman finally saw herself again. But Yesenia’s empathy is born from her own fires. She opens up about her personal journey as a teen mother at 16, navigating the stigmas of single motherhood in the expensive Bay Area, and rebuilding her own shattered confidence through faith and resilience. This is a conversation about more than just skin. You will discover: The Science of Visual Healing: How restoring physical features like the breast can trick the brain into releasing trauma and anxiety.Beyond Vanity: Why seeking aesthetic restoration isn't about hiding; it's about taking control of your story.The Single Mom Hustle: Yesenia’s raw advice on overcoming societal "brokenness" and finding power in motherhood.Faith & Business: How spirituality guides Yesenia’s hands and helps her hold space for her clients' grief and joy.This episode is a beautiful reminder that while we cannot always erase our scars, we have the absolute power to redefine what they mean. 🎧 Support the Self-Reflection Podcast: If this conversation touched your heart or expanded your perspective, please help us grow our community! Subscribe/Follow on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube so you never miss an episode.Leave a 5-Star Review to help others find these healing conversations.Share this episode on your Instagram Stories and tag @Lira_Ndifon—we love to see who is listening!Support the show Call to Action: Engage with the Self-Reflection Podcast community! Like, follow, and subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube (Self-Reflection Podcast by Lira Ndifon), and all major podcast platforms. Share your insights and feedback—we value your contributions! Suggest topics you'd like us to explore. Your support amplifies our reach, sharing these vital messages of self-love and empowerment. Until our next conversation, prioritize self-care and embrace your journey. Grab your copy of "Awaken Your True Self" on Amazon. Until next time, be kind to yourself and keep reflecting.

    1 h 3 min
  6. 11/11/2025

    Can Your Pain Become Your Purpose?

    Send us a text Content Warning: This episode contains an in-depth discussion about suicide, depression, and grief that may be distressing for some listeners. Please listen with care. Host Lira Ndifon opens this powerful episode with an urgent and heartfelt call for awareness, shedding light on the political violence, military brutality, and internet shutdowns currently happening in her home country of Cameroon. From this space of global empathy, Lira sits down with Alicia Rupan, a first-generation American and successful floral designer, for one of the most personal conversations on the podcast to date. Alicia shares the raw and vulnerable story of the tragedy that reshaped her entire life: the loss of her beloved uncle to suicide. This is a must-listen masterclass in navigating profound grief, especially when it’s shrouded in the silence and stigma that often surround suicide in many cultures. Alicia gets radically honest about the "what ifs" and the guilt that haunted her family, and the unique, personal coping mechanisms she used to heal—including keeping her uncle's phone number active for two years just so she could continue to text him. She offers a perspective that will change the way you think about loss, defining grief as "love that just has nowhere to go". This episode is a tender and powerful guide for anyone who has ever felt lost in their grief. You will discover: The Truth About Grief: How to understand your grief as a form of deep love and why you must "ride the wave" instead of running from it.Healing When There Are No Answers: A raw look at the complex emotions that follow a suicide and how to process them without shame.From Pain to Purpose: How Alicia channeled her depression and grief into her floral business, turning her uncle's motto—"It's cool to be kind"—into her brand's identity.Unique Coping Mechanisms: The power of finding your own way to heal, even if it seems unconventional to others (like texting a loved one who has passed).This conversation is a beautiful reminder that you are not alone in your struggle, that healing is not linear, and that our deepest pain can often be the source of our greatest purpose. Find  @sweettea If this episode touched your heart, please share it with someone who might be navigating their own waves of grief. Show your support by liking, following, and subscribing to the Self-Reflection Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, and wherever you listen. Every subscription helps us amplify these vital conversations and build a community where no one has to heal alone. Support the show Call to Action: Engage with the Self-Reflection Podcast community! Like, follow, and subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube (Self-Reflection Podcast by Lira Ndifon), and all major podcast platforms. Share your insights and feedback—we value your contributions! Suggest topics you'd like us to explore. Your support amplifies our reach, sharing these vital messages of self-love and empowerment. Until our next conversation, prioritize self-care and embrace your journey. Grab your copy of "Awaken Your True Self" on Amazon. Until next time, be kind to yourself and keep reflecting.

    1 h 10 min
  7. From Refugee to Top 1% Sales: The FAQ Formula for Success

    03/11/2025

    From Refugee to Top 1% Sales: The FAQ Formula for Success

    Send us a text She escaped a war zone in Vietnam, arrived in America penniless, and barely spoke English. So how did she become a top 1% salesperson at Fortune 500 companies and build her own global business? In this profoundly inspiring and tactical episode, host Lira Ndifon sits down with Jackie Wu, a CEO, keynote speaker, and founder of Treasure Light Journey. Jackie shares the unshakeable mindset and the specific strategies that took her from working low-paying jobs to the pinnacle of corporate success. This isn't just a "work hard" story; it's a masterclass in resilience, mentorship, and building unshakable confidence. Jackie reveals the counter-intuitive advice from her mentors that changed everything, including the one warning that saved her from climbing the wrong ladder: "There is no point of keep climbing the corporate ladder... if when you reach the top... that's not where you want to go". She also unveils her proprietary "FAQ Formula," a 3-step system that helped her close a $228,000 deal in under 30 minutes and can help any entrepreneur convert prospects into clients in one conversation. This is a must-listen for anyone ready to accelerate their success and build true self-confidence. You will discover: How to Find a Mentor: The crucial advice for finding a mentor who has your best interest at heart and the #1 red flag to avoid (a conflict of interest).The "FAQ Formula" Unlocked: A 3-step method to (F)ind your ideal client, (A)ssess their qualification, and (Q)uickly close the sale, eliminating months of follow-up.The 30-Minute, $228K Sale: The mindset and specific strategy behind closing a massive high-ticket deal in a single meeting.From Refugee to 1%: The powerful internal shifts Jackie made to overcome cultural clashes, find her value, and build unstoppable confidence.This conversation is a powerful reminder that your circumstances do not define your destination. It's an activation for anyone ready to stop reinventing the wheel and start building a life of freedom, purpose, and success. If this episode lit a fire in you, please share it with a friend who is building their own dream. Show your support by liking, following, and subscribing to the Self-Reflection Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, and wherever you listen. Every subscription helps us amplify these crucial conversations and build a global community of empowered, reflective leaders. Support the show Call to Action: Engage with the Self-Reflection Podcast community! Like, follow, and subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube (Self-Reflection Podcast by Lira Ndifon), and all major podcast platforms. Share your insights and feedback—we value your contributions! Suggest topics you'd like us to explore. Your support amplifies our reach, sharing these vital messages of self-love and empowerment. Until our next conversation, prioritize self-care and embrace your journey. Grab your copy of "Awaken Your True Self" on Amazon. Until next time, be kind to yourself and keep reflecting.

    1 h 13 min
  8. 27/10/2025

    Building Wealth, Mindset, and a Legacy of Resilience

    Send us a text Can shifting your mindset about money unlock not just financial freedom, but also mental peace? In this deeply inspiring and practical episode, Lira sits down with Shai-dam Akwo, a financial professional consultant and CEO of One-Off Elite, who shares his incredible journey from extreme poverty in Cameroon to building a successful life and business in the United States. Shy's story is a powerful testament to resilience, the drive for a better future, and the critical role financial literacy plays in breaking generational cycles. Shai offers profound insights into the cultural and historical reasons why money remains a taboo subject in many African and Black communities, explaining how societal pressures and a misunderstanding of wealth often lead to financial stress and hinder true progress. He draws a crucial distinction between being rich (making money) and being wealthy (building sustainable financial peace and security that lasts even if you stop working). This conversation is a masterclass in shifting from a survival mindset to a wealth-building one. This episode is packed with actionable advice for anyone ready to take control of their financial future. Shai emphasizes the foundational steps: educating yourself (even through free resources like YouTube and audiobooks), setting massive goals that scare you, disciplined budgeting, finding side hustles, and understanding that building wealth is a long-term journey requiring consistency and patience. He passionately argues that life insurance is the cornerstone of any wealth-building plan, explaining how it protects your most valuable asset—your ability to earn income—against life's uncertainties like critical illness, ensuring your family's stability and peace of mind. Join Lira and Shai for a conversation that bridges finance, mindset, resilience, and mental well-being, offering both inspiration and a practical roadmap to creating a life of security and purpose. Support the show Call to Action: Engage with the Self-Reflection Podcast community! Like, follow, and subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube (Self-Reflection Podcast by Lira Ndifon), and all major podcast platforms. Share your insights and feedback—we value your contributions! Suggest topics you'd like us to explore. Your support amplifies our reach, sharing these vital messages of self-love and empowerment. Until our next conversation, prioritize self-care and embrace your journey. Grab your copy of "Awaken Your True Self" on Amazon. Until next time, be kind to yourself and keep reflecting.

    1 h 47 min

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Self-Reflection Podcast is based on real emotions and feelings. If you are like me, you know sometimes it's hard to put yourself first, stay positive, and be motivated. Self-Reflection Podcast creates room for self-growth and improvement. Our mental health and overall well-being are directly impacted and connected to how we see and value ourselves. Self-Reflection Podcast seeks to motivate, inspire, and encourage individuals to prioritize their mental health.  SELF-REFLECTION PODCAST TACKLE TOPICS ON MENTAL HEALTH AND SOME OF THE MOST POIGNANT ISSUES FACING OUR COMMUNITIES AND THE WORLD.  Join us on our journey to reconnecting with our higher self as we explore the Matrix@Lira_Ndifon