Single and Not Settling

Vanessa Maree
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Welcome to Single and Not Settling, the podcast for women becoming unavailable for low effort men, low standards and lives that don't feel aligned. I'm Vanessa Maree and I'm here to remind you that being single isn't a waiting room for your life to begin. Through my dating stories (shared with plenty of humour!), personal development and spirituality, we'll explore self-trust, standards, relationships and protecting your peace. Because choosing yourself is never settling. So grab your favourite beverage and settle in. We're not waiting to be chosen here—we're choosing ourselves.

  1. 6 juil.

    56. The Skill Every Single Woman Needs!

    What if the biggest thing holding you back in dating isn't finding the right person... but trusting yourself? After sharing the story of "Mr Singapore" in last week's episode, I realised there was a deeper conversation to have. One that goes beyond dating and into the relationship we have with ourselves. Self-trust isn't something we're born with. It's something we build. But what happens when life experiences, criticism, or constantly second guessing yourself have made it difficult to believe in your own decisions? In this episode, I'm exploring why so many women struggle to trust themselves, how that shows up in dating and everyday life, and practical ways to start rebuilding that trust—one small promise at a time. We'll also dive into some reflective questions to help you uncover where your self doubt may have begun, so you can move forward with greater confidence and clarity. In this episode, we discuss: Why self-trust is one of the most valuable skills you can develop.How childhood experiences and past relationships can shape your decision-making.The difference between intuition and overthinking.Practical ways to build self-trust through everyday actions.Why keeping promises to yourself creates confidence and momentum.How trusting yourself can change the way you date, set boundaries and make decisions.Because the goal isn't to become someone who never questions herself. It's to become a woman who trusts herself enough to move forward anyway. If this episode resonates with you, I'd love for you to leave a review, share it with a friend, or tag me on Instagram. Your support helps more women discover the podcast and reminds them that being single isn't a waiting room—it's an opportunity to build a life you truly love! Connect with Vanessa Maree and share your favourite takeaway from this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@vanessamaree_wingwoman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the podcast page ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@singleandnotsettling.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For collaborations or interviews email hello@vanessamaree.co - I love would love to hear from you! Download a copy of the FREE eBook "The Empowered Single Woman" ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to transform your beliefs about dating and find the love you deserve.

  2. 22 juin

    55. The Lie We Tell Ourselves About Casual Dating

    One thing I found myself questioning is the advice we often hear around casual dating. The idea that because it's casual, you shouldn't expect much.  I am challenging that in this episode. In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of a recent interaction I had with “Mr Singapore” (if you follow me on social media you will know), including the actual text messages exchanged between us, what I noticed, how I felt, and the final message I sent when I realised the connection was no longer aligned with the standards I have for myself. This episode isn't about him. It's about self-respect. It's about standards. And it's about questioning the dating advice so many women have been taught to accept. In this episode, I explore what it looks like to honour yourself, communicate your needs, and choose your standards—even when there is chemistry, attraction, and potential. Inside this episode: ✨The full story of "Mr Singapore". ✨The final message I sent expressing how I felt and what I require in my relationships. ✨Why consistency and consideration have become non-negotiable standards for me. ✨ The difference between being understanding and abandoning yourself. ✨ Challenging the narrative that women should expect less simply because a connection is "casual". ✨ Why self-respect matters regardless of the label on the relationship. This episode is for any woman who has ever questioned whether her standards are too high, worried she was asking for too much, or tried to convince herself that breadcrumbs were enough because the connection wasn't "serious." And the right connection will never require you to abandon your needs to keep it. Connect with Vanessa Maree and share your favourite takeaway from this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@vanessamaree_wingwoman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the podcast page ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@singleandnotsettling.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For collaborations or interviews email hello@vanessamaree.co - I love would love to hear from you! Download a copy of the FREE eBook "The Empowered Single Woman" ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to transform your beliefs about dating and find the love you deserve.

  3. 8 juin

    54. Keep Your Options Open! The Four Man Plan with Claire Elizabeth Dea

    ..."Don't place all your eggs in one basket!" In this motivating interview, Vanessa Maree sits with Clare Elizabeth Dea as she shares her journey of transforming her shame into power, her unique approach to dating through the four-man plan, and the importance of authenticity, solid friendships and following your dreams for women seeking fulfilling relationships. In this episode, we discuss: What Poland Syndrome is and how Clare spent years hiding this part of herself.The surprising dating patterns and men Clare attracted when she was hiding parts of herself. The question every single woman should ask herself if she wants to attract a healthy relationship.The famous "4 Man Plan" and why dating multiple people can help women stop fixating on one man too early.Dating as a spiritual practice rather than a performance.How understanding your friends' values, needs and love languages can create stronger connections.Together, we explore how shame can shape our relationships, dating experiences, friendships, confidence and the way we show up in the world. More on Clare! Clare Elizabeth Dea has claimed the stage as a performance artist, keynote speaker, workshop facilitator and author, inspiring women to transform shame into power. Her memoir Shame To Shine is a #1 best seller on Amazon in multiple categories.  Featured on mainstream media, various publications, and social media platforms, Clare is celebrated for creating spaces where women truly connect, collaborate, and shine their brightest together. Clare is available for MC, speaking and singing opportunities. If her story resonates with you, be sure to connect with her on social media and slide into her DMs! Connect with Clare on Instagram here: @clareelizabeth_dea or check out her website www.clareelizabethdea.com Connect with Vanessa Maree and share your fav takeaway from this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@vanessamaree_wingwoman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the podcast page ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@singleandnotsettling.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For collaborations or interviews email hello@vanessamaree.co - I love would love to hear from you! Download a copy of the FREE eBook "The Empowered Single Woman" ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to transform your beliefs about dating and find the love you deserve.

  4. 25 mai

    53. Your Permission Slip to Stop Settling for Low Effort Men!

    Breadcrumbs should give you the ICK!! In this episode, I open up about the evolution of Single and Not Settling and the deeper direction this space is moving towards. I share why I feel called to help women build self-worth, emotional safety, confidence and standards that naturally make low effort behaviour unattractive. This conversation is for women who are exhausted by mixed signals, breadcrumbs and modern dating dynamics that leave them disconnected from themselves. Inside this episode: * Why traditional dating advice no longer resonates. * The emotional gap many women are feeling in modern dating. * Healing the part of ourselves attracted to inconsistency. * Why breadcrumbs and low effort should naturally turn you off. * Why healing can actually make dating feel harder. * Creating a life rooted in peace, alignment and self-respect. This episode is the beginning of a new chapter for Single and Not Settling — one focused less on “how to get chosen” and more on becoming deeply connected to yourself. Because the goal isn’t just finding love. It’s never losing yourself in the process. Connect with Vanessa Maree and share your fav takeaway from this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@vanessamaree_wingwoman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the podcast page ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@singleandnotsettling.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For collaborations or interviews email hello@vanessamaree.co - I love would love to hear from you! Download a copy of the FREE eBook "The Empowered Single Woman" ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to transform your beliefs about dating and find the love you deserve.

  5. 11 mai

    52. Finance Hacks & Tips for Single Women with Laura Symmonds

    Ready to feel empowered about your finances? In this conversation, I sit down with a Conscious CFO, FCPA and Holistic Executive Coach, Laura Symmonds to talk about something that impacts so many single women right now — money, independence, and learning to take control of your finances without fear or shame. This episode is not about panic. It’s about empowerment, confidence, and creating safety within yourself. If you’ve ever avoided looking at your bank account, felt overwhelmed by the rising cost of living, or wondered how to build financial confidence on one income… this conversation is for you. Why financial pressure can feel heavier for single women.The emotional side of money and avoiding your numbers.How to shift from fear and overwhelm into empowerment.The importance of understanding your income and expenses.Why financial independence is a form of self-trust.Multiple income streams and creating more security for yourself. Reframing budgeting as freedom instead of restriction.No one is coming to save you financially — and that isn’t something to fear. It’s an invitation to trust yourself, build confidence, and become the woman who takes control of her future. This episode is full of practical advice, grounded wisdom, and empowering reminders that you are more capable than you think. If this episode resonated with you, share it with another woman who needs this conversation right now. Resources mentioned in this episode: Budgeting templates and money saving tips: https://moneysmart.gov.au/ More information on Index Funds: Don't Stress, Just Invest by Bryce Leske and Alec RenehanEnergy and Money: Love Money, Money Loves You by Sarah McCrumConnect with Laura Symmonds on social media. Connect with Vanessa Maree and share your fav takeaway from this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@vanessamaree_wingwoman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the podcast page ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@singleandnotsettling.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For collaborations or interviews email hello@vanessamaree.co - I love would love to hear from you! Download a copy of the FREE eBook "The Empowered Single Woman" ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to transform your beliefs about dating and find the love you deserve.

  6. 27 avr.

    51. The New Vision for Single & Not Settling and the Shadow Side of Recognition

    In this episode, I reflect on a recent speaking opportunity with Fuck Up Nights Melbourne and the deeper layers that have unfolded since stepping into more visibility.  I share the intention behind Single & Not Settling the greater vision moving forward, the message I brought to the stage, and the reality of what happens when you continue to uplevel. Listen to hear: - A THANK YOU to this community for your support and messages. - My recent speaking experience and the message behind Single & Not Settling. Why I created this platform and the conversations I felt were missing. - The shadow side of uplevelling and navigating through emotions arising. - Navigating visibility, recognition, and emotional boundaries. - How this experience is deepening my mission and impact for single women! “Uplevelling isn’t just about who you become… it’s about what you’re willing to release to get there.” If you’re in a season of growth, this one’s for you. Connect with Vanessa Maree and share your fav takeaway from this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@vanessamaree_wingwoman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the podcast page ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@singleandnotsettling.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For collaborations or interviews email hello@vanessamaree.co - I love would love to hear from you! Download a copy of the FREE eBook "The Empowered Single Woman" ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠ to transform your beliefs about dating and find the love you deserve.

  7. 13 avr.

    50. Clearing HPV. Breaking the Stigma on Women's Health

    This episode feels incredibly special… not just because it’sEpisode 50, but because I’m opening up about something deeply personal that I know so many women silently experience. Today, I’m sharing my journey with HPV. Did you know that around 80% of women will have HPV at some point in their lives? Yet, it’s something that carries so much shame, confusion, and silence, simply because it’s linked to sex. In this episode, I’m here to change that narrative. I talk openly about: - The emotional impact of being diagnosed and navigating the stigma. - Why "just wait 12 months" didn't feel aligned for me and learning to trust my intuition. - The steps I took to support my body in clearing the virus naturally. - The deeper connection between emotional wellbeing, stored energy in the body (especially around the hips and pelvic area). - How I shifted from fear into empowerment. This isn’t about rejecting medical advice—it’s aboutadvocating for yourself, tuning into your body, and exploring a more holistic approach alongside professional guidance. I also share the resources, workshops, and podcasts thatsupported me along the way—because you don’t have to navigate this alone. If you’re currently going through something similar, oryou’ve ever felt shame around your body or your health… this episode is for you. You are not alone.Your body is not broken.And healing is possible. This conversation is about reclaiming your power, your voice, and your trust in yourself. Thank you for being here with me for 50 episodes.   This one means everything   Disclaimer:The information shared in this episode is for educational and informational purposes only and is based on my personal experience. I am not a medical professional, and this content is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any condition. It should not be used as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the guidance of a qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding your health or a medical condition. Links mentioned in this episode: Dr Doni Wilson - Free Workshops and educational podcast episodes. The Medicin - Mimi Lindquist and Dr Nathan Riley Connect with Vanessa Maree and share your takeaway from this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@vanessamaree_wingwoman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the podcast page ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@singleandnotsettling.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For collaborations or interviews email hello@vanessamaree.co - I love would love to hear from you! Download a copy of the FREE eBook "The Empowered Single Woman" ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ to transform your beliefs about dating and find the love you deserve.

  8. 30 mars

    49. Why It’s So Hard for Single People Right Now… (And I’m Not Talking About Dating)

    The cost of living is rising… and for single people, it hits differently. In this honest and heartfelt episode, I open up a conversation that isn’t being spoken about enough — the emotional and financial weight of navigating life on your own in today’s climate. This isn’t about dating. This is about responsibility, resilience, and the reality of having one income, one decision-maker, and no one else to fall back on financially. Through a grounded meditation, real talk, and practical financial tips, this episode is here to support you in moving from fear and overwhelm… into clarity, empowerment, and self-trust. We cover: The impact of rising living costs on single people.The reality of managing finances on one income.Reframing independence as empowerment.Practical tips for single women right now!What it really means to be an empowered single woman.You may be doing this on your own… but you are not powerless. This season is calling you to take ownership, trust yourself deeply, and become the woman who creates her own safety, stability, and success. Resources mentioned in the episode: You are a Bad Ass at Making Money by Jen Sincero A Happy Pocket Full of Money by David Cameron Gikandi She's On the Money Connect with Vanessa Maree and share your takeaway from this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@vanessamaree_wingwoman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the podcast page ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@singleandnotsettling.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For collaborations or interviews email hello@vanessamaree.co - I love would love to hear from you! Download a copy of the FREE eBook "The Empowered Single Woman" ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ to transform your beliefs about dating and find the love you deserve.

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À propos

Welcome to Single and Not Settling, the podcast for women becoming unavailable for low effort men, low standards and lives that don't feel aligned. I'm Vanessa Maree and I'm here to remind you that being single isn't a waiting room for your life to begin. Through my dating stories (shared with plenty of humour!), personal development and spirituality, we'll explore self-trust, standards, relationships and protecting your peace. Because choosing yourself is never settling. So grab your favourite beverage and settle in. We're not waiting to be chosen here—we're choosing ourselves.

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  • Création
    Vanessa Maree
  • Années d’activité
    2022 - 2026
  • Épisodes
    57
  • Classification
    Contenu explicite
  • Copyright
    © Vanessa Maree
  • Site web de l’émission
    Single and Not Settling

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