And What Else?

Wendy O'Beirne (The Completion Coach)
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Welcome to 'And What Else?', your source for thoughtful and meaningful conversations about personal and professional growth. Host Wendy O'Beirne is an internationally recognised coach and consultant with a passion for exploring the layers of topics surrounding self-development. Together, we'll dig beneath the surface of subjects, stories, and possible solutions to uncover new perspectives we may not have seen before. With curiosity and open minds, let's embark on an adventure of self-discovery and uncover the possibilities of 'and what else'.  Stay Curious!

  1. 13 MAY

    Why A Former Journalist Read A Thousand Self-Help Books

    Send us Fan Mail Your job title can feel like armour, right up until it disappears and you’re left asking a scary question: who am I without it? We sit down with Toni, a bibliotherapist and founder of the Shelf Help book club, to talk about burnout, identity, and the moment self-help stops being something you roll your eyes at and becomes something you genuinely need. Toni shares how years in high-pressure tabloid journalism fuelled a relentless pace, and how stepping away brought an unexpected crash in confidence and self-worth. From her first self-help read at 38 to building an online community that discusses personal development books and interviews authors, she's learned that the goal is not “fixing yourself”. It’s getting to know yourself, building self-compassion, and making choices with intention rather than habit. We also dig into the structure behind his pocket-sized book, You, The Beginner’s Guide: looking back at what shaped you, looking forward at who you’re becoming, then supporting your present with habits, routines, rituals, and boundaries. Along the way, we explore three powerful quotes that anchor the work, the hidden cost of hyper-independence, and why doing this in community can change everything, including how your nervous system feels day to day. If you enjoy honest conversations about self-help, bibliotherapy, burnout recovery, and building a healthier relationship with yourself, press play. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs a gentler start, and leave us a review so more people can find the show. Order Toni's book https://www.poundproject.co.uk/you If you've enjoyed this episode, please leave me a review and subscribe! And if you want to learn more from me, come and say hello on Instagram @thecompletioncoach or via email at wendy@thecompletioncoach.co.uk or find out more about working with me on my website, thecompletioncoach.co.uk.

    46 min

  2. 05/08/2025

    Unlearning the Burden Mindset

    Send us Fan Mail This episode explores how the hidden belief that we are a burden impacts our behaviour, causing us to hide our struggles while absorbing others' problems. Wendy invites listeners to consider how thoughts and behaviours would change if we didn't believe ourselves to be burdensome, highlighting the value of revisiting self-reflection questions throughout our personal development journey. • Examining the pattern of hiding our own burdens while absorbing others' problems • Understanding the underlying belief "I am a burden" and its behavioural manifestations • Recognising that valuable self-reflection questions reveal new layers each time we revisit them • Challenging the idea that we need constantly new "advanced" personal development techniques • Exploring why many people frame asking questions as creating conflict • Identifying how past experiences create emotional reactions when we ask questions or make requests I would love to hear your responses to these prompts. Whether you drop me an email at wendy@thecompletioncoach.co.uk or DM me on Instagram @thecompletioncoach, I'd love to hear what this stirred in you. If you think it might be helpful for somebody else to hear, please do forward it on. If you've enjoyed this episode, please leave me a review and subscribe! And if you want to learn more from me, come and say hello on Instagram @thecompletioncoach or via email at wendy@thecompletioncoach.co.uk or find out more about working with me on my website, thecompletioncoach.co.uk.

    10 min

  3. 29/07/2025

    The Handbrake of Hesitation: Why We Talk Instead of Act

    Send us Fan Mail We explore the disconnect between what we say we want and the actions we actually take, examining how our subconscious beliefs and emotions often sabotage our stated intentions. • Reflecting on your goals from the start of the year and whether your actions align with them • Noticing when something gets a lot of "airtime" in your thoughts but little real action • Understanding how our nervous system creates emotional responses that don't match the logical situation • Identifying the hidden stories and meanings we attach to potential changes • Recognizing our tendency to feel excessive responsibility for how others might be impacted by our choices • Building nervous system agility by witnessing emotional responses without being controlled by them • Moving forward despite discomfort rather than waiting for discomfort to disappear • Expanding your capacity by keeping promises to yourself and allowing yourself to want what you truly want If there's an area in your life where you keep setting goals but not taking action, I invite you to explore the beliefs and stories underneath. Let me know how you get on by DMing me at thecompletioncoach on Instagram. If you've enjoyed this episode, please leave me a review and subscribe! And if you want to learn more from me, come and say hello on Instagram @thecompletioncoach or via email at wendy@thecompletioncoach.co.uk or find out more about working with me on my website, thecompletioncoach.co.uk.

    10 min

  4. 15/07/2025

    Breaking Free from Past Shadows and Future Fears = LIVING

    Send us Fan Mail We often take our existence for granted, getting caught up in fears about the past and future instead of enjoying the present moment. Learning to be truly present means recognizing that very few things drag us away from the now except our own thoughts. • Presence isn't just being physically in a room but mentally being in the now • Overthinking is trying to read the future while dwelling drags the past with us • We can learn from the past through trust, not by shielding or forcing • Ask yourself: if tomorrow was your last day, would you say you truly lived? • Living differently is what healing is about - making changes rather than repeating patterns • Approximately 90% of our problems are just our thoughts about how serious something is • Nothing is as serious as we make it out to be - even the serious stuff If you think this episode would be helpful, forward it to someone who might need to hear it today. You can DM me at thecompletioncoach or email wendy@thecompletioncoach.co.uk If you've enjoyed this episode, please leave me a review and subscribe! And if you want to learn more from me, come and say hello on Instagram @thecompletioncoach or via email at wendy@thecompletioncoach.co.uk or find out more about working with me on my website, thecompletioncoach.co.uk.

    10 min

  5. 01/07/2025

    Breathe, Smile, Slow Down: A Curiosity Meditation

    Send us Fan Mail This guided meditation explores why some people avoid rest due to unconscious fears about collapse rather than concerns about productivity. We investigate both internal fears of personal collapse and external fears about what might happen if we stop micromanaging our lives. • Get comfortable in an upright position to avoid falling asleep during the meditation • Take genuine deep breaths unlike the shallow ones we take while rushing through tasks • Approach the meditation with curiosity rather than expectations • Visualize yourself truly resting without collapse • Picture everything around you thriving even while you rest deeply • Consider slowing down by just 2-5% in various aspects of your life • Practice the affirmation "it is safe to be me" to reinforce safety in rest • Notice what happens when you don't immediately rush after the meditation ends If you think somebody might benefit from this meditation, please forward it on, and I'll speak to you again next week. If you've enjoyed this episode, please leave me a review and subscribe! And if you want to learn more from me, come and say hello on Instagram @thecompletioncoach or via email at wendy@thecompletioncoach.co.uk or find out more about working with me on my website, thecompletioncoach.co.uk.

    20 min

  6. 24/06/2025

    Why Self-Trust Requires Self-Honesty

    Send us Fan Mail We've become obsessed with external data, outsourcing our self-awareness to technology and social media while ignoring our internal wisdom about what we truly need. • Tracking sleep, recovery, heart rate and social media metrics has replaced our connection to how we actually feel • The wellness industry thrives on polarizing, black-and-white viewpoints that provide simple answers to complex questions • Self-honesty isn't glamorous but it's necessary—we all know when we're making excuses or avoiding what matters • You can't truly trust yourself while simultaneously knowing you're "full of shit" in certain areas of your life • Stop investigating why you can't do something and start figuring out how you can • Break cycles of self-deception by asking: "Am I being honest or giving myself permission to fail quietly?" • Navigate your internal landscape with curiosity rather than judgment • Acknowledge your capacity to change and take small, gentle steps forward If you've enjoyed this episode, please leave me a review and subscribe! And if you want to learn more from me, come and say hello on Instagram @thecompletioncoach or via email at wendy@thecompletioncoach.co.uk or find out more about working with me on my website, thecompletioncoach.co.uk.

    19 min

  7. 17/06/2025

    Exploring the Internal Collapse: Why Rest Feels Dangerous

    Send us Fan Mail When we struggle with rest, it's often not because we don't think we deserve it, but because we fear what might happen in the stillness. This fear of "internal collapse" comes from associating rest with losing control and experiencing chaos. • Quotes about deserving rest miss the mark for high-functioning people • Many associate rest with letting their guard down and losing control • The body provides data when we try to rest - tiredness or resistance • Rest feels unsafe because of past experiences where relaxing led to problems • Questions to ask yourself: what do I think will collapse if I rest? • What am I trying to contain by staying busy? • High-functioning anxiety is kept at bay through over-functioning • People fear that without constant activity, something will unravel • Many worry they won't recover if they actually allow themselves to collapse • Consider where you over-function and what you're truly afraid of underneath If you think this would be of interest to somebody else, please forward it on. You can drop me an email at wendy@thecompletioncoach.co.uk or send me a DM with your thoughts. If you've enjoyed this episode, please leave me a review and subscribe! And if you want to learn more from me, come and say hello on Instagram @thecompletioncoach or via email at wendy@thecompletioncoach.co.uk or find out more about working with me on my website, thecompletioncoach.co.uk.

    12 min

  8. 03/06/2025

    Words That Shape Us

    Send us Fan Mail Our language carries deep meaning that affects how we think, feel, and navigate life. The words we choose create our reality in profound ways that often go unnoticed until we pay careful attention. • Moving from "resilience" to "agility" shifts us from rigid toughness to flexible movement • Resilience implies weathering storms and surviving; agility suggests finding paths forward • Most people only talk about resilience during struggles, not during success • Emotional and cognitive agility allows us to navigate all experiences with greater ease • "Surrender" isn't about giving up but about releasing rigid expectations while staying committed • The words "force," "commitment," and "surrender" evoke different feelings in our bodies • Our language, thoughts, feelings, and nervous system are all interconnected • Being intentional with language can free us from limiting patterns Reach out to me at wendy@thecompletioncoach.co.uk or message me on Instagram @thecompletioncoach. If you found this useful, please forward it to someone who might benefit and leave a review. If you've enjoyed this episode, please leave me a review and subscribe! And if you want to learn more from me, come and say hello on Instagram @thecompletioncoach or via email at wendy@thecompletioncoach.co.uk or find out more about working with me on my website, thecompletioncoach.co.uk.

    10 min
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Welcome to 'And What Else?', your source for thoughtful and meaningful conversations about personal and professional growth. Host Wendy O'Beirne is an internationally recognised coach and consultant with a passion for exploring the layers of topics surrounding self-development. Together, we'll dig beneath the surface of subjects, stories, and possible solutions to uncover new perspectives we may not have seen before. With curiosity and open minds, let's embark on an adventure of self-discovery and uncover the possibilities of 'and what else'.  Stay Curious!

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  • Creator
    Wendy O'Beirne (The Completion Coach)
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    95
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    Explicit
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