AskYourselfWhyNot

Ask Yourself, Why Not ?
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Ask Yourself Why Not is a feel-good personal growth podcast where two friends share what they're learning from self-help books, podcasts, and their community and talk through how it actually shows up in real life. Hosted by Shaye and Jayla, AYWN is rooted in a Why Not mindset choosing curiosity over pressure, honesty over perfection, and small, supportive shifts over trying to fix yourself. This is a space for real conversations, everyday wisdom, and reminders that you're allowed to grow gently and in your own time. Come as you are. Stay as long as you need.

  1. 3 days ago

    Why Is Changing Yourself So Freaking Hard?

    Summary Jayla and Shaye explore the challenges of changing habits, the programming of our beliefs, and how environment influences transformation. They share personal stories, insights from experts, and practical tips for embracing change and living authentically. Keywords habit change, behavior, transformation, environment, mindset, self-improvement, programming, confidence, fear, growth  Key  topics The difficulty of changing habits due to deep programming The role of environment and surroundings in supporting change The importance of self-compassion and giving oneself grace during transformation The impact of belief systems and labels on behavior Strategies for building confidence and reducing fear in new endeavors The concept of attachment to self-improvement and analysis paralysis The influence of social environment and community on growth Practical tips for embracing change and living authentically Takeaways Change is hard because it requires reprogramming deeply ingrained beliefs. Surrounding yourself with supportive environments and people accelerates transformation. Giving yourself grace and empathy is crucial during the change process. Belief systems and labels can limit or support your growth. Confidence grows as fear diminishes through evidence and experience. Attachment to self-improvement can become a barrier to living fully. Seeking out environments with like-minded people fosters growth. Progress involves giving up parts of your old identity and story.  sound bites 00:00 Introduction and personal updates 347:12:23 Shopping, fashion, and fall vibes 6305:32:29 Online estate sales and vintage finds 9999:59:15 Weekend trip to Canton and soccer tournament 14944:26:08 Chile's fruits and avocados 16527:46:11 Introduction to Carol Meese and behavioral change 18666:39:36 The programming of beliefs from childhood 20083:19:38 The challenge of transforming deeply ingrained habits 21527:46:20 The importance of environment and surrounding support 23722:13:02 The power of community and big picture thinking 24916:39:44 Next steps for personal growth and podcast expansion 26444:26:27 Transformation requires giving up parts of your identity 28083:19:48 Supporting children in healthy habits and choices 29999:59:50 The role of social environment in change 31555:33:10 The difficulty and necessity of giving oneself grace 33166:39:51 The danger of attachment to self-improvement 34777:46:34 Living and trusting your inner instincts 36333:19:55 Building confidence through evidence and experience 38694:26:38 Seeking out environments with like-minded people 40277:46:40 Closing thoughts and encouragement to embrace change

    Why Is Changing Yourself So Freaking Hard?

  2. 3 Sept

    So… Here's What's Happening With Us.

    content  type Solo  primary  goal Discussion  summary In this episode, Jayla and Shay share personal updates, discuss fitness journeys, real estate ambitions, and reflect on inspiring stories about staying true to oneself and making bold decisions.  keywords self-improvement, fitness, real estate, motivation, decision-making, personal growth, Dolly Parton, Arnold Schwarzenegger, podcasting, community  key  topics The importance of conviction and having no backup plan Balancing family, work, and personal growth during summer Fitness journey and shifting to low-impact workouts Real estate licensing and opening a new studio The significance of community, culture, and environment Inspirational stories of Dolly Parton and Arnold Schwarzenegger The impact of making bold decisions and staying true to oneself Handling safety concerns around school zones and community activism The value of taking breaks and consuming content mindfully Future plans for the podcast studio and community events  sound bites "Stay true to you and make the hard decision" "All I ever wanted was to be a star and famous" "Freaking no to Elvis Presley" Chapters 00:00 Introduction and podcast return 01:57 Summer challenges and managing family and work 04:01 Fitness journey and shifting to low-impact workouts 09:07 Real estate licensing and opening a new studio 15:00 Studio branding, location, and community plans 19:50 Inspiring stories of Dolly Parton and Arnold Schwarzenegger 25:03 Community safety concerns and activism 29:56 Reflections on content consumption and personal growth 34:52 Lessons from Dolly and Arnold about conviction and decision-making 37:02 Closing remarks and future podcast plans

    So… Here's What's Happening With Us.

  3. 31 Jul ·  Video

    Respectfully... Your Self-Talk Needs an Upgrade.

    Summary Join Jayla and Shaye as they explore the power of positive self-talk, mindset shifts, and practical tips for living a more abundant and joyful life. They share personal stories, affirmations, and insights to help you reprogram your mind for success. Keywords mindset, affirmations, abundance, self-talk, personal growth, positivity, mental health, motivation, podcast Key  topics The impact of self-talk on mindset Reprogramming the subconscious mind Affirmations for abundance and success Overcoming scarcity mindset Practical tips for positive thinking Takeaways Your words shape your reality—choose them wisely. Repetition of positive affirmations can transform your life. Awareness of negative self-talk is the first step to change. Practicing gratitude and positivity attracts abundance. Small mindset shifts can lead to big life changes.  Sound bites "Your subconscious mind controls you." "Money flows to me with ease." "Make your thoughts a positive force." Chapters 00:00 Introduction and walk in the park 319:25:24 Discussing travel and upcoming retreats 5416:38:49 Talking about studio progress and plans 13333:19:18 The importance of mindset and inner dialogue 16444:26:04 The power of affirmations and reprogramming 25055:32:55 Overcoming scarcity mindset and money beliefs 32944:26:27 Practical tips for positive thinking and living 36916:39:56 Wrapping up with affirmations and mindset reminders

    Respectfully... Your Self-Talk Needs an Upgrade.

  4. 23 Jul

    Someone Left With a Tattoo...

    EmpowerFest is over, our feet still hurt, we're emotionally attached to everyone we met, and somehow a few left with a new tattoo. Normal Saturday behavior. This week we're spilling everything—from the behind-the-scenes chaos that no one saw, to the last-minute "we'll figure it out" moments, to why community always seems to show up exactly when you need it. We also talk about: Why getting a tattoo or piercing at a wellness event somehow made perfect sense. The local women-owned businesses that absolutely crushed it. The volunteers, kids, sponsors, and friends who became the real MVPs. Jayla's new wellness space. What we'd totally do differently next year... and what we'll never change. Here's the thing: EmpowerFest was never just about facials, shopping, or wellness. It's about creating a space where women walk in as strangers and leave feeling like they found their people. We laughed. We stressed. We pivoted approximately 4,000 times. We questioned our life choices around 7 a.m. setup. And we'd do it all over again. Because eventually... your sail opens. So grab your coffee, take us on your hot girl walk, clean your kitchen, or avoid folding your laundry for another hour—we're recapping one of our favorite days of the year. Thanks for being part of this little community we've built. We don't take it for granted. Love you. Mean it.

    Someone Left With a Tattoo...

  5. 11 Jun

    What If the Next Version of You Starts With a Why Not? Come take a walk with us!

    Summary Join Jayla Robinson and Shaye Pentino  as they explore the benefits of functional health, new fitness experiences, and personal growth strategies. This episode offers insights into preventive medicine, trying new activities, and embracing a feminine approach to business and life.  keywords functional medicine, preventive health, yoga, personal growth, wellness, empowerment, business strategy, intuition, empowerment festival Key  topics Functional health and preventive medicine Unique yoga experiences and challenges The role of intuition and spirit guides in life Building a wellness-focused community event Strategies for embracing feminine approaches in business Titles Unlocking Preventive Health with Functional Medicine Trying New Fitness: A Yoga Experience and More  sound bites "Why not ask yourself why not?" "Yoga is very challenging and mental." "Be open to unexpected paths in life." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Walking Concept 02:39 Exploring Functional Health and Preventative Medicine 05:28 Yoga Experiences and Personal Growth 08:18 Building a New Studio and Overcoming Doubts 11:13 Setting Objectives vs. Goals in Business 13:55 EmpowerFest Wheeling and Community Engagement Resources Dr. Mark Hyman - Functional Medicine - https://www.instagram.com/drmarkhyman/ EmpowerFest Wheeling Tix

  6. 4 Jun

    Build Your Own Wellness Day: Inside EmpowerFest Wheeling 2026

    Summary Join us as we explore the upcoming EmpowerFest Wheeling, a build-your-own day event filled with vendors, experience stations, and wellness activities. Discover how this event offers personalized health, beauty, and wellness services, and learn about the diverse range of vendors and experiences that make EmpowerFest Wheeling unique. Keywords Empower Fest, wellness event, health and beauty vendors, experience stations, personalized services, community event, holistic health, self-care, local vendors, wellness activities Key Topics EmpowerFest  Wheeling event overview Vendor and experience station highlights Personalized health and beauty services Community and networking opportunities Titles EmpowerFest Wheeling  2026: Build Your Own Wellness Day Discover the Top Vendors at Empower Fest 2026  Sound bites "Early mornings give me good energy." "Build your own day, your way." "Healing and wellness start here." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Ask Yourself Why Not Podcast 02:52 Empower Fest Overview and Highlights 05:24 Vendors and Experience Stations at Empower Fest 10:46 Wellness and Beauty Services Offered 16:27 Unique Vendors and Their Offerings 20:58 Conclusion and Event Details Resources EmpowerFest Tix

  7. 14 May

    Are We Delusional or Just Influenced?

    summary Jayla and Shaye explore the humorous side of how we romanticize and delude ourselves with trends, supplements, and life expectations, reflecting on personal experiences and societal influences. keywords self-delusion, trends, wellness, supplements, life expectations, humor, personal growth, societal influence key topics Self-delusion and societal trends Humorous reflection on wellness and beauty trends Impact of social media on self-perception guest name  Titles Are We Delusional or Romanticizing Our Lives? The Funny Side of Wellness Trends and Self-Delusion sound bites "We are fully participating in the protein trend." "I've bought into every supplement, every trend." "We're romanticizing our lives in our 20s." Chapters 00:00 Empower Fest Launch and Updates 02:55 Delusions vs. Romanticizing Life 05:32 Health Trends and Supplements 08:26 Reflections on Youthful Delusions 11:33 Life Changes and Realizations 14:11 Nostalgic Beauty Trends 17:07 Embracing Delusion in Life Planning

  8. 23 Apr

    Your Routine Might Be Running You—Let's Fix That

    In this episode, Shaye and Jayla dive into the importance of regularly checking in with your routines to ensure they serve your well-being and happiness. They share practical tips on how to identify habits that may no longer benefit you and ways to make intentional changes for a more fulfilled life. Key Topics: The significance of adapting routines as life evolves Recognizing unhelpful habits and habits that no longer serve you Practical ways to reset during everyday transitions (like in line or while commuting) The role of dopamine and how to get it from healthy, meaningful sources Spring cleaning your mental space and physical environment for mental clarity The importance of connection and intentionality in daily life Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to the episode and upcoming Empower Fest event 00:58 - Details about Empower Fest Wheeling on June 27th 02:07 - How to get involved as a vendor, sponsor, or experience station 03:04 - Tips for event sponsorships and ideas like signature drinks or swag 04:30 - The theme of the episode: checking in with routines to see if they still serve us 05:28 - How routines evolve and the importance of adapting them 06:23 - Mindful coffee drinking and managing caffeine intake 07:14 - Using lunch and breaks more intentionally 08:35 - Being present during car rides and waiting in lines, disconnecting from phones 09:54 - Transition moments and how they affect stress levels and productivity 10:20 - Moving through the day without energy or mental space 11:46 - The thriving need for dopamine and avoiding instant gratification 13:00 - The brain's craving for dopamine and healthy ways to meet that need 13:58 - Connection, real food, and physical movement as sources of dopamine 14:27 - Spring cleaning for your mind and environment 15:27 - Over-scheduling and reconnecting with loved ones and yourself 15:54 - Closing encouragement to tune into what benefits your well-being Resources & Links: Mark Hyman - Brain and Dopamine (search: "Mark Hyman" on Amazon for related books) Kroger 80 Acre Salad (search your local Kroger for availability) Connect with Shaye & Jayla: Instagram Facebook

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Ask Yourself Why Not is a feel-good personal growth podcast where two friends share what they're learning from self-help books, podcasts, and their community and talk through how it actually shows up in real life. Hosted by Shaye and Jayla, AYWN is rooted in a Why Not mindset choosing curiosity over pressure, honesty over perfection, and small, supportive shifts over trying to fix yourself. This is a space for real conversations, everyday wisdom, and reminders that you're allowed to grow gently and in your own time. Come as you are. Stay as long as you need.

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  • Creator
    Ask Yourself, Why Not ?
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    235
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    Explicit
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