45 episodes

Through a series of interviews, this podcast lets you explore the different ways queer folx are living, fucking and loving and how that plays into the rest of their multi-faceted lives.

Basically... Life Podcast Tiffany Mugo

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Through a series of interviews, this podcast lets you explore the different ways queer folx are living, fucking and loving and how that plays into the rest of their multi-faceted lives.

    Ep. 43. The Basic Life of Rix The Poet: masculinity and speaking about s*x, and cat fishing.

    Ep. 43. The Basic Life of Rix The Poet: masculinity and speaking about s*x, and cat fishing.

    Why don't men chat about sex? How does your childhood trauma and drama turn up in your dating life? Why are people still pulling catfish vibes in this day and age? Seriously?

    In this episode we have our first cis-heterosexual man! Rix the poet sits down with Tiff to discuss masculinity, co dependency, dating and finding someone who is super compatible and how at men really need to chat about the more intimate parts of being between the sheets.

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    Check out Rix on Instagram I.G: rixpoet and afromenpod

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    • 52 min
    Ep. 42. The Basic Universe - Hot Spots incl. giving head, non-monogamy and looking ‘straight’

    Ep. 42. The Basic Universe - Hot Spots incl. giving head, non-monogamy and looking ‘straight’

    In this edition of HOLAA in a Hot Spot Tiff answers questions around being with a lovely man but wanting to open up your relationship to get more s*x, the trouble that looking straight brings to queer dating and wanting to go down on a partner.

    Rules of the game:
    1. You can submit your questions anonymously
    2. Just tell us where you are from so Tiff can give advice with context and focus.

    Links:
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    • 12 min
    Ep. 41. The Basic Life of Siphu Pt II: Flirting and vibing whilst coupled up and ghetto dating.

    Ep. 41. The Basic Life of Siphu Pt II: Flirting and vibing whilst coupled up and ghetto dating.

    In this follow up episode to the one before (which you should check out) Tiff and Siphu continue to discuss their relationship and how Siphu has been in these streets. Thinking through whether having someone at home helps with dating, what it means to be attracted to other folx and how sometimes home can bring comfort.

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    Check out Siphu on Instagram I.G: ithongomusings

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    • 34 min
    Ep. 40. The Basic Life Of Siphu (again): Messy non-monogamy and being a Nigerian man’s partner.

    Ep. 40. The Basic Life Of Siphu (again): Messy non-monogamy and being a Nigerian man’s partner.

    How do you navigate the messy of your relationship? How long does it take to figure out being non monogamous? What is it like when your partner activates their nigerian man?

    In this episode Tiff sits down with Siphu to discuss how their non-monogamy has gone over the years, how money can affect a relationship and why being with other people can be messy.

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    Check out Siphu on Instagram I.G: ithongomusings
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    • 37 min
    Ep. 31: The Basic Universe - Hot Spots incl. being poly in a monogamous relationship and more.

    Ep. 31: The Basic Universe - Hot Spots incl. being poly in a monogamous relationship and more.

    In this edition of HOLAA in a Hot Spot Tiff answers questions around being polyam and queer in a monogamous hetero-presenting relationship, having a low key crush on women and being straight presenting.

    Rules of the game:
    1. You can submit your questions anonymously
    2. Just tell us where you are from so Tiff can give advice with context and focus.

    Links:

    Submit your questions here - forms.gle/Jq2xEQM1EX9CoWng9

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    • 14 min
    Ep. 39: The Basic Life of Petronella - break ups, f**k boi vibes and co-parenting

    Ep. 39: The Basic Life of Petronella - break ups, f**k boi vibes and co-parenting

    What happens to friendship groups when there is a break up? Why do gender roles always make a cameo in relationships? What are the heartaches of co-parenting when a relationship ends?

    In this episode I sit down with the awesome Pet and chat through a time in their life where parenting was a real thing and how that ended. Sometimes adulting can be so real.

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    Check out Petronella's on I.G - petronellatracy
    Check out her Twitter: queenyellowjuice

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    • 42 min

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