Context for Chaos

With Vanessa Bartlett and Jessica Geddis
  • 5.0 (1)
  • Spirituality
  • Updated weekly

Hosted by Vanessa, a psychic, spiritualist astrologer, and multidimensional card reader. Vanessa’s readings are known for their accuracy, but what sets her apart is how she translates the unseen into plain human language. Co-host and producer, Jessica Jean, brings relativity and the curiosity of the layman. Starting Summer 2026, Vanessa and Jessica will explore a single theme, from love to identity to healing. They'll examine each topic from both psychological and spiritual angles, building a bridge between their lived experience and the larger forces shaping it. On Substack, Vanessa shares This Week in the Sky, a look at upcoming astrological transits along with readings for every sign. If you’re searching for meaning that grounds you in the now, this podcast gives you context, clarity, and a touch of magic where you can actually use it. theaquarean.substack.com

  1. 1 day ago

    Reaction vs. Intuition in Relationships - Part II

    Stop trying to fix others or win impossible arguments and start taking authority over yourself. In this segment we explore the radical idea that boundaries aren’t about changing someone else’s behavior, they’re about refusing to self-abandon just to stay attached to a dopamine fix. We share a personal look at navigating emotional whiplash and why saying no to an invitation can be the ultimate act of self-trust. It’s time to stop white-knuckling for control and start building your own competence and sense of self. Join us as we learn to trust our intuition, lift the veil on the truth, and remain stable and secure in our own power. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theaquarean.substack.com

    Reaction vs. Intuition in Relationships - Part II

  2. 8 Aug

    Reaction vs. Intuition in Relationships - Part I

    Are you truly responding to the present moment, or is your brain just running a passive protocol based on your past? In this deep-dive, we explore the neurological trap of the “I know” mindset, the “kiss of death” that stops your brain from seeking new data and keeps you trapped in repetitive, painful relationship loops. We’re dissecting the radical difference between raw feelings and the elaborate emotional narratives we build to avoid taking ownership of our reactions. From hijacking your brain to shift your internal dialogue from “Why me?” to “What is this here to teach me?” to identifying the hidden “seeds” of incompetence and shame, this episode is a masterclass in weeding your mind. We discuss why assuming malice over incompetence can destroy connection and how to identify the ultimate green flag: a conscious lover who takes accountability for their triggers instead of scapegoating their trauma. It’s time to build a buffer between your triggers and your truth. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theaquarean.substack.com

    Reaction vs. Intuition in Relationships - Part I

  3. 25 Jul

    The Potion of Passion

    This week on Context for Chaos Vanessa retells the medieval legend of Tristan and Isolde to present the argument that historical passion was often defined by suffering and external obstacles rather than stable commitment. Together we contrast this ancient perspective with contemporary Western ideals, suggesting that limerence and obsession are frequently mistaken for true love. By examining the difference between intoxicating attraction and conscious choice, we ultimately agree that authentic love involves maintaining one’s identity rather than losing oneself in a fantasy. Listen in to discover why love is not about losing yourself in a labyrinth of yearning, but about finding the courage to be present without certainty. Find out your Rising Sign and receive a full natal chart report. Read Love in the Western World. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theaquarean.substack.com

    The Potion of Passion

  4. 18 Jul

    Loving vs Being Loved - Part II

    What happens when love finally shows up—and we’re more afraid of receiving it than losing it? In Part 2 of this conversation, we dive deeper into the hidden ways hyper-vigilance shapes our relationships, our identities, and our capacity to receive love. We explore the difference between longing for someone and allowing ourselves to be loved by them, the ways childhood experiences create relationship blueprints, and why reciprocity can feel more terrifying than rejection. Together, we unpack how patriarchy, capitalism, and cultural narratives influence our understanding of commitment, attraction, and self-worth. We discuss the trap of building value around another person instead of building a life rooted in our own fulfillment—and how true intimacy requires us to risk being seen, challenged, and changed. As the conversation unfolds, we examine consciousness, communication, and what it means to become fluent in ourselves during this collective shift toward a more connected and self-aware era. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theaquarean.substack.com

    Loving vs Being Loved - Part II

  5. 11 Jul

    Loving vs Being Loved - Part I

    Can you truly experience love if your sense of worth depends on being chosen? In Part 1 of this two-part episode of Context for Chaos, Jessica and Vanessa explore the powerful distinction between loving someone and being loved, inspired by Kara Lowenthal's thought-provoking podcast episode, Loving Versus Being Loved. Together, they unpack how childhood trauma, attachment patterns, limerence, and hypervigilance can shape our relationships, influence our self-worth, and leave us searching for validation instead of genuine connection. The conversation moves beyond relationship advice into a deeper exploration of identity, personal values, emotional healing, and what it means to love from a place of wholeness rather than longing. If you've ever questioned why healthy love can feel unfamiliar, struggled with people-pleasing, or found yourself seeking validation through relationships, this episode offers an honest and compassionate perspective on breaking those patterns. In this episode, we discuss: Loving vs. being loved Self-worth and emotional validation Childhood trauma and attachment Limerence and fantasy as coping mechanisms Hypervigilance in relationships Discovering your values instead of seeking approval Healing relationship patterns through self-awareness 🎧 Listen now and join us next week for Part 2, where we continue exploring what it truly means to build relationships rooted in authenticity rather than validation. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theaquarean.substack.com

    Loving vs Being Loved - Part I

  6. 4 Jul

    Decision-Making through the Body’s Wisdom

    Join us on this week on Context for Chaos as we explore the nuanced boundary between the body’s intuitive wisdom and the mind’s anxious reactions. We reframe anxiety as a temperature check rather than a stop sign, suggesting it signals where we need humility or more experience to grow. By viewing the ego as a malleable navigator rather than an enemy, we uncover how direct communication with our fears can lead to profound self-trust. The discussion dives into personal stories of career doubts and trauma responses, showing how to patch the leaks in your own vessel through mindfulness. We also distinguish between psychic sensing and intuitive decision-making, highlighting that intuition is built on the ingredients of our lived experiences. From the goo of ego-obliteration to the butterfly of transformation, this side quest offers a roadmap for anyone feeling stalled by a fear of failure. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theaquarean.substack.com

    Decision-Making through the Body’s Wisdom

  7. 27 Jun

    Love as a Spiritual Decision

    Welcome back to Context for Chaos as we continue into the transformative Season of Love, exploring the spiritual architecture of human connection. This episode introduces the "Love Room," a shared sanctuary built on conscious agreements rather than traumatic triggers. We challenge the common rush toward commitment, inviting you to de-escalate and play in neutral territory before moving your relationship indoors. Discover why making your partner a false idol is a recipe for heartbreak and how spiritual curiosity prevents your capacity for love from remaining only as small as your own limited experience. We dive into elongating the dance of connection to ensure your shared space isn't just a temporary reprieve from inner storms. Join us as we move beyond chemical highs and into a deep, spiritual evolution of partnership. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theaquarean.substack.com

  8. 20 Jun

    Stepping up to the Summer Solstice

    We’ve made it official, the Summer of Love on Context for Chaos begins now. Throughout this season, we’ll be transforming our capacity for conscious connection, breaking both emotional and karmic loops that keep us stuck in old patterns of grief and powerlessness, and finding the courage to growth over instant gratification. Listen in as we challenge modern socialization and the unconscious and learn to stand up for what we truly want, only by first understanding what that desire really is. This episode puts us at the start in our journey, and we kick off the season by redefining love as an intentional choice for spiritual growth rather than an involuntary feeling. We dive deep into the process of de-escalating burning connections to build sustainable containers that prioritize the spiritual evolution of ourselves and others. Together, we discover how to move beyond the pressure of being lovable to find a love that is its own unique power. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theaquarean.substack.com

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Hosted by Vanessa, a psychic, spiritualist astrologer, and multidimensional card reader. Vanessa’s readings are known for their accuracy, but what sets her apart is how she translates the unseen into plain human language. Co-host and producer, Jessica Jean, brings relativity and the curiosity of the layman. Starting Summer 2026, Vanessa and Jessica will explore a single theme, from love to identity to healing. They'll examine each topic from both psychological and spiritual angles, building a bridge between their lived experience and the larger forces shaping it. On Substack, Vanessa shares This Week in the Sky, a look at upcoming astrological transits along with readings for every sign. If you’re searching for meaning that grounds you in the now, this podcast gives you context, clarity, and a touch of magic where you can actually use it. theaquarean.substack.com

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  • Creator
    With Vanessa Bartlett and Jessica Geddis
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    103
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Vanessa - The Aquarean
  • Show Website
    Context for Chaos

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