Do I Really Hate Men?

Ang Allan-Burns
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Do I Really Hate Men? Interesting question and one I have asked myself many times. This is not an 'I hate men' podcast neither is it just an account of my divorce and the many awful events leading up to and during it. This podcast is a safe space to delve into what happens when relationships end, it provides guidance on how to carry on being a functioning adult and/or Single Mum when you feel broken inside. This podcast provides hope sprinkled with humour, at times its emotional at times inspiring and at times sad. I have a message to share with women around the world, come join me and your global sisters for a weekly dose of Superhero Mum inspiration and stories. My mission -to help women and mothers globally to recover from relationship pain, lead meaningful happy lives and inspire their children to succeed. NOTE – I need you to know that I don't hate men! It's important that you know there are many great men out there. Many fantastic fathers and single fathers trying hard to do a great job. I know little about the struggles of single fathers; however, I presume they are numerous common issues we share with these amazing men who strive to do the right thing by their children.

  1. 17/12/2025

    Ep. 75 You Are Not Broken, You Are Becoming: Stories From Listener Letters

    This final episode of 2025 celebrates the podcast's 75th milestone with four powerful listener letters about surviving divorce, reshaping Christmas, and choosing peace, freedom, and self-worth. Through stories of first holidays alone, letting go of painful traditions, and rebuilding life with kids, the episode highlights how women can reclaim their power, create new rituals, and prove that being alone is not a punishment but an opportunity.  (00:00) Welcome and Introduction (00:55) Reflecting on the Year (01:17) Celebrating Episode 75 (03:59) Listener Stories: Sophie's Journey (06:05) Listener Stories: Mia's Resilience (10:11) Listener Stories: Carla's Radical Christmas (12:15) Listener Stories: Rachel's Freedom (17:37) Final Thoughts and Farewell KEY TAKEAWAYS Being alone at Christmas can become an empowering choice instead of a painful punishment. New traditions with your children can transform grief into connection and joy. Healing is about reclaiming yourself one piece at a time, not about perfection or revenge. BEST MOMENTS "Being alone isn't a punishment, it's an opportunity." "You are not broken. You are becoming." "You don't owe anyone a perfect Christmas." "This time I chose MY peace!" EPISODE LINKS Use the link below to sign up to the TalkingParents App. 30 Day FREE trial available alongside a completely FREE option too! https://talkingparents.com/dirhm   If you enjoy this podcast here is the link to the book 'Do I Really H*te Men?'. It's packed with actionable and inspirational content to help you think, feel, heal and create your beautiful life that you deserve! UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1068789107 USA: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1068789107   Exciting news! I now have four powerful and affordable course downloads available in my Patreon Shop—starting at just £20. Each one is designed to help you take meaningful steps forward in your healing and growth journey. 🌱 How to Start to Transform Your Life 💭 How to Squash Your Negative Beliefs 💫 How to Define Your Core Values and Life Purpose   💫The Divorce Pathways - 6 Steps to Divorce Recovery https://patreon.com/user?u=114049946&utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink   Connect with me here...   https://linktr.ee/angaab6   www.linkedin.com/in/angallanburns   www.doireallyhatemen.com To receive a FREE copy of my Divorce Success or my Parenting Success Tips - please e-mail me at Ang@doireallyhatemen.com ABOUT THE PODCAST Do I Really Hate Men? Interesting question and one I have asked myself many times. This is not an 'I hate men' podcast neither is it just an account of my divorce and the many awful events leading up to and during it. This podcast is a safe space to delve into what happens when relationships end, it provides guidance on how to carry on being a functioning adult and/or Single Mum when you feel broken inside.  This podcast provides hope sprinkled with humour, at times its emotional at times inspiring and at times sad. I have a message to share with women around the world, come join me and your global sisters for a weekly dose of Superhero Mum inspiration and stories. My mission - to help women and mothers globally to recover from relationship pain,  lead meaningful happy lives and inspire their children to succeed. NOTE – I need you to know that I don't hate men! It's important that you know there are many great men out there. Many fantastic fathers and single fathers trying hard to do a great job. I know little about the struggles of single fathers; however, I presume they are numerous common issues we share with these amazing men who strive to do the right thing by their children.  ABOUT THE HOST   Ang is first and foremost a very proud Mum. She is on a mission to share her experiences of both divorce and life as a single Mum. With a 25 year career in the corporate world, she has always been passionate about empowering women and those around her. She is a fully qualified life coach of 20 years and a self confessed self development junkie. Ang has written her first book called 'Do I Really Hate Men', due to be released later this year which NEEDS to be read by women worldwide. With a high level of emotional intelligence she works tirelessly to improve the lives of womankind through her words, both digitally and at speaking events globally.  With a six year divorce behind her, Ang represented herself in court a total of 6 times. She has been a single parent of two boys for a total of 14 years. She has lived through the struggles and come out the other side. Her words, honesty and humour captivates her audience.

    19 min

  2. 03/12/2025

    Ep. 74 Reclaim Your Joy: Selfish Christmas Strategies

    Today Ang shares empowering tips for divorced women and single moms to embrace a peaceful, self-focused Christmas, emphasizing energy protection, kid-centered magic, debunking loneliness myths, and creating personal traditions amid holiday pressures. (00:00) Introduction and Welcome (01:05) Reflecting on the Year (01:41) The Book and Its Impact (02:47) Being Selfish at Christmas (04:12) Tips for a Peaceful Christmas (09:33) Empowering Christmas Gifts (17:00) Final Thoughts and Farewell KEY TAKEAWAYS Protect your peace by saying no to draining invites and prioritizing rest. Create magical moments with kids through presence and laughter, not perfection. Distinguish being alone from lonely by reconnecting with yourself and celebrating resilience. Give yourself permission to redefine Christmas traditions your unique way. BEST MOMENTS "Protect your peace like it's wrapped in gold paper." "Rest is not lazy. It's necessity." "Magic isn't in perfection. It's in the connection." "Christmas doesn't need to be about what's missing. It can be about what's beginning." EPISODE LINKS Use the link below to sign up to the TalkingParents App. 30 Day FREE trial available alongside a completely FREE option too!   https://talkingparents.com/dirhm   If you enjoy this podcast here is the link to the book 'Do I Really H*te Men?'. It's packed with actionable and inspirational content to help you think, feel, heal and create your beautiful life that you deserve!   UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1068789107 USA: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1068789107 Exciting news! I now have four powerful and affordable course downloads available in my Patreon Shop—starting at just £20. Each one is designed to help you take meaningful steps forward in your healing and growth journey.   🌱 How to Start to Transform Your Life 💭 How to Squash Your Negative Beliefs 💫 How to Define Your Core Values and Life Purpose 💫The Divorce Pathways - 6 Steps to Divorce Recovery   https://patreon.com/user?u=114049946&utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Connect with me here... https://linktr.ee/angaab6   www.linkedin.com/in/angallanburns www.doireallyhatemen.com To receive a FREE copy of my Divorce Success or my Parenting Success Tips - please e-mail me at Ang@doireallyhatemen.com ABOUT THE PODCAST Do I Really Hate Men? Interesting question and one I have asked myself many times. This is not an 'I hate men' podcast neither is it just an account of my divorce and the many awful events leading up to and during it. This podcast is a safe space to delve into what happens when relationships end, it provides guidance on how to carry on being a functioning adult and/or Single Mum when you feel broken inside.  This podcast provides hope sprinkled with humour, at times its emotional at times inspiring and at times sad. I have a message to share with women around the world, come join me and your global sisters for a weekly dose of Superhero Mum inspiration and stories. My mission - to help women and mothers globally to recover from relationship pain,  lead meaningful happy lives and inspire their children to succeed. NOTE – I need you to know that I don't hate men! It's important that you know there are many great men out there. Many fantastic fathers and single fathers trying hard to do a great job. I know little about the struggles of single fathers; however, I presume they are numerous common issues we share with these amazing men who strive to do the right thing by their children.  ABOUT THE HOST Ang is first and foremost a very proud Mum. She is on a mission to share her experiences of both divorce and life as a single Mum. With a 25 year career in the corporate world, she has always been passionate about empowering women and those around her. She is a fully qualified life coach of 20 years and a self confessed self development junkie. Ang has written her first book called 'Do I Really Hate Men', due to be released later this year which NEEDS to be read by women worldwide. With a high level of emotional intelligence she works tirelessly to improve the lives of womankind through her words, both digitally and at speaking events globally.  With a six year divorce behind her, Ang represented herself in court a total of 6 times. She has been a single parent of two boys for a total of 14 years. She has lived through the struggles and come out the other side. Her words, honesty and humour captivates her audience.

    18 min

  3. 19/11/2025

    Ep. 73 Asking the Hard Questions: Building Real Love Beyond Chemistry

    In this today's episode, Ang shares a deeply personal update about transitioning from a long phase of single motherhood to exploring new relationships and the challenges that come with vulnerability. She highlights the importance of asking the hard questions early in relationships to understand true compatibility beyond chemistry. Drawing from her own experiences and attachment style insights, Anang encourages listeners to navigate relationships with honesty, openness, and emotional intelligence. She discusses over 20 essential questions that help uncover values, deal breakers, and life visions, which are crucial to building a lasting partnership. The episode also emphasizes communication as the foundation for avoiding future heartache and fostering trust. (00:00) Introduction and Welcome (00:31) Personal Update: New Beginnings (01:16) The Importance of Vulnerability (02:38) Asking the Hard Questions in Relationships (06:52) Foundational Questions for Compatibility (08:52) Diving Deeper: Life Goals and Responsibilities (11:34) Values and Hypotheticals (20:34) The Courageous Conversation Checklist (21:47) Conclusion and Next Steps KEY TAKEAWAYS Vulnerability and open communication early in relationships set the tone for emotional intimacy and trust. Asking hard, sometimes uncomfortable questions reveals core values and prevents future regrets. Compatibility is about aligned values, shared life goals, and handling challenges together—not just chemistry. Conversation about topics like commitment, finances, children, and boundaries helps build realistic expectations. BEST MOMENTS "Love isn't built on chemistry alone; it's built on compatibility." "When you ask the brave questions, you attract brave answers." "If they shut down every time you want them to open up, is that something you can live with for the rest of your life?" "You are not being difficult for wanting to know where you stand—you are being wise." EPISODE LINKS Use the link below to sign up to the TalkingParents App. 30 Day FREE trial available alongside a completely FREE option too!   https://talkingparents.com/dirhm If you enjoy this podcast here is the link to the book 'Do I Really H*te Men?'. It's packed with actionable and inspirational content to help you think, feel, heal and create your beautiful life that you deserve!   UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1068789107 USA: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1068789107 Exciting news! I now have four powerful and affordable course downloads available in my Patreon Shop—starting at just £20. Each one is designed to help you take meaningful steps forward in your healing and growth journey.   🌱 How to Start to Transform Your Life 💭 How to Squash Your Negative Beliefs 💫 How to Define Your Core Values and Life Purpose   💫The Divorce Pathways - 6 Steps to Divorce Recovery https://patreon.com/user?u=114049946&utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Connect with me here...   https://linktr.ee/angaab6 www.linkedin.com/in/angallanburns   www.doireallyhatemen.com To receive a FREE copy of my Divorce Success or my Parenting Success Tips - please e-mail me at Ang@doireallyhatemen.com ABOUT THE PODCAST Do I Really Hate Men? Interesting question and one I have asked myself many times. This is not an 'I hate men' podcast neither is it just an account of my divorce and the many awful events leading up to and during it. This podcast is a safe space to delve into what happens when relationships end, it provides guidance on how to carry on being a functioning adult and/or Single Mum when you feel broken inside.  This podcast provides hope sprinkled with humour, at times its emotional at times inspiring and at times sad. I have a message to share with women around the world, come join me and your global sisters for a weekly dose of Superhero Mum inspiration and stories. My mission - to help women and mothers globally to recover from relationship pain,  lead meaningful happy lives and inspire their children to succeed. NOTE – I need you to know that I don't hate men! It's important that you know there are many great men out there. Many fantastic fathers and single fathers trying hard to do a great job. I know little about the struggles of single fathers; however, I presume they are numerous common issues we share with these amazing men who strive to do the right thing by their children.  ABOUT THE HOST Ang is first and foremost a very proud Mum. She is on a mission to share her experiences of both divorce and life as a single Mum. With a 25 year career in the corporate world, she has always been passionate about empowering women and those around her. She is a fully qualified life coach of 20 years and a self confessed self development junkie. Ang has written her first book called 'Do I Really Hate Men', due to be released later this year which NEEDS to be read by women worldwide. With a high level of emotional intelligence she works tirelessly to improve the lives of womankind through her words, both digitally and at speaking events globally.  With a six year divorce behind her, Ang represented herself in court a total of 6 times. She has been a single parent of two boys for a total of 14 years. She has lived through the struggles and come out the other side. Her words, honesty and humour captivates her audience.

    23 min

  4. 05/11/2025

    Ep. 72 Planning a Joyful Christmas in Co-Parenting Chaos

    In this episode of Do I Really Hate Men, host Ang shares a practical and heartfelt guide on how single moms and co-parents can plan for a calm, joyful Christmas despite the challenges of separation and co-parenting. From starting conversations early, creating new traditions, managing emotional and physical energy, to protecting your peace in the final countdown, Ang offers actionable tips to help you reclaim the magic of the season on your own terms. (00:00) Introduction to the Podcast (00:42) The Challenges of Christmas for Single Moms (01:33) Planning for a Calm Christmas (03:49) Long-Term Strategies for a Peaceful Holiday (09:12) Mid-Term Planning: One Month Before Christmas (15:17) Final Countdown: The Week Before Christmas (21:08) Listener Stories and Conclusion KEY TAKEAWAYS Define what a calm Christmas means for you personally before making any plans. Start co-parenting conversations about Christmas schedules early to allow time for adjustment. Create new holiday traditions rather than clinging to old ones that may cause tension. Protect your emotional and physical energy budget by saying no to overload and guilt. BEST MOMENTS "A calm Christmas doesn't just happen; it's something we have to create intentionally." "Kids thrive on predictability, not perfection." "You can create and control your own calm Christmas." "Manage your own energy. You can't pour from an empty cup." EPISODE LINKS Use the link below to sign up to the TalkingParents App. 30 Day FREE trial available alongside a completely FREE option too! https://talkingparents.com/dirhm If you enjoy this podcast here is the link to the book 'Do I Really H*te Men?'. It's packed with actionable and inspirational content to help you think, feel, heal and create your beautiful life that you deserve! UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1068789107 USA: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1068789107 Exciting news! I now have four powerful and affordable course downloads available in my Patreon Shop—starting at just £20. Each one is designed to help you take meaningful steps forward in your healing and growth journey.   🌱 How to Start to Transform Your Life 💭 How to Squash Your Negative Beliefs 💫 How to Define Your Core Values and Life Purpose 💫The Divorce Pathways - 6 Steps to Divorce Recovery https://patreon.com/user?u=114049946&utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink   Connect with me here... https://linktr.ee/angaab6 www.linkedin.com/in/angallanburns www.doireallyhatemen.com To receive a FREE copy of my Divorce Success or my Parenting Success Tips - please e-mail me at Ang@doireallyhatemen.com ABOUT THE PODCAST Do I Really Hate Men? Interesting question and one I have asked myself many times. This is not an 'I hate men' podcast neither is it just an account of my divorce and the many awful events leading up to and during it. This podcast is a safe space to delve into what happens when relationships end, it provides guidance on how to carry on being a functioning adult and/or Single Mum when you feel broken inside.  This podcast provides hope sprinkled with humour, at times its emotional at times inspiring and at times sad. I have a message to share with women around the world, come join me and your global sisters for a weekly dose of Superhero Mum inspiration and stories. My mission - to help women and mothers globally to recover from relationship pain,  lead meaningful happy lives and inspire their children to succeed.   NOTE – I need you to know that I don't hate men! It's important that you know there are many great men out there. Many fantastic fathers and single fathers trying hard to do a great job. I know little about the struggles of single fathers; however, I presume they are numerous common issues we share with these amazing men who strive to do the right thing by their children.  ABOUT THE HOST Ang is first and foremost a very proud Mum. She is on a mission to share her experiences of both divorce and life as a single Mum. With a 25 year career in the corporate world, she has always been passionate about empowering women and those around her. She is a fully qualified life coach of 20 years and a self confessed self development junkie. Ang has written her first book called 'Do I Really Hate Men', due to be released later this year which NEEDS to be read by women worldwide. With a high level of emotional intelligence she works tirelessly to improve the lives of womankind through her words, both digitally and at speaking events globally.  With a six year divorce behind her, Ang represented herself in court a total of 6 times. She has been a single parent of two boys for a total of 14 years. She has lived through the struggles and come out the other side. Her words, honesty and humour captivates her audience.

    25 min

  5. 22/10/2025

    EP. 71 Catch Yourself Thinking: How to Stop Negative Thoughts & Become Your Own Hero

    In this solo episode of Do I Really Hate Men, Ang dives deep into the power of self-recognition and self-regulation—two tools that can transform how we think and react every day. She shares practical, heartfelt advice on breaking free from negative thought loops and becoming the true hero of your own story. With warmth, humor, and relatable insight, Ang walks listeners through her "Catch Yourself Thinking" method and the "H+E+R+O" formula for mastering emotional control. This episode is your reminder that you hold the power to change your mindset, take back your confidence, and create calm in your own storm. (00:00) Introduction and Welcome (00:25)Autumn Reflections and Christmas Anticipation (01:58) Self-Recognition: Catch Yourself Thinking (07:58) Transformative Tool: Be the HERO of Your Story (14:25) Conclusion and Call to Action KEY TAKEAWAYS Practice Catch Yourself Thinking to recognize and interrupt negative self-talk. Use visual or phone reminders (like "CYT") to build self-awareness throughout your day. Apply the H+E+R+O formula—Halt, Event, Response, Outcome—to regulate emotions and reactions. Confidence isn't about control—it's about trusting your ability to handle anything life throws at you BEST MOMENTS "You're not the kind of person that needs rescuing—you're the one who knows you've got this." "Every time you pause instead of react, you're strengthening that beautiful muscle called self-control." "Catch yourself thinking—because your inner critic doesn't get to run the show anymore." "Be the calm in your own storm and turn it into a bright summer's day, one heroic response at a time." EPISODE LINKS Use the link below to sign up to the TalkingParents App. 30 Day FREE trial available alongside a completely FREE option too! https://talkingparents.com/dirhm If you enjoy this podcast here is the link to the book 'Do I Really H*te Men?'. It's packed with actionable and inspirational content to help you think, feel, heal and create your beautiful life that you deserve! UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1068789107 USA: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1068789107   Exciting news! I now have four powerful and affordable course downloads available in my Patreon Shop—starting at just £20. Each one is designed to help you take meaningful steps forward in your healing and growth journey.   🌱 How to Start to Transform Your Life 💭 How to Squash Your Negative Beliefs 💫 How to Define Your Core Values and Life Purpose 💫The Divorce Pathways - 6 Steps to Divorce Recovery https://patreon.com/user?u=114049946&utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Connect with me here... https://linktr.ee/angaab6 www.linkedin.com/in/angallanburns www.doireallyhatemen.com To receive a FREE copy of my Divorce Success or my Parenting Success Tips - please e-mail me at Ang@doireallyhatemen.com   ABOUT THE PODCAST   Do I Really Hate Men? Interesting question and one I have asked myself many times. This is not an 'I hate men' podcast neither is it just an account of my divorce and the many awful events leading up to and during it. This podcast is a safe space to delve into what happens when relationships end, it provides guidance on how to carry on being a functioning adult and/or Single Mum when you feel broken inside.  This podcast provides hope sprinkled with humour, at times its emotional at times inspiring and at times sad. I have a message to share with women around the world, come join me and your global sisters for a weekly dose of Superhero Mum inspiration and stories.   My mission - to help women and mothers globally to recover from relationship pain,  lead meaningful happy lives and inspire their children to succeed.   NOTE – I need you to know that I don't hate men! It's important that you know there are many great men out there. Many fantastic fathers and single fathers trying hard to do a great job. I know little about the struggles of single fathers; however, I presume they are numerous common issues we share with these amazing men who strive to do the right thing by their children.    ABOUT THE HOST Ang is first and foremost a very proud Mum. She is on a mission to share her experiences of both divorce and life as a single Mum. With a 25 year career in the corporate world, she has always been passionate about empowering women and those around her. She is a fully qualified life coach of 20 years and a self confessed self development junkie.   Ang has written her first book called 'Do I Really Hate Men', due to be released later this year which NEEDS to be read by women worldwide. With a high level of emotional intelligence she works tirelessly to improve the lives of womankind through her words, both digitally and at speaking events globally.  With a six year divorce behind her, Ang represented herself in court a total of 6 times. She has been a single parent of two boys for a total of 14 years. She has lived through the struggles and come out the other side. Her words, honesty and humour captivates her audience.

    16 min

  6. 08/10/2025

    Ep. 70 From Single Mom to Single Powerhouse: Embracing the Empty Nest

    In this heartfelt solo episode of "Do I Really Hate Men," Ang shares a personal reflection on transitioning from being a single mom to entering the "empty nest" phase, which she embraces as her new "single powerhouse" era. She opens up about the emotional challenges and pride she feels as her two sons move into their independent lives—one joining the RAF and the other pursuing a career at sea. Ang also addresses a social media phrase she encountered this summer, "married single mom," critiquing its meaning and the way it undermines the true challenges faced by single mothers. (00:00) Introduction and Podcast Overview (02:04) Personal Updates and Life Changes (05:15) Embracing Empty Nest Syndrome (06:42) Book Recommendation: The Let Them Theory (07:58) Listener Stories and Podcast Evolution (09:01) Rant: The Concept of Married Single Moms (20:02) Empowerment and Final Thoughts KEY TAKEAWAYS Transitioning to an empty nest as a single mom is both challenging and empowering. The term "married single mom" diminishes the true struggles of single mothers. Single moms carry full emotional, physical, and financial burdens largely alone. Leaving unsupportive relationships can be an important step toward self-empowerment. BEST MOMENTS "Sometimes a man's only purpose in life is to show you that you'll be just fine on your own." "Single moms are absolutely super women every single day, carrying emotional, physical, and financial burdens alone." "There is no halfway house between being married and being a single mom—if you're not getting support, it might be time to move on." "Empty nest syndrome is harder for single moms, but it's also a chance to embrace a new powerful chapter in life." EPISODE LINKS Use the link below to sign up to the TalkingParents App. 30 Day FREE trial available alongside a completely FREE option too!   https://talkingparents.com/dirhm   If you enjoy this podcast here is the link to the book 'Do I Really H*te Men?'. It's packed with actionable and inspirational content to help you think, feel, heal and create your beautiful life that you deserve!   UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1068789107 USA: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1068789107   Exciting news! I now have four powerful and affordable course downloads available in my Patreon Shop—starting at just £20. Each one is designed to help you take meaningful steps forward in your healing and growth journey.   🌱 How to Start to Transform Your Life 💭 How to Squash Your Negative Beliefs 💫 How to Define Your Core Values and Life Purpose   💫The Divorce Pathways - 6 Steps to Divorce Recovery   https://patreon.com/user?u=114049946&utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink   Connect with me here...   https://linktr.ee/angaab6   www.linkedin.com/in/angallanburns   www.doireallyhatemen.com   To receive a FREE copy of my Divorce Success or my Parenting Success Tips - please e-mail me at Ang@doireallyhatemen.com   ABOUT THE PODCAST   Do I Really Hate Men?   Interesting question and one I have asked myself many times. This is not an 'I hate men' podcast neither is it just an account of my divorce and the many awful events leading up to and during it. This podcast is a safe space to delve into what happens when relationships end, it provides guidance on how to carry on being a functioning adult and/or Single Mum when you feel broken inside.   This podcast provides hope sprinkled with humour, at times its emotional at times inspiring and at times sad. I have a message to share with women around the world, come join me and your global sisters for a weekly dose of Superhero Mum inspiration and stories.   My mission - to help women and mothers globally to recover from relationship pain, lead meaningful happy lives and inspire their children to succeed.   NOTE – I need you to know that I don't hate men! It's important that you know there are many great men out there. Many fantastic fathers and single fathers trying hard to do a great job. I know little about the struggles of single fathers; however, I presume they are numerous common issues we share with these amazing men who strive to do the right thing by their children.   ABOUT THE HOST   Ang is first and foremost a very proud Mum. She is on a mission to share her experiences of both divorce and life as a single Mum. With a 25 year career in the corporate world, she has always been passionate about empowering women and those around her. She is a fully qualified life coach of 20 years and a self confessed self development junkie.   Ang has written her first book called 'Do I Really Hate Men', due to be released later this year which NEEDS to be read by women worldwide. With a high level of emotional intelligence she works tirelessly to improve the lives of womankind through her words, both digitally and at speaking events globally.   With a six year divorce behind her, Ang represented herself in court a total of 6 times. She has been a single parent of two boys for a total of 14 years. She has lived through the struggles and come out the other side. Her words, honesty and humour captivates her audience.

    22 min

  7. 24/09/2025

    Ep. 69 Playdate: The Dating App for Single Parents with Founder Nevine Coutry

    In this empowering episode of "Do I Really Hate Men," host Ang sits down with Nevine Coutry, a resilient single mom who transitioned from running a marketing agency to founding Play Date—the UK's first dating app exclusively for single parents. Nevine shares her inspiring journey through divorce, motherhood, and entrepreneurship, highlighting the unique challenges single parents face in dating, balancing work, and parenting. She explains how Play Date was born out of her own struggles to find meaningful connections that understand the complexities of single parenting, including childcare support integrated into the app. This heartfelt conversation offers practical insights and encouragement for single parents navigating new beginnings, self-care, and finding love and community on their own terms. (00:00) Introduction and Welcome (00:57) Introducing Nevine (01:59) Challenges of Single Parenthood (02:33) Creating PlayDate: The Inspiration (04:01) Navigating Dating as a Single Parent (13:16) Developing the PlayDate App (19:13) Overcoming Adversity and Finding Strength (21:55) The Unyielding Strength of Single Parents (23:27) Navigating Technical Challenges in App Development (25:32) Fundraising and Emotional Resilience (28:44) Global Aspirations for the App (34:30) Comprehensive Support for Single Parents (39:09) Final Words of Advice  KEY TAKEAWAYS Life doesn't end at divorce; single parents can emerge stronger and create fulfilling lives. Single parents face unique dating challenges such as childcare logistics, financial stress, and the need for understanding partners. Building a business around personal challenges can be a powerful and meaningful path to both healing and helping others. Emotional resilience and community support are vital in navigating single parenthood and dating post-divorce. BEST MOMENTS   "Play Date is not just about romance; it's about building a community of people who truly understand you as a single parent." "Having gone through a difficult divorce makes other challenges easier to handle—once you've survived that, you realize you're stronger." "Single parents don't have a choice but to be strong because they have children depending on them."   "Kids are a lot more resilient and stronger than we think; divorce may be tough, but it can lead to a healthier, happier home." EPISODE LINKS www.gotoplaydate.com info@gotoplaydate.com Confessions of a Single Parent Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/4rfsC5mW1vwta3GIgJI5Xr Insta: @gotoplaydate https://www.instagram.com/gotoplaydate/ PODCAST LINKS Use the link below to sign up to the TalkingParents App. 30 Day FREE trial available alongside a completely FREE option too!   https://talkingparents.com/dirhm   If you enjoy this podcast here is the link to the book 'Do I Really H*te Men?'. It's packed with actionable and inspirational content to help you think, feel, heal and create your beautiful life that you deserve!   UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1068789107 USA: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1068789107   Exciting news! I now have four powerful and affordable course downloads available in my Patreon Shop—starting at just £20. Each one is designed to help you take meaningful steps forward in your healing and growth journey.   🌱 How to Start to Transform Your Life 💭 How to Squash Your Negative Beliefs 💫 How to Define Your Core Values and Life Purpose   💫The Divorce Pathways - 6 Steps to Divorce Recovery   https://patreon.com/user?u=114049946&utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink   Connect with me here...   https://linktr.ee/angaab6   www.linkedin.com/in/angallanburns   www.doireallyhatemen.com   To receive a FREE copy of my Divorce Success or my Parenting Success Tips - please e-mail me at Ang@doireallyhatemen.com   ABOUT THE PODCAST   Do I Really Hate Men?   Interesting question and one I have asked myself many times. This is not an 'I hate men' podcast neither is it just an account of my divorce and the many awful events leading up to and during it. This podcast is a safe space to delve into what happens when relationships end, it provides guidance on how to carry on being a functioning adult and/or Single Mum when you feel broken inside.    This podcast provides hope sprinkled with humour, at times its emotional at times inspiring and at times sad. I have a message to share with women around the world, come join me and your global sisters for a weekly dose of Superhero Mum inspiration and stories.   My mission - to help women and mothers globally to recover from relationship pain,  lead meaningful happy lives and inspire their children to succeed.   NOTE – I need you to know that I don't hate men! It's important that you know there are many great men out there. Many fantastic fathers and single fathers trying hard to do a great job. I know little about the struggles of single fathers; however, I presume they are numerous common issues we share with these amazing men who strive to do the right thing by their children.    ABOUT THE HOST   Ang is first and foremost a very proud Mum. She is on a mission to share her experiences of both divorce and life as a single Mum. With a 25 year career in the corporate world, she has always been passionate about empowering women and those around her. She is a fully qualified life coach of 20 years and a self confessed self development junkie.   Ang has written her first book called 'Do I Really Hate Men', due to be released later this year which NEEDS to be read by women worldwide. With a high level of emotional intelligence she works tirelessly to improve the lives of womankind through her words, both digitally and at speaking events globally.    With a six year divorce behind her, Ang represented herself in court a total of 6 times. She has been a single parent of two boys for a total of 14 years. She has lived through the struggles and come out the other side. Her words, honesty and humour captivates her audience.

    44 min

  8. 10/09/2025

    Ep. 68 Planning Your Financial Future After Divorce: Tips from a Chartered Planner w/ Susan Bennett

    In today's episode Ang talks with Susan Bennett, a chartered financial planner specializing in divorce financial planning. Susan shares expert insights on the importance of financial advice during and after divorce, focusing on long-term planning for income, housing, children's expenses, and pensions. They discuss the emotional aspects of divorce finances and the benefits of having a financial neutral to help both parties reach amicable agreements. Susan also explains Advanta Wealth's specialist divorce proposition, offering fixed-price financial planning packages to help those navigating the financial challenges of divorce with empathy and clarity.   (00:00) Introduction to Susan (01:02) Financial Planning During Divorce (01:16) Guest Introduction: Susan Bennett (03:13) The Importance of Financial Advice in Divorce (07:22) Building Financial Models for Clients (19:34) The Role of Financial Neutrals (23:26) Financial Considerations During Divorce (27:00) Emotional Support in Divorce (28:36) Common Financial Mistakes in Divorce (29:54) Pension and Inheritance in Divorce (31:54) Personalized Financial Planning (34:54) Advanta's Divorce Support Services (39:02) Conclusion and Final Thoughts KEY TAKEAWAYS Early financial planning in divorce helps reduce fear and leads to better long-term outcomes.   Modeling different financial scenarios provides clarity for decisions on housing, income, and children's needs.   Pensions and future retirement funding are often overlooked but crucial to secure financial stability post-divorce.   Divorce financial advice should be empathetic and tailored to individual lifestyles and needs. BEST MOMENTS   "Fear around money was huge... what price do you put on that emotional peace of mind?"   "You don't really want your lifestyle to be compromised... everyone is completely unique."   "If everybody could get to a stage to do it amicably, life would be quite different."   "People not being open and honest makes it very difficult to get the best results for them." EPISODE LINKS Advanta Wealth on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/company/advanta-wealth-ltd/ Advanta Wealth's specialist divorce proposition offering independent financial advice with fixed-price packages for divorce planning. Visit https://www.advantawealth.co.uk/services/divorce/ Susan on LinkedIn https://uk.linkedin.com/in/susanbennett3   Use the link below to sign up to the TalkingParents App. 30 Day FREE trial available alongside a completely FREE option too!   https://talkingparents.com/dirhm   If you enjoy this podcast here is the link to the book 'Do I Really H*te Men?'. It's packed with actionable and inspirational content to help you think, feel, heal and create your beautiful life that you deserve!   UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1068789107 USA: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1068789107   Exciting news! I now have four powerful and affordable course downloads available in my Patreon Shop—starting at just £20. Each one is designed to help you take meaningful steps forward in your healing and growth journey.   🌱 How to Start to Transform Your Life 💭 How to Squash Your Negative Beliefs 💫 How to Define Your Core Values and Life Purpose   💫The Divorce Pathways - 6 Steps to Divorce Recovery   https://patreon.com/user?u=114049946&utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink   Connect with me here...   https://linktr.ee/angaab6   www.linkedin.com/in/angallanburns   www.doireallyhatemen.com   To receive a FREE copy of my Divorce Success or my Parenting Success Tips - please e-mail me at Ang@doireallyhatemen.com   ABOUT THE PODCAST   Do I Really Hate Men?   Interesting question and one I have asked myself many times. This is not an 'I hate men' podcast neither is it just an account of my divorce and the many awful events leading up to and during it. This podcast is a safe space to delve into what happens when relationships end, it provides guidance on how to carry on being a functioning adult and/or Single Mum when you feel broken inside.    This podcast provides hope sprinkled with humour, at times its emotional at times inspiring and at times sad. I have a message to share with women around the world, come join me and your global sisters for a weekly dose of Superhero Mum inspiration and stories.   My mission - to help women and mothers globally to recover from relationship pain,  lead meaningful happy lives and inspire their children to succeed.   NOTE – I need you to know that I don't hate men! It's important that you know there are many great men out there. Many fantastic fathers and single fathers trying hard to do a great job. I know little about the struggles of single fathers; however, I presume they are numerous common issues we share with these amazing men who strive to do the right thing by their children.    ABOUT THE HOST   Ang is first and foremost a very proud Mum. She is on a mission to share her experiences of both divorce and life as a single Mum. With a 25 year career in the corporate world, she has always been passionate about empowering women and those around her. She is a fully qualified life coach of 20 years and a self confessed self development junkie.   Ang has written her first book called 'Do I Really Hate Men', due to be released later this year which NEEDS to be read by women worldwide. With a high level of emotional intelligence she works tirelessly to improve the lives of womankind through her words, both digitally and at speaking events globally.    With a six year divorce behind her, Ang represented herself in court a total of 6 times. She has been a single parent of two boys for a total of 14 years. She has lived through the struggles and come out the other side. Her words, honesty and humour captivates her audience.

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Do I Really Hate Men? Interesting question and one I have asked myself many times. This is not an 'I hate men' podcast neither is it just an account of my divorce and the many awful events leading up to and during it. This podcast is a safe space to delve into what happens when relationships end, it provides guidance on how to carry on being a functioning adult and/or Single Mum when you feel broken inside. This podcast provides hope sprinkled with humour, at times its emotional at times inspiring and at times sad. I have a message to share with women around the world, come join me and your global sisters for a weekly dose of Superhero Mum inspiration and stories. My mission -to help women and mothers globally to recover from relationship pain, lead meaningful happy lives and inspire their children to succeed. NOTE – I need you to know that I don't hate men! It's important that you know there are many great men out there. Many fantastic fathers and single fathers trying hard to do a great job. I know little about the struggles of single fathers; however, I presume they are numerous common issues we share with these amazing men who strive to do the right thing by their children.

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  • Creator
    Ang Allan-Burns
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    75
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2025
  • Show Website
    Do I Really Hate Men?